On May 13, 2022, the fifteenth anniversary of Chen Xiaoxu's death, a group of people dressed in plain clothes, with sad expressions, and holding a bouquet of flowers in their hands, walked into the Grand View Garden. With a heavy heart, they worshiped Lin Daiyu's stone statue, and everyone still remembered this "Lin sister", and the relationship between Chen Xiaoxu and Lin Daiyu had to start from Chen Xiaoxu's life.
First, a good family atmosphere is the first step to a successful life
On October 29, 1965, Chen Xiaoxu was born into an artistic family: his father was a director of the Peking Opera Troupe, and his mother was a dancer. Chen Xiaoxu has been hearing about it since he was a child, which has also laid a certain foundation for Chen Xiaoxu's future development and deduction career.
Chen Xiaoxu's original name was Chen Yefen, that is, because this name laid the groundwork for her tragic life, according to her father Chen Qiang recalled: the child was originally called Chen Yefen, at that time, there was an old gentleman who understood the I Ching who heard this name and immediately said to Chen Qiang: "This name is not good, it is Lin Daiyu's life, destined to grieve for a lifetime..."
Since then, Chen Yefen has changed her name to Chen Xiaoxu, and although the name has changed, her fate has not changed. As Chen Xiaoxu grew up, he became more and more reiki. The father also deliberately wanted Chen Xiaoxu's daughter to inherit her father's business - singing Peking Opera.
Chen Xiaoxu, who grew up with poetry books, although she looks soft and weak, she has her own ideas and life plans. She did not want to follow the path arranged by her parents, and wanted to go out of her own way.
Second, character determines destiny and achieves dreams.
Chen Xiaoxu has a special love for ballet since he was a child, and has been practicing hard. Because she likes ballet and likes to read, Chen Xiaoxu began to appear on stage at the age of 10, began to publish poems at the age of 14, and became a announcer of the Anshan Repertory Theatre at the age of 16.
One afternoon in 1983, her boyfriend Bi Yanjun excitedly ran to Chen Xiaoxu's side and told her a surprising news, that is, "CCTV selected the actors of "Dream of the Red Chamber" bao, dai, and chao across the country. For Chen Xiaoxu, who has always loved literature, it is like a pie in the sky, and she is very excited.
The next day she wrote a cover letter with a photo, and behind the photo, she also had some ingenuity, so she wrote a poem when she was 14 years old; May the spring wind to the ends of the earth, and I will bring the news of spring to the corners of the earth. Sent together to the Beijing CCTV "Dream of the Red Chamber" crew.
More than a week later, the letter arrived at the "Dream of the Red Chamber" crew, and when director Wang Fulin saw Chen Xiaoxu's cover letter and photos, he immediately felt right, thinking that this girl had a play. So he immediately arranged to reply to the letter, after Chen Xiaoxu received Wang Fulin's letter. She knew the opportunity was coming, and she rushed to Beijing for an interview.
That night, she repeatedly read Lin Daiyu's poems in "Dream of the Red Chamber" several times, and also wrote out her own feelings and opinions, and Chen Xiaoxu's liking for Lin Daiyu was all in this word. Casting director Pan Xinxin asked her hundreds of questions, and Chen Xiaoxu answered them like a stream. This made Pan Xinxin feel very happy, so she passed the oral examination, and then she could interview with director Wang Fulin.
On the day of the meeting, it rained heavily, and when Wang Fulin saw Chen Xiaoxu's thin body, pale face and wet light green clothes and pants, and holding an umbrella dripping with water in his hand, he immediately fell in love with her at first sight and immediately archived her information.
Because of her work, Chen Xiaoxu could not stay in Beijing for a long time, so she returned to Anshan. Originally, Chen Xiaoxu thought that she had lost touch with the Dream of the Red Chamber, but she did not expect that in the spring of the following year, she received a training contract from the crew of "Dream of the Red Chamber", and Chen Xiaoxu packed her bags overnight and came to the "Grand View Garden".
In the crowded casting, Chen Xiaoxu relied on her solid knowledge of the Red Chamber, her weak appearance and unworldly temperament, making her one of Lin Daiyu's candidates, and Zhang Jinglin and Zhang Lei in the same group.
Because Zhang Jinglin is too lively and has a wild temperament, she is more suitable for playing the lively and spicy Qingwen; Zhang Lei is because of her older age, and it is more appropriate to play Qin Keqing, who still has charm. And Chen Xiaoxu, because his nose is a little bigger, he has a very heavy poet's temperament. Occasionally, he also likes to fight and has a lively personality.
Director Wang Fulin thought twice and decided to let Chen Xiaoxu try the role of Xi Chun. How could Chen Xiaoxu, who loved Lin Daiyu, agree, so she boldly retorted: "If the director asks me to play other roles, the audience will say that Lin Daiyu played someone else." Lin Xiaoxu's self-confidence conquered director Wang Fulin. He immediately made a decision, and in this way, Chen Xiaoxu won the opportunity to play Lin Daiyu for himself.
After three years, "Dream of the Red Chamber" was finally broadcast on the Central Station in 1987, and this broadcast became a classic that could never be surpassed, Chen Xiaoxu gave Lin Daiyu all her soul, and many viewers sighed that she was simply born Lin Daiyu.
