In 1990, the historical drama "Romance of the Three Kingdoms" turned out to be a success.
Once the drama was broadcast, it was well received and quickly became popular all over the country.
"Zhuge Liang", played by Tang Guoqiang in the play, became a classic in the minds of the audience, and he also became popular because of it.
According to this momentum, Tang Guoqiang's cause should have soared like a sun,
But at that time, he was deeply criticized.
The reason is that Tang Guoqiang's wife hanged herself in the night of Chinese New Year's Eve, leaving a suicide note for her daughter to avenge herself.
Subsequently, Tang Guoqiang was pushed to the cusp of public opinion.
Not only have life and career been hit hard,
Even her daughter resented him.
Now that Tang Guoqiang's ex-wife has been dead for 32 years, has her daughter forgiven her father?
The fate of Tang Guoqiang and his daughter Lily's mother, Sun Tao, began in 1978.
That year, Tang Guoqiang was transferred to the Bayi Film Studio as a special actor.
When he was young, Tang Guoqiang looked red-lipped and white- and handsome, and in the words of the time, he was "creamy little student".
When he first arrived at the studio, Tang Guoqiang captured the hearts of many women with his handsome appearance.
Sun Tao is one of them.
Sun Tao was born in a high-cadre family, his father was a senior general of the Beijing Military Region, and after graduating from medical school, he worked as a doctor in the Bayi Film Studio.
Sun Tao is not only a beautiful person with a good family, but also very capable of himself.
In the Bayi Film Studio, many boys wrote love letters to her to confess to her, but they were all rejected by Sun Tao.
Until he met Tang Guoqiang, Sun Tao fell in love with him at first sight.
As the saying goes, "women chase men, compartmentalized yarn", Sun Tao met Tang Guoqiang in the studio, and then launched a pursuit of him.
But at that time, Tang Guoqiang had just been transferred to the film studio, not only was he not an official actor, but there was no representative work.
Although his father is a doctor, there is also a certain gap between his family situation and Sun Tao's.
Therefore, for Sun Tao's pursuit and love, Tang Guoqiang did not respond at first.
But as Sun Tao continued to show love and pursuit, Tang Guoqiang fell not long after.
The news of the two being together was soon known to Sun Tao's parents, who at that time paid attention to "door to door".
When Sun Tao's father learned that Tang Guoqiang was a small actor with no fame, he strongly opposed the love affair between the two.
But Sun Tao identified Tang Guoqiang, and even said to his parents: "In this life, I will not marry Tang Guoqiang."
The second elder of the Sun family saw that his daughter was so insistent, and in desperation, the two had to agree to the marriage.
In 1979, Sun Tao and Tang Guoqiang entered the palace of marriage hand in hand.
After marriage, Sun Tao learned that although Tang Guoqiang was transferred to the Bayi Film Studio, because he was not a regular employee, he had no drama to shoot.
So Sun Tao went to his father to help Tang Guoqiang become a full actor.
Not long after Tang Guoqiang became an official actor, he received an invitation from the director of the film "Little Flower" to play the role of the male protagonist "Zhao Yongsheng".
With this film, Tang Guoqiang won the Youth Outstanding Creation Award of the Ministry of Culture and participated in the Cannes Film Festival for the first time with the Chinese film delegation.
"Little Flower" successfully brought Tang Guoqiang into the public eye,
His career also took him to the next level, but the problems that followed gradually became apparent.
In 1980, Tang Guoqiang played the male protagonist He Zhanyun in the film "Tonight's Starry Night", which won the Wenhui Film Award.
Later, he played the Dai prince in the mythological feature film "Peacock Princess", and won the special prize of the first Manila International Film Festival.
With more and more achievements, Tang Guoqiang's fans are also more and more,
Among them, many of them like his female fans because of Tang Guoqiang's appearance.
Some fans came to Beijing to see Tang Guoqiang until thousands of miles away,
For these fans who like their husbands, Sun Tao not only arranges good places for them to live, sometimes there are too many fans, and Sun Tao will not take several fans to her mother's house.
Sun Tao's behavior invisibly brushed a wave of good feelings for Tang Guoqiang.
It can be said that Sun Tao regards Tang Guoqiang's affairs as more important than his own affairs.
After getting married, she not only took care of all the housework in the family, but also prepared meals for Tang Guoqiang three times a day.
In the evening, when her husband returned home, Sun Tao would also give him a massage and soak his feet to relieve the fatigue of the day.
Not only that, Sun Tao was also obedient to Tang Guoqiang's words, and even had the appearance of losing himself a little.
Sun Tao's mother looks at her daughter like this, and sometimes says, "You are better to your husband than to us as parents."
Sun Tao and Tang Guoqiang did have a sweet and happy time,
In the 4th year of marriage, Sun Tao became pregnant and gave birth to a daughter named Tang Liang, and the little name was Lily.
