It is said that Eve was the first woman in the world, also made of Adam's ribs, so she was cherished by Adam unusually, because she was his "bone in the bone, flesh in the flesh", and if she was slightly unpredictable, he would hurt. In the Korean drama "Eve", the heroine Li Lyle is such a woman who is sought after, cherished and protected by three men.
Starring Seo Rui-chi, Park Byung-eun and Lee Sang-yeol, "Eve" is a hot love revenge drama, telling the deadly revenge story of the heroine Lee Lyle who has carefully planned for 13 years and desperately tried to overthrow South Korea's top chaebol Han Julu. In the play, the heroine played by Xu Ruizhi has courage and strategy, beautiful and sassy, step by step, and constantly promotes her own plan, so that the audience can't help but sigh "top PUA master", "kneeling" and "when to start the class".
Lee Lyle
In addition to the stunning appearance conditions, what ability does the heroine have to achieve such a point?
Dr. Wu Jun, a Silicon Valley investor and winner of the Wenjin Book Award, mentioned in the book "Soft Ability" that human ability is roughly divided into professional ability and non-professional ability, and I will talk about what abilities are needed to become "Li Lyell" in combination with this book:
1. Professional ability
Doing any job requires knowledge in the field to solve problems encountered in that field, which we call "professional competence.".
In the play, Li Lyle is not only a professional tango dancer, but also good at playing the Band, this artistic attainment and appreciation magnified her beauty to the extreme, and thus shined on the stage of the kindergarten performance and attracted the attention of the male protagonist (the son-in-law of the enemy).
In the university of finance, management so that she can make a perfect business plan, even the top chaebol Han Zhenglu to see the praise, she also with the male protagonist Runqian (president) to discuss the business plan, encourage the male protagonist to expand the business, get most of the company's equity.
If I guess correctly, she is also good at psychology, from the perspective of her accurate grasp of the psychology of the female second and the male protagonist, prejudging each other's behavior in advance, and the mental control of the hand to the catch, she is not only good at it, but even to the point of pure fire.
Li Ler and Jiang Runqian
2. Non-professional ability
Non-professional ability is also known as "soft ability", including communication ability, insight, discernment, workplace ability, and action ability.
1. Communication
How much a person can accomplish depends to a certain extent on how many human resources he can mobilize, and this depends on his communication skills.
15-year-old Li Lai'er was destroyed by the chaebol Han Zhilu and fled to a foreign country, and 13 years later she returned under the pseudonym Kim Sun-bin, her adoptive mother was strong, her husband was the middle level of the male company, and the lawyer Enping, who had helped her before, is now a member of Congress and will always stand firmly behind her.
Because of her daughter's relationship with a kindergarten, she quickly befriended Han Sura (the daughter of the enemy) and her husband (the male protagonist Runqian), and took advantage of the contradiction between Han Sura and Yin Tanli to become a parent representative, further approaching the male protagonist in the name of coordinating the contradiction, becoming Han Sura's girlfriend, and then walking into the male protagonist's home to implement her next plan, and finally successfully pulling the male protagonist into her own camp to fight against the enemy. It's amazing!
Lee Lyle and Han Sura
2. Insight
Not only can you see what others see, but you can also perceive what others can't see, which is insight.
As the president of the company, Runqian is cautious and not angry, but Lyell is keenly aware of Runqian's situation of not being trusted and a lonely soul, and she approaches him step by step, seduces him, comforts him, and finally enters his heart strongly, so that he can no longer leave her.
Through Hansura's arrogant behavior and repeated washing of her hands, Lyle saw the fact that she was sensitive, suspicious, and eager to be loved by Humility but not loved. When it is discovered that Han sura is the real murderer of her mother, Lyle decides to mentally destroy her with the relationship that Han Sura cares about. Later, she designed a series of details that made Han Sura fall into madness in the search for clues until the relationship between the husband and wife collapsed.
Hansura
3. Resolution
The ability to distinguish between good and evil, right and wrong, right and wrong.
Despite Lyle's obsession with revenge, she has never been blinded by hatred, she is targeting bad people who are reckless and guilty, and Lyle, who is warm inside, does not want and will not hurt innocent people.
When the bodyguard who protected her was tortured to death by Han Sura, she begged Eun Binh to find a way to rescue the bodyguard and take him to the hospital in time, and the first words the bouncer said to her when he woke up were "You look like a good person". This is where Lyle differs from Hansura, who is soft on the inside and never implicates the innocent.
Visiting Lyle
4. Workplace strength
In the era of specialization, what kind of way to do things and what kind of attitude to cooperate with people usually determines how far a person can go on a career path.
Han Zhilu and the like intersect with interests and handles, are polite on the surface, and ugly at heart, so they will not have real friends around them, and when they are exhausted, they will scatter.
The reason why Lyle can make Councilor Enping always willing to help her is because their original intentions are the same, and their adherence to justice allows them to not be contaminated even if they go deep into the mud, and they are strong comrades who can give each other their backs to each other.
In addition, Lyell's high emotional intelligence and strong resistance to pressure are also important reasons why she can win this fierce competition.
Xu Enping
5. Mobility
A person can achieve a goal, and ultimately rely on action. People who are constantly attrition and do not act will eventually achieve nothing.
Lyle witnessed her father being beaten to the flesh and blood, and she herself was seriously injured by the robbery of the chaebol, but she did not let herself fall into the abyss of pain and despair, but planned for 13 years with hope, and then bravely took action to strengthen herself in the experience of blood and fire.
Because of the previous trauma, Lyle, who had PTSD, was also afraid and trembled when she first met the enemy, but she suppressed her fear with strong will and faith and did not flinch, and she kept desensitizing herself on the way forward.
Lee Lyle
3. Character
In contrast to ability, character is fundamental to a person and the cornerstone of success. It is difficult for a person who is capable of emptiness and has no character to go long.
Although Lyell's purpose is revenge, it is also a guardian of fairness and justice. Because of coveting Lyle's father's electronics factory, the chaebol Han Julu and his thugs are full of crimes and take lives, because of coveting the talented and beautiful Runqian, Han Sura is ruthless and ruthless, and takes lives.
Han Judge road
Fighting with such a fierce and powerful evil person, there is no point of strength and means to entrust the truth, but Lyle did not let himself become a monster, but always insisted on justice, goodness, warmth, self-control, this is Lyle's perseverance character.
Whether it is a TV series, or a real workplace or business war, Teacher Wu Jun's "Soft Ability" is a treasure book worth learning.
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