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Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui
Gao Xiumin is a famous actor who has been popular all over the country, and has been honored to the CCTV Spring Festival Gala for 8 times, performing sketches such as "Code", "New Year's Greeting", "Selling Abduction", "Selling Cars", "Heart Disease", "Water Delivery Worker" and so on, which can be called classics.
She has also starred in many film and television works such as "Liu Laogen", "Kite Strange Edge", "Sailor Club", "Holy Water Lakeside", "County Yellow Horse Coat", "Halfway Couple" and so on, which has a high popularity among the audience.
Gao Xiumin's success is inseparable from the man who loves her the most, He Qingkui, and the two have not received a marriage license, which is a de facto marriage.
On August 18, 2005, Gao Xiumin died of a heart attack in Changchun at the age of 46. Now that Gao Xiumin has been dead for 17 years, what is the state of He Qingkui's life?
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He Qingkui (center) exhibits calligraphy works
He Qingkui is a legend, he is a rural hukou, only junior high school education, nor does he have any title, but he is a famous screenwriter, and many of the sketches he created have become university textbooks.
Many college students adored him, calling him "the contemporary Zhao Shuli."
He Qingkui, who has not attended college, is an adjunct professor at Jilin University, teaching literary creation to college students...
He Qingkui grew up drinking the water of the Songhua River, and on November 30, 1947, he was born in Dagujiazi Village, Simajia Township, Buyeo County, Jilin Province.
He Qingkui's parents are fishermen, he has many brothers and sisters, due to the large number of children in the family, living in poverty, He Qingkui has been malnourished since childhood, thin like a bean sprout.
At the age of 17, He Qingkui dropped out of school because of his family's poverty. Originally, he was both good in character and learning, and dreamed of going to college, but now that his dream was shattered, He Qingkui cried all the way home.
Young He Qingkui
At that time, according to the work of rations, in order to help the family earn work points, after dropping out of school, He Qingkui shoveled a large pile of dung in the production team, he was thin and weak, and it was very difficult to do physical work.
The next day, the mother interceded with the production captain, who arranged for He Qingkui to cut the grass. This job is not easy, at the end of the day, He Qingkui is so tired that he does not even have the strength to serve the bowl.
There is a small troupe in the tun, and the actors also have a job to play a duo. The leader of the actor troupe is He Qingkui's distant relative, his parents took him to find each other, wanting He Qingkui to do things in the troupe, and distant relatives asked He Qingkui to try it in the troupe.
In the small troupe, He Qingkui not only sang the northeast two-person rotation, but also began to write the script. He created "Two BillingMen", which was performed very well in the troupe.
The leader of the group sent the script to the Jilin Daily, and as a result, it was published in the rural edition of the newspaper, which caused quite a stir in his hometown.
He Qingkui, 75, casts a net on the Songhua River to catch fish and relive the old days
At the age of 19, He Qingkui was conscripted into the army and worked as an actor in the amateur performance team of soldiers of the Jilin Provincial Military Region. He Qingkui, a rural child, is actively motivated and dreams of being able to assign jobs in the future.
For two years, he hadn't come home to visit a single kiss. The mother wanted He Qingkui to cry every day, and then He Mother walked for a full 6 days to the railway station and took the train to Changchun to see her son.
When He Qingkui saw her mother, her hair was messy, her clothes were dirty, and she lived like a woman named Hua. He Qingkui hugged his mother and cried loudly.
After three years as a soldier, He Qingkui changed careers, and the relevant departments did not arrange a job for him. He Qingkui still returned to the small troupe in Tunzi, where he played and wrote plays while fishing.
In the winter, when the Songhua River was frozen, he went to buyeo county to sell vegetables on the streets.
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In the early years, He Qingkui and his wife Zhang Yanru
At the end of the 1960s, He Qingkui married Zhang Yanru, who was a member of the team. Zhang Yanru is a native of Buyeo County, 1 year younger than He Qingkui.
Zhang Yanru is simple and kind, admiring He Qingkui's talent, and does not dislike him as a rural hukou. After marriage, Zhang Yanru still works in the countryside.
Zhang Yanru gave birth to two sons and a daughter in succession, the eldest son named He Shuchun, born in 1969; The youngest son is named He Shucheng, born in 1971; Their daughter's name is He Ping.
In 1986, after implementing the policy of returning to the city, Zhang Yanru returned to Buyeo County, and He Qingkui and his 3 children also lived in the city with his wife.
Zhang Yanru was assigned to work at the Buyeo County Breeding Farm, the unit is more than 30 kilometers away from home, and it is very inconvenient to commute to work.
Young Gao Xiumin
In 1988, He Qingkui formed a folk theater troupe, he wrote his own script, and usually led the actors to perform in villages and towns. In order to take care of her 3 children and support her husband's work, Zhang Yanru soon went through the procedures of suspending her job without pay.
