Li Yong, as a well-known host in China,
He has hosted many programs such as "Very 6+1", "Lucky 52", "Wing Lok Hui" and so on.
As a host, Li Yong has his own ideas, and he insists on his own personality.
His humorous and witty hosting style was loved by the audience.
However, in 2018, the host who brought us laughter passed away forever.
Wife Harvin posted that "I will never lose my love",
A few short words contain Ha Wen's "love" for Li Yong.
Today, Li Yong has been dead for four years,
In these 4 years, Harvin did not remarry, treating her in-laws like her former parents.
In addition to her daughter, her life is to miss Li Yong,
Harvin's 4 years of persistence have brought many people to tears.
The fate of Ha Wen and Li Yong began in college,
In 1987, the two were jointly admitted to the Beijing Broadcasting Institute, which is now the Communication University of China.
The two were classmates, but they were not familiar with each other for a long time.
The reason is that Li Yong is inferior and not good at communicating with people.
Li Yong was born in Xinjiang, grew up in Xinjiang, and he never left Xinjiang before going to college.
When she was a child, Li Yong was very introverted, shy, and did not speak neatly, stuttering a bit.
Later, he found that singing could keep himself from stuttering, so he often secretly went to the grove alone to practice singing.
On the other hand, Harvin, who was born into a cadre family,
His father, Ha Jinjie, served as deputy secretary-general of the General Office of the Ningxia Autonomous Region.
Harvin grew up spoiled and very pleasing.
Two people one sunny extrovert, one shy introvert,
It doesn't look like people who will intersect, which is why the two don't know each other although they are in the same class.
By chance, the two people intersected.
Once in class, Li Yong came to the classroom early and chose a position of his choice.
After sorting out the textbooks and notebooks, etc., I looked up and sat a beautiful woman on the right hand side,
That man was Harvin.
At this time, Ha Wen also noticed that someone was looking at him, and turned his head to Li Yong and smiled politely.
This laugh directly hit Li Yong's heart,
After a class, the teacher's lecture Li Yong did not provide a word into it,
He watched Harvin the whole time and drew the side of Harvin's face with a pen.
Obviously, Li Yong fell in love with Ha Wen at first sight, and he was touched by Ha Wen.
"The power of love is great",
In order to attract HaWen's attention, Li Yong changed his previous shy, introverted, inferior nature,
She boldly expresses herself and actively answers teachers' questions in class.
Take the initiative to participate in activities organized by the community.
At a school party, Li Yong took the initiative to invite Ha Wen to dance.
At the end of a dance, the two became more familiar with each other and had some topics.
After that, Li Yong often went to chat with Ha Wen,
In the continuous relationship, Ha Wen also has a good feeling for Li Yong.
Li Yong sensed The change in Ha Wen's attitude toward himself and seized the opportunity to quickly confess.
Harvin agreed.
The news of the two people's love soon spread throughout the school, and teachers and classmates sent blessings to the two.
On campus, as long as there is a place for Hawen, you will definitely see Li Yong's figure.
The two are like "fairy lovers".
In the four years of college, the relationship between Ha Wen and Li Yong has always been very stable.
Although the two will also quarrel and contradict each other, they will eventually choose to reconcile because of "love" each time.
Ha Wen is a Hui, the Hui people do not eat pork, Li Yong accompanies Ha Wen and does not eat pork,
Every year on Ha Wen's birthday, Li Yong would go to the halal shop to pack a bowl of noodles.
Ha Wen likes to read, but in the winter it is cold and he does not want to go out of the bed, so Li Yong personally made her a small desk where she can read books on the bed.
Ha Wen is also very considerate of Li Yong, Li Yong often uses his voice to read the manuscript, and Ha Wen soaks the fat sea in his cup.
In the cold of winter, she knitted a pair of gloves and scarves for Li Yong by hand.
The two understand each other, take care of each other, and grow together.
After four years, there are laughter, there are quarrels, there are sadness, and there are sweet happiness.
Near graduation season, the two had the idea of spending the rest of their lives together.
However, when Ha Wen and Li Yong told their families the good news, they were opposed by their parents.
First Li Yong's parents,
Li Yong's parents feel that Ha Wen is a city man's father is a cadre, or an only daughter in the family, and people must be very strong.
If this child marries into the Li family in the future, it will certainly be easy to suffer losses when used.
After eating, Li Yong's parents called Ha Wen to the room and euphemistically expressed their doubts to her.
Ha Wen not only did not get angry, but smiled at the second elder and said, "Uncle and aunt, I am not what you think, you will see what I do later."
