In 2014, a period drama called "Parental Love" exploded across the country.
The reason why this drama is so popular is not only because its theme is novel and interesting, but also because of the performance of each character here, so that the audience can deeply appreciate the life atmosphere of that era.
Ren Shuai, who played the role of Jiang Defu's comrade-in-arms "Lao Ding" in the play, caught fire because of his exquisite and traceless performance, and his widely circulated story with the "ugly wife" was even more envious of others.
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The handsome guy boiled into an older youth for acting
The actor who plays "Lao Ding" is really named Ren Shuai, get rid of a dress in the love of his parents, and Ren Shuai is as his name "Ren Shuai",
A body full of thick eyebrows and big eyes, a big man of one meter and eight meters with wide shoulders is very consistent with the Harbin Hanzi temperament that he always unconsciously exudes.
Ren Shuai was born in 1970 in an ordinary family in Harbin, and he has a younger sister at the bottom, and the family of four is plain.
And Ren Shuai has an extraordinary dream when he is young, he wants to be an actor, but not for fame, but for playing different roles to taste different lives.
Young men are handsome
In 1990, he was admitted to the military art, yes, it was Shen Teng, Sha Yishang's handsome school, and he was also a classmate of Dahua Yanni.
The difference is that Yan Ni is a literary and artistic soldier of the Lanzhou Repertory Theatre and was assigned to study military art, and he was admitted.
The two have similar temperaments and temperaments, and soon become "buddies" with a strong relationship.
Later, after graduation assignment, Ren Shuai also entered Yan Ni's Lanzhou Combat Drama Troupe, and his acting career officially began as a starting point.
At the beginning of the troupe, Ren Shuai was a newcomer, so he could only play small roles.
However, Ren Shuai was very happy to act, and the job of a troupe actor fulfilled all his fantasies about his job: he could act, have a salary, and tour everywhere with the troupe.
Ren Shuai stayed in the troupe for 10 years, and the salary increase was not large, but the role became bigger and bigger, and it was not a problem to pick the beam.
Ren Shuai did not have many opportunities to return to his hometown in Harbin on a tour, and at that time, the return train ticket was expensive.
One year during the Spring Festival, Ren Shuai was not rehearsed, and he could rest for a year, so he wanted to take the train back to Harbin.
But after searching around, he found that he had not saved a few money, not enough money to go home for the New Year, so he had to borrow it from Yan Ni, who generously lent him to let him hurry home to see the second elder.
Ren Shuai, who borrowed money, followed Haohao Tangtang's Spring Festival troops back to Harbin,
As soon as he entered the door, his father and mother were very excited, and the eldest son who was thinking about it finally came back,
Picking up my son's luggage is a kiss and a hug.
Ren Dad poked his head out of the door: "Son? Just you? ”
Ren Shuai was asked, "Ah, yes, I'm alone." ”
Ren's father was originally extinguished by his son's excitement of returning home: "Why is it so useless!" Also didn't bring a girlfriend back. ”
Ren's mother made a look at Ren's father and asked him to spare his son first.
In the next few days of the Spring Festival, Ren Shuai did not eat a single meal of Ansheng.
Ren's father and mother bent over to persuade their son to marry his daughter-in-law quickly.
"Son, you're almost thirty!" Don't always worry about acting, talk to others on the stage, but the reality is that you don't even have a girlfriend, you have to die for both of us! ”
Ren Shuai was filial piety, and he listened to the words of the second elder.
After returning to Lanzhou at the end of the Spring Festival, he made an application report to the regiment.
He wanted to save money to marry his daughter-in-law, but he could not rely on the salary paid by the regiment alone.
So he applied for a group to let him go out to take on the drama in his spare time to make more money.
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Career development peach blossoms also came to the door
Although Ren Shuai only set foot in the film and television circle at the age of 30, he has many opportunities.
After all, China's film and television industry was at its peak of development at that time, and there was a special shortage of photogenic TV actors. Years of experience in stage drama touring, so that Ren Shuai no matter when he enters the group acting, he is particularly fast into the play,
Acting well, he is becoming more and more popular with directors, and the film contracts continue,
Just in the first year of acting, he took over 4 dramas, that is, playing against movie emperors like Xia Yu, he will not be compared.
Ben thought of making some money in the TV circle and going back to Harbin to listen to his parents arrange blind dates for himself, and then get married.
