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Shen Teng's "Longing for Life" is good, that is, he is separated from He Jiong.
Shen Teng called He Jiong a brother, but He Jiong called Shen Teng an uncle.
But the strange thing about this phenomenon is not in their name, but in that almost no one except Shen Teng will call He Jiong "Brother Jiong".
Checking the birth years of the two people found that He Jiong looked young, but he was actually 5 years older than Shen Teng.
And not only was he old, but he also helped Shen Teng a lot when he first started.
When Shen Teng's "Charlotte Troubles" was just finished filming, because he was not famous, almost no program was willing to do publicity for him; Later, it was He Jiong who helped to help, not only let him on the show, but also posted articles on Weibo to promote the movie every once in a while.
In the end, "Charlotte Troubles" was a fire, and everyone remembered Shen Tengmali, but no one knew that He Jiong had done a good thing in obscurity.
Therefore, although Huang Lei is also higher than Shen Teng in comparison, Shen Teng does not seem to have much special respect for him.
Like many others, he was called "Teacher Huang", and he would even make fun of him and make some jokes that hurt him.
But when confronted with He Jiong, you will find that he almost never speaks to He Jiong.
Because in Shen Teng's eyes, no matter how high Huang Lei's generation score is, he is only a predecessor who has nothing to do with himself; Unlike He Jiong, he is the Bole and benefactor of his career.
Not only Shen Teng, but also Ma Li.
In the show, Ma Li's title for He Jiong is always "Master"; Because Ma Li was in a similar situation to Shen Teng, she received help from He Jiong in her most difficult time, and insisted on calling him Master in order to be grateful.
What is he Jiong's reason for helping them?
He said that he was also doing this for himself, perhaps he saw the talent of Shen Tengmali and thought of helping them now, and he would have one more way out in the future.
But whatever the reason, it is enough from these to see that He Jiong is a person with vision and enthusiasm for helping others.
Just because he promoted the No.1 of Shen Teng and Ma Li's two-star realm to the national audience, it is difficult to annoy people.
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What He Jiong admires most is not his connections, but that when he is in the middle of the day, he can still protect his family so well.
In 2021, He Jiong's father was called Lao Lai because he was included in the list of untrustworthy enterprises.
This incident was undoubtedly worse for He Jiong, whose career was in a downturn at that time.
But even so, he still mobilized contacts to help his father pay off all his debts in just one month.
In addition, according to He Father's legal documents, the reason why He Jiong's father became Lao Lai was because the other company first defaulted on the debt, and He Father then engaged in a countervailing means.
In just a few words, he immediately took off He Jiong's father's old Lai hat and returned it to his family.
If you know He Jiong, you will find that in his family, except for his father who started a company and caused a little trouble, everyone else rarely appeared in front of the public, let alone participated in a variety reality show.
This is He Jiong's alternative protection for his family, preventing them from losing their daily stability due to overexposure. Also protected by him was his lover.
Since his debut, He Jiong has rarely been involved in love scandals with others. In the impression of many people, he seems to have never been in love with a woman, so that there are many artificial rumors that he has a problem with his orientation.
But as early as ten years ago, a magazine called "Yilin" introduced He Jiong in this way, calling his lover a woman named "Wang Jing".
Baidu's description of Wang Jing has only a professional photo and a few brief identity introductions; Her only intersection with He Jiong is to help the man publish books such as "Just Right" and "The Best Happiness".
Although I don't know if what YiLin said is true, in the impression of the media at that time, He Jiong must have talked about a woman; Instead of the rumors everyone has made now that he doesn't like girls.
Perhaps it is precisely because He Jiong is well-protected to his lover that everyone cannot get a glimpse of each other's true appearance.
He Jiong is not perfect, but he has reached the extreme in dealing with the relationships of friends, colleagues, and family. Doing so is tiring for ordinary people, but it is also the reason why he can succeed.
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Under the polishing of high emotional intelligence, He Jiong became more and more devoid of his own temper.
In 2020, He Jiong was scolded by everyone for praising Ouyang Nana's good acting skills, so that he had to personally apologize and admit that he was not qualified to judge acting skills.
As a result, the matter of apologizing was also on the hot search.
However, looking at the development of the whole event: these two hot searches are actually He Jiong's compromise with public opinion.
If you read He Jiong's complete conversation about Ouyang Nana, you will find that he is not praising Ouyang Nana from beginning to end, but comforting her.
When he learned that Ouyang Nana was violently attacked by the Internet for her acting skills, He Jiong appeared as an image of a persuader, asking everyone not to hurt a child who just wanted to learn acting with vicious remarks.
Therefore, at the beginning of his whole paragraph, he has already pointed out: he is not optimistic about Ouyang Nana's acting skills, but he wants everyone to look at this matter tolerantly.
Then he said the comforting remarks, which were essentially just to make Ouyang Nana feel better. As a result, this sentence was taken out of context and turned into a group attack by those who opposed Ouyang Nana.
What is unexpected is that He Jiong, who knows well, did not clarify himself because of this, but described his mistake throughout the apology statement, showing a hundred points of sincerity.
Although this apology made the revelers feel the joy of victory, it also erased He Jiong's personality and edges.
He has always appeared in front of the audience as a representative of "high emotional intelligence", so he must strive for "high emotional intelligence" in everything he does and says.
But in the Ouyang Nana incident, it was not he who was wrong, but those who took it out of context. Objectively speaking, he does not need to apologize.
However, in order to take care of everyone's emotions, he still gave up his emotions for this reason.
He Jiong, who desperately takes care of everyone's emotions, must be wearing a thick mask to work under the camera.
So we can see that he will lie in Zhou Xun's arms with his back to him and cry; Because later, he did ten thousand good things, and as a result, he was scolded by everyone for a bad thing.