In 2014, actress Yu Jiahui, whose stage name was "Huan Huan", committed suicide by burning charcoal at her home and regrettably left this world at the age of 43.
Before she died, she left a suicide note with only a few brief words: "People told me to do this." ”
After the content of the suicide note was exposed, it quickly triggered a heated discussion in the media and the public, and her former good girlfriend Jiang Qinqin was also instantly pushed onto the cusp of public opinion.
Because before this, Yu Jiahui had shelled Jiang Qinqin, who was a girlfriend, as a little third, and snatched her ex-husband Zhang Xiaozheng, in her opinion, she was betrayed by a good girlfriend and her ex-husband!
After divorcing her ex-husband, Yu Jiahui later married her second husband Jiang Guobin with a son and a daughter, and gave birth to a daughter for the other party after marriage, and the relationship between the two was like glue.
But who would have thought that the marriage in which she had pinned all her hopes on would end in less than five years.
She has been trapped in the haze of feelings after the divorce, once lost confidence in life, coupled with the gossip about her later, and the death of her father, etc., she finally decided to embark on the road of no return...
One
Yu Jiahui was born in 1970 to a wealthy family in Taiwan Province, the family is not only very economically well-off, but also the family background is also very prominent, she is a veritable show.
Growing up in such a family, it is reasonable to say that Yu Jiahui will not enter the complex circle development of the entertainment industry, but she has liked art since she was a child.
She loves acting and has always longed to play a variety of different roles and experience different lives like the actors on tv.
In 1987, after graduating from the Department of Literature and History of Kaohsiung University in Taiwan, Yu Jiahui officially entered the entertainment industry.
She was photographed by a record company and formed a "melancholy party" group with cai Yulun, a female singer 2 years older than her, of which Cai Yulun was the "worry" in the group and Yu Jiahui was "huanhuan".
Under the support of the record company, the party group has produced a total of three albums, including the album "Happy New Year" with the boy group "Little Tigers", which later became popular all over the country.
Not long after her debut, Yu Jiahui harvested the first love affair in her life and came together with male singer Zhang Kefan, but unfortunately, this relationship came and went quickly and soon ended.
Many years later, the two of them also participated in "Kangxi Lai" together and shared this past with everyone.
In addition to the emotional aspect is not very smooth, her singing career is also not particularly well developed.
Although Yu Jiahui and Cai Yulun worked very hard, the combination formed by the two of them did not develop well and disbanded in the third year of formation.
After the dissolution of the group, Cai Yulun stayed in the music industry for a few years, and also launched a personal album "Love You in the Most Silly Way" and so on, but unfortunately did not receive too much attention.
Seeing that her acting career has never improved, Cai Yulun completely lost interest in the entertainment industry and began to do business, fading out of the public's sight since then.
Yu Jiahui is different, she has not only stayed in the entertainment industry to develop, but also quickly found a suitable way for her development.
Two
In 1991, the year after the dissolution of the group, Yu Jiahui transformed into a showbiz and became an actress.
She has participated in "Four Young Men in Beijing", "Liu Bowen's Legendary Book of Swords and Enmity", "Yongzheng Flutterchild Nian Tangyao", "Lady Sesame Official" and other works.
Although she played supporting roles in these dramas, with her outstanding looks and the temperament of everyone's show, she still received a lot of attention from the audience and soon gained a foothold in the show business circle.
During this period, she also gained her own love and came together with her ex-husband Zhang Xiaozheng.
Zhang Xiaozheng is 10 years older than her, is a famous director in Taiwan, and has directed classic works such as "White-Haired Witch", "Divine Calculation Liu Bowen", "Pear Blossom Tears" and so on.
Yu Jiahui and he met because of cooperation, when Zhang Xiaozheng had not yet transformed into a director, just a martial artist in the crew, but Yu Jiahui was quickly captured by this man.
Under Zhang Xiaozheng's sweet words, Yu Jiahui, who was in love with him because of the drama, quickly agreed to his pursuit and came together with him.
