" I really miss you, I call for the dawn in the night, and the clouds chasing the moon also know my heart, silently sending warmth to me..."
When this familiar song sounded, I believe that many people have such a picture in their minds, a woman wearing a long red dress and a beautiful face, pulling the erhu, gently chanting and singing "Really Miss You", the familiar melody, in the 1990s, accompanied by the tune of the erhu into thousands of households.
This person is Zhou Bingqian, a talented musician who was popular all over the country.
Zhou Bingqian was born in a wealthy family in Shanghai, and her father, Mr. Zhou Miaorong, was a well-known researcher who invented the "high-rise slide self-rescue equipment" and "small fire extinguishing mode" in many ways, multiple levels and stages to solve the important problem of fire.
Mention Zhou Bingqian, do not let people praise her talent and luck. At a very young age, she showed a love of music, at the age of three began to learn Shanghai opera with her aunt, and then her enlightened father exposed her to a variety of instruments, from guitar to dulcimer to piano, the family is like a small instrument hall.
The elders of the family also respected her ideas very much, and when they heard that she wanted to learn music systematically, they sent her to the Shanghai Conservatory of Music to learn music, and successfully joined the "National Music Professor" Xiang Zuying to learn Erhu.
As the saying goes: "One year the flute is two years old, and one erhu pulls off the waist." ”
Erhu is a traditional instrument in the mainland, it is still very difficult to pull the erhu well, but Zhou Bingqian has not accepted defeat since she was a child, preferring to challenge more difficult instruments, extremely talented, but she does not dare to slacken off, but more hard to practice, often erhu a pull is a day.
In school, Zhou Bingqian is a small celebrity, because of her good tune and a good voice, she is called "Golden Voice" by her classmates.
After being admitted to the Shanghai Conservatory of Music, Zhou Bingqian continued to work hard.
Talent and hard work are the road to success, not to mention, Zhou Bingqian has a very good appearance, tall and slim, sweet and cute appearance, and a natural voice, in her junior year, she was favored by the music company and successfully signed a contract.
Later, with the help of the company, in 1989, she traveled to her debut album "I Want to Have a Home", which sold more than one million copies, achieved good results, and was also called "Little Pan Meichen".
At that time, on the street, the horns on the street were almost all her songs.
In the early 1990s, the cultural shock of Japan and South Korea set off a wave of going abroad.
A Japanese company handed Zhou Bingqian an olive branch— a five-year contract— and she flew away with her dream.
When she first arrived in Japan, Zhou Bingqian was difficult to walk because of language problems, communication difficulties, but Zhou Bingqian did not give up, signed up for a Japanese class, and in just half a year, Zhou Bingqian rushed through the difficulties of language barriers and launched two albums in the hot Japanese music scene.
She also successfully won her first solo concert in Japan.
Many Japanese people refer to it as the "hurricane blowing from Shanghai" and as "the messenger of Sino-Japanese cultural exchanges". She is often compared to Teresa Teresa, who is also in Japan.
Speaking of Teresa Teng, Zhou Bingqian and Teresa Teng also had a relationship, when Zhou Bingqian won the "35th Japan Record Awards Newcomer Award" in the Japanese music scene with her album promoted in Japan, and in the background of participating in the award ceremony, she also met the well-known singer Teresa Teng Lijun, because the same is Chinese, the two people are hometowns to see fellow countrymen, two tears, chatting very happily in the background, and also let the staff help take photos.
Even many years later, Zhou Bingqian wrote about the encounter with Teresa Teng in her book, for Zhou Bingqian, Teresa Teng is her idol, and she has also given endless motivation in her singing career.
Although good results have been achieved in Japan, the patriotic feelings and misses of her hometown that have always existed deeply have made Zhou Bingqian return to her heart like an arrow, so after her contract expired, she refused the request to renew her contract again, bought a ticket, and immediately returned to the embrace of the motherland.
After returning to China, Zhou Bingqian participated in various performances and performances, and at the same time began to contact some film and television dramas.
In 1996, Zhou Bingqian quickly became popular at the Lantern Party of CCTV with a song "I Really Miss You". In fact, this song has been sung by Fei Yuqing a long time ago, when Zhou Bingqian was invited to participate in the Lantern Party, she chose a song for a long time, and then decided to choose this song and add some new ideas of her own.
That is to use their own erhu and singing way to combine to perform, the unique sound quality of the erhu coupled with the gentleness of this song, it is so compatible.
This is also the first time that Erhu and Singing have been featured in the Chinese music scene.
How hot can this song be? Fire to once created a miracle of life, a couple in Shandong, the husband is a vegetative person, the wife does not abandon, nothing will sing this song to express love to the husband, who knows a few months later, the miracle actually happened, the vegetative husband opened his eyes, for a time "really miss you" This song was pushed on the wave, and is still being sung.
