Wang Jing, 40, called her brother: "Brother, I want to make a comeback, I want to fight for my career again."
Wang Gang heard his sister's tone not right, as if she had just cried.
But no matter how Wang Gang asked, Wang Jing did not tell the truth.
Wang Gang heard that his sister was coming back, very attentive, in order to cheer for his sister, he also pulled many friends to listen to Wang Jingkai's concert.
After 3 years, the news of Wang Jing and Nie Weiping's divorce caused a sensation in the entertainment industry. No one could have imagined that Wang Jing, who had married Nie Weiping under the name of "Little Third", would come to the point of divorce so quickly.
Wang Jing herself did not expect that for love, she would not hesitate to give up her career, return to her family, and concentrate on taking care of Nie Weiping and her children.
At the beginning, how she fell in love with Nie Weiping, many years later, another girl would also use the same method to snatch Nie Weiping.
Wang Jing, who returned to her career, woke up to the fact that her happiness did not need to be given by others.
01, and brother Wang Gang's green years
Wang Jing was born in 1956, and her family has an older brother Wang Gang, who is 8 years older.
When he was a child, Wang Gang was a more annoying bear child, jumping up and down all day, making his parents their hearts.
Wang Jing is different, she is very well-behaved and sensible. Parents also like Wang Jing more, usually there are delicious and fun at home, will be specially left to Wang Jing.
When he grew up, Wang Gang was arranged to go to the countryside. In the same year, Wang Jing was admitted to the propaganda team of the military region, and his parents were arranged to go to the countryside to work, so Wang Gang had to take a leave of absence to go home and send his sister to study in the army.
Unexpectedly, when Wang Gang sent his sister to study, he was taken in by the teachers of the military region. The teacher gave Wang Gang a place to study, and the two had the opportunity to go to the army together as literary and artistic soldiers.
In those days, it was a very honorable thing for a family to be able to come out with two soldiers. And Wang Gang, also because of his sister's relationship, has changed his fate since then.
In the army, two people can not call each other brothers and sisters, the instructor will be fiercely angry at the two, can only call each other's name, but also call each other "comrade so-and-so." ”
Although Wang Gang is naughty and lively, he is very fond of Wang Jing, and every time he sees his sister tired after training, he will be very distressed. Will secretly leave her a little food so that she does not go hungry.
In the army, he will also pay special attention to whether there is bullying his sister, or others are excluding his sister.
For Wang Jing, the best memories of the green years are the days when I was protected by my brother. At that time, the two brothers and sisters thought that this life would be very ordinary, who knew that soon, Wang Jing would enter the general political work and become a very famous singer.
Later, Wang Gang entered the show business circle to work hard, and then the latecomers came to the top, and developed all the way to be even bigger than the fame of his sister Wang Jing. So much so that after Wang Gang starred in "He Yan", everyone knew that Wang Jing had an excellent actor brother.
Wang Gang is too famous, and every time Wang Jing is on the show, others will mention her brother. To this end, Wang Jing also mentioned a sentence in the program: "I am particularly annoyed with my brother, as if I can stand on the stage because of my brother's relationship." ”
In fact, the two develop in different fields, and they all eat according to their own abilities.
Wang Jing's father, who used to be a fan of opera, was influenced by his father, and Wang Jing also liked opera. Next to the troops, there was a large drama theater, and Wang Jing would sneak in to learn to sing when she had time.
In 1973, Wang Jing was assigned from the army to the Shenyang Military Region for further study, and later she went to the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts alone to study. Here, Wang Jing paid homage to Teacher Guo (郭淑珍: famous singer).
Guo Shuzhen was already popular in the 60s, was a famous singer at that time, and taught apprentices who were also powerful. For example, Song Zuying and Meng Ling in the circle, Wang Hongwei, who sang the "Western Trilogy" fire, was also from Guo Shuzhen's door.
Under the name of Teacher Guo, Wang Jing learned to sing soprano, and by 1985, she won the silver medal of a big singing competition at that time, and also won a reward of more than 100 yuan.
Wang Jing, who won the grand prize for the first time, was very happy and immediately gave her brother the good news. Wang Gang told her lukewarmly to keep working hard. Wang Jing's career is getting more and more prosperous every day, but her marriage is in crisis.
As early as when she entered the General Political Department, Wang Jing fell in love with a boy from the Central Orchestra.
The boy is a violinist who fell in love with Wang Jing at first sight when he performed with her.
After that, the boys began to pursue Wang Jing, and greeted her every day.
Although Wang Jing grew up under the love of her parents, after studying, she lived independently.
