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In 1992, in the first program "China News" launched by CCTV International Channel, a dignified and atmospheric female anchor appeared on the screen.
"Explain the world to China, explain China to the world", she was clear-tongued and her words were pearlescent, and she was quickly recognized by the audience.
Her name is Xu Li, and she has been accompanying everyone in news programs for 29 years.
In 2021, Xu Li announced her retirement, and the female anchor, who had almost no flaws in her job, officially bid farewell to the audience.
She is known as the "first female anchor of Chinese news", and she has a successful career, but her first marriage is not happy.
Happily, after marrying her son to a famous husband, she has been extremely happy.
However, she also has regrets in her life, and she is worthy of the audience, but she is full of guilt for her son.
The words written by her son on the marriage certificate made her cry like rain and fell into deep self-reflection.
Xu Li was born in 1961 in Jishou, Hunan.
When she was 6 years old, she worked in the logistics department of the Hunan Provincial Military District and her father changed careers.
So the whole family followed their father from Jishou to Changsha to live.
Xu Li grew up beautiful since she was a child, but she also spoke very well.
In 1979, at the age of 18, she participated in the changsha people's radio open recruitment examination.
In a fierce competition of more than 1,000 people to 1, he was successfully admitted and became an announcer.
Three years later, Xu Li married a demobilized soldier.
In 1988, a son, Pete, was born, adding to the joy of their family.
However, at that time, Xu Li and her husband were very young, although they were both kind and gentle people, but they did not know how to get along, and often had conflicts because of some small things.
In 1992, when Pete was four years old, Xu Li divorced and began the life of a single mother.
In the same year, CCTV openly recruited anchors, although the competition was extremely fierce, but Xu Li, who had a solid foundation in hosting, once again stood out and became the envy of everyone CCTV host.
In October 1992, Xu Li officially appeared in China News.
In the face of the national audience, she did not shy away from the stage and became famous with her capable and stable hosting style.
The work has been settled, but the problem of taking care of her son has become Xu Li's annoyance.
Although the mother and son lived in the dormitory, and the child also went to kindergarten, after the child left school at 2 p.m., because Xu Li had to be busy with work, he could only leave him alone in the dormitory.
Over time, the child obviously had an anxious mood, and even once directly took a knife to cut his hair, which made Xu Li really frightened.
But at that time, she had no other way but to keep wronging her son.
In October 1994, Xu Li was interviewed by Beijing Youth Daily.
At that time, the reporter's name was Zhang Tianwei, who already enjoyed fame in the industry, he had already heard about Xu Li, and after meeting her, he had a little more pity for her.
Zhang Tianwei had a failed marriage, he came from a famous family, his father was a well-known sculptor in the world, and like his mother, he worked at the Central Academy of Fine Arts, and both of them were professors.
He also has a younger brother who is a painter who is well-known throughout the country, and grew up in such a family full of artistic atmosphere, Zhang Tianwei naturally engaged in a job related to literature and art.
Zhang Tianwei fell in love with Xu Li at first sight, and two days after the interview, when he invited Xu Li for coffee, he expressed his idea that he worked relatively freely and could take care of Pete.
Xu Li wanted to refuse at first, but when she thought of her child being locked in the dormitory for many years, like a poor trapped beast, she didn't feel a little shaken.
In order to avoid deviations in the child's personality, Xu Li agreed to Zhang Tianwei's proposal.
In this way, Zhang Tianwei and Pete had close contact, and he would take time to accompany Pete almost every afternoon, take him to learn to exercise together, and enjoy the beauty of Beijing together.
Pete could certainly feel Zhang Tianwei's kindness to him, and he began to become happy.
Xu Li was naturally very relieved to see her son so transformed, and she was also full of gratitude to Zhang Tianwei.
In March 1995, Pete suddenly told Xu Li that he wanted to be with Uncle Zhang all the time.
In an instant, the softest place in Xu Li's heart was touched.
After half a year of contact, she of course knew that Zhang Tianwei was a good man who was rare, so she decided to take the initiative.
Four months later, Xu Li told Zhang Tianwei what her son had said and asked zhang Tianwei what she thought.
At that moment, Zhang Tianwei could no longer hold back the joy in his heart and told his feelings.
The two lovers came together in this way.
After learning that her son was in love, Zhang Tianwei's parents and brother supported them unconditionally, hoping that they could go on forever.
In January 1996, Xu Li and Zhang Tianwei married.
Although the savings in her hands are limited, Xu Li still bought a marriage house earlier, just hoping to give her son and herself a little confidence after marriage.
Although Zhang Tianwei has a house, he respects Xu Li's choice and becomes a "door-to-door son-in-law" with luggage.
After marriage, he was as good as ever to Pete, and completely regarded Pete as his own flesh and blood.
His intentions were also exchanged for Pete's "Daddy" one after another.
It's just that love is easy and marriage is difficult, and the contradiction between the two after marriage is gradually highlighted.
Xu Li is a woman with a strong personality who rarely makes compromises in life.
Born in Hunan, she likes to eat chili peppers, because she can't change her habits, so she asks Zhang Tianwei, who can't eat spicy, to eat with her.
She likes to get up early to run, but Zhang Tianwei always hopes that she can sleep more, but Xu Li is completely unappreciative, and even unhappy because Zhang Tianwei shouts late.
Pete saw all this in his eyes, he wanted his parents to be happy every day, but he didn't know how to open his mouth and talk to them.
So Pete chose to express it in words, and wrote a sentence on the marriage certificate of the two: I love you, you are not allowed to quarrel, we will never be separated.
He deliberately turned the drawers over, naturally letting Xu Li see the marriage certificate at a glance after returning home.
When she saw this line, her eyes suddenly turned red, and the tears couldn't stop flowing down.
The son plucked up enough courage to speak his heart, and he felt that the contradictions between his mother and stepfather were almost all caused by his mother.
Because my mother was sometimes too emotional and always lost her temper at the slightest disagreement, my stepfather was always accommodating to my mother.
At that moment, Xu Li finally realized her shortcomings in life, and indeed in many cases she was selfish and overbearing, completely disregarding her husband's feelings, and invisibly hurting her husband's heart again and again.
Xu Li solemnly apologized to her husband and promised her son that he would work hard to correct it.
She wants to be a good wife and a good mother, although it is not too easy.
But Xu Li did what she said, and she was still fierce at work, but when she returned home, she became a gentle and virtuous woman, and when she encountered things, she was not quarreling first, but calmly discussing with her husband.
Seeing Xu Li's change, Zhang Tianwei and Pete were very happy, the family of three finally reconciled as before, and there was no quarrel in the family, but always surrounded by laughter.
Xu Li, who was originally insisting on letting Zhang Tianwei live in her own house after marriage, finally realized how much psychological harm to her husband had been caused by others saying that Zhang Tianwei was a door-to-door son-in-law for so many years.
So in 2008, she took her son to live in her husband's house.
This move surprised Zhang Tianwei, of course, more is the sense of happiness, Xu Li really loves him, for him to change a little bit.
Xu Li and Zhang Tianwei lived happily, and Pete was naturally the happiest.
Surrounded by the love of the two, he grew up happily day by day, not only with a sunny personality, but also with excellent grades, and has always been a bully in the eyes of others.
Pete, who has grown up now, is very filial to Zhang Tianwei just like Zhang Tianwei took care of him in the first place.
This makes Xu Li and her husband very happy, and also makes their married life more and more harmonious and full of happiness.
Since their marriage, Xu Li and Zhang Tianwei have gone through 26 years with their hands.
There were laughter and tears, gains and losses, but they all faced each other hand in hand and became the happiest remarried couple.