"He is the best actor in China, with advanced thinking and special talent!"
"He is also the most handsome man, even more handsome than Jin Chengwu!"
"He's very humorous, and he's also very good at dressing, a proper fashionista!"
Taking a closer look at the domestic actors who meet these conditions, I always feel that Liang Chaowei's sense of fashion is almost the same, Peng Yuyan's acting skills need to be refined, and Hu Ge's sense of humor is insufficient.
But this person is neither Zhang Guorong nor Zhou Xingchi.
It's Bao Bell!
These praises came from his wife, Bao Wenjing.
There have always been mixed reviews of Bao Bell's acting skills and works, but as an actor and director, his most wonderful works may not be as brilliant as his marriage.
The 17-year love and marriage between Bao Wenjing and Bao Bell is simply a tragicomedy of ups and downs.
"What if my husband is targeted by someone else?"
Bao Wenjing single-handedly sent Bao Bell to the altar of "Rainbow Fart".
Cai Kangyong once asked her to rate Bao Bell, out of a score of 100, she scored 100+.
In Bao Wenjing's eyes, Bao Bellhun is glowing everywhere, and all women will fall in love with him.
True lover's eyes out of the West Shi.
Cai Kangyong once asked Bao Wenjing if bao Bell and the actress played a kissing scene.
Bao Wenjing said yes, but the premise is that the actress must pass her own level first, know her, and fully understand how much love they have as a husband and wife.
When participating in "The Temptation of the Dinner Bureau", the program team released three actresses who had played kiss scenes with Bao Bell: Xiao Songjia, Jia Ling and Sun Yi.
For Xiao Songjia and Jia Ling, Bao Wenjing said generously: "It doesn't matter if everyone is an acquaintance. ”
But when she saw the intimate photos of Sun Yi and Bao Bell, Bao Wenjing was angry and threw something.
"Sun Yi really can't do it, although I believe that my husband will not have excessive behavior, but Sun Yi is too beautiful, I don't know, I am afraid that she will adore my husband, what if she falls in love with my husband?" 」
When Zhao Yihuan and Bao Bell filmed "Joyful Hunter", the ambiguous news of the two on the set reached Bao Wenjing's ears.
She immediately made up the picture of Bao Bell and Zhao Yihuan together:
"A director and an actor, often talking together, pulling and pulling, is it a bit of something? Moreover, my husband is really handsome, handsome and profitable. ”
After the killing, Bao Wenjing invited Zhao Yihuan to her birthday party.
After Zhao Yihuan arrived, before his ass was hot, he was surrounded by Bao Wenjing's sisters, and Bao Wenjing, who was sitting opposite, half jokingly and half jealously interrogated:
"I heard that during your shooting, you were quite ambiguous with my husband on the set?"
As a result, he was snubbed by Zhao Yihuan's domineering attitude and swore: "If there is really such a thing, I cannot accept this role, nor can I get paid for this film." ”
After the final farce turned over, they became good friends!
For the marriage of Bao Wenjing and Bao Bell, the host Li Jing, who has seen various scenes, summed it up with high emotional intelligence: "It really made my life into a paragraph. ”
Bao Wenjing's insecurity of gaining and losing was already obvious as early as the beginning of their relationship.
For the controversial topic of "whether to look at her husband's mobile phone", Bao Wenjing's approach at that time was not only to look at it, but also to delete the contact information of women in the mobile phone.
This includes actresses who work with, as well as women who have connections at work.
In Bao Wenjing's brain circuit: "I think this name is like a girl's name, this girl may not have a family, so she deleted it, and may have deleted a few boys by mistake." ”
Although he later admitted that he did not do it right, from the perspective of "playing a kiss with Bao Bell to report to me", over the years, Bao Wenjing's state of mind of suffering from gains and losses has not changed.
For many times in public to praise Bao Bell super handsome this point, even Bao Bell himself has laughed many times.
But Bao Wenjing said with disgust: "You are super handsome, you don't let me say this." ”
At the same time, Bao Wenjing was extremely inferior and felt that she was not good-looking, "Except for my husband, no one will want me!" ”
This TV series-like bridge section, as if Bao Wenjing was deceived by Bao Bell!
Bao Wenjing's blind worship of Bao Bell has become an open "beautiful talk" in the entertainment industry, and many people doubt whether she has been brainwashed by Bao Bell.
But it may not really be brainwashing, when they were not together, Bao Wenjing was already like this.
Loving you is like loving life
Bao Wenjing and Bao Bell are college classmates, because the two are next to each other, during school, Bao Wenjing often watched the comedies played by Bao Bell.
As soon as she came and went, Bao Wenjing became Bao Bell's "brain-dead fan", thinking that this boy was particularly handsome, dressed in a special fashion, and then acted well.
Before graduation, the classmates got together for their birthdays, they went to KTV together, Bao Wenjing went directly to Bao Bell, who was smoking on the side, and said: "Let's be together!" ”
Bao Bell's first reaction was that she was joking and replied: "Don't make trouble." ”
Bao Wenjing directly staged the scene of women chasing men's names, and once again asked: "If you don't stay with me, I will burn myself with your cigarette butt!" ”
Bao Bell, who heard this, thought she had drunk too much: "You are sick! ”
As a result, Bao Wenjing directly picked up the cigarette butt and burned herself, frightening Bao Bell to shout in shock: "You are crazy!" ”
Bao Wenjing took the cigarette, or repeated: "Do you want to be together?" ”
If it had been an ordinary person, he might have escaped a long time ago, but Bao Bell still said: "In, together." ”
Until now, bao Wenjing's arm, there is also a hot fireworks.
