Sure enough, Ge Huijie still couldn't let go of the man who made her love and hate.
On May 10, 2015, Wang Feng and Zhang Ziyi entered the palace of marriage hand in hand.
For the match made in heaven for the appearance of this pair of talented women, on that day,
Almost everyone applauded and blessed them.
There is only one exception, even under the secular pressure of "it is better to demolish ten temples than to break one marriage",
She also still speaks harshly about the couple.
She is Ge Huijie, Wang Feng's ex-wife, the woman who gave birth to him at the age of 18 but was abandoned.
In the years after this, Wang Feng occasionally exposed his intimate daily life with Zhang Ziyi.
It makes every fan feel extremely envious of their love.
But no one knew that in the corner that everyone ignored, Ge Huijie was alone in pain.
She has begged, quarreled, scolded, and made trouble, hoping that the other party will one day change her mind.
But in the end, there was only one sentence that made her extremely embarrassed:
"Please clean yourself up and give yourself a little dignity."
Finally, she was tired, and she decided to let go of Wang Feng and let go of herself.
In 2019, Ge Huijie said in the live broadcast that she would no longer talk about anything with Wang Feng.
She hoped, perhaps time, would help her forget her pain.
But she didn't hate it, but there was always someone who wanted to uncover her scars.
Not long ago, Ge Huijie launched on the Internet, and her mood was quite happy.
But when she began to live stream the connection, she did not expect that the other party would break the defense on the spot with a word:
"Let's talk about your relationship with Wang Feng!"
Ge Huijie was furious, and after scolding him, he immediately cut off the connection.
But when she turned around, she was aggrieved and burst into tears.
"I'm sorry, I'm sorry..."
Obviously, the story between her and Wang Feng has become her life.
Can't shake it off, can't forget it, and unveil it all dirty scars.
So, why was Ge Huijie abandoned by Wang Feng and ended up in such a messy situation?
This answer, I am afraid, can only be answered by her own personal experience.
01 How can a person who puts love on his lips not lack love?
Before meeting Wang Feng, Ge Huijie's life was like being trapped in a room, without seeing the glory.
In 1987, Ge Huijie was born in a family of merchants in the Jiangsu and Zhejiang regions.
As the only daughter in the family, she was extremely pampered by her family when she was a child.
At that time, whatever she wanted,
Whatever can be solved with money, no matter how much she pays, her parents will all agree.
Eating mountain treasures and seafood, living in mansions and villas, traveling with luxury car transfers, life chores with nanny care,
There is no doubt that Ge Huijie's life when she was a child can make people envious and jealous.
However, is a "jealous" life necessarily happy?
Looking back on the past, Ge Huijie's most memorable birthday is a birthday.
After all her prayers, her parents finally agreed to give up their jobs and spend the day with her.
However, when Ge Huijie waited with great anticipation for that day to come,
A phone call from her parents seemed to be cold water, making her fall into an ice cave.
"Huijie, Mom and Dad have a temporary business trip today, and there is no way to go home to spend your birthday with you."
"Tell Mom and Dad what birthday present you want, and buy it for you no matter what."
"I want to buy your day."
Ge Huijie meditated in her heart, and her brilliant eyes lost their light in an instant.
Looking at the feast full of tables, but there was no one else beside her, Ge Huijie couldn't be happy.
She didn't understand why adults always had so many busy things.
Why saying good things is always easy to regret.
Is it because they are too well-behaved that they are so unscrupulous?
Finally, in disappointment, Ge Huijie spent her birthday.
After that, she began to become more and more rebellious, just like a changed person.
Not only did the academic performance plummet, but it was too bad to watch,
And at the age of underage, he learned to paint the makeup of adults,
Make yourself a fancy show and unleash yourself in the bright night scene.
Perhaps, only "bad" children will get the attention of their parents!
Finally, Ge Huijie won the attention of her parents.
Looking at their daughter's deviant appearance, they were furious.
Aren't they working so hard to get Ge Huijie away from the dirt and live a good life?
But why did the daughter allow herself to degenerate and become like this?
They don't understand. Or, don't want to understand.
Looking at her parents' disappointed looks, Ge Huijie was a little relieved.
