When it comes to Huang Xiaoming's love life, most people first think of Yang Ying.
But few people know who Huang Xiaoming's first love was.
Her name is Li Yu, and many friends after the 90s probably don't remember her, but everyone must remember the Gentle and Virtuous "Fang Yu" in "Love Is Deep and Rainy".
Li Yu was born in 1976 in Xi'an, Shaanxi Province.
She was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy in 1993, and Li Bingbing, Ren Quan and other stars who are now popular in the entertainment industry are in the same class as her.
In terms of temperament, Li Yu belongs to the gentle and pleasant type.
It is precisely because of her temperament that when she was about to graduate, she was selected by Aunt Qiong Yao to participate in "Love Is Deep and Rainy" and became a "Qiong Yao Girl".
In terms of career, Li Yu's start can be said to be high enough. But emotionally, her beginnings weren't perfect.
After graduating from acting, she came together with Huang Xiaoming, who was still studying at the Beijing Film Academy.
At that time, the two could be said to be golden children, but the relationship between the two was not harmonious.
Li Yu is a beautiful woman with her own literary and artistic temperament, proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, and relatively speaking, the requirements for spiritual life are relatively high, but Huang Xiaoming is relatively realistic, because of the problem of living habits, they often quarrel.
Later, Li Yu and Huang Xiaoming broke up unhappily, and Huang Xiaoming tried to keep Li Yu, but Li Yu did not give him a chance.
In 2000, Li Yu met Shao Bing in the TV series "Cheetah Attack", and the handsome man and beautiful woman easily sparked a spark, and the two quickly came together.
But for the love between actors, the biggest challenge is always to gather less and leave more.
At that time, it was precisely the rising period of Li Yu's career, and in 2000 alone, he successively filmed the movies "Qia Classmate Youth" and "The Two Heavens of Love and Righteousness".
Even the most beautiful love is also blocked by the separation of the two places in reality.
The breakup with Shao Bing made Li Yu particularly sad and took a long time to come out.
But as an actress with great potential at the time, busy work soon took up her time.
Without love, you can still engage in a career, and no matter how life is, you will live.
Two years later, Li Yu, Jiang Qinqin, Li Yapeng, and Huang Yi cooperated in the TV series "The Last Imperial Princess", which vividly showed the cold and glamorous "Oriental Female Demon" Kawashima Yoshiko.
Because of this TV series, the label of "Fang Yu" on Li Yu's head was torn off, and he reached the peak of his career at the age of 28.
The success of her career also gave Li Yu time to think about what kind of man he wanted to be with.
For future boyfriends, Li Yu also has his own standards:
First of all, to be handsome; In fact, it is necessary to have a sense of responsibility and have a certain material basis.
Finally, it must be a warm man who knows how to be considerate.
In the eyes of the public, perhaps Li Yu's requirements are inevitably a little high, even if she is a female star.
But she really waited for such a man.
In 2007, when Li Yu attended a party, he encountered Wang Yu, who was then known as the "Four YoungSters of Beijing".
Wang Yu's reputation is not good, there are countless bright actresses around him, Zhang Min, Huang Yi, Chen Zihan and so on have all interacted with him.
Li Yu's gentle temperament made him fall in love at first sight, and even made his prodigal son look back, and there was no room for other women in his eyes.
At first, Li Yu still felt that Wang Yu was just a whim, who knew that Wang Yu was extremely serious this time, and even more vividly showed his strong capital and warm heart, Li Yu began to associate with him.
But fate is so fond of teasing people.
Wang Yu was serious, Li Yu was also serious, the two began to talk about marriage after a year together, but unexpectedly Li Yu was found to have advanced lymphoma, when Li Yu was only 31 years old.
During his recuperation, Li Yu proposed to Wang Yu to break up and ask him to find another object.
But Wang Yu, the former playboy, did not leave her, but chose to accompany her.
To Li Yu, Wang Yu directly said: She is my ideal marriage partner.
Wang Yu also agreed with Li Yu that when she was well, the two of them would hold a wedding.
A romantic wedding is what every woman envisions, and Li Yu is no exception.
But the reality is so cruel,
On March 14, 2009, Li Yu died in the hospital at the age of 33.
Li Yu's parents let her wear a wedding dress to be buried according to her requirements.
At Li Yu's funeral, Wang Yu has been with Li Yu's mother.
Neither Huang Xiaoming nor Shao Bing appeared.
After Li Yu's death, Wang Yu seemed to have changed into a person at once, and there were no more chaotic gossip.
And in the more than ten years after Li Yu's death, Wang Yu would go to the cemetery to mourn her every death day.
Even though he got married in 2014 and has children.
He still misses the gentle Li Yu and takes care of her parents for her.
I don't know how to evaluate Wang Yu.
For Li Yu, he can be said to have feelings and righteousness, but for his current wife, Wang Feifei, it seems that it is not fair, and he can't compete with a dead person.
It can only be said that although Li Yu's life was short, she was brilliant and loved vigorously, which is enough!
At least a dozen years after her death, there was another man who insisted for her and cried for her,
In real life, such things are too rare.