When Ha Wen came, Li Yong's sister was also at home, and the sister felt that Ha Wen was good, and her brother Li Yong seemed to be very affectionate, so she began to be a lobbyist for her parents.
The son likes it, the daughter is also optimistic, and the second elder is not good enough to say anything more, so he has to agree to the marriage between the two.
Li Yong's parents were fixed, and Ha Wen's parents were still opposed.
After Ha Jinjie learned that his daughter had found a boyfriend in Xinjiang, his face was immediately pulled down.
He felt that Li Yong was not worthy of his daughter, no matter how diligent and sincere Li Yong behaved at home, Ha Ginger just did not agree to the marriage.
Ha Ginger disagrees, Ha Wen will definitely take his father's opinion as a reference, then this marriage may blow,
In order to win the consent of his father-in-law, Li Yong did everything in his power,
Every festival, he went to Ningxia with a large bag to visit Ha Ginger, did housework at home, and cooked again, but Ha Ginger did not let go at all.
"This road is not open, change the road",
Li Yong hit the idea on Ha Wen's grandmother, Ha Ginger's mother,
He paid all kinds of filial piety and care to his grandmother, and coaxed her to nod her head.
His mother agreed, and Ha Ginger did not dare to disobey his mother, plus he felt that Li Yong was indeed reliable, and finally agreed to the marriage between the two.
In 1992, With the blessing of all their relatives and friends, Ha Wen and Li Yong held a wedding ceremony to officially marry.
After getting married, Li Yong and Harvin said that they would be a "Dink" family.
In the eyes of the two, the happy "world of two" is more important than the child.
In 1993, Harvin decided to pursue graduate studies in the Department of Television Program Production at the Communication University of China.
This year, Li Yongze was transferred to CCTV as a reporter.
The two of them worked hard and worked hard in their favorite fields, and agreed to become better selves.
In the following years, Li Yong served as the host of CCTV's program "Tianya Gong this time".
He has been the director of feature films, and served as the end of the documentary "The Vicissitudes of Hong Kong",
He has hosted programs such as "Get Together", "Long Time Family Fun", "Lucky 52" and become a well-known host of CCTV.
At this time, Ha Wen, who returned from his studies, was transferred to the Economic Department of CCTV.
The couple became colleagues.
Harvin served as the director of the "3.15" special program, and edited the column "Life".
Won the "China Journalism Award" for "One Person and One Regulation",
It is worth mentioning that Harvin has been the director of the "Lucky 52" program hosted by Li Yong since 1998.
Every time Harvin would always joke, "I'm the director, I'm your superior."
The husband and wife help each other in their work, support each other, and go through 8 spring and autumn sales together.
The two have not wanted children, which can upset Li Yong's parents,
In the heart of the second elder, Li Yong is the only boy in the family, if he does not want children, then the Li family has no offspring.
The anxious second elder began to "spawn" Li Yong.
The second old call urged during the day, called at night, and the phone rushed to Beijing to urge,
Li Yong couldn't stand it, so she simply didn't answer her parents' phone calls and didn't return home.
The second elder of the Li family saw that his son could not move, and simply turned around to do Ha Wen's work.
The two moved with affection and reason, and all kinds of great truths were exported,
The mother-in-law also said, "If you feel that you are too busy at work to take the children, your father and I can come to Beijing to help you bring them, you are still young or you will regret it when you are old."
I don't know whether it was the insistence of the in-laws and mother-in-law that moved Ha Wen, or the words of the second elder that made Ha Wen waver,
In the end, Harvin was successfully persuaded by her in-laws to agree to have a child.
Ha Wen agreed to have a child, and Li Yong naturally did not want to say anything more.
On May 20, 2000, Hawen gave birth to a daughter in Beijing, and Li Yong, a new father, was very excited and named her fatoumai Li.
The birth of a child immerses the family in joy,
Li Yong and Ha Wen were busy at work, and the in-laws came to Beijing to help take care of the children.
It wasn't until 2009, when Fatoumai Li went to elementary school, that even if there were no adults, he was able to take care of himself, and the second elder returned to his hometown in Xinjiang.
In the past few years that her in-laws have lived in Beijing, Ha Wen has not once faced Erlao hong, and she gets along very well with Erlao.
Every month, Harvin would give the in-laws a side and let them spend on their daily living expenses.
At first, the mother-in-law would record every sum of money used and show it to Harvin a month later.
Who ever thought, Harvin and Ben did not even look at it, she said to her mother-in-law, "Mom, that money is for you and Dad, you can buy whatever you want, don't show me."
