In 2001, the sketch "Selling Abduction" turned out to be a success, and once it was broadcast, it quickly won the applause and love of the audience.
Immediately after the next year, the sketch "Buy a Car" appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, quickly setting off a hot wave.
As the main actor, Zhao Benshan, Fan Wei and Gao Xiumin quickly became popular all over the country.
Gao Xiumin, as one of the few comedy actresses in China,
Many excellent works were performed to the audience, and they were deeply loved by everyone.
However, the career is thriving, but the feelings are very bumpy,
She had a marriage in her life, two men,
After divorcing her ex-husband, she walked with He Qingkui,
One of the two is a screenwriter and the other is an actor, and the works created with tacit understanding are deeply loved by everyone.
What is unexpected is that He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin are not married.
He Qingkui did not divorce the original partner, but lived with Gao Xiumin,
After Gao Xiumin's death, He Qingkui returned to his original partner.
What makes it possible for three people to coexist peacefully?
And what makes Gao Xiumin "know three when three"?
Now that Gao Xiumin has been dead for 17 years, what kind of life does He Qingkui live?
Speaking of Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui, both of whom are fellow countrymen, both were born in Buyeo City, Songyuan City, Jilin Province.
He Qingkui is 12 years older than Gao Xiumin,
By chance, the two got to know each other.
He Qingkui's taking the road of literature and art is related to his "dropping out of school".
Because he could not afford to pay the tuition fee and could not afford to study, He Qingkui went to school to go to the production team.
At that time, the production team was recorded for work points, He Qingkui was young, and the first thing the captain arranged for him was "planing feces".
It was winter, and the manure of the production team was stacked as high as a house.
Holding an 18-pound pickaxe planer, the car was not full for a day, but He Qingkui was tired and painful.
The next day, He Qingkui's mother took him to the production team to find the troupe's people.
He Qingkui's father invited the person who led the troupe to his home and said to the people: "Look at this child, he can't do the work, he sleeps in pain and hums, you see if you can go to the troupe with you, follow you to learn to sing".
Even if this matter was settled like this, in this way, He Qingkui followed the group to learn.
He Qingkui could not go to the stage at first, and could only learn below,
After watching several scenes in succession, he felt that he had repeated these several times, so he thought of writing one himself.
So he went to the captain and asked, "Can we play our own things?"
"Okay, yes, will you make it up, and if you can make it up, you can write one," the captain replied.
Therefore, He Qingkui wrote a small paragraph for two people to turn, found the address of the newspaper and sent it to him.
A few days later, He Qingkui saw his name in the newspaper, but he was excited, and the team knew about it and gave him 2 points.
Such an achievement in writing for the first time greatly encouraged He Qingkui, and he was out of control after that.
Coincidentally, He Qingkui had a work that was just played by Gao Xiumin.
Gao Xiumin sang duo with the local folk singing group at the age of 15.
17-year-old urban refinery publicity team recruited actors, she sang a song "embroidered gold plaque" was looked at by the factory, and then entered the factory,
This gave me the opportunity to star in a work written by He Qingkui.
But at that time, the two were just a cooperative relationship, and after the performance, they were busy with their own careers and had their own lives.
In 1978, Gao Xiumin decided to apply for the literary and art group, but because he was too thin, he was not admitted to the literary and art group.
Seeing that Gao Xiumin was not small, the family began to marry Zhang Luo,
Gao Xiumin also had no opinion, so he married a man named Li Yunqi.
Shortly after the marriage, Gao Xiumin gave birth to a daughter named Li Xuan.
After the birth of the child, Gao Xiumin still has a "literary dream" in her heart.
Undeterred, she took the troupe again and was eventually admitted to the Buyeo Civic Art Troupe.
He Qingkui also met people who have worked together for a lifetime,
Once Zhang Yanru went to see a performance, and when she learned that He Qingkui was the screenwriter of this performance work, she admired him very much, and then Zhang Yanru often went to see the performance.
Zhang Yanru is a city person, young, beautiful, there is such a big beautiful woman to chat with herself every day, He Qingkui is difficult not to be moved.
The two come and go to determine a relationship.
Although He Qingkui was a little famous in the regiment at that time, he was still from the countryside after all.
Besides, writing paragraphs and writing manuscripts depends on luck, and not every article can be achieved.
Zhang Yanru's family resolutely disagreed, but Zhang Yanru identified He Qingkui and directly received a certificate from He Qingkui.
The two are already married, and Zhang Yanru's family has no choice but to agree to be together.
After marriage, Zhang Yanru bore He Qingkui two sons and a daughter.
It also responds to the conjecture of Zhang Yanru's parents,
After what He Qingkui wrote, because no one liked it, no one acted, and the manuscripts thrown out were all sunk in the sea.
