1) From this moment on:
I want to encourage and praise the child more,
Instead of criticizing, blaming, and blaming the child.
Because I know that only encouragement and praise can bring children confidence and strength,
Criticism, accusation, complaint is just venting,
My emotions hurt the child's heart;
2) From this moment on
I'm going to influence my children with my actions.
Instead of using words to teach children.
Because I know that children's behavior is not taught,
Rather, it is influenced and imitated;
3) From this moment on:
I want to listen more to my children's voices,
Instead of rushing to judge the child.
Because I know that listening is the best communication.
4) From this moment on:
I want to love the child as he is, unconditionally,
Instead of loving the way I asked for it;
Because I know that's my selfishness and ego;
5) From this moment on:
I want to learn to squat down and communicate with my children as equals.
Instead of condescending instructions to the child.
Because I know that forced repression will only bring stronger rebellion and resistance to the child;
6) From this moment on:
I want to accompany my children with my heart,
Instead of being absent-minded perfunctory.
Because I know that only true companionship can make children feel the warmth of love;
7) From this moment on:
I'm going to control my emotions.
Deal with every moment quietly and peacefully with your child.
Because I know that temper and violence only represent my incompetence and harm to my children;
8) From this moment on:
I want to take the initiative to deal with the relationship with my lover,
Create a harmonious family environment,
Never let the contradictions between husband and wife affect and hurt the children,
Because I know that only the harmony of husband and wife is the greatest love for children;
9) From this moment on:
I'm going to make my child look like he wants to be,
And not the way I was expecting it to be.
Because I know that children don't belong to me,
He just came into this world through me,
To fulfill his own dreams and missions.
10) From this moment on:
I want to plant more good causes for my children and do good deeds.
For I know that only by planting good causes can I bear good results,
The house of jishan will have a yuqing,
There will be remnants in the house of evil;
11) From this moment on:
I'm going to go through the child's questions,
Find out my own problems, fix myself,
Because I know all the problems of children
It's all my problem, I'm the root of everything;
12) From this moment on:
I want to be the best friend in my child's life,
Closest partner, most loving dad (mom)