Recently, TVB generation goddess Xuanxuan is rarely on the show.
Talking about his feelings with Gu Tianle, the response to the two getting along is like brothers:
"I think I'm half a man, he's half a man when I'm half a man."
Coincidentally, the other day Gu Tianle was also asked by fans: "If Xuanxuan and Li Ruotong fell into the water at the same time, who would you save first?" ”
Gu Zai did not have any partiality and ambiguity, and solved the problem with a sentence of "I can't swim, I may want them to save", and high emotional intelligence.
A relationship that countless viewers will never forget for 28 years, and finally ended in friendship.
But their casual jokes about each other's daily life, let us see that the confidant is far more moving than love.
Xuan Xuan said that she can't swim on camera, so Gu Zai don't expect her to save you
Even for Gu Tianle to promote the new movie, Xuanxuan also specially picked the Tanabata card point 1413 to release, Gu Tianle also replied to bo "love you more than a lifetime."
Such an official "Xuan" friendship candy has been at least 3 times in the past two years.
Compared with Gu Xuan, Gigi feels that Xuan Xuan, who is now 52 years old and single and lives at will, can poke me harder.
In the program, she talked about her expectations for feelings and her perception of life, transparent and sober:
"When I was 30 years old, I felt that the golden age had passed, and when I was 40 years old, I felt that [life] had just begun, it was a new and good start, and at the age of 50, I felt that I was looking forward to enjoying life." 」
First of all, let's talk about Xuanxuan, the first half of her life can be described as smooth sailing.
At the age of 21, he was excavated by star scouts to shoot dramas, and took turns to star in popular dramas, creating countless classic roles; After winning the TV at the age of 29, he became one of the top five famous bosses of TVB in the 90s.
But the truth that there is no hundred days of red, Xuanxuan has long understood:
"At night when I was 29 to 30 years old, I really cried and I felt like my golden age was over. It is marriage or something, it should be at that stage, it has already passed, what to do? I cried. ”
After crying, Xuanxuan was not in a hurry to marry and have a child.
At that time, she was in love with Rong Wenhan, the nephew of chairman of CITIC Group Taifu, who asked her to give up her career and marry as a kotai.
She refused, and the two, who had been in love for six years, broke up peacefully.
For the matter of filming, Xuanxuan really likes it.
At that time, there were TVB executives who came to visit the class, and the whole process only surrounded the male actors to ask for warmth, and they did not give Xuanxuan one in their eyes.
In their view, the destination of actresses is to get married and have children, and they do not have to waste more resources.
She stood up and retorted: No, I can always act.
The fact is that when a new batch of Huadan emerges, Xuanxuan, who is in his 40s, can only leave TVB and go north to develop and look for more job opportunities.
However, she repeatedly did not accept filming in the mainland, coupled with thyroid disease, her body uncontrollably became fat and out of shape, and her workload was suddenly reduced, and her life seemed to be going downhill.
Hong Kong media mocked her as an elderly leftover woman who was not married, and at that time, the agent also gave her a workplace PUA:
"You're old and fat, don't be an actor anymore, change careers and find another job."
This blow is undoubtedly heavy.
But after a short period of loss, Xuanxuan looked at herself in the mirror and still did not want to give up:
"I accept that actresses will work less as they get older, but it's not there yet, I can't be an actor anymore. Every play has the role of mother and mother-in-law, as long as you are willing to play, there will be a role to play. ”
In the years when everyone was not optimistic about her, she silently went to the gym, to study, and let her face rejuvenate.
In 2017, Xuan Xuan returned gorgeously with a "Woman Who Doesn't Know How to Be Spoiled", winning the Malaysian view in one fell swoop and punching everyone in the face.
Hong Kong media praised her for 18 years and then took the view, and staged a counterattack script for herself.
How many awards to win, or what kind of height to reach, is the standard that the outside world is used to judging an actor.
But Xuanxuan never thought about it.
In her more than half a hundred years old, we see more of a natural and spontaneous behavior.
The audience loves the female elite role she created, but she is tired of playing a repetitive character, so in "Top Gun Master Sister 2020" to play an unpleasant middle-aged silly white sweet, she is also willing to try;
When she was young, she gave up her dream of filming in order to make dramas, which was once a regret in her heart.
Therefore, I was fortunate to "continue the frontier" with Gu Tianle, signed a contract with his company, and fulfilled the dream of the movie as desired, and she was happy to have many scenes;
For live broadcasts that have no contact, she is full of curiosity to explore and bring goods with the mentality of sharing with fans.
In unfamiliar areas, we still maintain a responsible working attitude, personally participate in the selection of products, and will only recommend them after trial.
"When I was 49, I sat there again and cried and thought I was finished. But strangely enough, by the night of 50, I was very much looking forward to 50 years old and could enjoy everything I had done before. Once upon a time, I felt that feelings could also be unwanted, work was the first, and now I was enjoying life. ”
For age, Xuanxuan is not completely without anxiety.
But after crying bitterly, you can still start again.
If there is a job, then work hard; When you don't have a job, enjoy life.
Climbing, fitness, listening to concerts, how happy how to come.
The outside world put on the hat of "golden leftover woman", and she is still not hurried or slow.
You will have a vision of your feelings like a girl, but you must get married.
Xuanxuan, 52, single, is enjoying the second act of her life.
If you like curiosity, you will try it boldly, even if you are not optimistic, even if you fail, what does it matter?