For the relationship between the two of them, many people are not optimistic, especially the fans who like Yu Jiahui feel that their career and appearance are not as good as her Zhang Xiaozheng, and they are not a good match with her.
Yu Jiahui's friends around her also advised her: "He must have some intentions with you, you must think clearly!" ”
But no matter how the outside world complains about their pair, how badly their friends are, Yu Jiahui is still desperate to be with this man.
At the age of 21, Yu Jiahui, whose career was at its peak, resolutely married this man and entered the palace of marriage with him.
Yu Jiahui did not know that she was happy to think that she had gained true love, but what she waited for was to be hurt again and again.
Three
Soon after marrying Zhang Xiaozheng, Yu Jiahui became pregnant with his child, and later gave birth to a son, a daughter and two children for him.
After the birth of the child, Yu Jiahui stayed in the show business circle to develop, while taking care of her children.
Because Zhang Xiaozheng's career had not yet developed at that time, in order to make the other party develop rapidly, she also used her resources and connections to give the other party a lot of help.
With the help and support of Yu Jiahui, in 1995, Zhang Xiaozheng directed the first TV series in his life, "Lingshan Hero", and began his directing career.
With his super talent as a director and the help of his wife Yu Jiahui, he soon emerged in the Taiwanese showbiz circle and broke through his own reputation.
As Zhang Xiaozheng's career development is getting better and better, Yu Jiahui has also cooperated with him in many works, of which the most well-known is the classic hit drama "The Legend of the White-Haired Witch".
In 1999, Zhang Xiaozheng and Long Guanwu jointly directed the work "White Haired Witch", the male number one is Zhang Zhilin, and the female number one is Jiang Qinqin.
Yu Jiahui plays the role of "He Caohua", a sister who likes her brother Zhuo Yihang, although the role is not as high as Jiang Qinang, who is the female number one, but it is also highly concerned by the audience.
During the filming, Yu Jiahui and Jiang Qinqin talked very happily, and they quickly became good girlfriends who had nothing to say, and in view of Yu Jiahui's relationship, Jiang Qinqin also quickly got closer to Zhang Xiaozheng as a director.
However, what Yu Jiahui did not expect was that Jiang Qinqin's appearance actually became the fuse that destroyed her marriage with Zhang Xiaozheng!
Four
Not long after filming this work, Yu Jiahui held a press conference, at which she shelled her husband Zhang Xiaozheng and her good girlfriend Jiang Qinqin one after another.
First of all, she revealed that in the ten years from falling in love to getting married, her husband Zhang Xiaozheng had cheated 8 times, and when she was three months pregnant with each other's children, she discovered the other party's cheating behavior.
Because she loved this man deeply, and she was already pregnant with his child at the time, she chose to endure all this, but she did not expect that in exchange for the betrayal of the other party again and again.
In her words: "Forgive him again and again, and never stop after marriage!" ”
What made her decide to give up this relationship was the intimate interaction between Zhang Xiaozheng and Jiang Qinqin in the crew during the filming of "The Legend of the White-Haired Witch".
According to Yu Jiahui's friend Lingling, "Huan Huan once told me that because my husband was with Shui Ling, I was going to get a divorce, and Shui Ling was Jiang Qinqin. ”
"Not only was she sitting on her husband's lap, watching the screen, the monitor, but sleeping together."
The "Huan Huan" here refers to Yu Jiahui, and the water spirit is Jiang Qinqin, a good girlfriend before Yu Jiahui.
For the double betrayal of her ex-husband and girlfriend, Yu Jiahui chose to complete the other party, but when she proposed a divorce to the man, she was rejected by the other party.
When she held a press conference to shell the relationship between Zhang Xiaozheng and Jiang Qinqin, the other two sides also denied Yu Jiahui's accusations, in which Jiang Qinqin said: "The clean person cleans himself." ”
"I'm just friends with Zhang Xiaozheng."