As a result, as soon as he entered the television circle, Ren Shuai's acting career became more and more uncontrollable, and the peach blossom luck also quietly came under the arrangement of the old man.
Once, Ren Shuai's good friends in the circle invited him to his home as a guest, saying that he had invited a large group of good friends, and Ren Shuai was embarrassed but was invited to the appointment.
Good guys, as soon as they arrive at the scene full of people, Ren Shuai' brash northern big man plays very open on this kind of people's occasion,
He opened his belly to drink until it was dark, and suddenly a little girl handed Ren Shuai a cup of yogurt.
Subsequently, the little girl whispered to him in a tone with a slight Shanghainese accent: "I see that you drink so much wine, your stomach must be very uncomfortable, right?" It's much better to drink some yogurt. ”
Where can Ren Shuai, a typical northern Han, be able to withstand this kind of Jiangnan gentleness?
He fell, and like a big boy, he hurriedly took the little girl's yogurt, and inadvertently touched the little girl's fingers as if he had been electrocuted.
This girl's name is Xiaohong, and she is a native of Shanghai.
After this gathering, Ren Shuai began to pursue Xiaohong, and they were soon together.
Xiaohong is just an ordinary company employee, and when her colleagues heard that Xiaohong and the actor were in love, they all advised her to "be careful".
"People are actors, the beautiful women I have seen are not too good, and his family is not in Shanghai, and after filming here, he will pat his ass and leave." Xiaohong, you should be cautious with such a person, it is very likely that there will be no results. ”
Xiaohong is very open to these, she feels that anyway, at the moment, she likes Ren Shuai, then be bold to be together, think so much about what to do.
If he meets a girl he likes more in the future, then let it go.
Although Xiaohong thinks so, as she spends more and more time with Ren Shuai, she finds that she is really in love with Ren Shuai, so she becomes a bit troubled.
Ren Shuai's days of filming in Shanghai are coming to an end, and a date Xiaohong asked Ren Shuai: "Why do you like me, there are so many good-looking actresses in your actor pile, why don't you find an actress as a girlfriend?" ”
Ren Shuai said, "Because I only like you, I don't like them." ”
Xiaohong was touched by this bold and sincere confession, but still asked unconfidently: "But after you finish filming the Scene in Shanghai, you will return to Lanzhou, we..."
Ren Shuai suddenly realized that Xiaohong was insecure! He assured Xiaohong that he would definitely marry her and let her relax.
Ren Shuai and Niu Li stills
After returning to Lanzhou, Ren Shuai called his parents to tell them about himself and Xiaohong.
The parents cried with joy, and the boy finally opened up,
They all advised Ren Shuai to quickly propose to someone and settle the marriage in advance.
When he returned to Shanghai next time, Ren Shuai made up his mind to propose to Xiaohong, and he was waiting for a suitable time.
But Ren Shuai is not a clever person when he is in love, and he can't find an opportunity to propose to Xiaohong. Seeing that it was almost time for the two to separate, the night before Ren Shuai wanted to return to Lanzhou, he couldn't sleep at all, and in the early hours of the morning, he simply got up and called Xiaohong.
Before waiting for the sleepy little red squeak on the phone, Ren Shuai grabbed his mouth and said, "Xiao Hong, let's get married." ”
XiaoHong estimated that her head was still a piece of paste before she was proposed, and she did not speak for half a day, and the atmosphere was a little cold and awkward.
Ren Shuai realized that he was abrupt, and explained: "Don't be in a hurry to answer, you should think about it first." With that, he hung up the phone.
Ren Shuai wanted to be so abrupt, and the marriage proposal was not romantic, and he wanted Xiaohong to agree to hang ah.
I thought I was out of the game, and the next day when Ren Shuai and Xiaohong were eating at noon, Xiaohong suddenly blushed and said, "I agree to marry you." ”
Xiaohong promised to propose marriage to make Ren Shuai crazy, but Xiaohong also had a request to make Ren Shuai a little difficult,
That is, Xiaohong is a Shanghainese, even if she is married, she still wants to make her home in Shanghai, and does not want to go back to Harbin with Ren Shuai to live, after all, it is cold and frozen there, afraid that she will not adapt.
Although Ren Shuai made difficulties, he immediately returned to Lanzhou to resign from the repertory theatre, and he planned to settle in Shanghai and officially act in movies and TV series full-time.
Then he told his parents that he was getting married, that the other party was from Shanghai, and that he was going to settle in Shanghai with his future wife.
