According to Taiwan media reported on June 10, lin Xinru personally visited women and their young girls who suffered domestic violence recently, and shared her views on domestic violence and how couples get along in front of their children.
Lin Xinru said that as a mother, whenever there is a child abuse incident in the news, or even finds that the victim is a baby wrapped in swaddling, she can't bear to watch it, afraid that her emotions are out of control. "Children are meant to hurt, your own flesh and blood, how can you fight?!" She said, "Domestic violence is not only physical harm, but also verbal, mental, and economic control, which all belong to the category of domestic violence." "Mention that many people are afraid to speak out in the face of domestic violence. It may be because of the love of face, or it may be because money is controlled and there is no ability to live independently.
When it comes to domestic violence, Lin Xinru said that she and Huo Jianhua will not quarrel in front of their daughter.
It is reported that Lin Xinru and Huo Jianhua were married because of acting, and now they have a daughter. When talking about the way husband and wife get along, Lin Xinru shared his own experience, saying that there will be friction between husband and wife, and there will be some quarrels when getting along between husband and wife. He also said that quarrelling is not necessarily a bad thing to get along with. "But choose the right place and the right time. Never argue in front of your child. "It also means avoiding loud conversations, there is no possibility of physical conflict." Even if we shout loudly, we can't be in front of our children. "Lin Xinru attaches great importance to children's feelings, pointing out that after one or two conflicts, it is likely to cast a shadow on children." Why do my parents quarrel every day? Lin Xinru reminded everyone: "It is very important to lead by example. In front of children, try to lead by example and control your temper. ”
When it comes to domestic violence, Lin Xinru said that she and Huo Jianhua will not quarrel in front of their daughter.
In addition to quarrels, cold violence can also harm young children. Lin Xinru said that children are very sensitive, and children will definitely find the Cold War atmosphere of adults. "I feel that if mom and dad don't talk face to face, or don't eat together at the dinner table, it will make the child invisibly start to worry, and even blame themselves." In daily life, Lin Xinru and his other half will pay special attention to these points. "Everyone has a different temper and personality, and it is inevitable that there will be times when you don't want to lose your temper." Persuading everyone to take a small step back under one roof is really not a big problem. ”
In addition, when asked whether she has played a role in domestic violence, Lin Xinru pointed out that the "Li Yajun" played in the 2020 work "Who is the Victim" is the husband who has been abused by the family and has to take care of her illness. "It caused an extreme imbalance in her mind, which turned her from a victim to a perpetrator." I personally think she's quite psychopathic. She shook her head, smiled and said, "Not worth referencing!"
When it comes to domestic violence, Lin Xinru said that she and Huo Jianhua will not quarrel in front of their daughter.
Lin Xinru in "Who is the Victim"
Previously, Lin Xinru was questioned by netizens about having a second child after taking photos on social platforms. Lin Xinru generously responded to the questions of netizens.