In an interview, Li Guyi once said that he had three shames in his life:
"One is to be ashamed of my father, who is in his 90s, and I did not give him filial piety; The second is to be ashamed of the husband and fail to fulfill the responsibility of the wife; The third is to be ashamed of her daughter, who did not take enough care of her when she needed maternal love. ”
After learning about Li Guyi's life, friends who like her can't help but cry for her words.
Born in Kunming, Yunnan Province, Li Guyi entered the Hunan Provincial Flower Drum Drama Theater at the age of 17 and is a famous soprano singer and a national first-class actor.
Her most classic song is "Unforgettable Tonight".
From 1984 to 2021, the song "Unforgettable Tonight" has become a must-have song at the end of the Spring Festival Gala.
Every year at the Spring Festival Gala, there must be Li Guyi and the song "Unforgettable Tonight" to be complete.
Everyone thinks that "Unforgettable Tonight" is an ending song, but Li Guyi has her own opinion, and she doesn't think it's the end.
Instead, it's a new song looking ahead to next year.
Although Li Guyi's career is brilliant, his life is full of ups and downs.
She once said with great emotion: "I have been practicing art for more than 40 years, and it is not easy to bump into things, and I have tasted everything in my life."
Indeed, it was not easy for Li Gu to marry his mentor one by one, sing the so-called "forbidden song", and confront Wei Wei in court.
Li Gu inherited the famous singer Jin Tielin.
Although the two are teacher-student relations, the age difference is not large, only 4 years old.
Jin Tielin can say that "peach and plum are all over the world", song zuying, Yan Weiwen, Dai Yuqiang, Li Ming and other singers are his students.
Li Guyi was also his proud protégé.
During Li Guyi's study with Jin Tielin, although his singing career was booming, there were also subtle changes between the two.
Over time, the relationship between teachers and students evolved into a male and female relationship.
Although the outside world unanimously opposed the relationship between the two, Li Guyi still resolutely married his "mentor" Jin Tielin.
This also shows how free and uninhibited Li Guyi's personality is.
After marriage, Li Guyi and Jin Tielin have the same interests and hobbies, and the husband and wife are very happy, which can be said to be eyebrow-raising.
But the only regret is that the two have not had children.
They also considered going to see a doctor in the past, but they felt that they could not wipe their faces, and finally gave up the idea and wanted to go with the flow.
But there are no children as emotional bonds, and over time the estrangement gradually arises, after many times of careful consideration and long-term planning analysis.
Jin Tielin and Li Guyi went through the divorce procedures in a low-key manner.
After the divorce, the two had a new life.
Jin Tielin married Ma Qiuhua, who was 18 years younger than himself, and had a son, Jin Shengquan, and Li Guyi also married Xiao Zhuoneng, who was two years older.
And gave birth to a daughter Xiao Yi.
Xiao Zhuoneng is the kind of person who is known as the "Tiger Son of the Gate", and his father is the famous Xiao Jinguang.
As the saying goes, "the tiger father has no dog", although Xiao Zhuoneng is low-key, he also has his own achievements and is an elite talent.
Xiao Zhuoneng is a "hardcore fan" of Li Guyi.
The admiration for her was almost to the point of obsession and madness.
Every record of Li Guyi he treasured, and the ringtone of his mobile phone was also used in her song "Frontier Spring Water Is Clear and Pure".
Xiao Zhuoneng knew almost everything about Li Guyi's itinerary, and no matter where she performed, Xiao Zhuoneng pushed back the things at hand.
Follow all the way to the end.
This infatuation is really touching.
Previously, li Guyi's married identity had been hindered, Xiao Zhuo could hide his love in his heart, just wanting to silently protect her was enough.
But when he learned the news that Li Guyi was single, Xiao Zhuo could know that his opportunity had come, and he decided to summon up the courage to pursue happiness.
Xiao Zhuo's first brave step was to send a bouquet of flowers to the "goddess".
Unexpectedly, Li Guyi accepted it.
This made Xiao Zhuoneng ecstatic, but also gave him great encouragement, with the first time to send flowers, there will be a second time.
