In the recent "Forensic Qin Ming's Mind Reader", a long-lost figure appeared.
Although there are not many appearances, every time they come out, they can always make people smile.
He is the famous actor Shao Feng.
As an actor, Shao Feng is not proud of his appearance, but he has won a place for himself in the entertainment circle of handsome men and women with his solid basic skills and acting skills.
But what is even more admirable is that he has a deep affection for his wife who is seriously ill in the most difficult times, and he also has to treat his wife when he is in debt, and he does not abandon his wife's paralysis, which is deeply moving.
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Shao Feng was born in an ordinary family in Shandong, and before enlisting in the army, he had studied a little Shandong Fast Book and had no acting foundation.
But because of his quick reflexes, after entering the army, he became a member of the singing team.
Later, because the performance troops lacked a helper, he became a helper again.
But after entering the kitchen, Shao Feng's love for performances did not diminish, and in his spare time, he went to see his comrades perform sketches.
He has a good memory, has a foundation, and sometimes looks at his comrades on the stage and can't remember the words, and he is very anxious if he can't act well.
Because he often watched the rehearsals on the sidelines, he unconsciously remembered all the lines in all the shows.
One day, the superior leader came to inspect, and there happened to be an actor in the program who was not there.
Shao Feng took the initiative to find the leader of the group and said that he could act.
Although the regimental commander did not believe it, but the matter was urgent, plus everyone knew that Shao Feng's basic skills were very good, and he had also been on stage, so let him try it.
As a result, as soon as Shao Feng came to power, not only was his lines not wrong, but he also found a lot of small places to add a lot of thoughts.
The end of the performance was even more exciting than expected, and everyone was overjoyed.
After that, he became busy at both ends, working in the kitchen and performing regularly.
Over time, Shao Feng's main work was transformed from the kitchen to the stage, and his cross-talk "Recruit Biography" also won the first prize of the all-army parade.
Although his grades were good, the more he worked, the more Shao Feng felt that he had more things to learn.
After spending 9 years in the army, he was admitted to the performance department of the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts.
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During this period, he was introduced to his wife Zhao Xia.
Zhao Xia is an outsider, gentle in nature and kind in heart.
When they got married, Shao Feng's family was not well-off, and Zhao Xia married him without asking for a bride price.
Shao Feng's income was once very small, and Zhao Xia's money not only had to live, but even had to subsidize Shao Feng's mother.
A year after marriage, their child was born, because Shao Feng often had to perform, and Zhao Xia was alone at home with the child.
Although life was very hard and it was tiring to carry children, she had never delayed Shao Feng's work because of this.
After graduating, Shao Feng worked in the avant-garde repertory theater of the Jinan Military Region, and performed at least 60 performances at the grassroots level every year, most of which were not at home.
In order to support her, Zhao Xia took on almost all the housework alone.
Shao Feng is a very enterprising person, on the 45th anniversary of the establishment of the Institute of Humanities, in order to observe drama, he took a train to Beijing to study.
But at that time, his total income per month was less than 1,000 yuan, and he usually had no extra money except for eating.
He couldn't afford to buy a ticket for renyi, so he went to rub it.
Tell people that they are also actors in regular drama troupes, and they want to come and learn to observe.
Finally, the people in the theater saw that he was sincere, so they let him in and sat on the cement floor to watch the 5-day debriefing performance.
Because he had no money, he ate steamed buns and pickles in the small hotel during the day.
During that time, although Shao Feng was very busy, his life was very fulfilling, and his business level was greatly improved.
Looking at the harmony of the family and the healthy growth of the children, Shao Feng's heart is full of hope for the future.
But he didn't expect that a disaster was slowly approaching the family.
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In 1999, Zhao Xia found that she was easily tired and her body was always uncomfortable.
Although it is not clear, it always feels wrong here and there.
She always had a fever, and her muscles and joints were always in pain.
Although she had always said that it was okay and that it would be good to rest and rest, in less than half a year Shao Feng found that she was obviously thin and slowed down.
If you go to bed and get out of bed, you even have to help him.
Although he didn't know what was going on, Shao Feng realized that something was definitely wrong with his wife's body.
He took Zhao Xia to the hospital for examination.
There were a lot of people at the hospital, and he and his wife hung up and sat in line at the door.
I thought I would have to wait a long time, but I didn't expect a doctor to come over and see Zhao Xia and directly say that you come in with me.
Shao Feng also thought that the doctor had seen his own sketch and was still a little proud in his heart.
But what he didn't expect was that the doctor called him in and told him directly to let him hospitalize his wife.
Shao Feng was still a little dismissive, saying that he would wait until he went back to prepare.
Seeing that Shao Feng was not yet aware, the doctor told her that he had preliminarily judged that Zhao Xia had lupus erythematosus.
Moreover, it is already very serious and requires immediate hospitalization.
The news was like thunder on a sunny day.
After a series of diagnoses, Shao Feng knew that it would take at least 100,000 yuan to cure this disease, but at that time, their family's savings were less than 3,000 yuan.
But Shao Feng did not hesitate, he went home, sold all the property that could be sold, and went to relatives to borrow some, barely enough to make up for 100,000 yuan.
For him, he wouldn't give up on his wife anyway.
But Zhao Xia couldn't bear it, she watched her husband run around every day, and knew that her illness required huge expenses, and she didn't want to involve her husband.
