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Teacher Li Chengru is a famous powerful actor.
His "poisonous tongue" on variety shows has made others out of the circle in an unexpected way after middle age.
However, in the upbringing of his son Li Dahai, Li Chengru's way is somewhat extreme.
Once, his son Li Dahai did not have enough money to buy a house and wanted to borrow a little from his father Li Chengru.
As a result, he was driven out by Li Chengru and said to his son: "What house do you buy without money?" ”
As an actor, Li Chengru has a good reputation, why is he so cruel to his son?
This starts with his first marriage.
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Li Chengru was born in Beijing in 1954.
The Li family ancestors were very prominent, but when they passed on to their generation, they were already very lonely.
The old ancestor only left them a courtyard next to the Forbidden City.
When I was a child, the children flew kites, and if they didn't pay attention, the kites were hung in the Forbidden City.
However, Li Chengru's luck was not very good.
The mother had a total of 11 children, and he was the youngest.
What's worse, shortly after his birth, his father died.
The mother is alone with 11 children to make a living, and the degree of difficulty can be imagined.
There are 11 brothers and sisters, and a total of 9 survive.
Perhaps it was the childhood memory of poverty that led to Li Chengru always taking "eating enough" and "supporting himself" as the first priority.
Although he lives in poverty, Li Chengru, as an old man, can live a little better life relatively well.
When he was fine, he would go to the side of Renyi to listen to the play.
Over time, Li Chengru became fascinated with Peking Opera.
Often entertain yourself.
One day, Li Chengru was wandering around the hutong entrance when he bumped into Dong Xingyao, a Peking Opera master who came to perform.
Li Chengru had a flash of inspiration, so it was better to worship Teacher Dong as a teacher.
Because there was no advance preparation, Li Chengru also made a joke.
He rushed to Teacher Dong and asked, "You are Teacher Dong, right?" I want to worship you as a teacher and learn Peking Opera. ”
Teacher Dong was very dissatisfied with this hairy boy who suddenly rushed out, and casually asked, "Then will you have any talent?" ”
Li Chengru's mind was hot: "I will recite two essays." ”
In the face of this uncontrolled young man, Teacher Dong was happy.
He wanted to see what tricks Li Chengru could play, so he asked him to go to the office the next day to find himself.
In this way, Li Chengru became a student of Teacher Dong Xingyi.
I have been practicing this line for ten years.
Later, Li Chengru wanted to enter the amateur class of Beiying, and the chief examiners were stunned when they heard his lines.
That's a great way to say.
Li Cheng proudly told them that his lines were learned from Teacher Dong.
With excellent skills, Li Chengru naturally entered the Amateur Class of North Film.
Not long after being in Beiying, he ushered in the first turning point in his life.
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In 1981, director Yang Jie prepared to shoot "Journey to the West".
Go to The North Shadow to pick actors.
After Li Chengru heard about it, he signed up for the first time.
And he also introduced himself and wanted to play the role of Tang Monk.
As a result, a basin of cold water was poured.
The director said that his hair was too lush to play Tang Monk.
Li Chengru was not discouraged and stayed behind in the "Journey to the West" crew.
Director Yang Jie saw that he really wanted to stay, so he arranged a "field affairs" position for him.
Unexpectedly, Li Chengru did a good job, and it didn't take long for the crew to be inseparable from him.
Moreover, many of the actors in "Journey to the West" were contacted by Li Chengru.
For example, Zhu Lin, who plays the "king of the daughter country".
After the "Journey to the West" crew experienced the process of filming.
Li Chengru felt that the road of filming may not be able to support himself, and he must think of other ways.
At that time, going to the sea to do business was a boom.
Li Chengru saw this path and was determined to devote himself to the commercial sea.
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With all the money on his body, Li Chengru started a scalping business.
It is to go to the market to wholesale goods at a low price, and then sell them at a higher price, and earn the difference in the middle.
At that time, the wave of reform and opening up had just blown, and people were very curious about everything new.
With the help of the east wind of the times, Li Chengru soon developed.
But he was very clear-headed, knowing that the business of scalping would not last long, and he still had to find a long-term field.
He targeted the clothing market.
Before, the clothes of Chinese people were still dominated by a blue ocean.
Although riding on the east wind of reform, although the style and color of clothing have become diverse, they are still mainly customized.
Li Chengru boldly innovated and opened a "special" clothing store in Wangfujing, Beijing.
