In February 1928, on the shore of West Lake in Hangzhou.
The 32-year-old Yu Dafu married the famous "West Lake Beauty" Wang Yingxia as he wished.
This romantic and beautiful wedding also caused a sensation throughout the city of Hangzhou; People have sighed: If there really are gods and immortals in this world, it is probably Yu Dafu and Wang Yingxia!
However, even though the admiration and praise were endless, they still could not stop Yu Dafu's debt to the original Sun Tsuen.
It can be said that this wedding with Wang Yingxia was completely carried out without the knowledge of the original Sun Quan; On the day when Yu Dafu returned with the beautiful hug as he wished, Sun Quan was lying in the delivery room, risking his life to give birth to their last child.
When she learned that her husband had remarried, this poor woman did not hesitate to seek death in an attempt to save her husband's heart.
But the original Sun Tsuen for Yu Dafu: always not his willing choice of wife;
When a man doesn't care, even if the woman does die, it doesn't touch any mercy on him.
Therefore, in the face of his wife's death, Yu Dafu did not care about the past love, let alone the newborn child, and directly proposed a divorce!
In this marriage defense war, Sun Quan lost badly!
【Sun Tsuen and Yu Dafu】
Uddhav's decision is more or less a rebellion against arranged marriages.
Compared with Zhang Youyi, who was abandoned by Xu Zhimo, and Zhu An, who was treated coldly by Lu Xun... Although Sun Quan and Yu Dafu are matchmakers in marriage, they also have a certain emotional foundation.
Before marrying Yu Dafu, Sun Quan was a pampered lady.
Her father, Sun Xiaozhen, not only inherited the great ancestral business, but also opened a factory to create a paper industry; Because of the solid foundation of the family, he simply used a part of his house to open a bookstore.
The influence of Han Mo's scholarly fragrance allowed Sun Quan to have the rare talent of women of that era; And her marriage to Yu Dafu is also the result of mutual appreciation.
The two were engaged in 1917 with the help of their parents; This year, Yu Dafu was 22 years old and Sun Quan was 21 years old.
Not long after the engagement, Yu Dafu hurried back to Japan to study; In the time that followed, the two kept correspondence.
Among the new literature prevalent in the Republic of China, Yu Dafu's old style poems are second to none;
As an old-fashioned woman in arranged marriages, Sun Quan's literary talent is difficult for many talented women to achieve.
The communication process between the two also allowed Yu Dafu to have a deeper understanding of Sun Tsuen; But these understandings and admirations have also deepened their feelings for each other.
"The wind-moving beaded curtain is bright at night, and the grass in front of the steps is pitiful. Youlan does not go with the crowd, and knows me deeply. ”
This is the thought that Sun Quan once wrote to Yu Dafu, and between the lines, it is not difficult to see this woman's solid literary skills.
For such a fiancée, Yu Dafu was glad that in an era when the vast majority of women lacked knowledge, he actually picked up a person who could sing peace with himself, and he marveled at her talent, saying that her literary talent could "overwhelm the old talents of the late Qing Dynasty." ”
But appreciation returns to appreciation, although Yu Dafu and Sun Quan were engaged at that time, they had no intention of getting married.
His amorous nature has allowed him to have many confidants in Japan; Even when he corresponded with Sun Tsuen, there was a divorced Japanese woman living in his dormitory.
He wrote: "This body is not allowed to be related to the elderly, please guard the Qing Palace for another five years"; I hope Sun Quan waits for him for another five years.
It was not until his elderly mother wrote a letter urging him that Yu Dafu had no choice but to return to China to get married.
Advocating Western culture, he made the wedding very simple, requiring that "everything is saved, worship and other things, are not implemented, and the flower car drummer is not used." There are only five seats of wine in the house, which are divided into two nights..."
In the face of these demands put forward by Yu Dafu, the Sun family, which has always paid attention to grand pomp and circumstance, did not quite agree; It was Sun Quan who came forward to persuade his parents, and the Sun family made concessions.
In this way, on July 26, 1920, Yu Dafu and Sun Quan held the most low-key wedding.
There is less of the bustle of the high-level friends, and only the silence of the wordless care is left.
On the wedding night, Sun Quan was pale because he was unwell; As a husband, Uddhav not only did not take care of his wife, but instead withdrew on the grounds of the scenery.
In this cold opening, the tragedy about the second half of Sun Quan's life also slowly began.
[Marriage 8 years of multiple cheating, she gave birth on the day he remarried]
The couple's initial marriage was quite sweet.
Sun Quan's talent is rare, and naturally it also makes Yu Dafu show heartfelt appreciation.
Therefore, from 1920 to 1926, whether it was on the banks of the Fuchun River or in Anqing, Shanghai and Beiping, it was the sweetest time for Sun Quan.