Once, twice, three times...
After more times, Li Guyi finally sensed the fan's intention for her.
At first, Li Guyi did not agree to Xiao Zhuoneng's various invitations, and always found various reasons to refuse, but Xiao Zhuoneng did not give up at all.
After a period of time, Li Guyi was gradually touched by Xiao Zhuoneng's sincerity, and she thought that acquaintance was a kind of fate.
That being the case, it is better to cherish it.
Fortunately, Li Guyi's choice was right, she found her true love and held the happiness of her life.
In 1976, Li Guyi married Xiao Zhuoneng, and the love crystallization of the two was born a year after marriage.
The couple named their daughter "Xiao Yi".
The name seems simple, taking a word from the names of Li Guyi and Xiao Zhuoneng, but it is actually very meaningful.
There is the meaning of love from one end to the end, never to abandon, single-mindedly.
In fact, the relationship between Li Guyi and Xiao Zhuoneng is also the same, the two have been together for more than 40 years, and they have hardly ever had a red face.
Xiao Zhuoneng was distressed by Li Guyi's hard work and tried to persuade her to return to her family, but Li Guyi was unwilling to give up the career he loved.
Xiao Zhuoneng took the initiative to take on the burden of taking care of the family and children, so that Li Guyi could work hard without worries.
There are gains and losses, and fish and bear paws cannot be both.
It is precisely because Li Gu is focused on her career one by one, her family has become an irreparable regret in her heart.
In addition to not fulfilling his responsibilities as a daughter and wife, Li Guyi was also full of guilt for his daughter Xiao Yi.
Xiao Yi has seen her mother a few times since she became sensible, and she is often placed by her mother at the home of colleagues and relatives.
When the time comes, go and pick her up again.
Once, Xiao Yi was sent to a distant relative's house, and it took a whole year for her mother to take her home.
As a young child, she squatted at the window every day, looking out with her eyes, hoping that her mother's figure would appear sooner.
Xiao Zhuoneng was also very distressed about his daughter, but his work was also involuntary.
When Xiao Yi grew up and mentioned her childhood, she would have a little "indignant" meaning, and there were two things in her memory that made her remember deeply.
The first thing was that when she was 5 years old, because of naughtiness, she broke her arm, and her father and grandmother took her to the hospital for the first time.
Xiao Yi cried in fright when he picked up the bone.
At that moment, she wished her mother could be by her side.
But it wasn't until a month later that Li Guyi took time to visit his daughter, and the moment he saw his mother, Xiao Yi cried out in grievance.
The second thing was that on Xiao's 8th birthday, she begged for a long time to hope that her mother would push off her job and go out with her for a day.
Li Guyi looked at the small eyes of his daughter's eyes and nodded in agreement.
But when the mother and daughter went to the mall to play, some fans recognized Li Guyi, and she shouted excitedly, and suddenly dozens of people gathered around.
Everyone gathered around Li Guyi, shook hands with her, asked for a group photo, and signed an autograph, and everyone looked particularly excited and excited.
Xiao Yi was squeezed to the side by the crowd.
She looked at her mother, surrounded by fans, tears of grievance swirled in her eyes, and xiao Yi could no longer bear to lose her temper with her mother after she returned.
She questioned Li Guyi, "I am not your own child, why do you not care about me at all, why am I your daughter?"
Xiao Yi's words stung Li Guyi, and she didn't know how to explain it to her daughter, but could only persuade her: "When you grow up, you will understand."
Xiao Yi developed a grudge against her mother, and she was reluctant to mention her mother to others, calling her "Teacher Li" like others. ”
This is called more than ten years.
In the resentment and incomprehension of his mother, Xiao Yi grew up.
But when she talked about her mother again, she seemed calm, and she said, "Actually, she's not easy."
Perhaps it was Xiao Yi who finally understood the bitterness behind her mother's glory and understood her mother's responsibility that she would say such a thing.
As early as 1980, Li Guyi combined the Western vocal method with our national singing method to launch a song called "Nostalgia".