In order to support his family, He Qingkui sells vegetables in the wet market in the summer and frozen fish in the winter, and his life is still passable.
Although the days were hard, He Qingkui insisted on going home at night to write a manuscript.
Although he did not reply to the manuscript he submitted each time, He Qingkui never gave up.
Coincidentally, Gao Xiumin's family lives near He Qingkui's fish seller.
She would go to the market every day to buy vegetables, and she would always say hello when she passed by.
Gao Xiumin and Zhang Yanru will often change things to eat with each other, and both families are very familiar.
No one could have imagined that the fate of the three people would change drastically in the future.
Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui met again, and the situation of the two was completely different.
At that time, Gao Xiumin was already the head of the business group in the regiment, while He Qingkui was selling fish and vegetables for his livelihood.
In the winter, Gao Xiumin looked at He Qingkui and crippled,
Then he said to him, "Big brother, how much is your fish a pound?"
"Two pieces and one pound", He Qingkui replied,
"Two pieces and a pound have not been bought, you put it up, I will let the people in the group divide it tomorrow," Gao Xiumin said while helping He Qingkui to pack together.
The fish were sold, and He Qingkui was fine.
The two of them talked there for a while.
Gao Xiumin looked at He Qingkui who was freezing and tiptoeing, and then said to him, "Big brother, you can write you, this is much better than buying vegetables, you write for us in the group, you write I will give you a performance, and then give you 200."
As soon as he heard that there was money to take, He Qingkui agreed without thinking about it.
With the support of Gao Xiumin, He Qingkui's creative road is very smooth,
Later, Gao Xiumin recommended him to Dongliao County as a full-time creator.
During this period, He Qingkui wrote a total of four programs, each of which won awards, one of which was still a first prize.
Successively achieved such good results, in addition to He Qingkui's script is well written, it is also inseparable from Gao Xiumin's performance,
He Qingkui was shocked by Gao Xiumin's first performance of his own work, and he thought, "I'd rather not want anything, but also build her."
"With an 8-point book, Gao Xiumin can perform the effect of 10 or even 12 points", this is He Qingkui's evaluation of her.
Two people write one, one act, tacit cooperation,
In the continuous relationship, the relationship between the two developed from friends who helped each other to lovers who supported each other and grew together.
Both have their own families, which is obviously unreasonable,
But He Qingkui, who loved fiercely, identified Gao Xiumin,
In order to make Gao Xiumin accept himself, he also took the initiative to find Gao Xiumin's daughter Li Xuan and said to her, "I like your mother very much, I will be good to you, and I will always be good to your mother."
Gao Xiumin had problems with her husband's relationship during that time, and she quarreled all day long.
In 1992, Gao Xiumin divorced her husband.
Gao Xiumin's side was solved, and He Qingkui also went home to zhang Yanru and proposed a divorce.
Zhang Yanru went from being shocked at the beginning to accepting it later, but she firmly disagreed with the divorce.
Zhang Yanru insisted hard for the sake of her child, she said, "You can be with Gao Xiumin, you can also live together, but I will never divorce."
He Qingkui's negotiations were fruitless, so he had to go back to Gao Xiumin.
Gao Xiumin was a little uncomfortable knowing that He Qingkui was not divorced, but she also knew that this was not something that He Qingkui could decide.
Moreover, the two really love each other and don't care about the gossip of the outside world.
The two who established a relationship soon began living together.
He Qingkui promised Li Xuan, "I will definitely treat you better than your biological father."
He Qingkui said so and did indeed do so,
He would run far away to buy toys for Li Xuan and take her to eat KFC, Li Xuan was impressed by He Qingkui and took the initiative to call him "Daddy".
Emotional love is sweet, and the two of them have also ushered in a new turning point in their careers.
In 1992, Gao Xiumin resigned as an individual actor and began to star in sketches.
The two went to Shenzhen to work together, and the people in Shenzhen found He Qingkui and wanted him to write a work to participate in the national sketch competition, and the remuneration was 10,000 yuan.
In the end, "Baggage" created by him won the gold medal and won another 10,000 yuan in prize money.
After getting the money, He Qingkui took Gao Xiumin to the mall to sell out.
The two went to the gold shop to buy a set of jewelry, the gold at that time was 80 a gram, and the two specially picked thick and large to buy,
Finally, Gao Xiumin's hands, neck, and ears were wearing clanging.
After buying gold, the two also went shopping, wearing high heels, Gao Xiumin was tired after a while,
He Qingkui had to exchange his shoes with Gao Xiumin's shoes.
He gave his leather shoes to Gao Xiumin, and he walked all the way home in his high heels.
