Wen 丨 lemon one
Editor 丨 Entertainment Auntie
Dong Yong is a famous actor who is very popular at home, and it is his marriage that gives the family a headache.
One day, my sister-in-law caught a chance with a girl and forced him to go on a blind date.
"Dong Yong, I introduced you to a little girl, tomorrow you go on a blind date."
"Sister-in-law, how many times have I said that I don't go on a blind date, and in this life, I've been with a dog."
"Are you going?" You don't go to me with your brother, and your parents are holding you up! ”
Hearing his sister-in-law say this, Dong Yong also instigated: "Be well, I will go, but we can say well, if this time is not successful, you are not allowed to introduce me to the object in the future." ”
Although he agreed with his mouth, Dong Yong thought in his heart, when they meet tomorrow, don't care how the other party is, he said that the two are not suitable.
In this way, the family will not introduce him to the object in the future.
Unexpectedly, the next day, Dong Yong just returned home after meeting, and before his family could ask him how the result was, he first said: "Mom, when do you think it is appropriate for me to make a happy wine?" ”
The family was stunned, this and this, this and this, this change is also too fast.
What is the charm of the girl who is close to him, which can make Dong Yong, who has made up his mind to live with a pet for a lifetime, change his mind in an instant?
1
Dong Yong was born in 1968 to a military family in Hangzhou.
He also has an older brother and an older sister above him, and he is the oldest man in the family.
Therefore, although the family atmosphere is more serious, with his brother and sister blocking the gun, Dong Yong's life can be said to be tasteful.
This also contributed to his mischievous personality.
Either go down to the river with your friends to fish, or smash people's glass when playing football with your peers.
Every time he made a mistake, he hid behind his brother and sister, and his parents could only get angry.
The negative impact of this mischievous trick is that he did not get very good grades in culture classes since he was a child.
This is embarrassing.
My brothers and sisters are all the heroes in the school, the kind who go home every day to get awards.
Dong Yong, on the other hand, was invited to parents at both ends for three days.
The teacher said, "Dong Yong, Dong Yong, if only you had half the seriousness of your brother and sister." ”
Not only was the teacher worried, but his family was also worried about his situation.
Parents feel that in this case of the younger son, they will basically have no chance to learn in the future, and they must think of a way out for him.
Just when my sister came home from school, Yang said with the newspaper in her hand: "The Chinese Opera Academy has come to Hangzhou to enroll, let Xiao Yong try it." ”
Parents shook their heads after listening to it, they think, just like their sons, can they withstand the boredom of learning drama?
Besides, opera is a skill, don't you know what kind of son he is?
Don't say that you have a foundation, go to the house and don't let people retreat.
Thinking about it, my parents still felt that this road would not work.
Until Dong Yong came back from playing outside, saw the newspaper on the table, and picked it up with some curiosity: "What is this?" ”
His sister teased him while explaining to him: "This is an admissions advertisement for the Xiqu Academy, do you want to go?" ”
Dong Yong seemed to understand: "Xiqu Academy? Is it a singing after it comes out? ”
The sister nodded, "Yes, not only can I sing, but I can also go on TV." ”
Hearing this, Dong Yong tilted his head and turned to his parents: "Then I will also go." ”
My parents replied without anger: "Learning drama is very hard, can you eat that pain?" ”
Dong Yong didn't know where the determination came from: "I can." ”
The parents still wanted to stop it, and the sister hurriedly persuaded: "Parents, let Xiao Yong try it, pass the best, but we have nothing to lose." ”
The parents thought it made sense and decided to let him sign up first.
On the day of the interview, his sister went with him, and when they arrived, they found that the scene was crowded, but in the end only 9 people were recruited.
Adhering to the principle of coming and going, Dong Yong still completed every round of examinations.
As a result, he became one of the 9 people.
Since then, Dong Yong, who is only ten years old, has left his parents and gone north to study alone.
This study is 7 years.
As the saying goes: one minute on stage, ten years offstage. But anyone who knows a little about opera knows that behind every opera actor is countless bitterness and sweat.
Once, Dong Yong really couldn't stand the days of practicing every day and secretly ran back home.
As a result, before entering the house, I met my sister who had just returned home, and I was sent back to school by my sister.
Although Dong Yong also had the behavior of "escaping", in general, he still liked the life of the Xiqu Academy.
Because every time he opened his voice, he could get praise from the teacher.
The family did not expect that the son who could not do anything was actually a good seedling who sang opera.
Dong Yong's talent soon came in handy.
At that time, china children's film studios were preparing to shoot the opera film "Yue Yun".