Anyway, at the end of the day, the most important thing is to be happy.
In fact, not only Xuanxuan, those goddesses of her contemporaries are really more wonderful than one.
Zhang Keyi, who belongs to tvb five major flower dan with Xuanxuan, is also 52 years old this year and is also single.
The fates of the two are also surprisingly similar.
They are all young and unintentional to break into the entertainment circle by mistake, and as a result, they accidentally become popular in half the sky, and they get awards and get soft hands.
People are seriously ill in middle age, and Zhang Keyi has also experienced it.
In 2004, she went north to shoot "Long Hate Song", tired to suffer from thyroid secretion disorders (this disease is also a natural enemy of the actor).
At first, her neck and face were swollen, and then her heart beat faster, and the doctor told her: If you can't do it, you will have to treat it for ten years and eight years.
Zhang Keyi's mentality exploded, and depression followed. In desperation, she could only withdraw from the circle and concentrate on treatment.
After a few years of recuperation, she was relaxed like never before, and her temperament slowly became peaceful.
But returning to the entertainment circle after being sick cannot avoid being reduced from a heroine to a supporting role.
Fortunately, the strength of the former visual queen is still not to be underestimated, and every role has been played, which has been able to pick up the omission to play the heroine of "Forensic Pioneer 3" and regain a foothold in TVB.
It was not easy to make a successful comeback, and she was tragically banned by the high-level because she publicly complained that "TVB salary is low and rest is small".
But Zhang Keyi doesn't care, bye bye bye, next more obedient.
She ran to the next station ViuTv to shoot a drama, 50-year-old style does not change, a smile does not lose its agility, still won the audience applause.
She even opened a production company as a CEO, and slowly turned to the backstage to promote newcomers.
Hong Kong media marveled that she was 50 years old and had the energy to change tracks and run, she smiled and replied:
"As long as I am willing to grasp and create, life is constantly going to have turning points, my advantage is single, change is not a burden on me, then I can practice what I want to do, 50 years old to have so many breakthroughs, in fact, everyone has a different experience." 」
As for love, for Zhang Keyi, whose career is supreme, it is even more indifferent.
From Dong Bo, the chairman of the boss company, to Zeng Anbang, a financial talent with a net worth of 1 billion, she has twice refused to marry a tycoon, admitting that she just can't let go of her career.
"Treat yourself well, love and love, don't wait for anyone to love, always be the most dazzling queen."
Zhang Ke, who is now 52 years old, is alone, but he lives a wonderful and free life.
Climbing mountains, playing tennis, doing yoga, painting and appreciating in his spare time, traveling with friends, and occasionally taking time to shoot scenes, I am not comfortable.
Xuan Xuan and Zhang Keyi firmly chose the latter in the contest of feelings and careers.
But there are also many people who are willing to suffer for love.
Chen Huishan, who is also one of the five major flower dans, found the love of her life and chose to get married and quit the circle.
At the age of 44, he made a comeback due to her husband's bankruptcy, sold cars and houses, earned money to support her family, and had to bear the pain of deafness in her right ear due to an accident.
Mocked as "the money-making husband is too depressed", she never responded, silently pursued a doctorate in education, and constantly enriched herself.
Today, she has entered the education industry, first working as an English teacher at an institution, and then focusing on educational programs. Invited his friend Xuan Xuan to the show to talk about the study abroad experience, and the two people who did not apply powder let everyone see another kind of beauty.
At the end of last year, Chen Huishan, who had not appeared for a long time, rarely participated in concerts, and the 51-year-old generously confessed her transformation over the years:
"Every day, learn to be a better person, have the courage to jump out of the comfort zone, and don't think that you are afraid of failure and mistakes and not try."
There is also Li Ruotong, who was once a love brain, retired for ten years at the peak of love, tolerated everywhere, but was tragically abandoned by the man.
After ten years of love, she experienced the blow of her father's serious illness and death, and she was depressed for three full years.
While actively treating, she relied on daily crazy fitness to get out of the pain, and also practiced a good figure, becoming a self-discipline goddess in everyone's mind.
Returning to the entertainment industry, she no longer clings to her feelings, finds her true self, and becomes more abundant in her heart.
Now 56 years old, she feels that the moment is her beautiful moment, enjoying filming, enjoying fitness, and enjoying being single.
Looking back at the dark times of the past, she confessed in her autobiography "Good Life":
"In this life, some roads are destined to be taken by themselves. But as soon as you step out, you will be greeted by light and hope. ”
Whether it is Xuan Xuan, Zhang Keyi, Chen Huishan, Li Ruotong, from their ups and downs of life, I see the common epitome of this generation of goddesses, as well as the unchanging tenacity background:
They are all in their 20s at the right age to gain fame and fortune, and when they are 30+, they will also face the dilemma of love and career;
When 40+ encountered mid-life crises such as career, feelings, and diseases, they did not bow to fate, but silently prepared to usher in the wonderful second half of their lives;
At the age of 50+ years of knowing the destiny, they still maintain a strong vitality, full of curiosity about the world, and discover everything unknown.
Age, frustration, feelings... It was never the shackles that trapped them in their efforts to move upwards.
They firmly believe in their choices and believe that new strength can burst out of life at any time.
Such a firm way of living for yourself and not compromising with life is the real heroine.
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Editor-in-Charge / Nyūrō Locsan
Edited by / Tahki