This thing will certainly attract attention now, let alone in that era,
But at that time, He Qingkui thought to himself, "Anyway, others don't know me, I can't make her tired, others laugh at me."
With money in his hand, He Qingkui's first thought was to buy something for Gao Xiumin, which showed that he really put her in his heart.
After that, the careers of the two got better and better,
Gao Xiumin, Together with Zhao Benshan, Fan Wei and others, she starred in many excellent sketches such as "Buy a Car", "Selling Abduction", "Heart Disease", "Water Delivery Worker" and so on.
Most of the sketches starred in are created by He Qingkui.
Later, Gao Xiumin also developed the film and television industry, starring in many film and television works such as "Black Land Yellow Cotton Jacket", "The Mayor of a Township", "Liu Laogen", "Northeast Family" and so on.
The two tacitly cooperate, achieve each other, become more and more famous, earn more and more money, and live better and better.
Unexpectedly, this happiness was shattered by an accident.
In 2005, He Qingkui's son died unexpectedly.
He Qingkui, who learned the news, quickly packed up his things and wanted to take Gao Xiumin back to Shenzhen to see.
Gao Xiumin refused.
First, she has no identity and position to look at, and second, she can't do without people here.
For this reason, Gao Xiumin lied that she had a job here and could not leave.
After He Qingkui left, Gao Xiumin was afraid that He Qingkui would not want to open and call him to enlighten him.
He also said to Li Xuan, "Child, compare your heart to your heart, and every parent who sends a white-haired person to a black-haired person will collapse."
But he did not think that He Qingkui would go this way, and what awaited him would be "eternal separation of heaven and man".
At 4:00 a.m. on August 18, 2005, Gao Xiumin died of a sudden heart attack and died forever.
Gao Xiumin died suddenly, and the family quickly called He Qingkui.
He Qingkui had not yet recovered from the pain of losing his son, and Gao Xiumin left again.
Unable to bear the blow, his legs went lib and he fell straight down, but fortunately someone next to him helped him, and he barely stopped.
On the day of Gao Xiumin's funeral, He Qingkui cried silently, and he could stand firmly by relying on the support of others the whole time.
But man cannot be resurrected from the dead, and he still has to look forward.
Looking at the empty room between the two, He Qingkui made a major decision after careful consideration.
His beloved woman has passed away, and he can no longer let another woman's heart,
Over the years, He Qingkui has been with Gao Xiumin, but he has placed his wife in Shenzhen for more than ten years.
In this marriage, Zhang Yanru was not wrong at all, but she was abandoned by her beloved husband for 14 years.
He Qingkui owed too much to his family, and he decided to make up for it, so he returned home to live with his wife.
After returning home, He Qingkui still took care of Li Xuan like his own daughter.
When He Qingkui left, Gao Xiumin's house, property, and all the things in the family where the two lived together, he did not take them with him.
That belonged to Gao Xiumin, and he took away a pot of flowers or even a brick to apologize to Gao Xiumin.
He left everything to Li Xuan.
Now that decades have passed, He Qingkui has gradually withdrawn from the entertainment circle.
But he never forgot Gao Xiumin,
Every year on the Qingming Festival and Gao Xiumin's death day, He Qingkui would visit Gao Xiumin's cemetery and wipe her statue clean.
It is worth mentioning that the statue of Gao Xiumin was designed by He Qingkui.
In the statue, Gao Xiumin is holding her hands together to thank everyone, and after inserting flowers, it means that she walked in the applause of flowers. Her whole life has been meticulous and wonderful.
On the tombstone, only Gao Xiumin's date of birth, followed by an ellipsis,
In the hearts of him and his daughter Li Xuan, Gao Xiumin never left.
Now Li Xuan has already started a family, her husband loves her, and her in-laws are also very good to her.
But she never forgot her mother.
Every festival and Gao Xiumin's death day, Li Xuan would come to the cemetery to visit her mother.
She wiped clean her mother's grave and statue,
She would sit down and talk to her mother about what had happened recently, and she would tell her mother when she was leaving that she missed her.
So far, Gao Xiumin has been dead for 17 years,
Li Xuan visits her mother every year, rain or shine, and such persistence is tearful.
For the feelings of Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui, everyone has mixed praise and criticism.
Some people admire and envy the feelings of the two,
Even after many years of death, He Qingkui still missed Gao Xiumin.
But some people say that He Qingkui is a "scumbag",
Since you love Gao Xiumin, you should divorce, which is unfair to the original match and makes Gao Xiumin sad.
Maybe Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui are true love, so don't hurt the third person.
Although Gao Xiumin has been dead for 17 years, the works and joys she once brought to the audience have always been remembered by everyone.
After many years of watching her works, everyone will still be amused,
Finally, I wish Gao Xiumin all the best in heaven.