After giving birth to her third child, Kunling said on his social media: "Confinement will have a round moon face, and you should do more massage... Every detail of this fetus has been done, and it should not be born again. ”
Note that Kunling uses the word "probably won't," not the affirmative tone of "I won't regenerate."
She did not dare to say "not to give birth", although the belly was hers, but not wanting to be born was her will, not her husband's will.
Jay Chou is not satisfied with three children. Jay Chou said that he likes boys a little more than girls, because his son can play with him, he had an interview before marriage, and when he interacted with Tao Jingying, he said that he wanted to have 5 children and could form a band and let them write songs for themselves. He said it was serious to start a band, not a joke.
Therefore, Kun Ling did not dare to speak to death.
How many children to give birth to, husband and wife who has the final say? The stronger ones have the final say.
Kunling interacted with Jay Chou at the age of 18, married Jay Chou at the age of 21, and basically gave up his job and gave birth to children at home. After half a year of marriage, I gave birth to my eldest daughter, married for 7 years, and when I was 28 years old, I was a mother of three children, with an average of two and a half years to have a child, where is the time to work and develop my strength?
To say which of them is strong, it is naturally Jay Chou.
In Kunling love, marriage and children of 18 to 28 years old, this same age group, Jay Chou is working desperately. At the age of 18, Jay Chou was still working as a music production assistant in Wu Zongxian's music company, and in order to mix food, he was particularly diligent in "running errands" for all his colleagues. For example, once, the company produced a record for a big Hong Kong singer, the studio is crowded, and it is relatively scattered, Jay Chou can not count how many people want to eat a box lunch. In order not to leave a person behind, he bought it from 12 o'clock in the afternoon to 3 o'clock in the afternoon that day, and ran back and forth four or five times. In the end, he couldn't even drink his own saliva.
Wu Zongxian saw that Jay Chou was working steadily, so he equipped him with an office and named it Alpha Music Studio, allowing him to concentrate on creating songs. Although the salary is very low, Jay Chou is still overjoyed, let go of his dreams, and soon created a large number of songs. But the lyrics he composed were always weird, almost no one in the music circle liked it, and Wu Zongxian repeatedly threw Jay Chou's manuscript into the trash.
Such repetitive and failed creation is a road to black. Jay Chou was determined to change his creative thinking. A few days later, he took out his proud work of painstaking meditation to find Wu Zongxian. Wu Zongxian glanced at his proud look and directly kneaded the manuscript into a ball and threw it away. As soon as Jay Chou walked out of the boss's office, tears fell like rain.
But he didn't give up, and since then, he has been writing at the speed of one song a day. For 7 consecutive days, when Wu Zongxian went to work at eight o'clock every morning, he could always see Jay Chou's works on time.
Wu Zongxian was touched by his talent and diligence. One day in December 1999, Wu Zongxian called Jay Chou to his office and said to him, "If you can come up with 50 new songs in 10 days." I picked out 10 songs from them and made them into an album. Find a singer singer to sing, and if you can't find a singer, you sing. ”
10 days later, Jay Chou took out 50 songs as promised, so he had his album "JAY", which became famous in one fell swoop. As soon as the album was released, it was snapped up by fans. "JAY" won three awards at the Golden Melody Award for Best Pop Vocal Album, Best Producer and Best Composer.
While the iron was hot, Jay Chou created his second album "Fantasia", which was popular in the entire Chinese music scene. At the beginning of 2002, jay Chou won the 2001 "Most Popular Male Singer" award in the 8th Global Chinese Music Chart. After that time, the Chinese pop music scene was almost dominated by Jay Chou's voice alone. Jay Chou also seized the opportunity to arrange a concert in the Chinese-speaking world, full of arrangements. He also has scandals, but his main energy and mind are in his music career. Naturally, both of his relationships failed.
The reason for the failure, it can be said, is that the woman is with him, and the pressure is too great; It can also be said that after the passionate period of love has passed, it has faded, but the most fundamental point is that he does not want to get married and have children, and the focus of his life is to work hard for his career. After his career reached its peak and his age passed the best period of being an artist, at the age of 35, he married Kunling, who was 14 years younger than him, and had children.
