"It's just because I looked at you more in the crowd, never forgot you again, dreamed of seeing you again one day by chance, and since then I have begun to miss you alone..." Faye Wong's "Legend" was all over the streets and alleys, singing people's yearning for love.
"Love does not know what to do, always deep", "ask what is the love of the world, straight teaching life and death to promise", love has been an enduring topic since ancient times.
But in reality, people regard marriage as the graveyard of love, and Qian Zhongshu compares marriage to a siege, where people on the outside want to go in and people inside want to come out. No matter how beautiful love is, once it is mixed with the chai rice oil and salt of life, it will become a chicken feather. More and more people are reluctant to enter the siege of marriage, that is, they are afraid that love will disappear in the accumulated life.
But in reality, there is also a touching love, the heroine is named Wei Fang, she waited for 20 years, and finally married the person she wanted, was spoiled to 90 years old, for people who really love each other, as long as it is you, how late it does not matter.
See each other and hate late
Love at first sight, the love of two loves is naturally the envy of everyone, but beautiful love has always been unattainable.
Wei Fang was born in 1926, is a middle school teacher, gentle personality, outstanding ability, Shu Feng is one year older than her, is a double degree high school student of Shanghai Jiao Tong University, but also can play the violin, such two people are born a pair.
"Returning the pearl to the pearl of the king with tears, hating not meeting and not marrying", it is clear that two people who love each other, but because the time of encounter is not right, they miss the good luck.
In 1952, Wei Fang first met Shu Feng when attending her uncle's wedding, he was the younger brother of the bride, love was like fate, but this rush, Shu Feng was engraved in Wei Fang's heart.
Knowing the daughter Mo Ruomu, Wei Fang's mother saw that her daughter did not think about the meal, she asked the reason. The mother also asked shufeng about it, but the result was very regrettable, because shufeng already had an object, and the two were about to get married.
For people now, as long as the other party is not married, there is a chance, but in that era, the folk customs are still relatively conservative, and after Wei Fang learned that Shufeng was about to get married, she could only resent that it was too late to meet, and silently buried the true feelings in her heart.
The two people are also considered to be related to each other, and they can occasionally meet in later life, And Weifang wants to avoid meeting, but also longs to meet, and when she does not meet, she will miss her, and after seeing it, she will make her thoughts more intense.
In order not to affect Shu Feng's marriage, Wei Fang has been hiding her feelings very well, Shu Feng does not know, and as she understands more and more, Shu Feng also knows that Wei Fang is a good girl, and even foolishly introduces her to the object.
No matter who others introduced, no matter how many times she was introduced, Wei Fang refused, at that time everyone thought that Wei Fang's vision was too high, but only she herself knew that she was waiting for someone.
Love is like this, once you identify a person, the rest of the people can no longer go to the heart, and then Shu Feng married, and gave birth to a son and a daughter with his wife, and Wei Fang is still alone.
Eventually become a family member
Wanting to forget a person is so easy, Wei Fang's heart can never let go of The Peak of the Tree, and she is not willing to spend the rest of her life together, so she waits so foolishly.
Truly loving a person is not possessive, but perfect, as long as the other party is living well, you can bear all the pain. After Shu Feng got married, Wei Fang would still inquire about his news through various ways, as long as she knew that he lived well, Wei Fang could live with peace of mind.
From the mid-1960s to the mid-1970s, some changes occurred in Chinese society, and intellectuals were beaten into cattle, ghosts, snakes, and gods, and Shufeng was not spared. Shu Feng's wife could not bear the blow of life and ended up depressed, the great changes in the living environment also made the daughter die prematurely, the original happy family of four, only Shu Feng and his son were left to rely on each other, and Shu Feng has since collapsed.
After learning about the changes that happened to Shu Feng's family, Wei Fang couldn't help but want to care for and take care of him, and later his uncle understood Wei Fang's thoughts, so he made up two people.
Originally a pair of bi people created by heaven and earth, after more than ten years of wind and rain, they have already had different lives, Wei Fang has achieved success in her career with excellent work ability, and Shu Feng is a widowed wife and son, who has nothing.
Wei Fang's feelings for Shu Feng have been buried in her heart for nearly 20 years, she doesn't care what the outside world thinks, nor does she care about the difference in material conditions between the two, their wedding is very simple, just a light meal at home, the marriage room is also a simple old house.
In order to raise Shu Feng and his ex-wife's children, Wei Fang is also willing to give up the idea of having children and take care of her stepson wholeheartedly.
Wei Fang waited for 20 years to get along with the people she loved, but the test of life for them was not over. Shufeng wants to go to Sichuan to support construction because of his work relationship, it is 10 years after he has gone, and how many 10 years of his life are there? Wei Fang has been waiting for 20 years in order to marry Shu Feng, which is another 10 years, and before going to Shu Feng, Shu Feng carefully asked for Wei Fang's opinion, but Wei Fang replied: "It doesn't matter."
Spend the rest of your life together
In the days when the two places were separated, only letters and telephones could express the pain of lovesickness, and when they took the train to see each other, even the air was sweet.
Every time Shu Feng saw his wife, his eyes were full of heartache and guilt, wei Fang's best years in life were waiting for him, so affectionate, how fortunate to meet, and how dare he live up to it.
Later, after Wei Fang's efforts, Shu Feng finally returned to Shanghai, and the two began a real married life. There will be contradictions and problems in the life of each family, and there are also the lives of Wei Fang and Shu Feng, but they all choose to tolerate and understand, thinking about each other's efforts for themselves, they are also relieved. The two of them walked together year after year, as long as Shufeng was there, Weifang was spoiled as a princess.
Happy life also has waves, Wei Fang suffered from Alzheimer's disease at the age of 80, which is commonly known as Alzheimer's disease. With the severity of her illness, Wei Fang forgot all the previous things, the only thing she remembered was Shu Feng, a person she fell in love at first sight and waited for 20 years, and had already melted into her life.
No matter what Wei Fang becomes, in Shu Feng's eyes, she will always be the woman who deserves the most deep love, and for Shu Feng, taking care of Wei Fang is a kind of compensation, but also a kind of happiness.
Wei Fang did not remember anything, Shu Feng accompanied her all day, there seemed to be an arrangement in heaven, Wei Fang waited for Shu Feng for 20 years in her early years, and then separated from each other for 10 years, and in the last time, the two people were inseparable, and the 90-year-old Wei Fang was still spoiled by Shu Feng as a princess.
Brief summary:
Love, no matter whether it is sooner or later, as long as it is the right person, it does not matter how late. Wei Fang bitterly waited for her sweetheart for 20 years, finally married to the person she wanted, and after getting married, she was spoiled to 90 years old, and they interpreted a sentence with their own life, as long as it is you, it doesn't matter how late. Holding the hand of the son, and the son and the old age, the two people are dependent on each other, and they are not afraid of the wind and rain of life.
Some people say that love needs to be kept fresh, and marriage needs to be managed, but two people who really love each other do not need to take pains to manage at all, because being together is already the luckiest thing.