She thought twice and filed for divorce.
She told Shao Feng that she could not cure this disease, and Shao Feng's career was also very busy.
She didn't want to delay Shao Feng.
Shao Feng told his wife, you marry me well, work hard for the family, how can I give up on you now?
Zhao Xia's condition is getting heavier and heavier, sometimes Shao Feng needs to carry her back for examination, Shao Feng, who is not tall and physically strong, sometimes finishes a trip, and his clothes can be soaked from the outside.
But every time Zhao Xia showed a little bit of wanting to give up or feel guilty, Shao Feng always stopped her immediately: "We are husband and wife." ”
Zhao Xia's condition was difficult to treat, and the doctor told Shao Feng at the beginning not to hold out too much hope.
But Shao Feng never gave up from the beginning.
Seeing that one of the patients she knew had passed away one by one, Zhao Xia's mood became irritable.
Coupled with the fact that she lost the ability to walk due to illness, the pain in her body was getting worse and worse, and she could only be in a wheelchair, which made her temper become moody and often angry for no reason.
Even though Shao Feng was very attentive to her care, Zhao Xia still became very grumpy.
At this time, Shao Feng always encouraged Zhao Xia to vent his unhappiness, even if he shouted, he was never angry.
But the more realistic problem is that although he smashed the pot and sold iron to make up enough for the treatment fee of the first course of treatment.
But follow-up treatment still requires a steady stream of costs, and there is no way to maintain it by borrowing money.
The house and the car had been sold, and he didn't even have anything to sell.
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In order to raise huge medical expenses, Shao Feng began to use it more frequently to participate in various performances.
But unexpectedly, this has brought a huge turnaround to his career.
Since 2000, he began to try to contact film and television dramas, and participated in film and television works such as "Don't Take Bean Bags improper dry food".
Unexpectedly, because of his solid performance skills, he broke out of the film and television circle by relying on his acting skills.
Later, he met Guo Donglin again, and the two became good friends.
Guo Donglin is an evergreen tree on the sketch stage and a frequent guest of the Spring Festival Gala.
After meeting Shao Feng, the two admired each other and shared a common pursuit in art.
In 2007, the sketch "Homecoming" they co-starred in appeared on the Spring Festival Gala stage.
As we all know, appearing on the Spring Festival Gala stage means to the actors.
After that, he began to appear on the Spring Festival Gala stage many times, performing popular works such as "Rest Assured", "Jing Ke Thorn Qin King", "Midnight Telephone Booth" and so on, and became a famous comedy star.
Many celebrities become famous after buying a house and a car to enjoy life.
However, what Shao Feng did after his income increased was to take his wife everywhere to see a doctor.
As long as he did not perform, he took his wife to the country to seek medical treatment, and in ten years, he took his wife to more than ten provinces and cities across the country.
Watching her famous husband take care of herself after work, Zhao Xia filed for divorce again.
But Shao Feng still told her gently and insistently: "We are husband and wife, and I should take care of you." ”
After 5 years of Zhao Xia's paralysis, Shao Feng finally took his wife to find a hospital where she could operate.
If it goes well, Zhao Xia will be able to get rid of the wheelchair and stand up, but the risk of surgery is great.
After weighing it again and again, Shao Feng decided not to have surgery.
But Zhao Xia's expectations for this operation were high.
She said she would do the operation no matter what, no matter how dangerous it was, she recognized it.
Because she didn't want to be paralyzed in a wheelchair anymore, she couldn't eat and drink Lasa and live on her own.
At Zhao Xia's insistence, Shao Feng finally agreed to the operation.
However, in order to ensure the effect of the operation, Shao Feng tried his best to find the most authoritative doctor and made the most detailed surgical preparations.
When he watched his wife being pushed into the operating room, Shao Feng cried.
He didn't know the outcome of the operation, and he couldn't imagine what would happen if the operation failed.
Fortunately, the emperor did not pay off, and the operation was successful.
Zhao Xia successfully stood up from her wheelchair.
Because of the success of this operation, Zhao Xia also regained her confidence in life.
She has become lively and cheerful, and she has the confidence to fight the disease.
With a good attitude and cooperative behavior, coupled with good medical conditions, Zhao Xia's illness has gotten better and better every day.
By 2015, her situation had improved considerably.
After that, Zhao Xia's illness has been getting better, almost close to a state of healing.
More surprising people, because of a good mentality and treatment, Zhao Xia did not have the general haggard and aging after a long illness.
She looked even younger and prettier than many of her peers.
I have to say that this is a miracle created by Shao Feng with love.
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Shao Feng spent nearly 20 years with his wife, and together with his wife, he overcame almost impossible difficulties.
Accompanying a serious patient for 20 years, especially in the first 5 years of Zhao Xia's life is difficult to take care of herself, how difficult this companionship and care is, do not need to think about it to know.
What is even more rare is that the most serious moment of Zhao Xia's illness is also the stage when Shao Feng's career began to become popular.
Many celebrity families are often separated at this stage.
However, Shao Feng became popular and doubled down on his wife, rejecting his wife's request for divorce twice.
In extremely difficult circumstances, selling houses and cars must also keep wives, such feelings and virtues are not only beautiful but also noble.
In a materialistic society, the relationship between Shao Feng and his wife is a clear stream, representing truth, goodness and beauty.
I hope that this loving couple can live happily in the future.