At the age of 50, Su Min, who was painful and desperate in the AA marriage, chose to run away from home and take a self-driving tour that said he would go.
Now that 2 years have passed, has she come home?
In September 2020, Su Min drove a car he had bought with a loan, took all his belongings, and went all the way south to start his dream journey.
She said: I have fulfilled my responsibilities and obligations in life, my daughter has started a family, my grandson has also brought up, as for my husband, I am not willing to continue to be his "free nanny".
For Su Min, marriage is a cage that imprisons her.
Before marriage, Su Min lived in a large family with three younger brothers below. The parents care more about their three younger brothers and are negligent towards Su Mindo.
Neglected and neglected, Su Min is eager to get married, and wants to leave this original family that has little warmth as soon as possible.
However, it was this thought that set her on a path of great pain.
After marrying her husband, Su Min soon gave birth to a daughter.
I didn't expect my mother-in-law to favor sons and treat her and her children badly. The husband is also a mother and a man, an iron rooster, and even the living expenses of the mother and daughter are not willing to bear.
There was really no way, Su Min found a job, making money for herself and her children to spend.
The husband's salary is basically spent on playing cards and smoking, occasionally buying some food and coming back, a husband and wife under the roof, and they have lived a decades of AA life.
The reality of su min was breathless, and even committed suicide twice, and was diagnosed with depression.
But such a life, even if it is bitter, must be lived.
Soon, the daughter started a family and had a pair of cute children.
Su Min thought of divorce again, but divorce was obviously more unrealistic.
Afraid that the daughter's in-laws will look down on the daughter because of this, afraid that the father and mother will worry about themselves.
Since you can't get a divorce for various reasons, leave! Go wherever you want and live for yourself.
After nearly a year of planning, Su Min, who was ready, bid farewell to her daughter and galloped south to meet the autumn wind.
Xi'an, Kunming, Lijiang, Hainan..., she walked on the road and met countless new friends. He also opened a social account, learned to record videos, and put on makeup.
Su Min's fans grew, and soon exceeded one million, becoming an out-and-out traffic influencer.
She's getting prettier and making more and more money.
The feeling of freedom is so nice!
Today, Su Min is still running on the road, and she uses the money she earns to buy a new motorhome that can make herself more comfortable on the road.
It seems that Su Min is not planning to go home in the short term!
A good marriage can heal the harm that a person has suffered in the family of origin; A bad marriage can exacerbate this hurt.
Su Min is unfortunate, she suffered from depression in her unhappy marriage, and she has spent most of her life.
However, she is fortunate that with the support of her daughter, she can bravely walk out of the marriage cage and enjoy the joys of life.
It is Su Min who makes us believe that no matter what identity, what age, as long as you are willing to change, it is not too late.
Stepping out of the small world, you will see the big world outside.