Ren Shuai's parents listened and expressed understanding, and they did not mind their sons settling in other places, the boy was determined to be in the four directions, he could not stay, the son could have his own small home, how could he mind if the happiness of the parents was too late?
Ren Shuai played Gao Fengliang in "Legend of the Blood Martial Arts Team"
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After marriage, career and family are not wrong
In 2001, the two got married, just at that time Ren Shuai got a lot of opportunities to star in TV series, career is in a period of big explosion, so Ren Shuai proposed: Let's first Dink for a period of time, first do not have children, wait until my career is stable, make more money, and then have children.
Ren Shuai's proposal, Xiaohong expressed understanding.
After getting married, Ren Shuai actually can't stand up to home, after all, he is an actor and needs to follow the crew everywhere to shoot.
But in order to reassure his wife, Ren Shuai called his wife every day after the play to talk about what happened in the crew.
Even if he attends the event, he will not bring a female companion, and he also keeps a distance from other female stars, so Xiaohong is still very relieved about Ren Shuai.
Ren Shuai and actor Jin Yifan
The two were married and childless for many years until Xiaohong became pregnant in 2007.
But at that time, Ren Shuai's work was still very busy, and not an ordinary office worker could still take leave or simply resign to take care of Xiaohong, Ren Shuai was really worried that Xiaohong would be very hard to take care of, so he proposed to Xiaohong: "Or let's go back to Harbin, my parents just retired, they can also take care of you." ”
Xiaohong knew that Ren Shuai wanted to fulfill his filial piety, so she agreed to return to Harbin to settle down: "Then we will go back after the Spring Festival." ”
In 2008, Ren Shuai and his wife officially returned to Harbin to settle down, and the house was bought near Ren Shuai's parents' home, which was convenient for moving around.
In the same year, Ren Shuai's youngest son "Youyou" was born.
Xiaohong became a full-time wife, focusing on taking care of their small family and letting Ren Shuai, who was working hard outside, relax his heart.
After getting married, Ren Shuai's career climbed steadily, starring in many TV series, although he did not become popular, but his "plastic surgery" acting skills made the audience impressed with every play he made.
In the classic TV series "Breaking into kanto", the big treasurer Zhen Sanjiang, played by Ren Shuai, has a momentum that makes people call out that this is not a bandit caught in the mountains as an actor.
Because Ren Shuai does not often go home, Xiaohong will take her son Youyou brush Ren Shuai's TV series to watch,
Every time he saw Zhen Sanjiang, Youyou would be frightened by the terrifying courage of Zhen Sanjiang played by Ren Shuai, and cry out: "This is not Daddy." ”
It made everyone cry and laugh.
In the face of her daughter-in-law who married far away to Harbin, Ren Shuai's mother was particularly distressed about Xiaohong and took care of her as if she were her own daughter-in-law.
Xiaohong is a reasonable woman, she and her mother-in-law get along particularly well, although sometimes there are some conflicts in life habits and parenting concepts, she will still choose to understand the old man.
After years of getting along, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have hardly quarreled.
Ren Shuai, who is "stable in the harem", has no worries and has risen steadily in his career.
Almost all the TV series he starred in have good ratings, but Ren Shuai himself is not very popular. But he is very open to this, after all, he is an actor, not a traffic star, playing the role well so that the audience can see that there is a sense of substitution, then he is successful.
As for the popularity or something, as long as the directors and producers in the circle recognize him, they have popularity so that they can have a role.
Ren Shuai has doubled his career and family in recent years, and his face is always filled with the joy of a successful man.
In an interview with reporters: "I heard that your wife is an outsider, and many people say that your wife is not worthy of you, so will you feel that you have suffered losses?" ”
Ren Shuai was speechless about this kind of question: "What is the loss of this, then my wife has also found me, a husband who is not at home and is filming outside every day?" Although my wife is not pretty, but she is diligent and takes care of the family, and takes good care of the family, I thank her for being too late, and still suffer losses? ”
Epilogue:
Accustomed to seeing who divorces and who splits legs every day in the show business circle, the shy and thin and long-flowing feelings like Ren Shuai and Xiaohong are really a clear stream, and they are grounded like every ordinary couple around them.
By this year, Ren Shuai and Xiaohong's marriage has been nearly 20 years, and the children have grown into 15-year-old teenagers.
I believe that in the next few days, the life of their husband and wife is still low-key and happy, and Ren Shuai's acting career will go farther and farther and create more roles.