Opened the road of domestic clothing self-selection.
This form of self-control attracts a large number of customers.
Li Chengru soon made a lot of money.
In that era when the average salary was only a few dozen yuan, Li Chengru had already lived a life of "worrying about which luxury car to drive out every day".
However, it is often said that the money earned by luck will one day be lost by ability.
Soon, Li Chengru's wealth evaporated overnight.
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In 1980, Li Chengru and Li Shirong registered their marriage.
At that time, Li Chengru was only a small scene for the crew of "Journey to the West".
And Li Shirong is the leader of the Yinyan Art Troupe, not only beautiful, but also very talented.
The two met on a blind date under the arrangement of Li Chengru's mother.
Li Chengru was very self-aware of his own situation at that time.
Therefore, seeing Li Shirong, he immediately took him home.
There is no bride price, no wedding, no banquet, the two registered a marriage certificate, and the marriage is considered to be married.
When they first got married, the two lived in Li Cheng's Confucian ancestral hutong, which was only 18 square meters.
Li Chengru knew that this was a bit wronged by his wife, but Li Shirong did not care.
In her view, husband and wife are to share happiness and suffering.
Especially after the birth of his son Li Dahai, Li Shirong resigned and returned home as a full-time housewife.
When he first got married, Li Chengru did not earn any money, and his work was not busy.
Every day when I came home, I ate the meals prepared by my wife, teased my son, and the family was happy.
Later, Li Chengru's business became bigger and bigger, and after he had money, the whole family moved out of the small alley.
However, although the house has become larger, the relationship between the family is not as harmonious as before.
Li Chengru often did not leave home, and Li Shirong and his son Li Dahai were left in the family.
And because Li Chengru made so much money at once, and his waist bar was also straight, he naturally did not have the same patience with his wife as before.
For the change in Li Chengru's attitude, how could Li Shirong, as a wife, not see it?
However, looking at the child's face, she chose to swallow her breath again and again.
Until that storm came.
In 1991, Li Chengru followed the advice of a "friend" and took all his savings to invest.
He invested $13 million in one go.
What is this concept?
It is equivalent to about 100 million yuan.
Up to now, 100 million is a staggering number.
Not to mention the early '90s.
As a result, it can be imagined that Li Chengru lost all his money.
Overnight back to before liberation.
Li Chengru, who had no money to support him, sighed at home all day, and his wife Li Shirong couldn't help but mutter a few words when he was running the housework.
Li Chengru directly filed for divorce in a fit of anger.
Hearing her husband's request for divorce, Li Shirong did not make any reservations and silently agreed.
She knew that there had been no affection between them for a long time, and that this incident was just a fuse.
But Li Shirong still put forward a condition: "I can do anything, but my son must follow me." ”
Li Chengru just fell lightly and agreed to it sloppily.
After the divorce, Li Shirong took his son back to the 18-square-meter cottage.
And live for 28 years.
Li Shirong is a woman with strong self-esteem, and for 28 years, no matter how difficult it is, she has not asked Li Chengru for a penny.
She always held a breath, that is, "I don't believe that I can't support my son alone?" ”
So she has been living with her son Li Dahai and has never married anyone again.
And Li Chengru, in more than 30 years, has done three things to the two of them.
Don't listen, don't care, don't ask.
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After divorcing Li Shirong, Li Chengru also had no intention of doing business.
He remembered his old profession, the industry he used to think he didn't have enough to eat—acting.
This time, he did not pick the script, did not pick the director, and had to act, even if it was the role of running the dragon set.
In 1994, Zhao Baogang filmed the movie "Addiction".
There is a role of a local tycoon in it, and the selection of actors has not yet been decided.
Zhao Baogang thought for a moment, isn't this role tailored for Li Chengru?
I have to say that although it has been abandoned for many years, Li Chengru's acting skills have indeed been on the line.
The first time he cooperated, Zhao Baogang had a very good impression of Li Chengru.
When filming "Sunrise in the East and Rain in the West", he was assigned a role.
But the show didn't make much of a splash.
However, Li Chengru's acting skills made another director remember him.
He is Xu Qingdong.
In 2001, Xu Qingdong planned to shoot "The First Part of the Six Groups of Serious Cases" and invited Li Chengru to join.
The "Da Zeng" played by Li Chengru is impressive.
Later, Li Chengru played a neurotic rich man in the movie "Big Shot" directed by Feng Xiaogang.