When he went to the Xiqu Academy to pick someone, the teacher directly recommended Dong Yong, who sang the best in the class, to the crew.
After the crew listened to Dong Yong's singing segment, they immediately clapped the board, and it was him.
At that time, Dong Yong did not know what it meant to shoot a drama.
I only remember what the teacher told him in his ear: This is a good opportunity, don't shame the school.
Dong Yong did not dare to live up to the teacher's advice, got up early every day to practice his voice, and finished work last at night.
On the day of the real start-up, Dong Yong came to the set early to wait, but was told that his image did not match, and the crew wanted to change people, but allowed him to stand behind the scenes and sing.
Dong Yong was angry and annoyed, and wanted to leave, but he remembered the teacher's advice.
Helplessly, he could only sing all the excerpts for the actor.
After the movie was broadcast, the actors who showed their faces became popular and were praised everywhere they went.
And Dong Yong, who really contributed, was not mentioned.
Frustrated, Dong Yong decided to leave Beijing and return to his family.
Because of his good theater skills, Dong Yong successfully entered the Zhejiang Peking Opera Troupe, became a Wusheng opera actor, and became a colleague with his brother and sister-in-law.
At that time, coinciding with the rise of martial arts dramas, many crews needed good kung fu actors.
Dong Yong looked at the dashing fight scenes in the movie and couldn't help but be moved.
He often wondered how nice it would be if he could appear on the screen with his kung fu.
When his brother and sister-in-law found out, they advised him to try it, in case he succeeded.
With the encouragement of his family, Dong Yong really took advantage of the break time to run from crew to crew, asking them if they needed martial arts actors.
However, many crews directly refused when they saw Dong Yong's image.
Finally, one day, when Dong Yong spoke again, a director said to him: "We need a martial arts stand-in, are you willing?" ”
See Dong Yong's face confused.
The director explained to him: "The stand-in just can't show your face, there is no name on the cast list, and in order to pursue the truth, we are all really fighting." ”
Dong Yong listened to these demands, which were very different from his imaginary martial arts actors.
But in order to complete his martial arts dream, he still gritted his teeth and agreed.
Because of his good kung fu, he never shouted bitterness and tiredness when filming, and soon won the favor of major martial arts directors.
Although he can still only be used as a stand-in, Dong Yong's scene is full of scenes.
However, his constant going out to pick up plays clashed with his own job in the opera troupe, and the troupe repeatedly ordered him not to go out to take the opera again.
Dong Yong thought about it and thought that his favorite thing was filming.
Therefore, he gritted his teeth, resigned his "iron rice bowl" in the theater troupe, and ran to Beijing to chase his dreams.
However, not long after resigning, Dong Yong discovered the difference between reality and ideals.
In the past, he worked as a martial arts stand-in to earn money because he still had a basic salary, and the two combined income was still considerable.
Now, he specializes in acting, and his income has become unstable.
If he doesn't start work one day, it means that he doesn't have a penny of income today, so he lives a very anxious life every day.
To make matters worse, within a few years, the martial arts film market declined, and Dong Yong could receive fewer scenes.
Under a series of blows, Dong Yong even had the idea of giving up his dream and returning to his hometown.
He poured bitter water with his sister, and was reprimanded by his sister.
His sister told him that since he chose to chase his dreams, he should stick to it, and now that he is back like this, what do you let others say?
Stimulated by his sister, Dong Yong's self-motivation was stimulated again.
He vowed to make a fool of himself for the others to see.
The reality, however, was that he was too poor to eat.
At this time, Liu Dan, the "Fragrant Concubine", extended a helping hand to him.
Dong Yong lived in "Xiangfei" for a month, and he relied on her for food, clothing, shelter and transportation, which allowed him to get through the difficulties.
Slowly, Dong Yong's career also improved.
In 2000, the first part of "Six Groups of Serious Cases" began filming, and the actors were openly selected.
Dong Yong also signed up.
But at that time, the director team thought it was best to find some retired police officers who had real experience in solving cases, so they rejected Dong Yong.
However, Li Chengru, who played Da Zeng, saw the pearl and felt that Dong Yong was good, and urged the director to leave him behind.
This is the Jiang Han that impressed everyone.
With the image of a "tough guy", Dong Yong became famous overnight, and since then the drama has continued.
The career is on the right track, and the family is happier than Dong Yong, especially the older brothers and sisters, who are happy that their younger brothers have finally survived.
But the joy did not last long, and Dong Yong suffered the biggest blow in his life.
2
In 2002, Dong Yong's sister died of illness, and from the onset of illness to his death, there was less than a week, which caught Dong Yong off guard.
