#Happy Hour Twenty Years Ago #Erich Fromm layer once said:
Love should essentially be an act of will, a determination to fully commit one's life to another.
Truly in love with a person, unconsciously will think of her, will involuntarily worry about her.
I want to be good to her wholeheartedly, and I want to share all the beauty of this world with her.
Across mountains, across rivers, people who love each other will eventually meet and love each other deeply.
This love has nothing to do with age, no appearance, nothing to do with everything, it comes from the instinct of the heart.
It's only because it's you that you're devoted to each other.
The so-called "love does not know where to start, always deep love", true love, is difficult to help.
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True love has no standards, and your presence is the best choice.
What exactly does a relationship look like?
There is no exact standard for this problem.
Before meeting their sweetheart, everyone is full of fantasies about their other half.
Formulating their own mate selection criteria.
But when you meet true love, all the standards instantly turn into bubbles, and you can't help but be moved.
Because I love you, your presence is the best choice.
The pace of modern people's lives has accelerated, and everyone's attitude towards love has also doubled.
"Fast food love" prevails.
Each person has made many demands on their other half.
Height and age, have a house and a car, look good, etc., want to use a standard to find their true love.
True love has no standards and should not be regulated.
Love is the purest and most sincere emotion in the world and should not be limited by the so-called rules and regulations.
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As a result, good fortune is missed.
Eventually someone will break all your standards and make you feel like she's her.
Even if it has nothing to do with the other half of his imagination.
But I still couldn't help but feel my heart for her and wanted to spend the rest of my life with her.
Your presence, I love.
Everyone's definition of love is different.
But when we meet the right person;
You will not deliberately use these criteria to measure a relationship, but you will involuntarily fall in love with each other.
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It is difficult to control the depths of love, and true love is irrational and controllable.
Countless infatuated men and women in this world are overwhelmed by love.
True love is a very mysterious emotion, which is not controlled by reason, but a choice made by the instinct of the heart.
Zhang Guangzheng in the TV series "Welcome", the hotel doorman, is at home all day in addition to work.
But that night, he met a man who came against the light, Zheng Youen.
On this side alone, he fell deeply in love with Zheng Youen.
He missed Zheng Youen like crazy, so he specially transferred the class to midnight in order to see her again.
After accidentally knowing that the two lived in a neighborhood, Zhang Guangzheng changed his previous depressed appearance.
He loves Zheng Youen and misses her all the time in his heart.
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Even after being rejected, when the other party clearly stated that the two people were impossible, he still couldn't help but worry about Zheng Youen.
Will go to know her preferences.
Inquire about her movements, always miss her, pay attention to her.
When we fall in love with someone, irrational and controllable thoughts about each other.
Wouldn't help but want to get close to her. Wanting to understand her interests, she thought of ways to increase interaction and thus bring the two closer together.
That fiery heart is out of your control.
Will can't help but miss, unconsciously worried, completely uncontrollable love for her.
Deep in love, unable to control itself.
Love someone, think about twilight, think of her heart, and see her in her heart.
I want to be good to her wholeheartedly, even if it is bumpy, I don't want to abandon my heart.
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Loving someone is a firm belief that cannot be done, but can be done.
The so-called true love is not a choice I make after weighing the pros and cons, but I will be moved countless times when I see you.
Unwavering, determined.
The person who really loves you is all the options you have, and my answer is you.
My good friend Linlin, who has been in trouble lately.
She has a boyfriend who has been in love for five years, and the two have reached the age of talking about marriage, but the man's parents hate the girl's origin.
Thinking that the two families are not right, she wants to persuade her boyfriend to give up the relationship.
She hadn't been able to contact her boyfriend for a few days and was disappointed.
I feel that this relationship is over.
But a few days later, her boyfriend came to the door with a bride price.
Lin lin was very surprised that her boyfriend had voluntarily given up everything and broken through many obstacles just to be with her.
True love is even standing against the whole world;
I will also run to you without hesitation, and work with you to resist all the malice of the world.
Love, not shackles.
True love is not in the name of love, painting the ground as a prison and binding each other's hearts.
Instead, give each other strength and courage, rely on each other, and move forward side by side in the wind and rain.
Loving someone is not a whim, feeling bored and leaving.
But countless times, after the choice;
Resolutely stay by each other's side, want to feel all the beauty of the world together for a lifetime, and go to the end of life.
The pursuit of love is human nature, but true love is hard to help.
All standards are reduced to nothingness in the face of true love.
Uncontrollably thinking of each other, worrying about each other, even if you let go of everything, you still stand firmly by each other's side.
True love can produce thousands of joys, and it can also withstand the long years.
May there be lovers in this world who will eventually become dependents, and those who love each other can overcome many obstacles and walk hand in hand.