Shen Ling asked Yang Qianwei, "You and your husband should rarely quarrel, right?" Miriam Yang: "There will be contradictions, but maybe everyone is an adult, knowing that it is useless to argue, and when the mood is the worst, I would rather walk away, calm down, and then send some text messages to write the problem clearly." And my personality doesn't like to argue, and most importantly, I have children, you don't show that side to your children. ”
Yang Qianwei's thinking is really transparent, very good at running marriage, marriage can not be two people have not been without contradictions, but after the contradiction comes, how to deal with it is the most test of wisdom.
If there is a contradiction on the quarrel, the tip of the needle to Mai Mang, over time quarrels have become a habit, and the results of quarrels are mostly ineffective communication, after the quarrel, the contradictions still exist, and even a long cold war consumes each other's feelings, children grow up in such a family environment, will also be subject to some negative impact.
And Yang Qianwei and her husband tacitly adopted cold treatment, when everyone's emotions are close to collapse, calm each other down, and then communicate with words, many things may not dare to say in person, but the text can be said clearly, there are contradictions and problems to talk about, understand what the other party thinks, and solve the contradictions together, so as not to affect the feelings of husband and wife and family harmony. #八卦手册 #