Jiang Qinqin's agent also said in turn that Yu Jiahui was hyping, saying that she had already been angry and could only hype Bo eyeballs in this way.
Since Zhang Xiaozheng and Jiang Qinqin both denied their relationship, we do not know whether there is really any relationship between them, we only know that shortly after Yu Jiahui shelled them, Zhang Xiaozheng agreed to divorce her.
After the divorce, Zhang Xiaozheng put his focus on his career, and successively directed works such as "Flying Dragon in the Sky", "Sunset in the Border City", "Happiness Must Be Strong" and so on, and developed his career very well.
Jiang Qinqin, who was labeled "Little Three" by Yu Jiahui, chose to return to the mainland to develop due to the serious decline in her reputation in Taiwan's showbiz circle.
After returning to the mainland, Jiang Qinqin, who developed his career very well, later met the actor Chen Jianbin when filming the drama "Qiao Family Courtyard", and the two of them quickly entered the palace of marriage because of the drama, and now they are very happy.
In contrast, Yu Jiahui's living conditions are not so smooth.
Five
After divorcing Zhang Xiaozheng, Yu Jiahui successively starred in works such as "Beggar Lang Jun Qianjin Girl", "A Boat in the Ocean", "Princess Huaiyu" and so on.
She has developed steadily in her career, and her feelings have not improved much, and later under the introduction of friends, she met Jiang Guobin, who is also an actor.
Jiang Guobin is three years older than her, and before he met Yu Jiahui, he had already participated in works such as "Plum Blossom Three Alleys of Water and Clouds", "I Love Mermaids", "Campus Death Squad" and so on.
In 2002, he also became famous for his role as "Lin Wentang" in "Heavenly Love", and became a popular actor loved by countless audiences.
At first, Yu Jiahui did not dare to agree to Jiang Guobin's pursuit, and she was afraid that she would be hurt in her relationship again as before.
But in the face of her repeated rejection of Jiang Guobin, not only was not discouraged, but also more and more concerned about her and loved her, under Jiang Guobin's meticulous concern and pursuit again and again, she finally agreed to this man's pursuit.
Later, seeing that this man was not only very good to her, but also very good to her and the children of her ex-husband Zhang Xiaozheng, and regarded the two children as their own, which completely touched her and made her firmly believe that she had met true love.
In September 2004, Yu Jiahui, who had been in love with Jiang Guobin for a long time, agreed to his marriage proposal and entered the palace of marriage with him.
At that time, they loved each other so much that they regarded each other as the most important people in their lives, and on the wedding day, Jiang Guobin sincerely said to her: "Please let me love you for the rest of my life, and I can take care of you for the rest of my life." ”
In the face of this man's infatuation, Yu Jiahui did not hesitate to give a response: "Good. ”
Soon after the marriage, Yu Jiahui, who also loved this man deeply, gave birth to a daughter for him, and the arrival of the daughter made Yu Jiahui more determined that her choice this time was not wrong.
After remarrying, in order to take care of the family and children, Yu Jiahui chose to fade out of the show business circle, no longer filming, and became a housewife at home.
Jiang Guobin is just the opposite, in order to let Yu Jiahui and his children live a rich life, he put all his thoughts on his career.
It is said that women must have their own careers before or after marriage, so that they can have a sense of security, and yu Jiahui's experience after her second marriage proves that this sentence is correct.
Six
At first, Yu Jiahui, who got along particularly well with her second husband Jiang Guobin, also spent a happy life she wanted when she first got married, but life was not only romantic and pampered, but also chai rice oil and salt.
Because the family has three children, the expenses are particularly large, and Jiang Guobin's career has not been particularly good, and in addition to raising Yu Jiahui's mother and son, he also has to take care of his own family.
For example, giving pocket money to an elderly mother, helping an elderly brother who suffers from oral cancer, helping a sister who has failed in business, etc., the monthly expenses for the family alone are as high as 300,000 yuan.