In the 6-year marriage, she carried the burden of caring for the family with soft shoulders.
Sun Quan has been raised in Luo Qi since childhood, but she has no golden temperament, even though her life is hard, she is as willing as a glutton, only because she is willing to sacrifice everything for him.
During the six years, the two were also separated; Due to the current situation, Uddhav traveled to Japan again.
But by nature, he came together again with his former lover Takako; For the sake of this woman who fell into the wind and dust, he even gave the diamond ring that was originally distributed to him...
Even after returning to China in the later period, Yu Dafu still did not have any restraint: the absurd love affair with the prostitute Begonia, the secret interaction with Yin Di, the sensational love affair with Bai Wei... It was all Uddhav's betrayal of his family and his wife.
For her husband's flower heart, Sun Quan is not unaware.
But for the sake of the family, for the sake of the young children, she can only open one eye and close one eye; At the same time, he also believes that even if Yu Dafu lingers in the midst of the flowers, he will not have the idea of abandoning his family.
In fact, Uddhav thought the same thing, and he explained his cheating behavior to his friends more than once: some new challenges that could not be avoided in order to find creative inspiration.
However, how can a bottomless marriage that has been betrayed repeatedly end properly?
In the winter of 1926, Wanli Frost; Sun Tsuen's marriage with Yu Dafu also ushered in the most cold test.
This year, Yu Dafu was introduced and invited by a friend to work in the Shanghai Creation Society.
In January of the following year, Sun Quan was worried about her husband's body and specially sent him a sheepskin robe, which touched Yu Dafu. This incident was also written down in his diary.
But the drama is that on the second day, Yu Dafu, who was wearing a sheepskin robe, met Wang Yingxia, a woman who made him abandon his wife and son.
Although when he met Wang Yingxia, Yu Dafu also thought about hiding his name with Sun Quan in the rivers and lakes, looking for the white-headed old man who lived deep in the mountains; Wang Yingxia, who really saw the first of the "Four Beauties of Hangzhou", the romantic and amorous Yu Dafu forgot everything.
He forgot who he was, forgot his age, forgot his commitment... So, a 32-year-old husband with a wife began a crazy pursuit of 19-year-old Wang Yingxia.
At that time, Yu Dafu was already an honorary literary circle, and Wang Yingxia, who received a new-style education, had great admiration for Yu Dafu's talent; When she learned that the writer she admired was frantically pursuing herself, Wang Yingxia was undoubtedly moved.
But she also has concerns: growing up in a rich family, she can't accept being someone else's concubine.
In order to be with Yu Dafu, she specially made a request: yu dafu and Sun Quan divorced.
Yu Dafu understands the heart of a woman in the end, and Wang Yingxia at this age is exactly the age of vanity bursting, and she is poor and sour before the moon, and only a thousand dollars can make her heart blossom.
In Yu Dafu's frequent tricks, Wang Yingxia finally surrendered her weapons and surrendered; Therefore, when the two held an engagement ceremony, Sun Quan was still Yu Dafu's wife.
In February 1928, when Yu Dafu married Wang Yingxia as he wished, Sun Quan, who was far away in Beiping, was lying on the delivery bed and moaning in pain.
On this day, her third child with Uddhav was born.
Upon learning of Yu Dafu's remarriage, Sun Quan fought to the death; But this defense of marriage, in the eyes of Yu Dafu, is brutal and unreasonable... In order to clean up, he even filed for divorce.
8 years of friendship, say it off! This was Uddhav's decision.
But for the original Sun Tsuen: she could not divorce Yu Dafu at all, not to mention what kind of controversy a divorced woman would be subjected to, and the divorce of the two was also a fatal injury to three innocent children.
Under the mediation of her mother-in-law, Sun Quan finally accepted her husband's remarriage with tears.
But this behavior of the husband also makes the husband and wife's feelings never go back.
Since then, Sun Quan has lived alone with 3 children in his hometown; Yu Dafu and Wang Yingxia settled on the shores of Hangzhou Lake and lived the life of a god and immortal couple.
[Take Wang Yingxia back to her hometown to worship Shou, the mother-in-law's attitude is worth savoring]
The marriage between Yu Dafu and Wang Yingxia was sweet at first, but with the birth of children, the financial pressure at home increased; The two people also have more and more frequent conflicts due to their consumption concepts.
One year, Yudaf's mother celebrated her seventy-year birthday.
Wang Yingxia, who thought she was Yu Dafu's wife, insisted on returning to her hometown to pay homage to her mother-in-law.
According to the rules, first grow up and then young, first male and then female; And Yu Dafu is the third oldest, and his wife is also the last person to pray.
