In the LangJie 3 second public election captain link, Liu Hanya and Zhao Meng, Tranquility must choose one of the two.
This is an unusually tangled puzzle for Tranquility.
Zhao Meng's rock lead singer is born, the stage is cool and sassy, the woman's version of handsome, can be top of her to the full grid.
In a public competition, Zhao Meng led the team to win and defeat the strongest dance troupe, and the strength was on the table.
The group led by Liu Hanya is also a winner, and Liu Hanya's tranquility can be said to be kind.
After the stage debut selected 6 captains, the captain and the squad leader exchanged a selection session, Serenity did not know who to choose, and finally voted Liu Hanya.
Judging from the situation behind, Serenity's judgment was accurate, and Liu Hanya took care of her decency.
Liu Lian and Yu Wenwen both voted for Na Ying, and Zhao Meng and Tranquility did not have any friendship in the past.
Except for Liu Hanya, who has interviewed Tranquility, Tranquility chooses any other one, and it is a huge risk.
And Liu Hanya is also the squad leader that Serenity wants to find.
Liu Hanya has a high emotional intelligence, long sleeves and is good at dancing, and Tranquility needs such a person to condense the soul of the group.
The addition of Liu Hanya did not disappoint Serenity's expectations, and she successfully lobbied to Zheng Xiuyan.
The performance of the serenity team, Zheng Xiuyan has made great achievements.
It can be seen that Serenity is painful when making a choice between the two.
Tranquility no one wanted to let go, but when she had to make a choice, she still gave up Liu Hanya and chose Zhao Meng.
This also gives us a strong signal: at critical times, strength is more important than emotional intelligence.
Emotional intelligence is the icing on the cake, and strength can help you run amok.
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Not afraid of no emotional intelligence, only afraid of no strength
When Serenity explained why she chose Zhao Meng and gave up Liu Hanya, she said: "I chose Zhao Meng because we really needed someone who could sing. ”
In the arena of real knives and guns, strength is the weapon to sweep everything.
I don't believe I can see Na Ying, the brain show is funny to that extent, there are still sisters willing to stand up for her, Tan Weiwei supports Na Ying from beginning to end.
Quite simply, Na Ying can really sing.
No matter how unreliable Na Ying's speech and deeds were, that good voice was real material.
In the debut session of the sisters, Na Ying and Tranquility sang on the same stage, and the person with such a strong quiet aura personally admitted that singing behind Na Ying was really ugly.
This is also why over the years, so many people have hated Na Ying and can't kill Na Ying, not even Wang Sicong.
In the recently exploded ancient puppet drama "Dream Hualu", the eunuch Lei Jing, as the leader of the Imperial City Division, can he see Gu Qianfan with his eyes and nostrils facing the sky?
He also had to endure it if he didn't like it, because Gu Qianfan was the living king of Yan, the sharpest and most ferocious sword of the Imperial City Division, and could penetrate the enemy's heart directly.
Lei Jing himself also said that Gu Qianfan's ascension was spelled out by his real knife and real gun.
In areas where performance is earned by strength, whether your emotional intelligence is high or low, it does not affect its own weight.
If you don't have the strength, then you have to worry about it, and you have to meet it.
With strong strength to support, as long as the boss is not blind, he will turn a blind eye to you.
Even if you encounter a boss who doesn't have long eyes, it's a big deal that there is no grandfather left here, and it is just a matter of changing camps to continue to fight.
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Gain insight into your strengths and take advantage of them to the extreme
In fact, emotional intelligence is also a kind of strength, and it is important to put it on the right track.
In the position of host, Liu Hanya can achieve a reputation and lay her own world, because she has the strength of high emotional intelligence.
In the link of the second public election captain, the quiet abandoned car to abandon Liu Hanya, Liu Hanya was definitely uncomfortable in her heart, and later in the program, she jokingly found a quiet obscurity.
But on the spot of the election, Liu Hanya still said very decent words.
She first approved of Serenity's decision, saying that she would make the same choice when she was in Serenity's position, and then said that both captains were excellent and had room to learn from each other.
The words not only recognized Tranquility's decision, but also resolved their own embarrassment, and the ability to unlock the crisis was very powerful.
Even Tranquility has publicly stated that when Liu Hanya is a host, no matter how sharp the question, she can make the other party not feel offended during the interview.
If Liu Hanya still stays in the host's post, I am afraid that the entire sisters of Lang Jie 3 will not be able to withstand her strength alone.
Unfortunately, Sister Lang is a stage for singing and dancing, compared to whose voice can sing, whose dance skills are superior, Liu Hanya naturally has to be compared.
However, this also reminds us that understanding where our advantages are and taking advantage of them to the extreme is the strongest competitiveness.
As a person, it is difficult to achieve all aspects, professional and strong people who can fight and kill, and excellent emotional intelligence can influence the source, after all, they are a minority.
Under the limitation of talent, smart people choose to go with the flow, and stupid people will compete with themselves.
High emotional intelligence will go to the post dedication of dealing with people, low emotional intelligence will decisively hone their strength, in the high demand for professional skills in the position of glitter.
A short life, to choose a soil that can allow you to bloom.
Far from it, Yu Wenwen is a good living case, and as soon as he opened his mouth, he was still unaware of it, and he had formed a shocking pattern.
How much the debut audience sighed about her emotional intelligence, and how surprised she was during Ichigo's training.
There is a saying: "The heavens have the virtue of good life, and all things leave a glimmer of life." ”
As long as you are willing to work hard, no matter how high or low your emotional intelligence is, you can bloom and shine in life.
Author: Xiaohe, born in the gravel, the heart to the warm sun, write the words of the heart, live an interesting life.