(Source: Writer Fang Xiaoli)
(Image source: 1987 version of the "Dream of the Red Chamber" TV series, left is Xue Pan, played by Chen Honghai.) ）
"Don't Take Sexual Innuendo Seriously"
He fell out of love, but when he went to her trouble, she said, "Did I agree with you to be my boyfriend?" ”
He was furious and said, "You said it! You don't give others WeChat, only me, is an exception! ”
She laughed and said, "Yeah! I say so, but as long as I like the person, I go to take the initiative to contact, let him give me WeChat, don't you get it? ......”
At this moment, he was speechless!
It took him half a day before he said, "You don't mean that I'm tall, handsome, honest, different from the average man, although I don't have any money... And you also wrote me a lot of poems, which were also published in the circle of friends... Is this all fake? ”
She chuckled and said, "Actually! I'll be honest, I'll just say that, you don't take it seriously. The point is, I never wrote it by attribution! Besides, it is a poem, and it does not say who it must be written to, if it is written to you, but we can't be together, then it means that it is written wrong! I don't have a direction, so don't rush to the right seat! ”
"So you, when we talked, you were still so close to me?" Say that you have flesh on your stomach, or show me the scars on your calves... Every time it looks so good, it makes me pity... But if it wasn't for people close to you, would you say these things publicly? ”
"You don't even understand this?" Sexual innuendo! On the surface, some skin or body words, in fact, with hints, such words, some people will realize, if you say it, it is that they have evil in their own hearts, I will not say you, but since you said so, I also confess, I do not say so, can men be deceived? They must have me, so that I could fish people and let them contact me without bargaining. Of course, if I like it, I will say no one in the open, but I will contact the other party directly! In this way, the other party will also feel that I am a woman who is not frivolous, and redouble my attention! It's the same as you think! ”
"That's the way it is!" He smiled bitterly, "So, you always tell me that we can't be together because of your shortcomings in all aspects, faults, because you still have some things at home... I also pity, you also said that I have low self-esteem... These are all fakes, right? ...... But I always care so much about you, so much hurt you, so I am always willing to pay for you... It seems that there is nothing to be begged for, right? ”
She smiled and said, "Don't be so nice, you're a good person." If you put yourself in the position of licking a dog, isn't that ruining your feelings for me? I'm sure you're not that kind of person, right? You shouldn't think of yourself as bad, right? I'm just giving you a chance to perform. ”
He was completely desperate and said, "That is to say, you have already made a wishful thinking, because you did not intend to be with me in the first place, so you never made a clear commitment, but you always said that it was inappropriate, but you always let me listen to you wind, deal with the people you want to deal with, and then take my words to you, and send screenshots of gifts, screenshots for others to see?" Put it in the circle of friends... I know now that I am really not only your spare tire, but also the sharp weapon you use to attract peach blossoms, as if you beautify other people's things at any time on social forums, so that others feel how perfect they are, and those people are looked at differently by others... Alas! I may not have really thought that your heart was so deep! ”
"Only blame yourself for being shallow, and you don't want to think about it, if I were really such a tall woman, I would always use a beauty filter to tell you, is that me?" And say I never use a beauty or filter? Besides, you know, I've been using pictures or videos of beautiful women on the Internet, whether it's someone else's, or my own beautification, and the purpose is not one: to attract you self-righteous men, of course, to attract the men I really want, that's not counting, I believe he will appreciate me very much, think I'm not only smart, but also very clever! ...... As for why I told you, it also made you stop thinking, anyway, I also gave you a false persona, since you know that I lied to you, now you feel better in your heart, right? ......”
He smiled and said, "But the content you put in the circle of friends details your family situation, as well as your joys and sorrows... I can't forget it! ”
She also smiled and said, "You are not stupid, people have that person, things, can you make up your own, true and false together, doesn't it seem that I am both tall and beautiful?" That way, I get what I want. Besides, how do you think that I must be sincere with others and not deceive them? ”
He couldn't resist asking again, saying, "I want to know... You are in the circle of friends, saying that you have big eyes, thin waist, people see that you are a big beauty, all you hope for is a person who really loves you, but those people are wrapped around you, making you feel so annoyed! Are these words true? Are you really bothered? Or enjoy those wild bee wave butterflies? ......”
She couldn't help but look at each other squarely and said: "Which beautiful woman will always emphasize her big eyes and thin waist in her usual speech, in addition to joking, a serious book to say, you will believe, are you not stupid?" Well, that's it! I also confessed, I really don't know, but I don't do it, will you believe it? To put it bluntly, you are just a lustful man, and if I seduce you a little, you will be hooked. But you just want to take advantage or enjoy the vanity in your heart, why do you blame me? ”
After saying that, she hung up the phone.
He couldn't help but think he was ridiculous, why would he like to believe that it was a dream? ...... No, why would you rather believe, even if it is a dream, but it is beautiful and real!
Perhaps more in the feeling that they are worthy of a perfect woman, and this woman even if she can not be with herself, according to what she said, her relatives around her are not tall, girlfriends or female relatives are not beautiful, men are mentioned by their people not without showing their beauty and kindness, the opposite sex has no relationship with themselves, all reflect an obsession with a ... Beautify your appearance, figure, temperament, etc. by trampling on the dignity of others, thus highlighting your love for your cool family, and in front of them, you have a beautiful image of yourself all the time.
It also reflects the characteristics of your own beauty and strength, making you pity, and even feel that even if you can't be together, with the resources around you, you can benefit yourself.
He realized, to put it bluntly, that in addition to being lustful, he was greedy.
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Original Comments:
Those who talk cleverly, not only men, but also many women's families, also use clever words to deceive the world.
On the Internet, such people can also use the Internet to ferment their "sharp weapons" and make fame and fortune, as for more deep things, they will not think, because for them, the most important thing is resources and value.
The men they cheat on, in addition to lust, are also greedy, greedy for everything they "show" (containing resources and values), and greedy for inner self-illusion, feeling that even if they can't get each other's resources and values for a while, they can eventually "dip" or say that it is also an "glory".
To put it bluntly, it is willing to fall into this trap and indulge in it.
There is no greater self-deception than these two.
