The divine beast returned to the cage and came out of the cage
For reasons that are well known, summer vacation is here! But my family's divine beast only started a week of school to go home to start online classes, even the final exam is at home online class test, this summer vacation should not make up for the class!!
In view of the experience of more than half a year's struggle, coupled with the particularity of this summer vacation, I still prepared a small strategy, from the entertainment, outdoor sports, extracurricular classes and learning four aspects of targeted arrangements, you can also learn from the exchange, mutual communication!
Entertainment
The bottom line of my family is to resolutely not allow small pot friends to take the initiative to brush short videos, one can not control the content pushed by the algorithm, the second is that this thing is really on the head, brushing brushing a day has passed, not to mention small pot friends, that is, adults can't control it?!
Console game Girl Girl Raising (bushi) note
So my point is that instead of brushing up on a small video, let her play games and play serious games! Now I am playing with the Pokémon Sword shield of switch, as a national bank (yuan) soldier (zhong), finally found the advantage of a national bank, that is, you can control the play time of NS through a small program, which is the so-called parental monitoring mode. I also wrote an article detailing this feature. My girlfriend spent three holidays, and finally now the Pokémon Sword and Shield is almost finished in a week, emmm, this progress I think by the time she graduates from elementary school, she should be able to finish all the plots of the Sword and Shield, this money is not too worth it!
Bank of China Switch Parental Monitoring Model article link
In addition to Pokémon, in fact, there are still a lot of family games on the switch, which can be played with children under the leadership of parents, such as carriages, noisy kitchens, full dance, etc. ~ My point is that most of these games in Nintendo are three views, promoting truth, goodness and beauty, which is not better than watching small videos for small pot friends?
There are poems and books in the belly, and I don't know if comics count or not
As a parent of a primary school student, it is an inevitable option for your child to cultivate the habit of reading. In the summer, you can't always let the little ancestor read the texts and the so-called xxx recommended books (personal opinion, the current so-called second chewing book is xx, and the same as the small video is a type, such a small child or don't come straight up straight ball is good, we want her to feel the beauty of the text), and as a result, my girlfriend fell in love with reading comics.
In fact, this is also the result of my deliberate guidance, in the first grade of elementary school, I bought the "If History is a Bunch of Meows" this set of comics, as well as various graphic versions of the Shan Hai Jing, and every holiday I bought her books that I had read and knew the content, including Roald Dahl's series of stories, Detective Dogs (this is a comic), and Sherlock Holmes Detective Collection (it seems to be difficult to understand), and the adventurer Hilda (this book is great, the cartoon is also great), Harry Potter, Hal Roger's Adventures and so on (the picture is just a small part of what you're looking at when you take it off the shelf.) ）。 Successfully put the little guy in the ditch, the current taste of reading books is relatively normal, what xxx anthology is not to read, the old father is very pleased.
My point is that as a little pot friend, first of all, let her understand the joy of reading, not to let her master knowledge and learning through reading, reading is reading, is a way of leisure and entertainment, as a child whose three views have not yet been fully established, it is enough to cultivate her reading habits, there is no need to have both.
Anti-bar statement: Surely some people will ask, why are Chinese literary works not shown to children? As a Chinese, I also know that we also have a lot of excellent literary works in China, but based on the reasons of children's age and understanding ability, coupled with the limited cultural level of parents (main reasons), I can't buy a higher level of local literary works for my children for the time being, as a father, I also blame myself, I will also strengthen my knowledge learning, can not be admired, and strive to improve my own cultural level!
Outdoor chapter
Although most of the weather in the summer is scorching, outdoor sports are indispensable. As a fat father, it is also a broken heart for the girl to be able to exercise more.
Climbers to the park to achieve the collecter
Since the little guy was three or four years old, I would take the little guy to climb the mountain every two weeks, when I lived in the north of Beijing, Mangshan Park basically went once a month, and the flowers, flowers, grasses, ditches, ditches and bumps in it were almost clear, and there were all kinds of Great Wall, parks. Later, after moving to the south, the mountain climbed less, went to the park more, and only the boys could go to nanhaizi park, wildlife park, etc., all took her to go, mainly to be able to let her do more outdoor activities.
My mother's point of view is that the child still has to have outdoor activities, after preparing for the heat, we must take more time to take the child outdoors, climb the mountain, row the boat, visit the park, so that she can exercise more. After all, the children's stay at home is a bit too long now, especially in the past six months, basically shelving the home online class, it is too difficult.
A bike rider who can roller skate must not be a jump rope master
My beautiful girl is a lively and active little pot friend, who is more curious about everything. But like his father, he belongs to the players who are still addicted to food, roller skating and cycling are self-taught, and jumping rope is a political task. Overall, taking her out for a little exercise every day, whether it's roller skating, jump rope or cycling. The only regret is that I didn't catch up with the boom of the balance car too quickly, otherwise my little pot friends would not be allowed to participate in several races
Bicycle project is really the best parent-child project, little pot you kindergarten for a while in the morning is I rode a road bike to send her to kindergarten, and then she will ride a bicycle, when I have time, I will take her to ride to "adventure", if there is no epidemic, we may be able to carry out a long-distance inter-provincial ride ~ ~
In general, take the baby to the outdoors in the summer, the main purpose is to strengthen the body while increasing knowledge, do a good job of heat prevention, take the child out to play, travel can not be talked about, but going out and home, really different!
Learning
There should be no children in this world who like to write homework, right?
Of course, as a fourth-grade elementary school student, homework is essential during the summer vacation. After all, the content assigned by the teacher still has to be completed. In addition to the content assigned by the teacher, I also prepared textbooks for the new semester and some auxiliary reading tools for her, so that she could complete her summer homework and understand the content of the new semester without increasing the amount of homework.
At the same time, according to the child's own requirements, there will still be one or two extracurricular classes in the summer, such as her favorite art, taekwondo, and dance classes requested by her mother, which will be negotiated and allocated in a friendly and peaceful atmosphere.
Defeating magic with magic is the ultimate trick
However, due to the natural resistance to homework, after fighting wits with the girlfriend, a set of rules that are currently effective (bushi) have been summarized, that is, to bring KPI assessment into the study work (parents are also too difficult), negotiate with the girlfriend every week to formulate the performance (amount of work), disassemble the task (assign homework), and finally determine the completion time node and incentive measures (the right to use entertainment equipment such as game consoles), and supervise through WeChat groups and desk cameras.
Because my mother and I are also the first time to be parents, and do not want to solve the problem simply and rudely, we have to use various means to restrain and motivate the little pot friends, plus the work reason can not always accompany, delayed motivation and agreement has become our interaction with the child, we try to communicate with the child equally, at least for now, the baby is not crooked, we can still endure.
Write at the end
With a baby with a baby, although it is said to be a baby, but in fact, it is really growing up with a baby, after all, we are also the first time to be a parent, what is learning while coming, the child is born as a person, or need the education and companionship of parents. Especially during the holidays, basically the children are at home by themselves, and they need the companionship and care of their parents (especially in learning), so we have to take the baby well and work hard this summer