The long summer vacation "set off", when the mother of me, has collapsed!
I need a bottle of "quick-acting heart-saving pills."
The root cause of my "illness" is not because of tutoring homework or other things in my studies, but because of "eating".
I have a feeling of not spitting out unhappiness and want to share it with my mothers, is there something wrong with me?
I admit that I am more inclined to TCM when it comes to seeing a doctor when a child is sick.
Take coughs, colds, diarrhea, moxibustion and massage are basically done, and there is no greater harm to the child's kidneys.
However, what I did not expect was that believing in "Chinese medicine" is a road of no return.
Take the matter of eating cold drinks.
In the autumn, the child wants to eat cold drinks, I say wait for summer, in winter the child wants to eat cold drinks, I say wait for summer, spring, children want to eat cold drinks, I say wait for summer.
When it was summer, the child asked me if I could eat cold drinks, and I said that I would eat them when the weather was hot.
(Am I too bad?) ）
It was so hot I couldn't push it anymore.
The child ate two ice creams in three days and could not eat.
Do not let the child eat cold drinks, it is the stepmother, let the child eat cold drinks, directly even the meal is saved, this is not the "stepmother" behavior to sit down?
It's too hard to be a mom, woo hoo!
I told Shu's treasure, then you eat some potato chips, the child said he didn't want to eat.
I said what you want to eat, he said cold drink.
My war with my children, after the introduction of third parties, the situation worse and worse.
Dad firmly supported the child to eat cold drinks and bought oversized roots.
I didn't say a word, and the child asked me, "Mom, when will I be able to eat the whole root?" ”
(It's funny!) ）
I said, "That's estimated to be 12 years old, right?" ”
The child turned to me and asked, "Mom, when am I going to be 12?" ”
I choked back by a question.
I asked the child, "Do you think Dad loves you more?" ”
The child said, "Yes! ”
I said, "Indulgence is not, restraint is!" ”
The child asked me, "Mom: What is connivance?" ”
I was simply defeated by your naivety!
In this way, the summer vacation was only a week, and I lost the battle on the issue of whether to eat ice cream or not!
At the same time, I ended up with the title of "stepmother".
The sequelae of eating "cold drinks", in addition to hurting the spleen and stomach, not thinking about eating, there is also the ability to discipline children, he learned to steal snacks.
It's really hard to be a competent and qualified mother!
In addition to eating, let's talk about "learning".
Shu's treasure did not have any heart in learning, not because he learned well, but because he was not addicted to electronic products.
This is by no means Versailles.
Every time, I forced him to watch TV or watch a documentary with him, but after watching only one episode, I asked to turn it off, which made me very helpless.
Shu's treasure is as interested in "eating cold drinks" as "reading", and he loves to read.
During the summer vacation, he was accompanied to recognize words through the "Explanation of Words and Characters", and in addition, he was accompanied by a systematic reading of the ancient Chinese mythology series.
In addition to reading, he also likes to draw, which makes my disposable time for study and writing become full.
On the issue of watching TV for children, it is better to block than to slacken, some parents in order to avoid their children's addiction to watching TV, some do not install TV at home, and some install TV, to the home disconnection.
The result of parents doing this is likely to be that the child reaches adolescence and is obsessed with electronic products, at that time, it cannot be controlled, and it cannot be managed.
Therefore, when the child is small, within the range of vision, do not restrict the child to watch, train to turn off the TV, in addition, it is best for parents not to brush the mobile phone in front of the child without scruples.
As a parent, training "divine beasts", daily worries are not the same, in a word, it is not easy to be a mother, pain and happiness!
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