He Qingkui had known Gao Xiumin for a long time, and the two had known each other during the performance, but never intersected.
Gao Xiumin was born in 1959 in Siman Township, Buyeo County, and was an actor in the local refinery propaganda team. Gao Xiumin always wanted to enter a regular literary and art group, but was not admitted, and later entered the Buyeo County Folk Art Troupe as an actor.
Gao Xiumin has a good voice, and the locals call her "Little Guo Lanying". In 1986, Gao Xiumin was named a national second-class actor.
In 1978, Gao Xiumin married, and her husband Li Yunqi was a martial arts actor in the Peking Opera Troupe in Baicheng District, Jilin Province, and was later transferred to the Songyuan County Cultural Center.
Gao Xiumin and Li Yunqi
Gao Xiumin and daughter Li Xuan
In 1981, their daughter Li Xuan was born. Li Yunqi is not self-motivated, and is obsessed with tobacco and alcohol, and has also been hit by alcohol poisoning. Gao Xiumin and her husband have long-term emotional discord, and the married life is not happy.
In 1988, he Qingkui was selling vegetables on the streets of Buyeo County when he met Gao Xiumin.
At that time, Gao Xiumin was the deputy head of the Buyeo County Folk Art Troupe, and He Qingkui created a two-person transfer script "Who Marries Whom", hoping that Gao Xiumin's troupe would rehearse the performance, so that he could also get a little remuneration.
Gao Xiumin showed the script to the bureau chief, who heard that the script was written by a farmer who fished and sold vegetables, but did not read it at all.
A few days later, Gao Xiumin found He Qingkui, saw the longing in his eyes, Gao Xiumin could not bear to tell the truth, so he lied and said: I will go to the bureau chief to fight for it, and then I will give you 200 yuan in remuneration.
He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin
He Qingkui heard Gao Xiumin's embarrassment and said: It doesn't matter, you don't have pressure, it doesn't matter if you rehearse or not.
Coincidentally, soon after jilin province held the eighth two-person transfer performance, the Buyeo County Folk Art Troupe did not have a good book, so it decided to rehearse the performance of "Who Marries Whom".
No one expected that "Who Marries Whom" would win the first prize. A peasant author won such an important award, He Qingkui became famous in the province.
In 1990, he was transferred to the Dongliao County Theater Troupe as a songwriter. In order to thank Gao Xiumin for his kindness, He Qingkui recommended Gao Xiumin to the leaders of the troupe, and as a result, Gao Xiumin was also transferred to the Dongliao County Theater Troupe.
In 1992, Gao Xiumin divorced Li Yunqi and lived with her daughter Li Xuan.
Stills of Gao Xiumin and Sun Honglei's "Halfway Couple"
He Qingkui felt that Gao Xiumin was suitable for playing a sketch and suggested that she take the path of a sketch actor. Gao Xiumin followed He Qingkui's advice, and in the same year she quit her job at the Dongliao County Actors Troupe and was hired as an ordinary actor in the Jilin Provincial QuYi Troupe.
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Soon, He Qingkui created the sketch "Baggage", And Gao Xiumin took this work to Shenzhen to participate in the National Sketch Competition, and won the gold medal, and Gao Xiumin became famous in one fell swoop.
As a sketch screenwriter, He Qingkui accompanied Gao Xiumin to Shenzhen to compete. After Gao Xiumin won the award, both of them were particularly excited and went shopping together to celebrate.
Gao Xiumin was tired after walking in high heels for a while, He Qingkui wore 39 size shoes with her, he took off his flat heels for Gao Xiumin to wear, and he wore Gao Xiumin's high heels, which made Gao Xiumin feel warm.
Gao Xiumin
At the end of the awards the next day, dozens of media surrounded Gao Xiumin for interviews, while He Qingkui stood far under the tree, guarding the performance props brought from the northeast.
Gao Xiumin glanced at He Qingkui, he actually smiled at her, at that moment, Gao Xiumin was moved, thinking that this man was his true destiny. This trip to Shenzhen allowed He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin to establish a love relationship.
Back home, He Qingkui proposed a divorce to Zhang Yanru, and Zhang Yanru could not accept it and cried sadly.
When He Qingkui had nothing, he followed him and gave birth to 3 children for him; Now that his career has just improved a little, he abandons himself.
Zhang Yanru cried: I will never divorce you in my life.
He Qingkui, Gao Xiumin, Li Xuan
The 3 children were very resistant when they learned that their father was divorcing. In this case, He Qingkui did not go through divorce procedures with Zhang Yanru.
After a showdown with his wife, He Qingkui quit his job and went to Changchun to follow Gao Xiumin and live with Gao Xiumin and Li Xuan.
