The boss has everything, and the second one is alive.
It's not that the mother is too eccentric, just because the epidemic is too disturbing.
Author | Coke Mom
In the past two years,
Because of the epidemic,
A lot of things are different.
Like what
It doesn't matter if you used to call Linda, Lucy, or Jade Flower,
Now there is only one name left: 1502.
Another example is the destination of a previous holiday
It's the sea, it's the valley, it's Southeast Asia,
And now, all that's left is the bedroom, the toilet, and the kitchen.
The most visited place is the nucleic acid testing point.
Similarly, under the epidemic,
The way this year's mothers bring their babies has also quietly changed:
Before the epidemic, raising a baby was like raising a Persian cat.
When the mother is with the mentality of serving the master,
Everything is too fine to be true;
And when the epidemic came, raising babies became pastoral dogs,
If you have anything to eat at home, as long as you live.
Is the gap between raising babies before and after the epidemic really so big?
Today, we interviewed a mother with a second child.
Let's hear her personal interpretation of this topic!
The boss's clothes are not repetitive,
The second pajamas go all over the world
Q: Let's introduce ourselves first!
Good!
I'm an old mother who is in shit!
The eldest is the daughter, 8 years old this year;
The second is the son, the same age as the epidemic, exactly 3 years old.
Q: It is said that "one child is raised according to the book, and the second child is raised as a pig",
Are you like that too?
It's me!
When the eldest was a child, as a new mother,
I have only one principle:
Can buy expensive, never buy the right;
If you can buy the best, don't make it up.
Milk powder to be imported, children's clothing to be big brands,
Even diapers must be purchased by members only.
Only three months after birth,
Clothes, hats, shoes and socks are enough to wear until the age of two;
only to enter kindergarten,
Stationery and school bags for the six years of elementary school were ready.
Dominated by the same idea every day:
Buy it! Buy it! Buy it!
in a word
With 365 sunrises a year, my daughter has 365 outfits.
On the style,
What dresses, skirts, vest skirts,
Long pants, shorts, jeans are available,
Stylistically,
What a girlish style, handsome overalls,
Sweet ladylike style is even more complete.
But who knows,
Not long after the second was born, the epidemic came.
The virus is raging, and the family's income is less,
Long-lost sanity has taken over the high ground again.
The biggest change in a time is not the family structure,
It's the consumption habits of being a mother.
Anyway, in a word:
Those who can pick up the boss will never pay money;
If you can make it, save it all.
Q: What about specifically?
Let's say clothes,
As soon as the younger brother was born, he inherited a large number of "second-hand inheritances" from his sister.
The little age bears the flowers that this gender should not have:
Pink vests, floral shorts, small red leather shoes,
You don't say,
This collocation has been seen for a long time,
It makes people feel that there is a tough guy tenderness in it.
Q: Won't the second brother object?
Not at all.
Don't forget, in addition to going out to do nucleic acid,
I've been at home for most of the years.
No matter how fashionable it is, it is nothing more than pajamas for the second eldest.
The boss sees the prosperity of the world,
The second son has only sat on a carousel
Q: In addition to clothes, what else did the second brother "inherit"?
And toys!
When the pension is big,
It seems to be always manipulated by a mysterious force,
Without paying attention, I started a variety of Disney peripherals,
There are more than a dozen Frozen series alone.
Wait until the second oldest,
There are only some missing arms and few legs left.
However, as the second eldest grows up day by day,
I feel more and more that I don't buy new toys,
But it was so prescient!
Q: What do you say?
The second child has its own pastoral dog attributes,
There is some demolition kung fu on the body.
He developed a variety of home play without a teacher;
Like what cut socks to make a cape for dolls,
Holding up the toilet brush to bathe toys,
Pour a lot of soy sauce vinegar with building blocks to row a boat...
Guaranteed to make every old toy
Charge (die) divide (gain) benefit (its) use (what).
Q: Looking at it this way, the pension two saves a lot of money.
Isn't!
When the eldest was a child,
Every year, small long holidays, winter and summer vacations are arranged to travel long insight,
The ticket stubs of trains, planes, and cruises have been kept in large quantities.
The video recorded can add up to a few terabytes.
Not only have I seen all the great rivers and mountains in the country,
I have also played a lap in Europe and Southeast Asia.