The success of these two roles has allowed Li Chengru to completely gain a foothold and become a representative of the acting school.
Li Chengru, who had re-tasted the taste of the stars and the moon, also began to consider his life's events.
Shi Yihong is a famous Peking opera singer and Mei Pai Da Qingyi.
Li Chengru has been a fan of drama since she was a child, and listening to her singing is not good for her to worship.
Especially after meeting Shi Yihong himself, Li Chengru launched a crazy pursuit of her.
However, Li Chengru was 18 years older than Shi Yihong, and Shi Yihong had a boyfriend at the time.
But Li Chengru didn't care, he had to get what he wanted.
Just then, Shi Yihong's boyfriend went abroad to study.
The two people are constantly contradictory because they gather less and leave more.
Li Chengru stayed by Shi Yihong's side every day, greeting her warmly and thoughtfully.
Over time, Shi Yihong was also impressed.
In 2002, the two were officially married.
At the wedding of the two, Li Chengru's son Li Dahai also advised Shi Yihong: "How can you marry my father?" You are so beautiful, he doesn't deserve you at all. ”
But Shi Yihong was immersed in love at that time, where could he listen to other people's words?
It didn't take long for the marriage between the two to turn on a red light.
Shi Yihong's career focus is in Shanghai, and Li Chengru's is in Beijing.
Before marriage, Li Chengru promised not to interfere with Shi Yihong's career, and even if she got married, she could work and live in Shanghai.
But after the real marriage, Li Chengru hoped that Shi Yihong could move to Beijing.
This became the fuse of the contradiction between the two men.
Three days a small quarrel, five days a big quarrel, back and forth for five years.
In 2007, both could not stand it and divorced decisively.
When Li Chengru fell drunk in Gentle Township, what was the situation of his ex-wife and Li Shirong and his son Li Dahai?
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As mentioned earlier, Li Shirong and his son's life is very difficult.
To ease the burden on the mother.
Li Dahai dropped out of school to work at the age of 17.
But he has no education, and he has no skills.
You can only go to a restaurant as a waiter or something.
A few years later, Li Dahai, who had reached the age of marriage talking about marriage, wanted to buy a house.
Mother certainly couldn't afford this money.
At this time, he thought of his biological father Li Chengru.
For the first time, he asked his father for help.
However, Li Chengru did not even let him into the house and directly threw him out.
And taunted him", "No money to buy what house?" ”
If Li Chengru, who has not had a masterpiece for more than ten years, is also poor, his refusal to help his son is still forgivable.
But in fact, Li Chengru was once rich after all.
He has a yard in Beijing's Changping district where he can grow 500 cherry trees.
Most of the furniture used in the home is also made of gold silk and nan wood.
Famous paintings and antiques are innumerable.
After eating the closed door soup here in his father, Li Dahai wanted to buy a house and could only rely on himself.
At this time, the "I Am Not a Star" program team threw an olive branch to him.
When every "star second generation" participates in this show, the parents of the stars will come to cheer for their children.
Even if there is something that can't be separated, he will record a video to cheer up his children.
Li Chengru also recorded the video, but not to cheer Up Li Dahai, but to reprimand him for being useless.
He even said publicly: "Without Li Chengru's father, do you know who Li Dahai is?" ”
Li Dahai looked embarrassed and could only silently endure his father's "poisonous tongue".
However, for Li Chengru, there are also advantages to doing so.
Because he was ruthless no matter who he spoke to, he was invited by the program team to be a judge.
With his three inches of uncorrupted tongue, he contributed a lot of ratings.
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Today, Li Chengru, who is nearly 70 years old, is still alone.
I don't know if I am afraid that I am still alone when I am old, or Whether I have truly repented after going through the ups and downs.
The elderly Li Chengru suddenly remembered his son's goodness.
He tried to repair his relationship with his son Li Dahai.
He even took his son to the entertainment industry, making movies and TV series.
However, those scars in the process of growing up can be repaired with a few words?
Li Dahai once said in public: His relatives are only his mother.
Even though Li Dahai's relationship with his father eased up under his mother's education, he still could not easily forgive him for hurting himself and his mother.
Li Dahai is 36 years old, but he is still alone.
When asked why, Li Dahai said that every marriage of his father was a mess, and he was a little afraid of marriage.
Only now that I remember the debt to my son, I don't know if it will be too late?
If Li Chengru wants to truly gain his son's forgiveness, he must continue to work hard.