So, at the age of 14, she carried a simple bag on her back and decided to "drift north" alone despite her parents' objections.
Since parents "hate" themselves so much, it is better to let them not see and not be bothered.
You can't keep the "benefactor" in trouble.
It is said that the north, Shanghai and Guangzhou are the stairway to dreams.
But those who fight for their dreams do not all get the results they want.
There are too many people who sell everything they have, but it is difficult to find even a place for three feet.
Fortunately, Ge Huijie was the lucky one.
After coming to Beijing, by chance, Ge Huijie and Chen Juanhong became acquainted and entered the modeling industry.
At that time, Chen Juanhong was quite mixed in the Beijing modeling circle,
Therefore, with this "big sister" leading the way, Ge Huijie avoided many troubles and quickly became popular.
In 2002, at the age of 15, she won the top ten models of the Nais Cup, and became famous throughout the country.
Two years later, she went international and won the runner-up of the Pierre Cardin International Model Contest in France.
With such a start, it can be said that it will only be a matter of time before Ge Huijie wants to become a first-line supermodel.
But is this really what she wants?
Also in 2004, an unexpected crisis left Ge Huijie's parents bankrupt overnight.
After this, Ge Huijie found that many people around her who were smiling at herself often suddenly disappeared.
And those who were once high-quality model resources have also abandoned her for various reasons.
In its place are those with ill intentions and a game of rules that is hard to tell.
Ge Huijie was puzzled and overwhelmed.
In the previous seventeen years of her life, she had never faced this.
However, just when Ge Huijie did not know what to do,
A man walked into her life and brought the "sunshine" she had been longing for.
And this person is Wang Feng.
02 Love, because he was like the sun, dispelling haze
Wang Feng, born in 1971, has been pinned high hopes on by his parents since he was a child.
In his parents' imagination, Wang Feng should be a polite gentleman in the future.
Therefore, in order to cultivate a confucian temperament, from the time Wang Feng was very young, his parents forced him to learn the violin.
After all, in that era, people who engaged in art were still very admired in the hearts of most people.
However, they would never have imagined that, many years later,
Although Wang Feng did embark on the road of engaging in art, he was not "polite" at all.
He threw aside the violin he had learned, and instead picked up the bass and guitar.
He, who was supposed to be in a dignified hall to win applause, would go underground and play rebellious rock.
(Wang Feng in his youth)
At that time, rock and roll music was just emerging in the mainland.
Rock is not popular with too many people for a variety of reasons,
The few young people who like rock and roll have also been called "bad" and regarded as a degenerate generation.
Therefore, from the beginning of Wang Feng's step on the road of rock and roll, doubts and boos were often accompanied by his side.
However, in the face of such a dilemma, Wang Feng's music is not discouraged at all,
Instead, it always gives the audience a fierce "sense of power."
Especially for young people who have been closing themselves off for many years,
It was as if a man suddenly broke in and forcibly pushed open a closed window to bring in the sunlight.
Therefore, it is precisely because of these that Wang Feng has stood out from that era.
Not only was it recognized by the main theme, but it also inspired an entire generation to move forward.
And among those who are motivated, there is Ge Huijie.
In 2000, Wang Feng's "Hanabi" was like a shot in the arm, bringing strength to countless young people.
Similarly, this song is also the music that Ge Huijie has still singled and does not want to switch until now.
Whenever I encounter setbacks and seem to be overwhelmed,
Ge Huijie will always bring the man's voice to the ear,
Listening to the other party's roar, Ge Huijie will inexplicably feel extremely at ease,
Then there is the courage and motivation to continue to fight against life.
And it is precisely because of this that Wang Feng was the only idol of Ge Huijie in those years.
Even though the two had never met, Ge Huijie had already given her heart to the other.
In 2004, in a sports channel program called "Feast of the Giants", Ge Huijie and Wang Feng met for the first time.
Looking at the heroic figure of Wang Feng on the stage, Ge Huijie experienced the feeling of heartbeat for the first time in her life.
However, because he learned that Wang Feng at that time already had dependents,
Therefore, Ge Huijie did not express her heart, but hid this love in her heart.