In addition, Harvin also gave her mother-in-law an extra piece of money every month and said to her, "I gave you this money alone, and I know that we women sometimes buy some private things, so that you don't have to ask your father for it."
Ha Wen's words made the mother-in-law very moved.
In addition to giving money, Harvin also pays attention to the mood of his in-laws.
In-laws and mother-in-law in Xinjiang all year round, it is not easy to come to Beijing, some friends for many years always want to get together,
This is Ha Wen taking the initiative to help the in-laws contact their former friends, invite them to the house, and let everyone have a meal together to make the second elder happy.
As the children grow up, The careers of Ha Wen and Li Yong have also reached their peak.
Li Yong became a household name host with the unique gestures of the program in "Very 6+1" and the golden egg smashing link.
And has served as the host of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala for many times.
Ha Wen served as the general director of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala program three times.
Successful career, happy family, sensible children, happy family life,
However, what people did not expect was that the happy family was broken by an accident.
In 2017, some netizens posted on the Internet that "if you make enough money in China, you will go abroad, and CCTV can't keep the husband and wife" Article quickly appeared on the hot search.
After people learned the news that Li Yong and Ha Wen had settled abroad, they left messages under the article.
Some people even broke their mouths and scolded under Li Yong's Weibo.
"If you make enough money, run abroad",
"What's good abroad, forget about the people" and so on.
In the face of everyone's doubts and insults, neither Ha Wen nor Li Yong stood up to clarify,
Until 2018, Harvin posted on Weibo that "in the United States, 17 months of anti-cancer is over, never lose my love."
A few short words contain Ha Wen's thoughts and sorrow for Li Yong.
People also understood the truth about Li Yong's going to the United States at that moment.
It turned out that he did not go to the United States to be dashing, but to fight cancer in the United States.
It turned out that the "morning" that Ha Wen posted on Weibo every day was not to lament a good day but to commemorate the morning and use to meet the new sun.
Li Yong's death has made many people in China sad and regret for him.
But the saddest thing is Harvin,
During the anti-cancer period, in order not to let the in-laws worry, the husband and wife have been hiding the condition of the second elder.
In addition to accompanying Li Yong to fight cancer every day, Ha Wen still devotes his energy to "coping" with his in-laws who are far away in China, so that they can rest assured.
After Li Yong's death, Ha Wen worried that the second elder might not be able to eat his body by flying back and forth, and refused his in-laws to come to the United States to attend the funeral, so that the two sisters in the family could take their place.
After dealing with the thickness of the use, Ha Wen quickly bought a chance to return to the country to comfort the in-laws,
The in-laws first heard the news of their son's death and passed out in the hospital.
Ha Wen accompanies the second elder in the hospital every day, taking care of their condition and comforting the pain of the loss of their son.
Under the careful care of Ha Wen, the second elder's body gradually recovered and he was discharged from the hospital.
After being discharged from the hospital, Ha Wen arranged the second elder properly and said to them, "Parents, I will always be the daughter-in-law of the Li family".
She took on the burden of her husband's previous monthly living expenses for the second elder,
He then returned to the United States to take care of his daughter.
Fatoumai was educated by Harvin and was admitted to Barnard College at Columbia University.
Harvin simply stayed in the United States to take care of the children.
Knowing that the old man in the family thinks of children, Harvin tells her daughter to call her grandparents often.
During the winter and summer vacations, Ha Wen will take his daughter to visit the second elder in Xinjiang.
With fatoumai's company, the second elder also gradually walked out of the news of Li Yong's death.
Today, Li Yong has passed away 4 grandmothers,
But Harvin never stopped missing him.
Haven hasn't remarried for four years, and she's focused on her daughter.
Now that the child has grown up and has achieved success, Ha Wen's thoughts about Li Yong have not diminished but increased.
Every year on Li Yong's birthday, Ha Wen will send him birthday wishes,
On the day of Li Yong's death, Ha Wen will send another article to express his thoughts about him,
In the past four years, Ha Wen has never forgotten Li Yong, and Li Yong has never left in her heart.
Even if the heavens and people are eternally separated, but the heart that loves you remains unchanged, Ha Wen's "love" for Li Yong is tearful.
As a wife, Ha Wen is Li Yong's lover who supports each other and accompanies each other all her life.
As a mother, she is the strong, strong mother of Fatoumai Lee,
As a daughter-in-law, she relied on her in-laws' later life.
It is reasonable to say that Hawen is not related to his in-laws by blood.
But because they all loved Li Yong, because they loved him, three people who were not related by blood became relatives.
"Affection" is not only blood relations can have, as long as there is love in the heart, then people who are not related by blood can also rely on each other.