If you have a daughter, these 9 safety rules must be forwarded to her, and the key moment can save her life

Author | Xu Diandian

The family has a daughter,

Be sure to teach your child these "9 life-saving rules",

Save your life at critical moments:

Stay away from the garbage people

"The Law of the Garbage Man",

It was proposed by psychologist David Polley,

He used garbage trucks to describe people who are plagued by negative emotions,

They're full of hazardous garbage,

Waiting for an opportunity to find a place to dump,

Someone just happened to bump into it.

It will become the object of their malicious venting.

What should I do when I encounter a garbage man?

David Polle argues that

Be sure to avoid heated arguments,

Because garbage people are irrational,

Reasoning with them is not only a no chance of winning,

It will also make them hurt you even harder.

If so,

Find a way to get away quickly, the sooner the better.

Do not eat food from unknown sources

at any time

Do not accept drinks and food from strangers;

If the outer packaging of the food is found to be irregular,

Keep an eye on it;

Something you've eaten in an unfamiliar environment,

Walk away and come back, you can't eat anymore.

Even with acquaintances,

In the case of not fully grasping the character of the other party,

Please adhere to one principle:

Food that has left its sight,

Determined not to eat any more,

In case people with ulterior motives plot against them.

Don't try to hit a black car cheaply

Travel by regular public transport,

Don't try to get a cheap black car outside the station to solicit customers.

Such vehicles have many safety hazards,

Even if there are no bad guys,

It is also prone to overcrowding,

Acts such as non-compliance with traffic laws.

When a person takes a taxi, keep these 6 things in mind:

1. Don't carpool with strangers.

Because you don't know what kind of people you're going to meet.

2. Shoot the license plate number before getting on the car,

and send it to their relatives and friends,

This action should be seen by the driver.

3, do not sit in the co-pilot position,

And to sit in the back row,

In order to escape in case of emergency.

4. Open the mobile phone positioning,

Make sure the driver is driving towards the destination.

5, do not expose your property in the car,

So as not to add unnecessary trouble.

6, keep the phone fully charged,

So that you can keep in touch with your friends and family at any time.

Refuse suspicious requests for help

Walking down the street,

Meet healthy adults looking for your help,

Please reject him.

You think,

There are so many big men on the street he doesn't look for,

Isn't it a bit abnormal to find a girl to help?

So, don't be soft-hearted,

In the face of a suspicious situation, directly refuse.

You can be kind,

But some people will take advantage of your kindness and hurt you.

Be sure to be outside of kindness and put on your armor.

As a girl,

Your power is limited,

It's important to remember to protect yourself before helping others.

Don't go to enclosed spaces with strangers

at any time

When the other party proposes to let you into an enclosed space,

Please do not say yes.

In public, bad people don't dare to do whatever they want,

But when you're taken to an enclosed space,

It's hard to say.

Don't fall in love with people who don't know what's not clear

Talk about love to stay sober,

Only fall in love with innocent and kind people.

Remember the other person's ID number,

Look at how well he registered the company;

Log on to the China Judgment Documents Network to see if he has a case;

You can also log in to the national list of judgment defaulters,

See if he has been put on the list of dishonest.

Don't go too quickly to the other person's house.

In the case of not fully understanding the other party,

Rush to the other person's house,

Not only is it not good for your relationship,

It also puts itself in a bit of danger.

Stay away from the ways that pass to die and live,

Pursue and retain your people.

Such a person, once the emotions are out of control,

The possibility of hurting you later is greater.

Don't let yourself get drunk without absolute certainty,

Because you don't know,

In your unconscious state, the other person is a person or a ghost.

At any time, do not take intimate photos,

So as not to become the handle of the other party's control and blackmail.

Do not disclose information about living alone

Girls who live alone,

Takeaway and courier at home are always left in male names,

Try to go downstairs or go to the station to sign for it.

You can also put men's shoes at the door,

or dry men's clothes on the balcony,

One more prevention, one more protection.

When a stranger knocks on the door, don't rush to open the door.

If there are frequent small advertisements or maintenance documents at the doorstep,

Take it away and dispose of it immediately.

Criminals will pass through these,

Come and see if there is anyone in the house.

When a person walks at night,

Don't play with your phone down, or listen to music on headphones,

Always pay attention to changes in the surrounding environment.

Suspicious people are found trailing,

Call a friend right away,

And speak loudly for the trailing person to hear:

"You're waiting for me there, I'll be there in 1 minute."

When I got home, I opened the door and rushed into the house and shouted, "I'm back." ”

And quickly close the door,

Prevent someone from following and taking the opportunity to break in and commit murder.

Remember the 12110 SMS alarm number

If you feel insecure,

When it is inconvenient to call the police in an emergency,

You can quietly pretend to play with your phone,

Edit the alarm SMS, send to 12110+ area code after the last three digits,

This is the SMS alarm number of the national public security system,

Critical moments can save lives.

SMS alarm, you need to pay attention to these 5 points:

1. Mute the mobile phone in advance;

2. The content of the SMS indicates the time, place and event,

For example: "A few buildings and a few units in a certain community, now, there are thieves";

3. It is inconvenient to answer the phone, which should be explained in the text message;

4. At the same time as sending a text message to the alarm, send a copy to relatives and friends, and ask the other party to help the police;

5. Deposit the SMS alarm number into the mobile phone address book in advance.

When in danger, learn to ask for help in a targeted manner

Shouting when in danger,

May be mistaken by passers-by as a quarrel between two mouths,

And it's not good to lend a helping hand.

We should find a way to destroy the property of people nearby,

For example, smashing the mobile phone of a passerby,

Let the Owner hold you down,

This is equivalent to one more helper.

If it is in the building,

Find a way to press the fire alarm,

Or shouting "on fire",

Attract more people to come out and help themselves,

Instead of shouting "help".

When in danger in public,

Ask for help from a specific person,

It's more effective than asking a group of people for help.

There is a "bystander effect" in psychology:

When there are more bystanders,

The responsibility is apportioned.

Because of the moral sense of the bystander,

It is not easy to be immediately aroused.

If you don't see others acting, you won't act yourself.

So, in an emergency,

Observe whether there are people around you who are likely to help you,

Launch a "targeted call for help" to him:

"This tall white T-shirt big brother is coming to my rescue."

In this way, his sense of morality is more easily aroused,

This makes it more likely to help.

adoptive daughter,

Destined to be more feared than raising a son.

May every girl grow up safely,

Be treated tenderly by the world.

May these 9 life-saving laws never be used.

【Forwarding】This article,

Let more families with daughters see it.

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Author: Diandian Xu, Editor of the Parenting Column, focuses on parenting and child psychology research. Some of the pictures are from the Internet, and the copyright belongs to the original author.