In addition to the smooth sailing in her career, Zhou Bingqian also met her own true destiny after returning from Japan, fell in love for two years, and walked into the palace of marriage, after marriage, due to her age, Zhou Bingqian and her husband have not had children, in order to raise their bodies, Zhou Bingqian chose to give up the career of just red and prepare for pregnancy at home.
After careful conditioning, Zhou Bingqian finally conceived her baby, and this year she was 37 years old, as an elderly mother, Zhou Bingqian can be said to have almost killed her this time.
When she was three months pregnant, Zhou Bingqian suddenly had heavy bleeding, and in the process of emergency medical treatment, Zhou Bingqian had symptoms such as breathing difficulties, increased blood pressure, chest tightness, etc., and almost died.
Because Zhou Bingqian's physical fitness is not very good, her body can not afford the huge pressure of pregnancy, the doctor told her that the current situation is very dangerous, just like people walking a tightrope in the air, we must always pay attention.
In order to save the child in her belly, Zhou Bingqian, according to the doctor's requirements, lay in bed and avoided all opportunities for exercise.
In this way, for the next half of the year, she spent in bed. The next year, Zhou Bingqian successfully gave birth to a cute boy, and due to the long period of bed rest, the muscles in her legs actually atrophied.
Just when the family is happy and harmonious, Zhou Bingqian has an accident, perhaps this child is not easy to come, Zhou Bingqian's attention and care for him weighs her breathlessly, she seems to have become a "bomb" that will be detonated at any time, because of the uncontrollable emotions, the family specially hired a sister-in-law to take care of her and the child's living and eating, but she does not allow anyone to touch her child, as long as the child leaves her sight, she begins to cry, lose her temper, and smash things.
So that later, she could not sleep all night, emotional collapse again and again, always feel that the child is in danger at any time, Zhou Bingqian was diagnosed by the doctor with postpartum depression, until the child gradually grew up, her state only improved little by little.
Perhaps with a new member of the family, Zhou Bingqian almost spent time and energy on her son, and the contradictions between Zhou Bingqian and her husband were increasing, especially on the issue of educating her son.
And Zhou Bingqian and her husband, in the end, did not insist, the two people divorced did not make a big fuss, but divorced peacefully when their son was 5 years old.
Perhaps because in addition to the identity of husband and wife, they have fewer requirements for each other, but after the divorce, the two people have a more tacit understanding, in order to take care of their sons less and not to be absent from the child's growth experience, the two people still raise the child together, so that their relationship is more harmonious.
After many years of divorce, when a friend asked her, "Do you want to find someone to accompany you?" Zhou Bingqian's answer was, "She enjoys being single, and everything goes with her fate." ”
The times are changing rapidly, the music world is changing with each passing day, Zhou Bingqian is gradually forgotten by everyone, and although Zhou Bingqian is no longer developing her music career, she will often appear on some nostalgic variety shows, bringing a wave of memories to the audience, and the stage is full of expression.
Although some netizens say that she has been eating the dividends of a song, in fact, Zhou Bingqian's "Sleepless Tonight", "Erhu Love Song", "Woman Like Me" and other songs are very good.
Now Zhou Bingqian is already a 53-year-old mother, but the years have never defeated the beauty, still a good face, a well-proportioned figure, can not see the age at all, many viewers left messages praising her face is not old, she will also carefully reply, indicating that everything will be good with a good mentality.
Because Zhou Bingqian has always had a young heart, and she also loves sports very much.
Every morning, Zhou Bingqian will maintain at least one or two hours of exercise time, play table tennis today, play tennis tomorrow, and dance Zumba with the TV the day after tomorrow... Is a full of sports enthusiasts, even if at home because of the epidemic, you can also open the bow with your son at home against the wall, which is a rare parent-child time.
Due to her good attitude, Zhou Bingqian has a very good taste of life, and through some of the content she posted on social platforms, we can see that she likes to share her life, especially often sharing her food journey.
In Zhou Bingqian's autobiography published in 1999, she wrote: "I love life and I like to experience life. Initially, I envisioned a future that was singing, happy, and bouncing. Now, my vision for the future is to be down-to-earth and create and build my own spiritual family. ”
For The success of Zhou Bingqian in the music career, the cheerful and optimistic mentality on her body is more admirable, not to be happy with things and not to be sad with herself, whether it is the scenery of the infinite past, or in the present bland, Zhou Bingqian is a very peaceful mentality to accept adaptation, and let herself live happily, now although she is a single mother, but still can take care of her son very well, there are friends, hobbies, parents and children are around, Zhou Bingqian such a life you envy?