01 Preface
In 2015, Huang Zongze and Hu Xing'er, who had been separated for three years, met again at an event, when Hu Xing'er was already a wife, while Huang Zongze was single.
On the stage, Huang Zongze's eyes never left Hu Xing'er, and Hu Xing'er only cared to talk to other stars, without giving Huang Zongze a look.
It should be known that Huang Zongze and Hu Xing'er have lived together in love for 8 years and are recognized as golden children and jade girls in the entertainment industry;
At that time, everyone thought that they would enter the palace of marriage, but Hu Xing'er never waited for Huang Zongze's promise.
In the end, Huang Zongze can only watch the girl he once loved marry someone else.
Now that all these years have passed, is the 41-year-old okay?
02
Born in Hong Kong in 1980, Huang Zongze did not enjoy much family warmth as a child, and his parents were separated by emotional discord when he was very young.
After his parents divorced, Huang Zongze has been living with his mother.
In order to raise her son to grow up, Huang's mother had to work a few more jobs to subsidize the family;
And the young Huang Zongze is also very sensible, he understands his mother's hardships, so he cleans up the housework and makes a good meal when his mother is at work;
This also allowed him to practice a good cooking skill, and even at this time, his dream was to become a chef when he grew up and spread the delicious food.
When he was in middle school, in order to alleviate the financial pressure at home, he went to work in a restaurant to earn some pocket money after studying;
At this time, Huang Zongze did not think about entering the entertainment industry, and he also knew that the good things that became famous overnight would not hit him.
But his handsome appearance doomed him to an extraordinary life.
On the way to work in a restaurant, a star scout found that he had deep eyebrows, a high nose, clear and smooth facial lines, plus his height of one meter and eight meters; The scouts immediately wanted to take him into their pockets.
Huang Zongze half-believed and agreed, what he did not expect was that he was really related to the entertainment industry;
In 1999, Huang Zongze was photographed by TVB and officially became one of them.
Huang Zongze thought that his career was about to start, but he did not expect to fall into a bottleneck period.
The stage did not arrange any scenes for him, but let him be the host first.
Huang Zongze had no choice but to listen to the arrangements made by the stage, and in this way, he served as the host for several years.
Although he is handsome, because he is not from a science class and has no relevant experience, he has always been a "transparent person" in the hosting industry for several years;
This also made Huang Zongze lose some confidence in the future, and he had the idea of withdrawing from the circle, but fortunately he persevered during that time;
In 2002, he received his first play, "Soaring into the Sky".
He played a supporting role in this play, and he would not be noticed because he did not have much role, but the audience was attracted by his handsome face, and he also gained a foothold in the entertainment industry because of this role.
The company believes that Huang Zongze has a lot of potential, so in 2005, he starred in the male number one of "My Master is Huang Feihong" and "My Savage Mother-in-Law".
These two plays not only made his career soar into the sky, but also let him meet the most important woman in his life - Hu Xing'er.
02
In the 1999 Miss Hong Kong selection, Hu Xing'er was successfully recognized by everyone with the third place.
After that, she entered TVB and started her acting career, but because she was ridiculed by the netizen group as "the ugliest Hong Kong sister", at the beginning, she was also a little transparent like Huang Zongze.
However, Hu Xing'er was born with the spirit of not accepting defeat, she knew that her appearance was not brilliant enough, she was determined to make up for it with acting skills, and after continuous hard study, she finally won the female number one for herself with her own strength.
In 2003, Hu Xing'er starred in her first female number one in "The New King of Law", which was well received by the audience.
Later, she received the heroine of "My Savage Mother-in-Law".
That is, this drama, let Huang Zongze and Hu Xing'er know each other, the two play a loving couple in the play, perhaps the two people have a full sense of CP, so that the audience unconsciously regards the two as a real couple.
However, when Huang Zongze first met Hu Xing'er, he only felt that she was an unremarkable actress and did not want to develop further;
Hu Xing'er also knows that Huang Zongze is handsome, but he often breaks peach news;
And Hu Xing'er is a very traditional woman in her bones, so she knows that the two of them are not people on the same road, so she does not associate herself with him.