After the birth of the child, Sun Tao simply quit his job to concentrate on becoming a full-time wife at home.
Sun Tao took care of everything in the family, so that Tang Guoqiang could shoot outside without distraction.
The husband and wife, one outside and one inside, will run this small family very well.
In 1983, the year Lily was born, Tang Guoqiang's career also had a new turnaround.
He has successively starred in many film and television works such as "The Long Road", "Four Crossings of Red Water", "Four Crossings of Red Water", "Wreath Under the Mountain" and so on.
He won the Government Award, the Golden Rooster Special Award, and the second place in the Best Male Lead of the Hundred Flowers Award.
When his daughter Lily was 2 years old, Tang Guoqiang had the idea of continuing to study his acting skills.
He consulted with his wife, and Sun Tao was very supportive of this.
In 1985, Tang Guoqiang was successfully admitted to the Beijing Film Academy Cadre Training Class, where he served as the class leader.
Two years later, Tang Guoqiang graduated with the first place in the overall score, and accumulated rich theoretical and practical ability during his school years.
Tang Guoqiang is getting better and better, his fame is getting bigger and bigger, and the time to go out to shoot is also increasing.
The career is booming, which should be a happy thing,
But the ensuing two men met less and less often.
The couple gathered less and left more, and the contradiction intensified more and more seriously, and eventually led to the end of "divorce".
Sun Tao's affairs are mainly Based on Tang Guoqiang, and sometimes Tang Guoqiang is too busy to come back, Sun Tao will suffer from gains and losses, and always feel that Tang Guoqiang has someone outside.
In fact, Sun Tao's worries are not empty,
In 1988, when Tang Guoqiang starred in "Cold Blood", he met an actor who was 12 years younger than himself.
Magnificent is also an actor of bayi Studio, who has long heard of Tang Guoqiang's great name and admires him.
And Tang Guoqiang also took good care of this sister who was 12 years younger than himself.
The two not only have some intimate scenes when filming, but even outside the scene often get together, which will always lead to misunderstandings.
This matter reached Sun Tao's ears and made Sun Tao very devastated.
Sun Tao, who could not stand it, quarreled with Tang Guoqiang, but Tang Guoqiang insisted that he and Magnifier were only working relations.
But the seeds of doubt have been planted, and the feelings of the two can never return to the past.
Often quarreling over some small things, the accumulation of long-term contradictions eventually broke out,
In late 1989, Tang Guoqiang gave Sun Tao a divorce agreement.
Sun Tao also knew that this marriage had come to an end, and after signing the divorce agreement, he returned to his mother's house.
But he didn't think that this was the last time Sun Tao and Tang Guoqiang met.
Chinese New Year's Eve Night in 1990 was supposed to be a day of family reunion.
Sun Tao chose to end his life in his bathroom at home on this day.
Sun Tao's death is undoubtedly a thunderbolt on a sunny day for the Sun family, and the second elder of the Sun family attributed his daughter's suicide to Tang Guoqiang.
My grandfather couldn't stand the blow of "white-haired people sending black-haired people" and died within a few months.
Grandmother Li Hongbin experienced the pain of bereavement and widowhood one after another, and her feelings for Tang Guoqiang became more and more obvious.
She also told this hatred to her grandson "Lily",
Grandma said to Lily, "Your mother was killed by your father, your father is a bad person.".
Lily, who was only 7 years old, did not have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, but she knew that her mother really could not come back.
Therefore, she chose to listen to her grandmother's words and was also full of hatred for Tang Guoqiang.
Sun Tao's death dealt a fatal blow to Tang Guoqiang, and his career and life became a mess.
First, because of the damage to the reputation of the unit, he was fired from the Bayi Studio, and his career plummeted.
Later, he was resented by his own daughter,
Both work and family were frustrated, and Tang Guoqing borrowed wine every day to dispel his sorrows.
At this time, after Magnificent learned of Tang Guoqiang's embarrassment,
Ran to Tang Guoqiang's house, washed his clothes, cleaned the housework, and cooked for him.
Keep your otherwise messy home in order,
Tang Guoqiang, who has experienced a marriage, will not know the magnificent intentions.
But he didn't want to delay this young girl,
So he said to Magnifier: "I am divorced and have a child, and your girl's family still comes to me less."
After listening, Magnificent not only did not flinch, but firmly said: "I don't care what others say, I only care about your opinion."
In 1993, the third year after Sun Tao's death, Tang Guoqiang and Magnificent married.
After the marriage, Tang Guoqiang discussed with Magnifier to take his daughter Lili home, and Magnificent nodded in agreement.
Lily was 10 years old at the time, and she had been growing up with her grandparents.
Grandparents are distressed by the experience of their granddaughter's young loss of her mother, and they are very fond of her.
Every time Lily went to her grandmother's house, her grandmother would hold her and cry and keep saying, "It was your father who killed your mother."
At a young age, Lily experienced the loss of her mother, and although her grandparents took good care of her, she was never able to fill the gap of "mother".
