As a man, you cannot be too arrogant, and if you want to die, you will make you crazy. This is a living example - Tang Bohu.
Many people think that Tang Bohu should be a rich and handsome man, who once married eight bai fumei, is the envy of everyone's rich children, and then finally lit Autumn Fragrance and returned home. In fact, in the real history of Tang Bohu, he did not have a family wealth, did not have these gentlemen, did not have a spring breeze, and did not have a confidant with a red face, and even in the end, he did not even have a decent home, some were just endless unsatisfactory, and there was sadness. He can be said to be the most tragic talent in the Ming Dynasty, his family was destroyed, his career was destroyed, and he had a life, but in the end he fell down all his life and died depressed.
What kind of person should the real Tang Bohu be? And what made him so miserable? Tang Yin, who was born in 1470, was the eldest in the family, and was born in the year of the tiger, so his name was Tang Bohu. His father was Tang Guangde, who ran a tavern and had a good business, but because the grade of the tavern was relatively low, the people who came in and out were some small people in the city. When Tang Bohu was born, his father had high expectations of him, hoping that he would be able to enter the family in the future, obtain a meritorious name, and honor his ancestors.
The so-called everything is inferior, only the reading is high. Therefore, when he was a child, his father threw Tang Yin into a private school to study. He was indeed more talented, and at the age of 16 he achieved talent in one fell swoop, when he also worshiped a painter, Zhou Chen, as a teacher, laying the foundation for his later paintings.
At that time, he and Zhu Zhishan, Wen Zhengming, and Xu Zhenqing were known as the four talents of Jiangnan. On weekdays, Tang Bohu ate and drank every day, drank and painted, and for this reason, in order to make him accept his heart, when he was 19 years old, he also married him a wife, surnamed Xu, which is Xu. The Xu family is very filial and obedient, and the home is also well-organized. Tang Bohu also loves him very much, and Tang Bohu at this time should be the highlight of his life, at this time he is successful in his career, and his family is also very happy.
However, fate is so impermanent that the unexpected is always unexpected. It was after he was 24 years old, in the year he was 25 years old, his family suffered great changes, first of all, his father died, then his mother died due to excessive grief, and then his wife died of difficult childbirth, the child died less than three days after birth, and finally one of his sisters also died, originally a lively family, and finally became his lonely person.
This kind of successive blows, so that Tang Bohu in the course of this year, the hearse in the home is one after another. He began to be depressed, and he numbed himself with wine every day. His friend Zhu Zhishan did not want Tang Bohu to be so depressed, so he advised him to study hard and take the meritorious examination in the future. Tang Bohu also thought in his heart, if I can get a meritorious name, it will be the best consolation for my father's spirit in heaven. So he spent a year, closed doors, reading the whole book.
At the age of 27, he went to take part in the scientific expedition, which was supposed to be a winner, because of his arrogant personality, and drank with a shorthand of his friend on the eve of the exam. The Ombudsman was so unaccustomed to such a thing that he was removed. However, the people of Suzhou are brilliant and cherish such talents as Tang Bohu, so everyone went to protect Tang Bohu, and Tang Bohu only broke through the rules and was recorded to participate in the township examination. Tang Bohu did not live up to these famous people in Suzhou, and in one fell swoop, he won the township to try to solve the yuan, became the first place in the whole of Suzhou, and for a time the name shocked the whole of Jiangnan. However, after Tang Bohu was lifted, he did not restrain himself, but instead became more and more addicted to the place of affair, drinking and having fun.
His friend Zhu Zhishan, Wen Zhengming persuaded him one after another, and the organization told him that Maxima could not look at the surface, but also look at its essence, and was proud for a while, but do not be crazy. Wen Zhengming wrote to tell him that I heard my father say this about you, saying that you are very talented, but you are too frivolous and crazy, and I am afraid that I will not achieve anything in the future. Tang Bohu not only did not listen to the persuasion of his friends, but also used harsh and harsh words to reply to them, he replied that Wen Zhengming said so, I was born like this, you see I am not pleasing to the eye, can you not make friends with me? If you look at Tang Bohu, even if he doesn't appreciate it, he still has to break off relations with his friends.
As the saying goes, people are crazy and have disasters, and this sentence was fulfilled in Tang Bohu's body. What happened next made his life suddenly fall to the bottom. When Tang Bohu entered Beijing to take the exam, he met Xu Jing, the person who ruined his life. The point here is that Xu Jing has a descendant named Xu Xiake, who is the grandfather of our tour guide. Xu Jing is a proper rich second generation, the family is very rich, he is also a loyal fan of Tang Bohu, met Tang Bohu is naturally three years of luck, so he arranged all the expenses of Tang Bohu, the two people just walked all the way, all the way to the capital very leisurely and happily.