However, during the shooting process, Huang Zongze found that Hu Xing'er was gentle and thoughtful, and her frank personality made Huang Zongze have a different kind of affection for her;
Although Hu Xing'er also has a good feeling for Huang Zongze, based on the consideration of the actual situation, she still chooses to be a friend.
Things are not as Hu Xing'er imagined, this drama has not been filmed, Huang Zongze launched a "onslaught" on Hu Xing'er.
He first confessed affectionately, but Hu Xing'er felt that what he was saying was a joke and ignored him;
In the adult world, not responding is rejecting.
The rejected Huang Zongze's desire to conquer in his heart exploded, and he was more attentive to Hu Xing'er, sometimes sending more than a dozen meat and hemp text messages a day;
In addition, Huang Zongze calls Hu Xing'er every day to share daily interesting things, and almost always boo her and greet her.
Huang Zongze knows that Hu Xing'er likes flowers, so every morning at the same time, Hu Xing'er can always receive Huang Zongze's flowers;
And no matter where Hu Xing'er goes and no matter what she wants to eat, Huang Zongze will appear in front of her with food in the shortest possible time;
It can be said that almost everything that Hu Xing'er does, Huang Zongze regards as the first thing that matters.
Hu Xing'er was a little moved, she felt that Huang Zongze was so attached to her, that feelings for them must be serious, and the two came together in this way.
However, the actors at that time were forced by the pressure of the company and were not allowed to fall in love openly, and Huang Zongze and Hu Xing'er were naturally no exception.
Not long after, the broadcast of the film and television drama "My Savage Mother-in-Law" raised their careers to a new stage.
The feelings of Hu Xing'er and Huang Zongze cannot be made public, and both of them decide to carry out "underground love" for the sake of each other's career considerations;
As everyone knows, the love affair between the two of them has become a secret known to everyone.
After Hu Xing'er and Huang Zongze's careers have reached a higher level, the daily interviews, activities and other arrangements can be described as countless;
Although the two were asked by the media whether they were real lovers, the two people always played sloppy;
Huang Zongze always avoids this problem by changing the topic, and Hu Xing'er uses a laughing method to avoid the problem.
But the media can always find clues to the two.
At an event, Hu Xing'er and Huang Zongze knelt together to pay tribute to the "mother-in-law" Wang Mingquan, although it may be necessary for the activity, but the smiles on the faces of the two people made people feel that they were from the heart.
After that, a magazine invited the two to take wedding photos as lovers, and as soon as the photos came out, the outside world shouted: "Too good match!" ”
More netizens said bluntly: "The look in each other's eyes is not innocent at all." ”
Not long after the shooting of the magazine, Hu Xing'er and Huang Zongze came out together with their exclusive love songs;
It was also in this year that Hu Xing'er was exposed by the media, and she spent 16 million yuan to buy the house under Huang Zongze;
Not long after, Huang Zongze bought the house next door to Hu Xing'er, opened two floors, pressed the private elevator, and the two began an 8-year cohabitation life.
04
Before they were together, Huang Zongze was very considerate of her, but he didn't know when it started, and the status of the two slowly reversed.
Maybe Hu Xing'er didn't notice it, or maybe she didn't care at all.
At this time, Hu Xing'er only thought about how to make her life better and better with Huang Zongze, even if she paid a little more, she did not complain, only hoping that her boyfriend could be as sweet and sweet as an ordinary couple, and she would be satisfied with her husband.
In addition to the expectations in the heart, it is more of an expression of action.
After falling in love, Hu Xing'er was very considerate to Huang Zongze and was not concerned about his food, clothing, housing and transportation.
Especially after the two lived together, Hu Xing'er learned to cook vegetable soup and take care of housework for her beloved man in addition to busy work.
Sometimes Hu Xing'er went home after filming and found that her boyfriend was drunk unconscious in a nightclub, and the family was in a mess, and she was very angry;
At the beginning, Huang Zongze would patiently coax her, but later, with the long time together, Huang Zongze gradually lost patience every time he saw Hu Xing'er fooling around, so he took care of himself and slept up, and the two of them quarreled because of this many times;
However, the next morning, Hu Xing'er, regardless of the previous suspicions, would still make a stomach porridge for Huang Zongze and help him massage to relieve his headache.