Third, the rapids retreated and became a strong woman in the advertising industry.
Since then, Chen Xiaoxu has become the embodiment of Lin Daiyu, and Lin Daiyu has achieved Chen Xiaoxu, and they have achieved each other and merged into one.
So much so that after Chen Xiaoxu also took over some TV series, the director always felt that she had the shadow of "Lin Sister". For many years to come, Chen Xiaoxu lived in this role and could not get out. Ouyang Fenqiang, the actor of Jia Baoyu, once said, "'Dream of the Red Chamber' is like a magic spell, trapping our group of people in it for the rest of our lives. ”
At that time, we did not understand what he said, but Chen Xiaoxu's later experience made the audience slowly understand the meaning of Ouyang Fenqiang's words.
After three years, "Dream of the Red Chamber" gradually faded out in people's hearts, and Chen Xiaoxu's life also returned to calm. She and Bi Yanjun went from boyfriend and girlfriend to husband and wife, and because of the personality incompatibility, they ended in divorce. Soon after, she became acquainted with her second husband, Hao Tong.
At that time, Hao Tong was a newly graduated photographer, and he wanted to ask Chen Xiaoxu to shoot an advertisement, and originally thought that a big star like Chen Xiaoxu, who was extremely popular, must be high on the top and refused. What Hao Tong did not expect was that Chen Xiaoxu did not have the shelf of big stars at all, and actually agreed to his request in this way, and only charged part of the fee. From then on, the two went further and further, and soon they were married.
Marrying "Sister Lin" home is the dream of many men, Hao Tong is undoubtedly lucky, after marriage, the two are happy and happy, envious of others.
After Chen Xiaoxu and his wife turned to the mall, Chen Xiaoxu also transformed from a weak "Lin Daiyu" to a strong woman in the advertising industry. Several advertising companies have been outsourced, the business has been booming, and they have set up their own advertising companies.
The money is very well earned, and for four consecutive years has been awarded the "Excellent Advertising Agency". In 2006, Chen Xiaoxu also won the title of "Top Ten Outstanding Women of the Year".
Fourth, see through the red dust, return to authenticity, and shave your family.
At this time, Chen Xiaoxu was already worth a lot, and she had all the fame, status, and wealth. But she wasn't happy because of the success of her career. So at the end of 2006, Chen Xiaoxu resigned as the chairman of the company, and on February 23, 2007, he was officially ordained at the Baiguo Xinglong Temple.
However, the god of fate still did not let her go, and soon after, Chen Xiaoxu was diagnosed with breast cancer. Three months later, Chen Xiaoxu left us forever at the age of 42. Her husband, Hao Tong, also ordained on March 8, 2007, with the legal name "Open and Sincere". Since then, the green lantern has been accompanied by the ancient Buddha.
In Chen Xiaoxu's 42 years of life, she has always been a relatively pure person, and everything she does is done according to her inner thoughts, and she has the tenacity to see through everything and let go of the world.
In a talk show, when the host asked Chen Xiaoxu, "Among the many titles, what do you like to be called by people the most?" Chen Xiaoxu replied, "I still like people to call me Lin Daiyu the most." "Yes! Chen Xiaoxu always has another name, that is, "Lin Daiyu".
Throughout Chen Xiaoxu's short life, the character of not accepting defeat and the spirituality that comes with him have left a deep impression on people. "There is poetry and bookishness in the belly" should be like this. Hao Tong, who lost his beloved, also chose to become a monk.
Fate was so cruel that it broke up the lovers so vividly.
Chen Xiaoxu's life was short and legendary, and he performed the song of life at the most beautiful age. Looking back on the past, Chen Xiaoxu can also be regarded as living a dashing and wanton life, and it is not worthwhile for her to come to this world for a trip.
Although Chen Xiaoxu's life is short, Chen Xiaoxu strives to live out the breadth and depth of life. Many netizens once sighed: "With Chen Xiaoxu in heaven, there is no Lin Daiyu in the world." ”
For Chen Xiaoxu's early death, what leaves us with more regret and regret is regret. At the same time, it also took away the tears and reluctance of countless people. But the most precious spiritual treasure she has left us and the faith of universal beings are eternal. She came with a mission and left the most beautiful appearance in the world.
No matter how long it takes, when people think of the strange book "Dream of the Red Chamber", they will definitely think of Chen Xiaoxu, think of the eternal "Lin Sister" in the hearts of generations, think of her efforts and self-confidence, and remember her past glory. Remembering her reservedness and stubbornness.
She is a legendary woman, a Lin Daiyu who was born for "Dream of the Red Chamber" all her life. She left this land of love quietly, let us remember her forever!
Chen Xiaoxu has the life she wants and doesn't care what others think, maybe some people will think she is too willful, maybe they will think she is too pessimistic. But she was brave and insisted on the path she chose to gain a different self, at least she had no regrets when she left.
In fact, everyone can live a wonderful, poetic, and exquisite life. There is no waiting for the wonderful in this world, only the brilliance of spelling, at the most beautiful age, should be like her not to accept defeat, bravely challenge themselves, this is the youth should be like.
May everyone be able to live their own wonderful life without regrets.