"Appearance anxiety" and "body anxiety" have become a major phenomenon that many young girls care about at present, and "anxiety" continues to appear in front of everyone's eyes, ears and hearts.
"Standard weight, supermodel weight", "The ratio of three courts and five eyes reaches this number is the world's most beautiful woman", "what kind of body is perfect"... Open the mobile phone all the time, the standard of "beauty" in the network can be described as all aspects, emerging in an endless stream, so more and more girls dare not become fat, busy transforming themselves.
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Many people are thinking, asking why is this happening?
And the key to the thousands of worlds on the Internet that can make people sink, I think, is everything that is too perfect in the small screen, making people yearn for it and difficult to control themselves.
Xiaomei, who came from the countryside, became the first child in the village to be admitted to college, and on the first day of coming to the dormitory, she felt that she was incompatible with here, and the imaginary city life gave her a lot of pressure.
Her roommate's table was a dizzying array of cosmetics, her hand was picking it up, and she muttered too much makeup in her mouth.
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Xiaomei plucked up enough courage to say hello to the three housemates, but it was only a simple greeting, the housemates were enthusiastically understanding each other's use, clothing, and playing things, while Xiaomei listened to the words sincerely, but had nothing to say.
Since then, in order to have more topics with female classmates or roommates in the class, Xiaomei has put more energy into brushing videos and buying things.
The bright and beautiful internet celebrity life in the short video platform, the convenient and fast shopping platform has consumed most of her time.
Xiaomei's table was also gradually enriched, bottles and cans occupied a lot of places, books were placed high on the shelves, and only when books were needed were taken out of the corner.
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Xiaomei's shopping list only increases, but the balance in the wallet only decreases and does not increase, seeing that the money is getting less and less, dare not ask for money with the family, the amount of money to be repaid in Alipay is like a mountain, pressing on the heart.
In order to save money, Xiaomei laughed and said that she needed to lose weight, and three meals a day became simple and repetitive, but there was less open source in the open source throttling, and this money could not fill the holes she had smashed after all.
Xiaomei, who has no social experience, began to try from online part-time, "XX part-time" app under a lot, the task of answering questions from early to late, but after a busy work, the harvest is not enough to exchange for ten dollars in cash gold coins.
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Online part-time work is slow to make money, just try offline!
"300 yuan a day", "25 yuan / hour", "no experience required", "salary day end", such attractive words make Xiaomei begin to look forward to doing more part-time jobs, not only to solve the current arrears, but also to earn more money and buy more things.
When the fitting model paid a deposit of four hundred yuan, but there was no single need to shoot; the result of doing the game was not good because of the poor technology, and a customer could not be found; when the online customer service encountered a user whose exit was dirty, he was scolded but his salary was deducted, and the actual salary of the hand was less than a quarter of the recruitment information; when handing out flyers, passers-by saw the gym flyers on the outstretched hands, and the footsteps were more hurried...
Xiaomei finally had to turn to her cousin, who had a good relationship, and reluctantly solved the problem of money.
A semester ended in a blur.
After the winter vacation, Xiaomei returned to her hometown, and on the first day of going back, the children in the village were very curious about what the outside world had, whether it was fun or not, whether it was the same as on TV.
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In front of them was a group of innocent children, the childish voice was full of curiosity and expectation, and the purity in the eyes of the children hit Xiaomei's heart.
She told the children that in the outside world, everyone is down-to-earth, reading is the top priority of students, college is a place to help realize their dreams, and with more knowledge, you can go to a better school and contribute to yourself, your parents, and your hometown.
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When the new semester began, Xiaomei returned to school, books were placed back within reach, the pile of bottles and cans was placed on the high shelf, she chose to enroll in the school's work-study position, using her spare time to work in the library while studying, and the money saved was sent back to her parents to subsidize the family.
In fact, Xiaomei is lucky, if she travels farther and farther in the swamp, perhaps the hidden dangers buried in the beginning will be heavy bombs that destroy young people's lives such as routine loans and naked loans.
Although the truth that pie will not fall from the sky has been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, there is always a fluke mentality, hoping to make quick money and realize the big dream of getting rich overnight; hoping to live a bright and beautiful day and realize the big dream of becoming a tycoon; hoping to gain the appreciation and envy of others and realize the big dream of being sought after.
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Can you ever think that the good youth that passed in the "fragmented" time of brushing short videos, the good years that were wasted when comparing cosmetics with each other and when planning to consume ahead, time was gradually swallowed up, but there was no regret medicine that could be exchanged for a young you.
Beauty, there is no so-called fixed standard, but beauty is unique, and it is enough to be yourself.
"Big eyes, small cocked nose cherry mouth", "ant waist", "slap face", etc., these "beauty" are sought after, but behind them are full of "anxiety".
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Throughout the long history, beautiful women are different, and the labels of "net red face" and "net red body" are more to correct this kind of excessive aesthetic.
Albert Einstein once said that a simple and simple life, both physically and mentally, is beneficial to everyone.
It is a human nature to like the beautiful, but what is extracted from one's own life in exchange is something that ordinary people cannot afford.
Beauty can be interpreted as cute, gentle, elegant, etc., and the appearance will become different over time, but grasping a better self will definitely make you shine at different ages.
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If I prefer more young girls to put down their phones, look around, get out of the house, and enjoy the moment than the netizens who echo the "good life" on the Internet.
When you work hard and succeed in your studies, the light you have in you will accompany your growth, gradually dazzling and shining.
Young girls, please believe that it is beautiful to be yourself!
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