When Yudaf finished praying and got up, an interesting scene appeared.
Only to see Wang Yingxia rushing forward, but was preempted by Sun Quan, who was next to her; After Sun Quan got up, Wang Yingxia stepped forward again and prepared to pray for the birthday, but the mother-in-law who was sitting in the high hall immediately got up and announced the end of the worship.
In this farce, it is not difficult to find that even though Wang Yingxia and Yu Dafu held a grand wedding, in the eyes of the in-laws, she still belongs to an unrecognized existence; The competition with the original Sun Quan is even more Wang Yingxia's own amorous trick.
It is also because of this incident that the emotional contradiction between Yu Dafu and Wang Yingxia is more prominent.
When he was depressed, Yu Dafu remembered the virtuous and gentle original sun Tsuen.
One day, taking advantage of Wang Yingxia's absence, Yu Dafu took a five-hundred-yuan passbook from home and ran back to his hometown to visit the original partner.
This move completely angered Wang Yingxia; In her opinion: Yu Dafu's return to Fuyang to live with Sun Quan is a regression of my feelings, and it is even more unforgivable than prostitution. ”
It is ridiculous and sad: in Wang Yingxia's eyes, Sun Quan, who is the original match, is not even as good as the wind and dust woman outside; But did she ever think that even if she married Yu Dafu, the original Sun Quan was still the mistress of this family, and as a "latecomer", she was just an unpopular concubine.
So, Yu Dafu, who ran back to his hometown in Fuyang, is it true that he and Sun Quan are reconciled?
Sun Quanxian is generous, but it does not mean that she is scarred and can accept her husband's "prodigal son turning back".
After Yu Dafu came to his hometown, Sun Quan still made delicious meals for her husband according to her usual preferences; Just after Yu Dafu thought that the two of them had broken the mirror and reunited, he saw that Sun Quan's bedroom door had posted eight words ""The bedroom is heavy, and idle people can't enter."
Seeing these few words, Yu Dafu knew: Everything could not go back.
Yeah, he lost her with his own hands, how can he go back!
In 1934, in order to repair the relationship with Wang Yingxia, Yu Dafu ignored Lu Xun's persuasion and insisted on returning to Hangzhou to buy land and build a house. They named the mansion "Wind and Rain Maolu", and the property rights of "Maolu" belonged to Wang Yingxia. For the sake of this "hut", Yu Dafu did not hesitate to run around and move from east to west. Who knows that after the "Maolu" is built, not only is it financially tight, but the marriage of the two people is also completely broken.
Wang Yingxia has always loved to socialize, which also makes the sensitive Yu Dafu repeatedly suspect Wang Yingxia's infidelity; After the two fell into a stalemate, Yu Dafu even published a newspaper criticizing his wife's "cheating behavior"; This practice also completely ruined the marriage of the two, and Wang Yingxia unilaterally published a "divorce notice", clearly stating that the three children "all belong to Yujun's upbringing." ”
In this regard, the friendship between the two for 13 years has come to a complete end in this unbearable family ugly public opinion!
On the other hand, Sun Quan, who became an abandoned woman, even though she was cruelly abandoned by Yu Dafu, she still told the children: "Your father is a powerful writer, and he uses his pen to contribute to the country!" ”
Under the education of Sun Quan, although the three children were abandoned by their fathers, they never had any resentment; On the contrary, they are intelligent and have achieved success.
In August 1945, Uddhav was secretly killed by the Japanese army while protecting patriotic expatriates on the island of Sumatra.
After the original Sun Tsuen learned the bad news, he burst into tears in an instant.
She had known him since she was 20 years old, and then survived alone for more than 20 years, which dissolved the resentment and forgiven the tricks of fate, but on the eve of the victory of the War of Resistance, her husband fell.
After that, every year on the 15th of July in the lunar calendar, she would pray to the south and hope that her husband's soul would return to his hometown.
Thinking of all kinds of friendships, this is the last thing she can do.
A long time passed, and the years were stained with white frost.
On the occasion of Sun Quan's 80th birthday, his children and grandchildren came to pay their respects.
Learning of her past with Yu Dafu, the little grandson once asked her: "Grandma, do you hate Grandpa?" ”
Hearing this, Sun Quan was a little confused, and then laughed softly: "I don't hate your grandfather, he is a hero." ”
As a wife who has been abandoned for many years, she can hate; But these hates are not because of love!
In the long years, those who created people's fates and trivial marriage entanglements all disappeared.
When the past is gone, it is no longer obsessed with love and hate, and the memory that gradually becomes blurred, because of the things that cannot go back, only deep nostalgia remains.
She had always been a transparent and kind woman, but it was just a wrong encounter, a mistake in her life.
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