However, coincidentally, like Ge Huijie, Wang Feng also noticed her presence.
Looking at her graceful and colorful, like a red rose,
Wang Feng felt that his heart, which had long been gradually silent, was like a long drought and manna, and it was once again flooding with waves.
In 1998, Wang Feng met his first love, Qi Dan, and the two established a relationship in just three days.
For many years after that, Qi Dan has been silently accompanying Wang Feng's side,
Even in his most difficult times, he never had any thought of leaving,
Even in order to wholeheartedly do a good job in Wang Feng's "Xiannei Help", Qi Dan did not hesitate to quit his job at a TV station.
Finally, in 2003, Zidan waited for the man's promise,
When Wang Feng knelt down on one knee and proposed marriage to her, Qi Dan nodded his head in agreement without hesitation.
For her, the biggest wish for the rest of her life was to marry Wang Feng, how could there be a reason for hesitation?
But where does Zidan know that a man's marriage proposal is not so much a promise of love as a retribution for love.
In the past few years of getting along, Wang Feng has long lost her former enthusiasm, and even has become bored,
Marriage is nothing more than a "gift" given after suffering and sharing.
So, when I met Ge Huijie,
In the face of a younger, more heartwarming woman,
The constraints of that piece of paper naturally seem incomparably thin.
So he decisively abandoned his wife Qi Dan and turned to Ge Huijie to confess.
In the face of the courtship of "idols", Ge Huijie naturally has no room for half rejection.
As for those worldly cold eyes, she has long chosen to ignore them all under the impulse of love.
But will such love really have good results?
Will a man who has been married for only one year and abandons the old man for the new joy really be a good son-in-law?
Ge Huijie didn't think about it so much, or didn't want to think about it.
But no matter what, since the choice has been made, it can only be believed unreservedly and go hand in hand with it.
Even if there will be an abyss ahead.
03 Hate will always be a punishment for yourself
Still in 2004,
Wang Feng, 32, and Ge Huijie, 17, formalized their relationship and quickly moved in together.
A year later, the two ushered in a common daughter,
Wang Feng named her Wang Manxi, and Ge Huijie preferred to call her "Little Apple".
During that time, Ge Huijie really felt that she was the happiest person in the world.
Because in Ge Huijie's dictionary, happiness has always been an easy to define word,
As long as the person you love the most is with you, that's enough.
But just as there are no wild horses in the world that are forever bound by reins,
Where is the prodigal son who will close his debauched heart because of a love?
("Little Apple")
In the end, Wang Feng still proposed to Ge Huijie to break up.
Perhaps afraid of the other party's entanglement, Wang Feng put all the responsibility on Ge Huijie's body,
More than once, she complained to the media about Ge Huijie's incompetence as a mother,
Even if the child is crying and making trouble, he still plays with himself casually.
Indeed, the reason given by Wang Feng is reasonable,
So that at that time, Ge Huijie also believed it, and frankly said that she did not care enough for her children.
Think it is their own negligence, only to lose the man.
Of course, this is under the premise that If Wang Feng had not had a new love within a few months of breaking up.
In 2006, Wang Feng and Kang Zuoru became acquainted, and only half a year later they entered the palace of marriage.
However, all this is the treatment that Ge Huijie did not get until she was broken up.
Finally, Ge Huijie understood everything, but it was already too late at this time.
On the contrary, she was saddled with all kinds of infamy and became the laughing stock of everyone.
How can you not hate such a scene?
Once, someone questioned Ge Huijie like this,
You have already broken up with Wang Feng, why do you have to chase after others and scold you?
Don't you think you look a lot like a "shrew"?
Ge Huijie smiled and did not answer.
No one knows about her pain, and no one cares.
In fact, if not forced, who would be so bored to chase someone and hate for a lifetime?
In the first few years after breaking up with Wang Feng,
Ge Huijie did not have the energy to "hate" Wang Feng.
The pain brought by the loss of love to women is obviously much heavier than that of men.
As a result, Ge Huijie once suffered from depression and had the idea of taking a life.