He Qingkui's 3 children were affected by their parents' emotional entanglements, did not have the heart to study, and dropped out of school one after another. The eldest son, He Shuchun, went to Guangzhou to develop, and later married and started a family in Guangzhou, and gave birth to a son He Jili and a daughter He Jiale.
After years of hard work, He Shuchun and his wife run a chemical sales company in Guangzhou. He Qingkui's younger son, He Shucheng, later became an actor, and his wife was also an actor. Daughter He Ping works in Buyeo County.
After He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin became a de facto couple, he went all out to package Gao Xiumin. Since then, Gao Xiumin, Zhao Benshan and Fan Wei have formed an "iron triangle" and shined on the stage of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala.
In 2004, Gao Xiumin and Zhao Benshan performed the skit "Water Delivery Worker" at the CCTV Spring Festival Gala
In 2001, Gao Xiumin and Zhao Benshan performed the sketch "Selling Abduction" at the CCTV Spring Festival Gala
Since 1994, Gao Xiumin has participated in the CCTV Spring Festival Gala 8 times, and her performances of sketches "Code", "Willow Dark Flowers", "Abduction", "Car Seller", "Water Delivery Worker" and so on are all created by He Qingkui.
He Qingkui and Zhao Benshan felt sorry for each other, and the two called each other geniuses. Under the introduction of He Qingkui, Gao Xiumin also starred in the TV series "Liu Laogen", playing the heroine "Lilac" in the play.
He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin write one act at a time, and the cooperation is seamless. The outside world thinks that they are a legal couple, but in fact, they have not gone through the marriage procedures, because He Qingkui and Zhang Yanru are not divorced.
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At first, Zhang Yanru regarded Gao Xiumin as a love enemy, and the 3 children also resented Gao Xiumin. Gao Xiumin is a kind and generous woman, who feels ashamed of Zhang Yanru and her 3 children, and she will accompany He Qingkui to visit them during the New Year.
Gao Xiumin
She called Zhang Yanru "big sister" and bought gifts for 3 children. The other party's attitude is cold, and Gao Xiumin does not care. Later, Gao Xiumin accompanied He Qingkui back to Buyeo County many times to visit Zhang Yanru and her children.
Gao Xiumin's kindness gradually resolved the resentment of Zhang Yanru and the 3 children, who no longer resented and rejected Gao Xiumin. In particular, Zhang Yanru and Gao Xiumin are called sisters.
In 2004, the 20-episode rural light comedy "Holy Water Lakeside", produced by He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin as producers and starring Gao Xiumin, was broadcast in a prime-time set of CCTV, causing huge repercussions.
The drama won the 10th "Five One Project" Outstanding TV Series Award.
Poster of "Holy Water Lakeside"
He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin
During the filming of "Holy Water Lakeside", He Shuchun, the eldest son of He Qingkui, specially rushed from Guangzhou to Jilin, did a lot of work for the crew, and also made a cameo role in the play.
He Qingkui's younger son, He Shucheng, played a supporting role in the play, and Gao Xiumin's nephew Queen Hongmei was the main actor of the play. During the filming, Zhang Yanru also went to the crew to visit the class, and it was very pleasant to meet Gao Xiumin.
Just as He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin were preparing to shoot the sequel to "Holy Water Lakeside", tragedy came unconsciously.
On August 8, 2005, He Shuchun booked a ticket to return to his hometown to visit his family.
Before leaving, his friend invited him to drink, and as a result, He Shuchun drank two more drinks. As he drove to the airport, the car collided with an oncoming truck, killing He Shuchun on the spot. He was only 36 years old.
Upon learning the bad news, He Qingkui was devastated and flew to Guangzhou full of grief to deal with his son's affairs.
He Qingkui and Zhao Benshan
Before leaving, he cried and called Gao Xiumin: You can rest assured, I will not fall, we will also make a sequel to "Holy Water Lakeside"!
Gao Xiumin also cried, who knew that this call had become the eternal trick of the two.
On August 17, After He Qingkui finished taking care of his son's aftermath, he brought his son's ashes back to Buyeo County to find time to bury him.
Who knew that on August 18, Gao Xiumin had an accident. A television station in Jilin asked her to record a program in advance, and when she called that day, no one answered.
When the staff rushed to Gao Xiumin's home, they found that she had died. After the diagnosis, the doctor concluded that Gao Xiumin died of a heart attack in his sleep at the age of 46.
Having just lost his son, and now the person he loves the most is gone, He Qingkui almost collapsed. He couldn't even walk steadily, he was put on a stand to bid farewell to Gao Xiumin.
He Qingkui bid farewell to Gao Xiumin
Gao Xiumin's unexpected death also shocked and saddened Zhang Yanru, and she let her youngest son wear heavy filial piety to send Gao Xiumin on his last journey.