And this 14-year age difference, Jay Chou used to fight for a brilliant career, this career is his capital to marry Kunling. And Kunling, who should have been used to work hard for his career, took it to get married and have children, in exchange for Jay Chou's family and children, and gave up his career.
As a result, she has to rely on Jay Chou's economic power and social status to live, so she is bound to pay another equivalent value to get this. She was beautiful and young, clean, and with her rare own qualities, she gave him a good wife and mother, gave birth to 3 children, and honored his wishes.
And what if she develops her career like Jay Chou in these 14 years? Look at the actresses who developed their careers when they were younger. There are almost three endings.
One is Jay Chou's former lover Jolin Tsai, after breaking up with Jay Chou, who is equal, and then talked about an unknown love, broke up again, and has been single so far.
The second is to marry into the giants, in order to gain a firm foothold in the giants, desperately have children, what fate is, but also depends on the face of the giants. Xiao S gave birth to three daughters in a row, very sorry that he did not give birth to a son, there is no status in the husband's family, rumors have been beaten, her husband has been exposed to cheating, and she has also cried with her three daughters on her birthday on social media.
Her sister Big S married the tycoon Wang Xiaofei when she was 35 years old, and immediately after marriage, she drove full horsepower to prepare for pregnancy, suspended her acting career, gave up beauty, gave up weight loss, gave up vegetarian food, ate fat meat to vomit in order to gain weight, and ran to Thailand to make a wish. Every three months, I see a new doctor, beijing and Taiwan; Even go to the United States. All Chinese medicine and Western medicine have been seen all over.
Finally, at the age of 37, Big S gave birth to his daughter, Little Pony. At the age of 40, she successfully conceived her second child, but when she gave birth, she fainted because of the pain, resulting in a seizure. After giving birth to the second child, there were some complications, and he entered the intensive care unit and was in a coma for more than ten days.
Zhou Danwei, the first model in the Chinese circle in the 1970s, nodded her head and agreed to the marriage proposal of Xiao Junlang, vice chairman of Sanfu Relations Enterprises, at the age of 36. Quit the show business circle after marriage, actively seek children, do 19 artificial test tubes in 19 years, ignore the doctor's warning that "intensive ovulation injections may cause endocrine disorders", spend nearly 8 million yuan, and even try various folk remedies: what seven days to swallow toads, raw drink pigeon blood ... And so on, but all failed. In the end, the son was not successful, but he trampled his body and suffered from breast cancer. Fortunately, it was found early, and the hard patch of the right breast was removed in time to save his life. This made her wake up and decided not to be Mrs. Xiao anymore and end the marriage to be herself.
The third is that after the success of the actress's career, she married a strong woman and a weak man, the woman's strength is much stronger than the man's, the woman has a high family status, and is pampered by the man. Typical examples are Wang Mingquan and Luo Jiaying. Luo Jiaying was very good to Wang Mingquan, almost obedient and caring. Wang Mingquan could not have children because of the miscarriage of the first marriage, and he did not care. There is also Chen Songling, married to Zhang Duo, who is 8 years younger than himself. Zhang Duo's fame is far inferior to Chen Songling, but he loves Chen Songling very much and helps her get out of depression and live a happy life. He also didn't mind that she couldn't have children because of illness.
Regardless of men, women, and the ones who speak the truth at home, they are basically the strongest people.
So, which path does a woman choose? Do you want to get married early and eat men, or do you want to be a strong woman on your own? It depends on its own conditions. Taking Kunling as an example, because her parents remarried and had a new family after divorce, Kunling seemed a little redundant in both families, so she dropped out of school at the age of 14 and used her beauty to become a tender model. But she didn't do well in the modeling world and was soon replaced by new models. To make a living, she had to work in a friend's fashion brand store. Coincidentally, this brand store is under the name of Jay Chou, Jay Chou came to inspect the work, saw the unusually beautiful Kunling, and was amazed. Since then, Jay Chou has helped Kunling develop in the entertainment industry and given her the opportunity to appear. Kunling developed in the entertainment industry by relying on Jay Chou's strong background. Obviously, Kunling's situation, marrying Jay Chou and having children, is her best way out. Because she was on her own, her career did not develop. Her personal ability could not become Wang Mingquan and Chen Songling.
Who speaks in the family counts, it has nothing to do with gender, it is determined by strength.