Although the days of quarrel made Hu Xing'er feel very difficult, as long as she thought of the scene of Huang Zongze proposing to her in her mind, she was still looking forward to life.
However, Huang Zongze did not act in the slightest.
Not only Is Hu Xing'er anxious, but the majority of fans and the media are also anxious for Hu Xing'er.
Therefore, as long as the media has the opportunity to interview Huang Zongze, it will urge him to ask him about the wedding date of the two.
Huang Zongze's answer was: "Work is too busy, wait a while." ”；
It is: "When I get the Emperor of Vision, I will get married after buying a re-examination building." ”
However, Huang Zongze's promise has not been fulfilled.
Until 2011, after Hu Xing'er got the three material shadows, she felt that at this time, her career achievements had reached the tone of her heart, and she could prepare for marriage;
Therefore, in addition to saying the acceptance speech on the stage, she made a deep confession to Huang Zongze:
"I know I have a lot of bad habits that are hard to bear, but you have them too, but I still hope we can go all the way."
Hu Xing'er hopes that after the award is over, Huang Zongze will propose to her;
The people in the audience, cheering and cheering, were waiting for Huang Zongze's response, but Huang Zongze kept hiding his embarrassment with laughter, did not act, and did not say: "Are you willing to marry me?" This is a similar statement.
Later, Huang Zongze said bluntly in an interview: "I have no intention of getting married." ”
Hu Xing'er may have been disappointed to the extreme, in 2012, she choked up and told the media: "I have no relationship with him anymore, bless each other." ”
As soon as this news came out, it shocked the entire entertainment circle, in fact, what made Hu Xing'er really despair was not that Hu Xing'er wanted to get married, and Huang Zongze did not react for a long time;
Instead, the two began to have bad feelings due to work reasons, and in the 8 years of love, most of them could not show love with honor;
In addition, Huang Zongze has not been interrupted by lace news since she fell in love, and Hu Xing'er can't get the sense of security she wants, so Hu Xing'er chooses to stop the loss in time.
Indeed, during the period when the two fell in love, Hu Xing'er chose to open one eye and close one eye again and again to her boyfriend's peach news.
In 2007, when Huang Zongze was filming "Storm of Hearts", he was repeatedly photographed by the media having dinner with actress Chen Fara;
Just when the media was preparing to interview hu Xing'er about how to view this matter, she also had a scandal with Feng Shaofeng;
Just when everyone thought that Hu Xing'er and Huang Zongze had said goodbye, the two collaborated again on "My Savage Grandma's Geshi Milk", and they were filmed by the media from the outside of the play to the inside.
Only then did the outside world understand that both of them were just gambling.
But not long after, at an event in 2008, Huang Zongze and Sima Yan, who had become a mother, kissed in public;
When the media asked Zhengfang Hu Xing'er with the freshest melon, she responded lightly: "The two of them are just friends, just drinking too much and playing together, not as serious as you think." ”
"Besides, he's an actor, and it's normal to be liked, I believe him."
This storm has not subsided, and another storm has risen.
In 2009, when Huang Zongze was filming "Journey to Pick a Star", he and Liang Jingqi were called "husbands and wives" both inside and outside the play;
Hu Xing'er, who heard the news, was very angry, and she wanted to cut off Huang Zongze, but Huang Zongze gave all his property to Hu Xing'er;
And under the persuasion of friends, Hu Xing'er believed that Huang Zongze was "painfully changing his former wrongs" this time, and she forgave him.
However, only 1 year later, Huang Zongze was exposed by the media and Ni Chenxi and his personal female assistant.
In the face of this, Hu Xing'er did not say anything, she still believed that as long as she was tolerant enough and believed in him, her boyfriend would turn back one day.
In addition, in 2011, Huang Zongze and actress Liu Yan spread a scandal.
