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The weather is hot, and many people play in the community square with their children at night. A grandmother with two bald children playing with balls, two small children looking about 2 years old, are twins.
Many people were very excited to see the twins, and they came forward to ask who was the older brother and who was the younger brother, but the twins shook their heads, and Grandma explained that one of them was a sister and the other was a younger sister.
What about girls? The parents looked at the two children with bald heads, and how the girl didn't have any hair.
The child's grandmother said that her parents were busy at work, she and her wife came to take the child, it was too troublesome to wash the child's hair and bathe every day, and the little girl also had to comb her braids, so from birth, the two children were small bald heads.
Born bald. Parents feel a little sorry, the child is two years old, or bald, then do not know what it is like to comb their hair.
A few grandmothers said that they used to take children when they were young, but now the daughter-in-law does not let it, and every day will comb the little girl's beautiful pigtails, such a small child knows how to look good or not?
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Absolutely.
We saw that the twin sisters had been watching other little girls with pigtails wearing flower skirts, and pointed to the flower skirts and said, skirts, skirts...
Grandma said that she felt that wearing a skirt was not convenient for children to move, so the children were basically pants and did not wear skirts.
I was riding a bicycle with my son, listening to this grandmother, and then looking at the eyes of the two twin girls, not knowing what to say.
Many times, the elders think that the child does not know anything, does not understand anything, but in fact, it is not, for example, very young children can see that the mother's mood today is happy or unhappy. You will also know in front of whom you can be arrogant. Of course, I also know that it is not good to look good. And they'll love the company of family members who look good and look younger.
When a colleague of mine came back to work after giving birth, he said that when Grandma brought the child, the child kept crying. But as soon as Grandma's sister left, the child would not cry and would still have to be hugged. Logically, it should be Grandma's closer. It wasn't until the two old men stood together, she said, that she looked at the child and went to grandma's sister for a hug, and finally understood why, because grandma's sister was slightly younger and wore more fashionable clothes.
Look, such a young child will look at people, let alone two-year-old children.
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Some elderly people say that many children are bald when they are young, and bald heads are easy to take care of, and girls are no exception.
Indeed, some of my classmates said that looking at the photos of themselves when they were young was bald, as if they had only started to grow their hair in elementary school. Many old people are accustomed to this, so why do girls wear beautiful skirts? Why comb nice hair? Didn't they all grow up the same?
It's actually different.
Girls who shave their heads and those who don't shave their heads from a young age obviously have a different life.
First of all, girls will be more confident when they have girls dressed.
Some mothers bring their own children, if it is a girl, basically wear small skirts every day, small skirts of various colors, materials, and patterns, and then comb beautiful hair.
My upstairs neighbor's child is just over a year old, the hair is not too much, thin and sparse, the neighbor uses a lot of small leather bands to comb the child's hair every day, on the one hand, it is cool, on the other hand, it is also to let the child see the appearance of his own girl. The child now knows which dress to wear, and is also very confident and bold when he comes out to play.
The twin sisters, who have always been bald heads, obviously want to sneak a peek at other children when they come out to play, want to play with them, but only two people rubbing clothes together, a little shy and not confident enough.
Secondly, when the child's gender is budding, we must respect the child's gender and let the child have no gender confusion.
Generally, children start the embryonic period of gender from the age of two or three, and when they are three or four years old, they will understand the behavioral characteristics that match their gender, and when they are about 6 years old, they will form the concept of roles, and they will choose toys, clothes, etc. that match their gender.
Children will know from an early age whether they are boys or girls, shave their heads, and although children will not express anything, they will also know that they are different from other girls.
My classmate said that she couldn't remember a lot of things before she went to elementary school, but looking at the photos, she knew that she would be bald, as if she remembered that some boys would laugh at her. At that time, she was also sad, but no one in the family understood her sadness. Now she also has a girl, from birth to prepare a variety of small skirts, although many complex skirts are not convenient for children to move, but there are many simple styles of skirts.
And she also began to read the body picture book to the child, the classmate said that she felt that when she was a child, she did not understand the difference between men and women, and felt that her body development was slow, so she did not know how to protect her body. Now that you have children, you must take your children to learn more and know more about your body.
I think it makes sense that you are like a bald twin sister, if your parents also choose a body picture book for him in time, they may point to the picture to express that they are girls.
Classmates said that in fact, don't look at the child's small, at this time, it is still necessary for the child to know more about his body. Because the bad guys don't feel like your kids are small either. Children can understand a little is a little, at least better than children who do not understand anything.
The set of books selected by the students has a very rich knowledge of human encyclopedia, which can be told to children for a long time, at the beginning it can introduce the identity of boys and girls, and then it can be brought into the body parts, such as arms, legs, heads, etc., and then slowly involve others. Classmates said that you can talk about going to elementary school from the age of two or three, and I took a look at it, and it is indeed very rich in content.
But also for children to prepare a lot of reading experience, such as using touch, smell, hearing, vision and other senses to feel the book, can touch, can listen, but also can smell, sniff, better let children to explore and perceive.
There are also interactive small organs to let the children know how they were born, pull a pull, the baby is about to be born.
Classmates said that they always remembered that when they were young, their parents said that she picked it up from the trash can. She herself had been remembering it for many years, and she had taken it seriously for many years. Parents may be a joke, but we have not loved for a long time. It's also painful to think about.
Students said that other picture books can wait and buy, and the body's book must keep up.
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No matter how old the child is, be sure to buy it and read it with them, understand our bodies, understand the difference between boys and girls, and learn to protect your body.
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