At that time, this song was called "the sound of silence", which was criticized by the literary and art circles by name, and the outside world regarded it as a "forbidden song".
But Li Guyi was very aggrieved, this is obviously a very pure song, how can it not be recognized and accepted.
This incident caused Li Guyi to suffer a big blow, she did not want to go out, hid in the house all day, quietly shed tears.
But a good song is a good song, will not be buried because of "prejudice", in 1983, the first Spring Festival Gala, the scene opened an on-demand hotline.
Unexpectedly, the 4 hotlines all asked Li Guyi to sing "Nostalgia", which can be imagined how popular this song is.
In the end, after discussion, Li Guyi successfully sang "Nostalgia", which also means that the song was officially "unbanned".
This move, which was seen as a popular song, finally gained respect.
Xiao Yi remembered that after her mother came home in the middle of the night, she gently woke her up with her father and ate Chinese New Year's Eve meal together.
Mother also drank a glass of red wine.
In Xiao Yi's memory, her mother seemed to be so relieved to smile for the first time, and she began to understand that her mother was born for music.
Perhaps as Li Guyi said: he "every zero and one disaster".
In 1980, Li Guyi was criticized for "Nostalgia";
In 1990, Li Guyi and Wei Wei fought a lawsuit;
In 2000, Li Guyi fought a lawsuit with the Oriental Song and Dance Troupe.
Li Guyi sighed quite emotionally: "Other actors have a smooth life, so why do I have a lot of ups and downs?"
Xiao Zhuo could not bear his wife's sadness and comforted her: "It is precisely because of your ups and downs that the singing voice is more profound."
Life is enough to have a confidant!
What's more, this confidant is his own husband, and Li Guyi is lucky and contented on the whole.
However, it is a pity that Xiao Zhuoneng died of illness at the age of 81 and left Li Guyi and their daughter Xiao Yi forever.
The death of her husband made Li Guyi feel sad.
She said to her daughter, "I've been busy all my life and paid too little to your dad, and now I understand that no amount of honor can match your dad's loving look."
Looking back on the life of Li Guyi and Xiao Zhuoneng who knew, knew, and loved each other, it was really envious of others, and the feelings of the two of them.
I'm afraid it has already surpassed life and death.
Now that Li Guyi is 78 years old, she is still active in the music scene.
Although he has a particularly high achievement, he does not have too many expectations for his daughter Xiao Yi and Li Guyi.
She said, "They all do celebrities, who do ordinary people."
Li Guyi's soberness deserves the praise of many people.
Influenced by her mother, Xiao Yi is also a very low-key girl, after graduating from college, she entered the CCTV work because of the work relationship.
Xiao Yi inevitably dealt with his mother.
But every time she meets Xiao Yi, she tries to "avoid suspicion", she never mentions the mother-daughter relationship with Li Guyi, nor does she rely on her mother to take shortcuts.
After the death of her father, Xiao Yi became particularly sensible, she would take her mother out to visit the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, and would also ask friends to have a small gathering with her mother.
The daughter's sensible filial piety made Li Guyi very pleased.
Thanks to the company of his daughter, Li Guyi's life was enriched and colorful, and the smiles on his face were getting more and more.
In 2022, Li Guyi still sang the familiar "Unforgettable Tonight" on the Spring Festival Gala stage, while the lyricist of this song, Mr. Qiao Yu, died of illness this year.
In addition to "Unforgettable Tonight", Mr. Qiao Yu's representative works include "Let's Swing the Oars" and "Liu Sanjie".
Mr. Qiao Yu once said: "The song 'Unforgettable Tonight' was hummed out of wine, and it didn't cost any effort."
But as everyone knows, this "not much effort" song has been sung for decades, and it has become a symbol of the Spring Festival Gala.
The death of Mr. Qiao Yu made Li Guyi sad.
She mourned her partner on social software.
The green mountains are still there, but people will grow old.
Mr. Qiao Yu has passed away, and Li Guyi is also old, but what will not grow old is the inheritance of culture and our national spirit.