Growing up in the grief of losing her mother, Lily has become more and more introverted and silent from the very beginning.
So after Tang Guoqiang and Magnificent went to pick up Lily and go home,
Lily always tries to avoid talking to her father and stepmother, and also tries to minimize communication with them.
Except for the time to eat, Lily mostly shut herself in her room and did not come out.
Lily was resistant and resentful of her father and the stepmother.
Tang Guoqiang was well aware of his debt to his daughter, and he also knew that her daughter had misunderstood herself, so he decided to sit down with Lily and have a good talk.
One Sunday afternoon, Tang Guoqiang came to Lily's room and said to her: "Dad knows that you are very resentful of Dad, I think it is Dad who hurt you and lost Mom, but Dad also loves you, you are still young, when you grow up you will understand Dad".
Magnificence is also trying to fill Lily's missing "motherly love".
She asked Lily's grandparents about the meals the children liked to eat.
Every day, she changes her tricks to make her favorite meals for her children,
Even if his own son was born later, Magnifier did not favor his own child, but loved Lily more.
Even if the family is financially strapped, Magnificent will not hesitate to enroll Lily in the summer camp held by the school.
Even if you don't buy toys for your son, you have to buy milk for Lily to supplement your body.
The family's tightness is mainly because of Tang Guoqiang after remarriage, and his career has suffered a serious blow again.
People have accused him of being a "scumbag", the murderer of his ex-wife.
Negative people", "relying on his ex-wife to make a fortune and abandoning" all kinds of negative information came to the face,
At that time, no crew was willing to use him, and the actors who had been extremely popular had fallen to the point where no one cared.
Fortunately, at that time, the director of "Romance of the Three Kingdoms" saw the pearl and invited him to play the role of "Zhuge Liang".
Even if the public is both opposed to the new, the leadership above puts pressure,
The director still chose to use Tang Guoqiang,
I have to say that director Wang Fulin is indeed a poisonous vision, and the "Zhuge Liang" starring Tang Guoqiang has received a lot of praise as soon as it was broadcast, becoming one of the classic roles in film and television dramas.
In the continuous relationship between Lily, she experienced the long-lost maternal love from magnificent,
She also felt the warmth of home,
Accompanied by Tang Guoqiang and magnificence, Lily slowly learned to put it down, and gradually walked out of the pain of losing her mother.
She no longer resists Tang Guoqiang, will call Magnificent Mother, and even sometimes help Magnificent to do housework together, cook and cook together.
Tang Guoqiang's career has gradually returned to the right track,
He has successively starred in many film and television works such as "Yongzheng Dynasty", "Bao Gong Out Tour", "Bao Gong Life and Death", "Long March", "Absolute Power", "History of The Great Tang Dynasty", "Queen Bigfoot Horse", "Jiangshan Wind and Rain" and so on.
After many years of marriage, Tang Guoqiang and Magnificent also had two sons.
But after the birth of the son, the husband and wife's concern and love for Lily did not decrease, and the family lived happily together.
But this happiness was soon broken by Sun Tao's mother, Li Hongbin.
She published the medical advice left by her mother after she committed suicide, revealing Tang Guoqiang's face to everyone.
Sun Tao left a total of two wills, one for her parents and one for her daughter, and she clearly said that she wanted her daughter to avenge herself.
But at that time, Lily had already grown up, she had the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, and Lily chose to fight back against her grandmother's attack on her father again.
In the face of this discussion of "the death of his ex-wife", Tang Guoqiang chose silence,
He felt that "time is the best touchstone".
But Lily chose to speak up for her father, she said that her father and mother were distrustful for a variety of reasons, and her mother was a little stressed, and she would choose to commit suicide after thinking about it for a while, which had nothing to do with her father.
Lily's original intention was to help her father clarify, but she did not expect to lead the fire of public opinion to herself.
In order to avoid his daughter being affected, Tang Guoqiang sent Lily to study abroad.
After returning from school, Tang Guoqiang and Magnifier were busy finding a job for her.
But Lily refused the kindness of the two and found a good job with her own ability.
A few years later she fell in love, the other party has neither education nor background, Tang Guoqiang said that he did not agree with anything,
But Lily knew that this man had a heart that loved her, and that was enough.
Now Lily is married and lives an ordinary life with her husband.
After many years of marriage, she also understood the meaning of marriage, and truly understood her father in marriage.
In fact, the marriage between Tang Guoqiang and Sun Tao, both of them are responsible,
But in a failed marriage, the most hurtful thing is the children,
Fortunately, Lily finally understood her father's grievances and was happy.
And Sun Tao, who blindly pays or even gives up his career for marriage in marriage, is obviously not wise.
A woman should not give up her career for the sake of the other party,
No matter how much you love him, don't lose yourself because of love,
Because only in this way, when the other party leaves or turns around, you have the courage to face it, and you will not be without anything.