However, Liu Yan took the initiative to stand up and deny this matter, she claimed: "Huang Zongze's contact information is not there, how can there be a scandal?" ”
In the face of such a variety of performances of her boyfriend, coupled with getting older and older, more inclined to be stable, this made Hu Xing'er's heart become more and more ice, and the idea of leaving was slowly firm, no longer nostalgic.
Hu Xing'er moved away from her and Huang Zongze's former love nest and announced their breakup to the outside world;
Huang Zongze realized the seriousness of the matter at this time, but he still felt that his girlfriend was playing a small temper.
He thought that this time, as before, sweet words would be able to coax Hu Xing'er back.
However, he waited for a day, two days, or even ten days and a half months, and the news sent by Huang Zongze was like a stone sinking into the sea, and Hu Xing'er did not respond at all.
Huang Zongze was a little flustered, and he hurriedly chose the wedding ring, but Hu Xing'er, who was broken, was still unmoved.
Later, he tried various ways, hoping that his girlfriend could come to his side, and he also told the media: he never thought of breaking up, he would wait for Hu Xing'er to come back, Hu Xing'er is my lifelong partner, no one can replace.
Even more borrowed from Le Yiling's mouth, he said to the outside world: Don't hurt Hu Xing'er, he can resist all things by himself.
From Huang Zongze's every move, it can be seen that he is actually reluctant to do so, but he did not cherish it at first, and now it is too late to regret it.
Slowly, Huang Zongze had to accept the fact that he and Hu Xing'er were separated, and in the second year of the breakup, he was rumored to be with the host Yang Zheng, but only 21 days later, the relationship between the two was declared over.
Later, Huang Zongze was successively reported several gossip girlfriends, but there was still no result.
Some people say that Hu Xing'er has become the root of a big tree in Huang Zongze's heart and cannot be shaken.
In a later program, when Huang Zongze was asked by the host about the criteria for choosing a mate, he did not mention Hu Xing'er, but the words were Hu Xing'er.
05
In 2015, Hu Xing'er finally walked out of the shadow of lost love and entered the marriage hall with Li Chengde, who had known each other for only 1 year.
Li Chengde, who is three years older than Hu Xing'er, is not an insider, is the owner of a headhunting company, and has invested in many nightclubs.
The two were introduced by friends, according to Hu Xing'er herself, the first time she and Li Chengde met, there was a feeling of seeing each other and hating the night, and they could talk very much;
In the course of the subsequent conversation, the more Hu Xing'er and Li Chengde knew about each other, the more they were attracted to each other.
Moreover, Li Chengde Huang Zongze is different, he cherishes such a person who is compatible with him, and when he met for three months, he bluntly expressed to Hu Xing'er that he wanted to marry her and spend his life together.
And Hu Xing'er, who has been floating in her feelings for a long time, her intuition tells herself: Li Chengde is the person who can work together for a lifetime.
She agreed, and less than 1 year after falling in love, Hu Xing'er took the initiative to announce her relationship to the outside world.
It turns out that she was right to promise Li Chengde that in this relationship with Li Chengde, she did not have to be wary of her boyfriend cheating, let alone worry about his life;
On the contrary, Li Chengde is more and more attentive to Hu Xing'er, giving her enough security to be a child in her feelings.
Lee showed off his affection on social media before taking the wedding at the end of 2015.
Hu Xing'er also sent an invitation to Huang Zongze, but during that time his father died and he was unable to attend.
In the four years after marriage, Hu Xing'er gave birth to three cute babies;
When she is struggling with her family and career, it is Li Chengde who makes her boldly pursue her career, and he is willing to be the man behind her.
From Hu Xing'er's state, works or dynamics, we can see her current happiness in life and marital love.
And Huang Zongze is now 41 years old, after separating from Hu Xing'er, although there are several relationships, but it has never been settled, like dandelions, where the wind blows where it falls.
Many people say: In the 8-year relationship between Huang Zongze and Hu Xing'er, even if he does not use a very expensive diamond ring, uses a paper folded ring, and proposes to Hu Xing'er, she will agree;
However, he repeatedly evaded, and finally lost the girl who accompanied him, and could only watch her marry someone else.
There is no regret medicine for everything in the world, and no one will always be waiting for you to come home.
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