It turned out that my sister had been taking diet pills in order to maintain her figure.
But diet pills have great side effects, hurting my sister's body, and by the time they notice it, it's too late.
Dong Yong's relationship with his sister has always been very good, and his sister's death has caused him a great blow.
For a long time, he was immersed in the pain of losing his loved ones.
But the roof leaked in the overnight rain, and it wasn't long before his wife also filed for divorce from him.
The wife is his first love, and the two have always had a good relationship before, but somehow, the wife suddenly filed for divorce.
Dong Yong, who was heartbroken, did not ask much, but just nodded his head numbly in agreement.
The successive blows made Dong Yong doubt the intimate relationship.
He felt that no matter how many people were related, they still had to lose in the end, and it was better to cut off the connection from the beginning.
Therefore, he made up his mind that he would never marry again in his life, only with his pets.
He had a dog, named Dodo.
Treating Duoduo, Dong Yong is more careful than many people taking care of their daughters.
Wherever he went, he had to bring his dog with him.
If the dog is tired of walking outside, he will carry the dog forward, preferring to be tired himself rather than let the dog get tired.
As for at home, dogs are even more lawless, sofas, beds and other "forbidden places", but also want to go up.
After a few years with dogs, Dong Yong felt that it was much more comfortable to get along with dogs than with people, and often said that he wanted to live with dogs for a lifetime.
There was no sign of remarriage.
This can make the family anxious, it is okay to have a dog, not to get married.
But Dong Yong had an iron heart not to marry, and he was not moved by his parents and brother-in-law's wear and tear on his lips.
No matter how many girls his family introduced to him, he could stir up blind dates.
In desperation, my sister-in-law had to ask him: "What do you really like?" ”
Dong Yong was playing with the dog at the time, and said casually: "It doesn't matter if you can't accept me, you can accept my dog." ”
Sister-in-law helpless, there were several girls before, but also quite like dogs, but seeing Dong Yong so careful to dogs, they couldn't help but retreat.
Suddenly, the sister-in-law's eyes lit up and she said to Dong Yong, "There is a girl in our theater, nine years younger than you, and I think you two are quite suitable." ”
As soon as he heard that he wanted to introduce himself to the object, Dong Yong refused without even thinking about it.
But my sister-in-law was very firm this time, and even said: "You must go on this blind date, if you don't go, my brother and I will tie you up." ”
Dong Yong had no choice but to agree.
But I thought about how to make the blind date fail.
But as soon as they met the next day, Dong Yong forgot his thoughts yesterday.
Because the girl in front of him is simply the same as his ideal.
This girl is Zheng Jiayan, a theatrical actor.
After the two kissed each other, Dong Yong was very satisfied, and even thought about setting up a few tables when they got married.
However, since eating, Zheng Jiayan seemed to have disappeared, never appeared in front of Dong Yong again, and never took the initiative to contact him.
Dong Yong sat in a difficult position, did not think about food all day, knocked on the side every day and asked his sister-in-law about Zheng Jiayan's situation.
The sister-in-law saw his thoughts and teased: "Don't ask me, you want to know her situation, you can just ask yourself." ”
Dong Yong also knew that this was his sister-in-law deliberately teasing him, but there was no way.
Suddenly, he had a clever move, he was embarrassed to ask, can you let the dog help to probe the other party's mind first.
So, he held the dog and knocked on Zheng Jiayan's door, saying that he was going to go out for a long trip and asked her to help take care of the dog for a week.
Zheng Jiayan agreed.
A week later, Dong Yong went to find Zheng Jiayan again in the name of taking back the dog, and found that the dog was particularly well taken care of by her.
Dong Yong liked her more now, and immediately confessed.
A few days later, he proposed marriage with great fanfare, and Zheng Jiayan shyly agreed.
Not long after, the daughter of the two was born, and at this time, Dong Yong was 47 years old.
He incarnated as a "daughter slave" and loved her very much, even in order to take care of her daughter wholeheartedly, he also entrusted the dogs he raised to his friends to take care of.
It is estimated that Dong Yong did not expect that he had planned not to marry for a lifetime, and he actually found his own happiness at the age of 46.
Remembering that a long time ago, the writer Tie Ning went to visit Bingxin.
Bing Xin asked her if she had a boyfriend, and Tie Ning shook her head.
Bing Xin said to her, "Don't worry, you have to wait." ”
This sentence is also appropriate now, how many people marry only because of their age, and as a result, it is not easy to live after marriage.
I hope that everyone can follow their hearts, fate comes to grasp, if it has not come, don't worry, wait.