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On January 30, 2016, Yin Xiaotian posted that just the day before, he had received the best New Year's gift.
It is not difficult to see from his illustrations that on January 29, he happily upgraded to become a father.
At that moment, across the screen, we can all feel the joy in his heart.
However, no one expected that his happiness lasted only a month.
When the child was just full moon, an article titled "When the wife and children of the popular male star are both missing", it shocked everyone.
The popular male star in the title is Yin Xiaotian, who thought that he had ushered in a happy and sweet married life, but he was abandoned by his newlywed wife, and his children were missing at the same time.
This makes people can't help but think of the knife door incident that caused a sensation in the entertainment industry, and they all lamented that Yin Xiaotian's luck was really a little worse.
If it weren't for that false accusation, Yin Xiaotian would definitely have another life today.
In 1978, Yin Xiaotian was born into a military family in Shenyang, Liaoning Province.
My grandfather participated in the War of Resistance Against Japan and was a hero who defended his family and country, and his father also took up a gun as a soldier.
Because his parents are both civil servants, Yin Xiaotian's family is not bad.
He has always been handsome from childhood to adulthood, which seems to imply that his future path as an actor will be smooth.
Yin Xiaotian began to study dance professionally at the age of 8 and was admitted to the Central Academy of Drama at the age of 16.
It was a refreshing experience, because before him, he had never been admitted to this school at such a young age.
In the 4 years of the Chinese opera, the young Yin Xiaotian "played" very happily and released his nature to the fullest.
What is even more enviable is that his height has grown from 1 meter 72 to 1 meter 80, which is a perfect transformation into a tall and handsome big boy.
After Yin Xiaotian graduated, the development of the entertainment industry was quite smooth.
While other students were still busy looking for jobs, he had already become famous with "What to Save You, My Love", and then starred in a number of popular dramas, jumping into the first-line industry of the entertainment industry.
When filming "Children of the Courtyard", Yin Xiaotian seemed to have turned red and purple.
At that time, in addition to filming, he also had various commercial endorsements, and he was so busy every day that he even forgot to fall in love.
In 2011, Yin Xiaotian, whose career development has been very smooth, encountered a dark moment in his life.
That year, as usual, he starred in a TV series "Guns and Bullets", and the heroine who played with him at that time was Bian Xiaoxiao.
At that time, two young people had an argument on the set because they had their own opinions about the role.
But it was just a small episode in the whole filming process, and soon they shook hands under the mediation of the director.
Unexpectedly, a year later, Bian Xiaoxiao's assistant posted that Bian Xiaoxiao was beaten by Yin Xiaotian when filming this play. Bian Xiaoxiao even said the details of his beating at that time, and even posted a screenshot of the video.
Although Yin Xiaotian strenuously denied it, the unknown stars in the circle and the melon-eating masses still took sides.
Many popular stars, including Li Chen, Du Chun, and Jia Nailiang, have supported Bian Xiaoxiao and angrily denounced Yin Xiaotian's dirty behavior.
Although there were also many stars who supported Yin Xiaotian at that time, under the bombardment of a large number of netizens, his remarks were so pale and powerless, as if no matter what he said, he became a justification.
It is conceivable how much of a negative impact this will have on Yin Xiaotian's cause.
Although the full video was later exposed and Yin Xiaotian's innocence was returned, his collapsed personality seemed to be difficult to reshape, and for a while the scenery was no longer there, and the film contracts and endorsements left him.
There were no film and television dramas to shoot, and there were no commodities to endorse, and Yin Xiaotian's life suddenly became idle.
It was precisely during this time that he had the idea of getting married, and he met Harina by mistake.
In Harina's self-description, she is completely a white rich beauty.
What we can see to the naked eye is that her appearance is indeed beautiful, and the hearsay says that she was born into a solid family and also has a postgraduate degree from the Central University of Finance and Economics.
At that time, after Yin Xiaotian experienced the knife door incident, his career development was seriously hindered, and his popular reputation was not as good as before.
In the face of such a good Harina, he even had a feeling of self-pity and soon fell in love.
Yin Xiaotian introduced Harina to her parents, and when she saw that her son had found a beautiful and good girlfriend, the old couple was of course very happy and urged their son to quickly set up a major life event.
On September 5, 2015, after knowing each other for more than a year, the two walked into the marriage hall hand in hand.
On the wedding day, Harina's parents did not show up, and Harina's original promise of 1 million dowry and 10 million marriage room was more like drawing a big pie and not being fulfilled.
At that moment, Yin Xiaotian suddenly suspected the excellent wife in front of him, and after some understanding, he finally knew Harina's true background.
The so-called parents are executives and successful businessmen are fake, they just opened a breakfast shop, and her own graduate degree is also fabricated.
On January 29, 2016, Yin Xiaotian and Harina's son was born.
But after her son's full moon, Harina disappeared with her son, and when they met again, she filed for divorce.
However, she refused Yin Xiaotian's request to see her son.
In desperation, Yin Xiaotian could only sue for divorce, but although he was a victim, he still paid a high price and paid a large amount of compensation and maintenance.
In this scam, Yin Xiaotian can be described as a heavy loss, not only losing a lot of money, but also making the family fall into pain.
Especially his father, because of excessive sadness, his physical condition took a sharp turn for the worse, and he suffered from rectal cancer in 2020.
In the last period of his father's life, he was most worried about Yin Xiaotian's marriage.
As long as he is conscious, the father will constantly ask his son if he has found a girlfriend, hoping that his son will get married.
However, until the moment of his father's death, Yin Xiaotian did not find the other half of his life.
In order not to let his father have regrets, he took a photo of himself and his colleagues and told a white lie, so that his father could leave with peace of mind.
When his father was ill, Yin Xiaotian's career had improved a little.
Although he can't be a big male protagonist like before, he finally received a lot of film contracts, and he won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Supporting Actor award by virtue of his own strength.
After the divorce, Harina returned to her hometown in Inner Mongolia with her children, although she was wrong to cheat on marriage at the beginning, but in all fairness, as a mother, she is still very qualified.
Harina runs her own brand store with her children.
In order to be able to attract business, she often used the title of Yin Xiaotian's ex-wife for publicity.
Although netizens scoffed at this, Yin Xiaotian did not question it.
Although the two have become strangers after their divorce, in order to let the children grow up healthily, Harina did not prevent Yin Xiaotian from visiting the child, and Yin Xiaotian did not count Harina's not in the child's ear.
The two seem to have reached a consensus that for the sake of their children, they should also coexist peacefully.
Yin Xiaotian's life experience makes people sigh, and now he is only 46 years old, but he has suffered a double blow of career and love in a short period of time.
But fortunately, now everything has passed, although there is no new love for the time being, although the career is not as good as before, Yin Xiaotian is still working hard to live and work hard.
Such a middle-aged man who has experienced the darkness of life but does not give up, who can say that he will not be reborn in nirvana and create glory again?