After Tang Bohu finished the exam, Zhang's crazy characteristics were shown again, and at the banquet after the exam, when everyone was discussing who could get the first exam, he was surprised and said, you all don't argue anymore, the first must be mine, the result, that year's exam questions were leaked, Xu Jing was the main criminal, he spent money to buy the main examiner, so the chief examiner and Xu Jing went to prison together. However, because Tang Bohu had a very good relationship with Xu Jing, the main reason was because he was drunk and spoke wildly, which brought him disaster. Since you said that the opposite side was the opposite of you, since you said that you were the first to say that you were the first before the answer was revealed, so the imperial court also arrested him in order to avoid this public opinion, in fact, this is an unjust case, but there is no way, the imperial court still deprived him of this right to be an official for life, only for profit.
Tang Bohu's great future was thus buried, and he rolled up and returned to his hometown in Jiangsu. In the past, the people were all smiling and welcoming him, but now it is different, bringing a bad reputation to his family, so they are all white-eyed and sneering. His second wife also saw that he might have no future and could not support himself, so he also abandoned Tang Bohu. It was in the face of such a cruel reality that Tang Bohu was completely desperate.
Since then, he no longer believes in the words of the sages, nor does he believe in the cold window of hard reading, he has no dreams, no pursuits, he can only rely on drunken dreams to paralyze himself, began to indulge in wine every day, in and out of brothels large and small, relying on his own talent, but also did charm a lot of merry women, and then he lost his last family foundation, only to be able to sell paintings for a living, he has Tang Bohu, a painting artist we are very familiar with, so he is a talent of poetry and painting.
Although Tang Bohu was very depressed, the 40-year-old still waited for such an opportunity. The emperor's uncle King Ning spent a lot of money to hire him to serve as an aide to the palace of King Ning. Tang Bohu felt as if he had met Bo Le, and as soon as he arrived at the Ning King's Mansion in Nanchang City, the King of Ning actually recruited troops and horses at this time and prepared to rebel. Although Tang Bohu was a wandering skeleton, she could still figure it out clearly in the face of great right and wrong. He knew it was the crime of killing his head, but he wanted to come out and know so many secrets, what to do? He could only rely on pretending to be crazy and selling stupidity, eating and drinking urine every day, and from time to time he went naked to run around, and also violated these good family women, making the whole City of Nanchang unrestful. King Ning also lost all face, and King Ning was in a hurry and kicked him out of the Palace of Ning and drove him out of his own palace.
Later, King Ning did rebel, of course, he also failed, and many people were killed. Tang Bohu saved his own small life and let you down when he gave you hope. There is nothing more desperate in the world than this. Since then, Tang Bohu has completely degenerated, he has spent all his money, and his friends can only give him crowdfunding to buy a dilapidated house outside the city. Tang Bohu also gave this dilapidated house a very nice name, Peach Blossom Temple.
When we were children, when we watched Tang Bohu dot autumn incense, we saw this poem, "Peach Blossom In peach blossom wood, peach blossom fairy under peach blossom temple, peach blossom fairy planted peach tree, and then picked peach blossoms for wine money." At that time, I thought that this poem was very leisurely and elegant, but in fact, he was a transformation of a very tragic life, how much wine money could peach blossoms exchange for? There was really no way, he often couldn't eat for several days.
But even when his life was on the dead end, he also ushered in the peak period of his paintings, his artwork was his only spiritual sustenance, and his later works could always reflect his expectation of the beauty of life, in fact, at this time he was under one of the most tragic circumstances in life. Just as the so-called "the world laughs at me for being too crazy, I laugh at others who can't see through it, I don't see the tomb of Wuling Haojie, and there is no flower and no wine to hoe the field."
Tang Yin Buxi diagram
The days passed like this day by day. At the age of 53, she fell seriously ill. On a snowy night, he wrote a desperate poem before his death: "Born in the sun and scattered, why not return to the mansion when you die." The Yang Dynasty is similar, only when drifting in a foreign land." The general meaning of this poem is that in fact, the Yangjian and the Difu are the same, as if the world is so big that there is no place for me Tang Yin alone.
Soon after, he left the world he had been joking with. After his death, there was no money in the family to erect a monument to him, or his good friend raised money to erect a monument for him, which wrote about the tomb of Tang Xieyuan, the most proud title in his life. The fate of Tang Bohu's life was very bumpy, and his heart should also be extremely painful, and his life that could have soared was ruined on top of a drunken speech of his own.
Therefore, when we are doing things, we can't be too crazy, there is rain in the sky, there are disasters in people's madness, keep a low profile, know how to stop at the right time, in order to be able to not panic in case of trouble, to be able to calmly deal with it.