In this regard, he also revealed in front of the media: "When I have no income, my family helps me, and now I am still developing well, and I will raise them in this life." ”
This side can't make ends meet, but he still has to raise his family on the other side, which not only increases his own pressure, but also makes his contradiction with Yu Jiahui grow bigger and bigger.
In September 2009, five years after their marriage, Yu Jiahui broke the news in front of the media that she had divorced Jiang Guobin for three months.
However, for the reason for the divorce, Yu Jiahui denied that it was because of money and expenses, to which she also said: "I am a person who is very confused about money, we are not so pitiful." ”
In her opinion, no matter what, they will not end their relationship because of money.
As for why they have gone from loving like glue to separating, perhaps it is really because of the lack of feelings.
Seven
After divorcing Jiang Guobin, in order to raise three children, Yu Jiahui returned to the development of the show business circle, and with the previous popularity and popularity, she soon brought the idol drama "Boys and Girls Born".
In 2011, she was invited to participate in the drama "Chinese Panda", playing the role of "Feifei", which was also her last work.
After that, she never participated in new film and television works, and completely faded from the public's attention except for the occasional interview.
Some media were curious to ask her if she would remarry after experiencing two failed marriages, to which Yu Jiahui said: "I have been married 2 times and separated 2 times, with 3 children, 2 dogs, 1 cat, enough." ”
But after all, it didn't take long for her to reap the love affair again, and she came together with the Hong Kong singer Lu Fang, whom we are familiar with.
Lü Fang had just separated from Zheng Yuling, who had lived together for many years, and was in the empty window of feelings, and yu Jiahui's appearance made him feel that he had met the right person.
Unfortunately, this relationship was the same as Yu Jiahui's previous relationship, and it soon ended because of the discord.
Not long after breaking up with Lu Fang, she was once again met with a painful thing, that is, her father died.
Her father's departure, like the last snowflake that fell before the avalanche, completely crushed Yu Jiahui, and she suffered from depression.
In the last three months of her life, she has been relying on drugs to maintain her state.
During this time, the family has been with her, taking care of her and pampering her, but unfortunately they still can't save her.
On the evening of June 1, 2014, after Yu Jiahui finished eating with her family as usual, she said to her family: "I will have a date, I may drink, tomorrow I want to sleep until I wake up naturally, you don't come to disturb me." ”
At that time, Yu Jiahui had just made a boyfriend outside the circle, and the family thought that she was going to date each other, so she did not have too many doubts, and she did not expect that it would become a regret.
That night, Yu Jiahui committed suicide by burning charcoal in her home, and by the time she was discovered at 11 o'clock that night, she had completely left this world.
In this way, Yu Jiahui, who chose to embark on the road of no return, bid farewell to everyone and quietly left.
Eight
There are many opinions about the reason for her departure, some people say that she was hurt by her feelings, especially after seeing the sentence "People told me to do this" left on Yu Jiahui's suicide note, she even pulled out the things of Jiang Qinqin that year, and once again made Jiang Qinqin the target of everyone.
However, jiang Qinqin did not make any response to these empty comments and criticisms.
Yu Jiahui's family believes that she is because of the superposition of feelings and various pressures at work and life, and finally embarked on the road of no return.
Among them, her younger brother said: "My sister is because she has not come out of the shadow of her father's death." ”
But not really because of these reasons, it is also their speculation, after all, the real reason is only known to Yu Jiahui, and with Yu Jiahui's death, these are also dissipated with the wind.
And if there is anyone to blame, it can only be blamed on all these setbacks and unsatisfactory things she has experienced.
Now that 8 years have passed since Yu Jiahui's death, it no longer matters what the reason why she chose to embark on the road of no return of charcoal suicide.
Importantly, the audience who loved and supported her still misses her and her work.
After her death, the three children she left behind are also growing up under the care of her family.
For Yu Jiahui, the three children can grow up healthy and worry-free, perhaps this is already the best ending.
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