"The world kisses me with pain, and I want to repay it with a song"
His whole life revolved around selling blood, and he used blood sales again and again to resist the suffering of life.
He gave his whole life, all his blood, for the sake of the family children, after old age, he still remembers the family.....
Shed a lifetime of blood to nourish a home.
Xu Sanguan, a low-level little person, interprets the greatness and pride of Chinese-style men.
With his blood, he propped up a home
The story begins in China in the 1950s:
Xu Sanguan is a cocoon worker in a silk factory, and for the first time in his life, he took the initiative to sell blood because of curiosity.
The villagers said, "Someone wants your blood to show that your body is strong and strong, and you can sell blood to marry your wife." "And you can earn thirty-five dollars by selling blood once."
This 35 yuan is worth the entire income of an ordinary farmer who has worked hard for half a year.
In order to prove himself, but also for money, he followed genlong, a fellow blood seller for many years, into the hospital.
For this money, Xu Sanguan knew very well in his heart that it was blood money, which was not the same as the sweat money earned in the factory, and this money could not be spent casually.
With the money he obtained from the first sale of blood, he married the local "fritter Xishi" Xu Yulan.
In Xu Sanguan's life, there were two ideal marriage partners, one was Xu Yulan and the other was Lin Fenfang.
If he chose a woman among them to be his own, a woman who wrapped the quilt tightly with him when it snowed in winter, he would look at Lin Fengfang, the girl whose braids were hanging down to her waist, laughing and her teeth were white and neat, and there were dimples, and if her big eyes could make him look at it for a lifetime, Xu Sanguan thought that he would be comfortable for a lifetime.
The reality is that he married Xu Yulan, making Lin Fenfang the white moonlight in his heart.
Xu Sanguan married Xu Yulan, more because he felt that Xu Yulan was more suitable.
Xu Yulan, originally had an object, she was full of expectations hoping that He Xiaoyong could marry her, but was ruthlessly rejected by He Xiaoyong, and finally obeyed her father's arrangement and married Xu Sanguan.
The marriage of that generation may not be because of love, but they all have the confidence and determination to live a good life with each other.
After marriage, Xu Sanguan actively met Xu Yulan's material needs, and when she met her physiological period, she would take on all the housework.
Xu Yulan, on the other hand, also kept her home in good order.
In five years, he gave birth to three sons, and Xu Sanguan named them Xu Yile, Xu Erle, and Xu Sanle.
The rift in the couple's feelings arises from the gossip of the people around them, who privately argue that Yile does not look like Xu Sanguan, but like He Xiaoyong.
Under Xu Sanguan's questioning, Xu Yulan was forced to tell the truth about her loss before marriage.
She cried and said:
"What sins did I do in my past life?" I did not become a widow, I did not remarry, I did not steal, I gave birth to three sons... What sins did I create in my past life, so that I know He Xiaoyong in this life, this He Xiaoyong, he is good, nothing happened, what can I do? The longer this music grew, the more it resembled him, just once, and then I never agreed, just once, the longer it became, the more like him...
The child he has raised for nine years for others in vain is still his favorite and beloved eldest son.
This made Xu Sanguan very painful, he lost his temper, did not let Yile follow his surname, and drove Yile back to He Xiaoyong, he sold blood and the whole family went to the restaurant without Yile, but when Yile ran away from home and was found, he was still soft-hearted and took him to eat noodles.
When the contradiction between family affection and blood was placed in front of Xu Sanguan, he may have hesitated and was confused, but he still chose family affection, because fatherly love became Xu Sanguan's instinct.
Xu Sanguan has sold blood twice in his life for this unrelated son Yile:
When he learned that Yile had broken the head of someone else's child in a fight and had to pay a lot of medical expenses, Xu Sanguan had to be forced to sell blood.
When Yile was found to be sent to Shanghai University Hospital for treatment, Xu Sanguan could not bear the high medical expenses, and the borrowing money was not enough, so he decided to sell blood all the way to Shanghai, under normal circumstances, people need to rest for three months for each blood sale, and Xu Sanguan sold blood three times in three months, when he finally fell to the ground after selling blood in Songlin Hospital, he was sent to the emergency room for rescue.
This journey is moving, reflecting the greatness of fatherly love and the noble personality of the little man.
In addition to the eldest son, Xu Sanguan also sold blood for his son Erle.
Erle went to the countryside to join the team, in order to let his son have a good job arrangement, Xu Sanguan sold blood again, this time he saw the death of The Root Dragon and felt sad.
For the sake of his children's future, he did not even want his life, struggling on the line of death, only seeking the happiness of his family, not caring about his own life, which is an old father's selfless love for his son.
Every kind person is a superhero
The emotional experience of Xu Sanguan and his wife Xu Yulan can be described as bumps and bumps, they have misunderstood each other, and finally they have walked hand in hand with each other through a lifetime.
During the Cultural Revolution, Xu Yulan was criticized as a prostitute, and everyone avoided it, afraid of bringing misfortune. As a husband, he defended his wife when she was criticized, took care of her, and secretly brought her food, hiding braised pork specially made for his wife under the rice at the bottom of the pot.
In the face of the wrongdoer He Xiaoyong, when his life was in danger and his life was hanging on the line, there was a local custom that let his own son sit on the roof and sit on the chimney to shout the soul, and shout for half an hour in a row, the soul would return, and the dying person would also survive. After the schadenfreude, Xu Sanguan did not stand idly by, but put aside his personal grudge and persuaded Yile to call He Xiaoyong's soul and call him "Father".
This simple kindness in Xu Sanguan embodies the kindness Chinese written in the genes, because of kindness, so tolerant, because of kindness, took the initiative to assume all responsibilities.
The British writer Maugham once said: "To make a man show his essence, it is the most effective way to make him take on a responsibility."
Xu Sanguan is a representative of Chinese, who faces misfortune head-on and faces the suffering of life in a positive and optimistic way.
He shed his whole life's blood to nourish a home.
The first time he sold blood, in order to prove himself, he used the money to marry his wife;
The second time to sell blood, in order to compensate for the medical expenses of Yile;
The third time selling blood, in order to buy something for Lin Fenfang, who broke her leg;
The fourth time he sold blood, in order to survive the famine. That year, the whole family relied on the two tanks of rice saved by Xu Yulan's usual mouthful of rice to drink thin porridge for 57 consecutive days. Even in order to save strength, they lay in bed all day and did not dare to say anything.
The fifth time selling blood, in order to be able to eat better in the countryside for a pleasure;
The sixth time selling blood, for the future of Erle;
The seventh to eleventh blood sales were all to raise money for Ichiraku to cure his illness.
The twelfth time he sold blood, Xu Sanguan was already old, and it had been eleven years since the last blood sale. For Xu Sanguan, in the past, he sold blood for others, and this time he wanted to sell blood for himself, but at this time, he couldn't find a place to sell blood.
In Xu Sanguan, we can see the most important quality of being a man, being able to carry things, that is, a sense of responsibility.
As a small person, in the face of suffering, he did not shirk his responsibility, did not shrink back, but in his own way to shoulder the responsibility as a husband and father.
In his own way, he gave everything for this family, even if he was full of pity, full of grievances, full of anger.
Luo Zhongzhong "Father"