However, fate is so wonderful,
Just as Wang Feng illuminated her with his actions many years ago and gave her the brilliance of life,
At the time when Ge Huijie was most desperate, the same was Wang Feng,
With actions, Ge Huijie was shrouded in hatred and had the motivation to live.
In 2010, a news story of "Wang Feng took a woman to do paternity testing",
Let Ge Huijie be pulled back into the entanglement with Wang Feng again.
Although after the fact, Wang Feng claimed that he chose to do this in order to give his daughter a household registration.
But Ge Huijie didn't think so, so she would hysterically scold Wang Feng.
Obviously, the latter's desperation has pushed this relationship into an extremely embarrassing situation.
At the end of 2013, in the scolding of Ge Huijie, Kang Zuoru was finally abandoned by Wang Feng.
The latter strongly expressed his gratitude to Wang Feng in the statement, bluntly saying: "Thank you Wang Feng for turning me into an orphan and widow."
However, before Ge Huijie was happy for a few days, Wang Feng had a new candidate.
And this new joy is Zhang Ziyi.
As a veteran of the chic and re-love field for many years,
Compared with Wang Feng's predecessors, Zhang Ziyi's position is simply not much higher.
Since you Ge Huijie like to scold so much, then she naturally does not need to be polite anymore,
When even the hand killer is used as a counterattack.
Since then, whenever Ge Huijie scolded on the Internet,
Zhang Ziyi intentionally or unintentionally posted a warm family photo with Wang Feng and Little Apple,
Obviously, this is undoubtedly the fiercest counterattack for Ge Huijie, who is "alone".
Especially after Wang Feng prevented Ge Huijie from meeting her daughter, he completely grabbed her life.
Once, some netizens left a message under Ge Huijie's account, saying that they had the contact information of "Little Apple".
Originally, he just wanted to show off to other netizens,
But who would have thought that the first person to attract "jealousy" was Ge Huijie herself.
"It's nice, I don't have any contact information."
A simple message, saying Ge Huijie's heartache.
As a mother, she can't even have the contact information of her own daughter.
Isn't that an embarrassing pain?
Obviously, the better the stepmother Zhang Ziyi is to the "little apple", the more it will show ge Huijie's dispensability,
Perhaps, a few years later, it is difficult to determine whether the "little apple" can remember Ge Huijie, the "mother".
This is not the most ruthless "conspiracy."
Finally, Ge Huijie scolded tired,
She suddenly realized that hate can't change everything, let alone affect the man who hurt him.
Rather, it was like a punishment for herself.
Therefore, after thinking about all this, Ge Huijie was completely relieved, and she decided not to hate Wang Feng anymore.
Not to let him go, but to let go of himself.
But can everything really go as she wants?
Perhaps, every time she broadcasts,
Those bullet screens that "the ghosts are not scattered" and have been asking her about Wang Feng are the best answers.
Not long ago, Wang Feng and Ge Huijie started broadcasting at the same time,
Compared with more than 100,000 people online at the same time on Wang Feng's side, Ge Huijie's side is particularly deserted.
Because of this, when she broadcast live, someone has always brushed her to see Wang Feng,
Agitate her to rub the flow.
In this regard, Ge Huijie can only pretend not to see, but when she looks at the bullet screen on the screen,
The action of biting her cheek and twitching her eyelids could not hide the sadness in her heart.
However, just the day before yesterday, the Internet suddenly exposed melon, just in the live broadcast of Wang Feng on August 31,
A headset that originally sold 199, was promoted by him to 599, and then pretended to sell at the welfare price of 199,
As soon as this news came out, it immediately aroused the disgust of many people, and various debates have been endless in the past two days.
From this point of view, Ge Huijie, who did not listen to the audience and rub Wang Feng, instead avoided a wave of rhythm.
So, really, sometimes there's really no need to insist on hating someone.
After all, everyone has to continue to live their lives in the end,
Keep hating, not only will not let the person who hurt you have any loss, but it will bear yourself a burden.
As for those who hurt you, one day, they will be regurgitated.
Today, Ge Huijie has learned to be free,
As viewers, we may as well learn to help her forget these bad memories.
"Good words make good connections, and evil words hurt people's hearts",
Being a rational audience is the best choice for all of us!