The phrase "don't let your child lose at the starting line" has made many parents into parenting anxiety.
I used to be one of the parenting anxiety people, watching children of the same age go to early education classes to develop children's intelligence, and I did not want my children to "lose at the starting line", and enrolled her in early education classes when the child was 2 years old.
But I only took the child for half a year, it cost more than 8,000, at that time it was twice a week, 45 minutes each time, and it was only in ordinary fourth- and fifth-tier small cities, and the high cost of early education in big cities was generally calculated on a monthly basis, and ordinary families could not afford it.
When I go to early education class, there are seven or eight children in a class, and parents need to accompany their children together, whether it is a teacher telling stories or playing games together, parents have been accompanied, I think the reason is that on the one hand, children will not do it independently, on the other hand, children will cry when they do not see parents.
Do you want to take early childhood education classes?
Many people think that going to early education classes is to pay the "IQ tax", spending more money, but the cost performance is not so high.
I consulted a friend of mine, an educator who has been in the early education industry for more than 10 years, and she said that she does not recommend going to early education classes, and that the early education center is indeed helpful for the growth and development of children, but the cost performance is not so high, and it can be carried out at home.
If the family's economic conditions are good, you can go if you throw 10,000 or 20,000 yuan a year in an early education institution without causing financial burden. If you want to take your child out to change your mood and have a play, you can also go.
But remember that you go to an early education institution to learn, the early education institution learned at home and then teach the child to practice repeatedly to have an effect, if you do not have time, go to an early education class once or twice a week, go home and do nothing, it will not play much role.
On the issue of early education, I once brushed the video of Tutu Mama in Peking University, and someone asked, do you want your child to go to early education class? Peking University Tutu's mother replied: Going to an early education class is equivalent to taking money to go out to play, which is not necessary.
The real experience of me taking my children to early education classes is the same as what Peking University Tutu's mother said, "Take money to go out and play." I listened to my friend's advice again, so I stopped taking my children to early education classes. I wonder why can't you spend less money or even no money on early education at home with your children?
Early education is very important for children, how to do it at home without going to early education classes
Practice has long proved that before the age of 6, the child's brain develops rapidly, and the child's brain is stimulated in many ways through early education games, which helps the child's intellectual development.
Therefore, to develop the child's intelligence, early education is necessary. However, it is not necessary to go to early education classes, and parents at home can also develop their children's intelligence and left and right brain potential with the help of early education games.
At the same time, we as parents must be clear about what kind of early education to give our children, whether to make the children look very powerful for the time being, how many words to know, how many poems to memorize, or to really develop the child's brain potential and make the child stay strong?
Play with your child at home for 20-30 minutes a day to develop your child's intelligence
Parents who have not learned parenting knowledge will walk into the misunderstanding of parenting, take their children to read and count every day, and the child's thinking will become more and more narrow and solidified, and may also lead to children's boredom.
So we'd rather not teach anything than narrow our children's minds. To make children's thinking more and more open, it is important to choose the right intellectual development training book.
My early teacher friend recommended to me the "Left and Right Brain Potential Development Training" designed by senior early education experts to fully develop children's intelligence.
After playing with my daughter, I found that the advantages of this set of books are as follows:
1. Large folio, a full set of 10 volumes, 10 kinds of special ability training
Through parent-child puzzle games and the training of 10 special abilities (creative imagination ability, discriminating and analysis ability, observational cognition ability, abstract thinking ability, memory development ability, language expression ability, etc.), children's memory, observation, imagination, concentration, spatial cognition, logical thinking and other aspects of potential are enhanced.
For example, compared to light and heavy, find associations, observe and recognize the ability, this is the analysis and judgment and logical thinking ability to improve the exercise, 4, 5-year-old children must play games, if the development is early, more than 3-year-old babies can play.
For another example, "small ants looking for food" and "putting shoes" to improve children's concentration and spatial perception ability, laying a solid foundation for future learning and learning mathematics.
2. Rich topics + exquisite pictures help children relax in active brains
This set of books is widely used and rich in content, and children use their hands, eyes and brains in the middle of play, mobilizing children's thinking in an all-round way, thereby improving the ability to analyze and solve problems.
The selected topics will allow children to experience a grand "brainstorming" and fully develop their potential.
3. There is "parent-child interaction" under each game topic to help parents better raise their children
Parents with 2-6-year-old children want to develop their children's brain potential in all aspects, so prepare this set of "Left and Right Brain Potential Development Training" for their children, which is much more cost-effective than going to early education institutions.
10 or so brain potential development training books ¥59 purchase
Play with children at home for 20 minutes a day, play with a set of books, children's memory, observation, imagination, concentration, spatial cognition, logical thinking and other aspects of potential can be trained.