Every year after the two people are together, Bao Wenjing will propose to Bao Bell, 4-5 times a year (in an interview, Bao Wenjing said 2-3 times a year), just to force him to marry himself.
Bao Bell's response is generally: "Look at your performance." ”
Waiting until the 8th year, I waited for Bao Bell's marriage proposal, and in 2016, after the career improved, Bao Bell gave Bao Wenjing a grand wedding.
When exchanging rings, Bao Wenjing shed tears and said harshly: "You must be with me in this life, otherwise I will kill you." ”
Together for 17 years, from the narrative of Bao Bell and Bao Wenjing, they would quarrel from time to time, and there were many times to break up.
But every time Bao Berti breaks up, it is a thrilling horror movie.
Once, Bao Bell was having dinner with friends, quarreled with Bao Wenjing, and proposed to break up.
As a result, I received a call from the security guard shortly after the time: "Brother Bao, you are coming back soon, Sister Bao has gone out of the window and wants to jump off the building!" ”
Bao Bell was directly frightened.
At one point, Bao Bell said, "Or two people will be separated." ”
Bao Wenjing didn't say a word, picked up the ashtray in her hand and slammed it on the table, directly pressing her hand on the broken glass slag...
Another time, after hearing Bao Bell say that they broke up, Bao Wenjing directly ripped off the necklace around her neck...
Every time Bao Berti breaks up, Bao Wenjing is gambling with her life on Bao Bell's softness.
In Bao Wenjing's own words: "I just can't do without him, what should I do?" ”
Because of love, half flame, half ice and fire
When everyone felt that Bao Wenjing was pitiful and unworthy, she had fallen deeply into the psychological trap of "sunk cost".
16 years ago, when Bao Wenjing and Bao Bell were just together, the two people were poor and white, renting a small room of only 5 square meters in Huilongguan, Beijing, with no elevator, no heating, and cockroaches everywhere in the house.
All are students of the Beijing Film Academy, in order to let Bao Bell stick to his dream of being an actor, Bao Wenjing ran to the gym as a coach, and also gave people a massage in the beauty salon, and went to the subway to hand out flyers later.
When the days are sad, Bao Wenjing never buys new clothes for herself, even if she buys the cheapest clothes on Taobao, and the red socks for the New Year dye the slippers red.
When we were first together, Bao Bell sent her a lot of sweet text messages.
Very touched, Bao Wenjing saved all the text messages by hand, and even the date and time were clearly marked.
For love, Bao Wenjing gambled on her career and youth, and every time she recalled, she was full of grievances: "You were so poor at that time, I was with you." ”
Later, Bao Wenjing entered the show business circle and played some small roles, but has always been the main heart of Bao Bell.
When participating in the casting reality show "Actors Please Take Place" in 2019, Bao Wenjing, who was praised by her mentor, almost did not leave Bao Bell:
"If (I) have something to be affirmed, it's what Bao Bell taught.
(I) have been acting for 11 years, and my acting is all about my husband's help. ”
Her entire existence seems to be to prove that Bao Bell is excellent and to prove that she does not look at the wrong person.
When Bao Bell and Bao Wenjing participated in the second season of "Wife's Romantic Trip", Bao Bell took Bao Wenjing back to the 5 square meter cottage he once rented and asked Bao Wenjing:
"If one day, we don't do a good job, and there is no drama to shoot, and then come back to live in this house, will you come back to live?"
Bao Wenjing said firmly: "Then you should come back and come back, you can live before, and now you can live." ”
In daily life, Bao Wenjing can endure poverty and can endure suffering, but she absolutely can't stand that Bao Bell does not love her.
She herself said: "So every day, I may ask him countless times, husband, do you still love me." ”
After getting a positive answer, she will be at ease.
Every day, no matter what happens, whether it is a quarrel or a fight, you must say goodnight and hug it.
Perhaps only the "law of 10,000 hours" can explain Bao Wenjing's worship of Bao Bell's mystery.
Once in an interview, I was asked: If one day, the other party leaves one step ahead, the sentence I want to give to the other party is -
Bao Wenjing blurted out: "I can't marry my daughter-in-law, my daughter-in-law can only have me!" ”
As the first person in the entertainment industry, for Bao Wenjing, who always carries love on her shoulders, when she decided to gamble on her youth and career, there was no way back, and she could only desperately grasp Bao Bell's hand.
The poor man must have something to hate, but she herself is willing to do so.
Write at the end:
There are 10,000 kinds of love and marriage, and one of them is called Bao Bell and Bao Wenjing.
Looking at Bao Wenjing's love and marriage from the perspective of a bystander, it is full of irrational over-intervention, trembling with gains and losses, consuming exhaustion with great sorrow and joy, and humility and powerlessness at an excessive cost.
It is extremely dangerous to gamble on one love with all your life and your life.
Looking at the object she chose to bet on, I feel that the future is uncertain.
If Bao Bell and Bao Wenjing can't get along for a hundred years, maybe there is only one way left to see it.
Because Bao Wenjing rejects an objective fact: a life of companionship requires many big and small stumbles, some can be resolved by hard work, some need to rely on patience, and some are completely dependent on luck.
Love and marriage are essentially a contract, and in each contract there is an indispensable and important existence: force majeure.
If you can't learn to love yourself first in love, you will never be able to be calm in marriage.