After Gao Xiumin left, He Qingkui could not find the direction of life for a while, felt that there was no point in living, and he did not want to return to Gao Xiumin's home, because it would touch the scene.
He Qingkui's good friend Yan Xuejing has a house in Songyuan City, and He Qingkui lives in Yan Xuejing's home.
Gao Xiumin's death also pushed her daughter Li Xuan into the abyss of grief. Gao Xiumin's old mother is still alive, and He Qingkui and Li Xuan hid the news of Gao Xiumin's death from the old man.
The old man was more than 80 years old, and his brain was a little confused, until he died, he did not know that his daughter was gone.
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Li Xuan
After graduating from the China Academy of Performing Arts, Li Xuan stayed in Beijing to develop. Although He Qingkui is not related to Li Xuan by blood, the two have the same father and daughter.
When he misses Gao Xiumin, He Qingkui will call Li Xuan: You will always be my daughter, and I will always love you.
Li Xuan also emotionally told He Qingkui: You will always be my father.
In 2006, a year after Gao Xiumin's death, He Qingkui returned home to visit his grandson. Zhang Yanru cried as soon as he saw him, and He Qingkui seemed to be 10 years old, and he was particularly haggard.
Zhang Yanru had already let go of all her grievances and only wanted He Qingkui to be freed from pain. She said to He Qingkui: If it is not comfortable to live outside, go home and live, we have children, grandchildren, or a family.
He Qingkui
He Qingkui felt that over the years, he had brought great harm and pain to his wife, and he felt very guilty in his heart, and did not dare to face Zhang Yanru every day.
He said: Give me a while, I want to sort out the mood. Zhang Yanru said: The door of your home is always open for you.
In the winter of 2006, He Qingkui finished writing a script, and soon he met the famous actress Wang Luyao.
Wang Luyao became famous for starring in the TV series "Snow Mountain Flying Fox", and she liked the script very much and intended to invest in filming. Therefore, He Qingkui and she established Beijing Happy Lock Film and Television Company.
After that, He Qingkui came to Beijing to develop.
On the eve of the Spring Festival in 2007, Zhang Yanru called He Qingkui to go back for the New Year. He Qingkui hesitated, and then his son He Shucheng and daughter He Ping both called, hoping that his father would return to the reunion.
He Qingkui and Yan Xuejing
He Qingkui did not want to disappoint the family and went back nervously. This year's Spring Festival, a strong atmosphere of family affection wrapped around He Qingkui: the eldest daughter-in-law came from Guangzhou with her granddaughter, and a large family made dumplings together to watch the Spring Festival Gala, and they were happy and harmonious.
On the third day of the Chinese New Year, when everyone gathered around to eat, He Qingkui tearfully said to the children: Over the years, I am sorry for your mother, my heart is very sad, and I decided to live with your mother again in the future.
The children were in tears, and Zhang Yanru had mixed feelings.
In 2011, He Qingkui was 64 years old, and he established Qingkui Film and Television Culture Company, with his son He Shucheng as the general manager. He Shucheng is also his father's assistant and agent, he studied cross-talk with Shi Shengjie, his wife's surname is Zheng, and he is a national first-class actor.
After entering his old age, He Qingkui's life was rich and colorful, and he usually lived with his wife in Buyeo County. In the winter, it was very cold in the northeast, so he and Zhang Yanru lived in the eldest daughter-in-law's house in Guangzhou and took care of their grandchildren by the way.
He Qingkui in front of Gao Xiumin's tomb
Every time he goes to Guangzhou, He Qingkui and his wife have to bring gifts such as northeast sauerkraut, sausages, and fungus.
The eldest daughter-in-law did not remarry and lived with a son and a daughter. He Qingkui and Zhang Yanru understood the difficulty of the eldest daughter-in-law and provided financial assistance.
He Qingkui, who is busy and accustomed, can't sit idle, since 2016, he has begun to create TV scripts, and his "Liu Laogen 3" has caused a huge response after it was broadcast in 2019.
After the broadcast of his "Country Love 12", it was also deeply loved by the audience. He Qingkui was born in the countryside and lived frugally all his life, but now that his economic conditions have improved, he is still reluctant to spend money.
He wrote the script for remuneration, except for part of the wife to subsidize the family, the rest of the 3 children.
Li Xuanyu husband and son
In June 2022, Gao Xiumin has been dead for 17 years, and He Qingkui is also 75 years old, entering his old age. The years passed, but he Qingkui's deep affection for Gao Xiumin could not be washed away, and he still missed Gao Xiumin in his heart.
Gao Xiumin's daughter Li Xuan married actor Li Dawei in Beijing in 2007 and gave birth to a son, Liu Zitian.
Psychologically and emotionally, He Qingkui has always regarded Li Xuan as his daughter. Li Xuan also has deep feelings for He Qingkui, and the father and daughter often keep in touch!
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