But the second is different,
Childhood is only a few years, the epidemic accounts for three years,
Every time I think of a family of four going out together,
When the result is permitted by the place of departure, the destination is not allowed;
When the destination allows, the place of departure is not allowed;
The place of departure and destination are allowed,
Time doesn't allow it again.
So
up to now
The most visited place for the second eldest is the small garden of the community,
The furthest place to go is the carousel in the park.
Don't talk about videos,
I haven't even taken a few pictures.
Q: The second life is not timely...
Not necessarily.
When I was born to the boss,
I'm also a senior member of the "Fried Kitchen" group.
Share a cooking bomb tip every day.
But now, because of the epidemic,
I've been upgraded to a Chinese little boss:
Bun steamed bun bean sand bun, pancake fruit to a set,
Cool skin fritters soufflé, fried twist flowers cut away.
Compared to the yellow-skinned boss,
The second looked like a white fat,
The appetite is getting better and better every day,
Everything but is rushed to eat.
The boss is addicted to online classes every day,
The second day is obsessed with pulling the network cable
Q: Said a lot of advantages of the pension two,
Are there any moments that bother you?
Yes.
Because of the repeated epidemics, the boss was "returned" by the school for three days.
Every time the second elder heard that the school was closed,
All excitedly around in place,
Celebrate that you can play with your sister again.
However, every family has a "law of conservation of pleasure":
Baby is happy, and when she is, she can't laugh.
While staring at the boss online class,
On the other hand, we must also ensure that the second brother does not make trouble,
From time to time, I also have to look at the work group and receive a few voice calls.
The conversation basically goes something like this:
"(Polite) Hey, convenient, please speak."
"(Fierce) Shut up, don't argue anymore!"
"(Gentle) is not saying you ha,
Then let's follow the previous outline..."
"(Furious) Try it again!!!"
The ears are always surround sound
"Mom", "Mom", "Mom".
The big shouts finish the little howl,
Press the gourd to float the scoop.
Q: Find something for the second brother to do.
I can't do it!
As long as the eldest one online class,
That's a mobile phone, a computer, one is indispensable,
TV, tablet, all free,
Even printers and projectors are on standby 24 hours a day,
The final destination of the second eldest,
It is to follow the boss to take online lessons.
Q: Hahahahaha, it is also a kind of early education.
Oh, yes
I remember when the eldest was a child,
Early education classes such as programming, Go, and thinking are all on.
There are more than 10,000 at every turn, and there is no back cover on the top.
To the second oldest here,
Only to know that the best early education class is the boss.
The eldest had to learn on a whim
Drum kits, saxophones, violin,
As a result, I bought it home and put it to eat ash,
Now the second can continue to use.
And you can hear it.
The eldest plays the piano, and the second plays the piano sheet;
The boss practices skipping rope, and the second one counts on the side.
Two days ago,
The second brother accidentally clicked on an online course APP downloaded by the boss,
I also unexpectedly received a 20-minute free experience class.
Sitting at the desk and watching it is called a full concentration,
I have to say,
The second brother is also too good to "send off"!
Q: It's right to have that mentality.
Life is not easy, Mom sighed.
As a senior old mother,
There is no idea to refuse the wisdom of internal friction, and how to deal with bear children.
When the pension is big,
Tutoring homework, crashing once every three days,
Accompany online classes, crash three times a day,
Watching a 40-minute math lesson,
The boss has been chatting, dazed, and wandering in space for 38 minutes.
Even if the old mother who has been strong all her life,
You can only learn to bow your head.
From now on, do not ask the second eldest Tsinghua Peking University,
I just want to live two more days.
Q: So what do you think moms should do under the epidemic?
It's very simple.
Just live as a team!
As long as you do a good job as a network administrator, administrative assistant,
Teacher Assistant, Director of Instruction, Logistics Master,
Babysitter, driver, errands... Enough is enough.
Q: It's not easy to be a mom, do you want to say something to other mothers of second children?
Nothing,
I just want to remind everyone,
Although the second oldest is still a "Chinese pastoral dog",
Save money and raise well,
But this does not prevent him from one day becoming a "purebred Persian cat",
It costs money and mother.
The same is the end of the world to raise a baby, why should they have known each other.
The mother of the baby is worried, and the mother of the baby wants to smoke at home.
Finally, I would like to say,
Everyone who is struggling to bring a baby under the epidemic,
Working moms deserve to be treated better.
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