"A woman without talent is a virtue" This is China's five-thousand-year bondage to women, so that women have not been allowed to turn over, but also let many talented women buried in feudal thought. However, this old-fashioned idea of looking down on women is not harmonious after all, so in the late Qing Dynasty and the beginning of the People's Republic, after the collision of Western culture and Chinese culture, many women's concepts changed.
So there is also a woman who boldly pursues love, Shen Ying in the Republic of China period is such a woman, she boldly pursues love, loves her husband for 10 years, and has two daughters. Unexpectedly, her husband changed his heart and liked the 27-year-old drama, at this time, she did not cry and left decisively, leaving a letter telling him: Never see you again!
Odd woman Shen Sakura
In 1905, a woman named Chen Ying was born in Weifang, Shandong, and her father taught in a special industrial school in Shandong, and she also attached great importance to her education. In addition, her grandfather also served as an official in the Qing Dynasty, and the Chen family was regarded as a family of books in the local area, so Chen Ying read poetry and books since she was a child, which was very rare in the era of advocating women without talent.
Later, her father's work was transferred to Jinan, Shandong, and Chen Ying's family also came to Jinan, and she also entered the girls' middle school. Her Chinese language teacher was Gu Sui, a great talent who graduated from Peking University, and under his enlightenment, Chen Ying liked literature very much, and later she also became Gu Sui's proud disciple.
Chen Ying has always regarded Lu Xunhe and others as idols, and because she likes the Japanese literature she translates, she has given herself the pen name of Shen Ying. In 1924, Shen Ying was admitted to the department of Chinese of Shanghai University and began his own creative path, the writer Mao Dun read her "Homecoming" article, and thought that which senior writer had changed his pen name.
Later, she was admitted to Fudan University with excellent results, and joined the Fudan Drama Club, where she met her first husband, Ma Yanxiang, when rehearsing "Female Shopkeeper". After the two of them slowly became familiar with each other, they fell in love before long, and after graduation, Shen Sakura and Ma Yanxiang hurriedly entered the marriage.
It's just that this marriage is not as sweet as it was at the beginning, Ma Yanxiang often appears in dramas, while Shen Ying can only stay at home, and the love of gathering less and more gradually fades under the grind of time. Later, Ma Yanxiang and bai yang, the actor who acted in his own drama, had an extramarital love and lived together, and Shen Ying divorced without nostalgia after learning about it.
10 years of love are in doubt
In fact, for Shen Sakura, the first relationship was a bit impulsive, so after the divorce, she was more radiant and lived out the way she wanted. Coupled with the fact that she herself is a talented woman, there is naturally no shortage of promising young people around her, at this time, the 28-year-old Liang Zongdai successfully stationed in her heart, making her love sprout new shoots.
Liang Zongdai was also a famous talent at that time, but his emotional life was very rich. He already had a marriage contract during his middle school years, and although he did not agree, he was tricked by his parents into going home and holding a wedding. His arranged wife is named He Ruiqiong, and the marriage between the two has always been in name only, and in order to dissolve the marriage contract, Liang Zongdai promised to pay for He to go to school.
Later, he went to France to study, met his first love girlfriend Anna, and married her a Chinese name called Bai Wei. It is only the distance between the two of them after all, the blood line, after the outbreak of the 918 incident, the country has difficulties, Liang Zongdai resolutely gave up everything in France and returned to his motherland, and worked as a teacher at Peking University.
When Shen Ying knew Liang Zongdai, he was pestered by He Ruiqiong, and later sued by her in court, but Shen Ying did not feel that Liang Zongdai had been with him instead of treachery. In the end, He Shi won the lawsuit, and Liang Zongdai cobbled together seven thousand yuan to give to He Shi to truly dissolve the marriage relationship, and instead he and Shen Ying held a wedding.
After marriage, the two people are very affectionate, the two like-minded people have common words, but also the best help between each other, 10 years of common life has brought them many beautiful experiences. Liang Zongdai has successively taught at Peking University, Nankai, and Fudan Universities, cultivating many talents useful to the country, and is also famous for translating Shakespeare's Sonnets.
At the same time, Shen Sakura's growth has not stopped, and the two have also translated a large number of poems together, and the collection is titled "The Peak of Everything", which is also a testimony to the love between the two. At that time, their husbands sang with women and were recognized as "golden children and jade girls" in the literary world, and many people envied their marriage.
The husband cheated and never saw him again
However, once a woman becomes a mother, she needs to play more roles, and with the arrival of the eldest daughter SiWei and this female Siqing, Shen Sakura's time is occupied. The two no longer have the sweetness of love, and even often have conflicts because of life trivialities and children's affairs, but they have not developed to the point of being uncontrollable.
The variables of this relationship came very suddenly, in 1942, Liang Zongdai's father died, because Shen Ying was pregnant at this time, liang Zongdai could only return to his hometown to take care of his father's affairs. Later, he was pulled by a friend to watch the Cantonese opera "Midnight Thief Xiangfei", which made him very interested in the beautiful Huadan Gan Shaosu on the stage, and also created several poems.
After coming and going, Liang Zongdai learned that Gan Shaosu had been humiliated by the warlords for a long time, and he deeply sympathized with this poor woman, and in order to redeem herself, he was even willing to give a huge sum of 30,000 yuan, and also published the news that the two were linked. Later, this amorous and weak scholar actually fought with the rogues under the warlord for this purpose, and the city was full of storms.
Liang Zongdai's matter was soon known to Shen Ying, she did not expect her husband to do such a thing, and at the same time felt unworthy for herself. She recalls that her 10-year marriage from successful career to becoming a housewife is no longer her original self; And Liang Zongdai would actually disregard her own feelings for a drama, so what else did she have to linger on?
She very calmly packed her bags, left the residence with her two daughters and the son in her belly, and entrusted someone to carry a letter to Liang Zongdai, which contained only a few words: Never see you again in this life! After that, Shen Ying has been living in Taiwan, even if there are letters exchanged, she has never met Liang Zongdai again, perhaps she has long been indifferent to the hurt of marriage, because in the end she found her true self!
summary
In marriage and love, women will always be influenced by old ideas and sacrifice a lot, but this may not be able to exchange for the respect of their husbands. Just like the talented woman Shen Sakura, she experienced the inequality in marriage for ten years, but she resolutely found herself after being hurt. I have to say that she is a very courageous woman, even if she loses herself, she can redeem herself in time!
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