Brother Wang Gang could only protect her in major matters, and there was no way to take good care of her in all aspects.
Suddenly, there was someone who took good care of her, and Wang Jing couldn't tell for a while whether she loved the other party or was touched by the other party's care.
The two were married without their parents' consent. After a long time, the elder brother Wang just knew, and he also angrily scolded her for not understanding things.
After getting married, Wang Jing felt that her life was very sweet, and her husband had always been very fond of her. But later, her husband saw that her career was booming, and she had some low self-esteem, and she wanted to go abroad for further study.
For people of that era, the only way to go abroad and go home was to plate themselves with a layer of gold. But Wang Jing is reluctant to go abroad, she is reluctant to the beauty of her hometown and motherland.
The two had differences in career development, and Wang Jing also retained her husband, but did not keep it. There was a time when Wang Jing was particularly busy at work, and she did not come home for a week. When she returned home, she found that her husband had left only a letter to her.
Wang Jing was very sad, but she still chose to forgive her husband, and in the following years, her husband did not return home once. After studying for a few years, the husband intended to settle abroad and not return to China to develop.
The marriage between the two ended without a problem.
02, willing to give up the cause, but was tragically betrayed by Nie Weiping
After the divorce, Wang Jing concentrated on developing her career, until 1990, when she and Nie Weiping met and fell in love, and ended many years of single life.
Wang Jing was divorced once and had no children. At that time, Nie Weiping, although he was a chess master, had made great achievements in Go. But emotionally, it is a complete "amorous son".
When Nie Weiping met Wang Jing, he had been married to his female Go player Kong Xiangming for many years.
Wang Jing was invited to a show in Hunan, and while singing, she felt that someone had been watching her. Wang Jing's eyes swept through the audience, and suddenly saw Nie Weiping smiling at her.
When after getting married, you still meet a woman who makes your heart move, what to do? Men who have a little sense of responsibility will know how to suppress this heartbeat. But Nie Weiping not only did not suppress it, but let this fire of love burn more and more fiercely.
After participating in the concert, Wang Jing happened to run into Nie Weiping when she took the train home. One is a Go player, the other is a music singer, the two should have had no intersection, but because of Nie Weiping's many "encounters", the two gradually became familiar.
On the first day of returning home, Nie Weiping sat quietly in front of the window in a daze, as if he was looking at someone in the distance. After Kong Xiangming saw it, he laughed at him again, don't think about Go all day, and occasionally go out for a walk.
What Kong Xiangming didn't know was that at this time, in Nie Weiping's mind, what he was thinking about was not Go, but Wang Jing's bright smile.
Nie Weiping was bold and careful, and he was gentle with his wife, and on the other hand, he sent a message to Wang Jing to express his admiration. In the face of Nie Weiping's pursuit of love, Wang Jing was a little flustered, she knew that he had a wife.
But every time he saw Nie Weiping say that the person he loved was her, not Kong Xiangming, Wang Jing was still moved. Later, Nie Weiping was even more bold, and even went directly to Wang Jing's dormitory to find her.
Wang Jing lives in the staff dormitory of the General Political Department, which is inhabited by many singers and actors of the General Political Department.
Over time, it is inevitable that there will be rumors. The leader also talked to her many times, asking her to sort out the emotional matters and not affect the career.
Wang Jing very much wanted to break up with Nie Weiping, but she was still reluctant to do so. After countless nights of deep thinking, Wang Jing chose to accept Nie Weiping's love and was willing to become "the little third in love." ”
Later, this matter reached the ears of his brother Wang Gang, who immediately found Wang Jing and asked her to break up. In Wang Gang's view, the boyfriend that the sister talked about has a family, if the other party's wife knows and comes to scold Wang Jing, then Wang Jing can only suffer.
In terms of the industry and status of the two people, the gap is too big. In addition, Nie Weiping often participates in foreign competitions and does not have extra time to take care of his family.
Wang Gang was particularly worried that his sister would be deceived and would drag down her career in the future.
Unexpectedly, the later Wang Jing was not only willing to give up her career, but also always carried the "little three infamy." ”
In order to come together with Wang Jing, Nie Weiping did not hesitate to divorce the original partner. After Kong Xiangming knew of Wang Jing's existence, he had looked for her, but he did not angrily rebuke her or complain about her.
Kong Xiangming calmly wished her and Nie Weiping happiness, but before separating, he still said something to Wang Jing: "Perhaps, the road I have walked, you will also go." ”
A woman who has experienced betrayal no longer believes in love. In other words, she and Nie Weiping have been married for more than 10 years and have long known what kind of person the other party is.
When she saw Wang Jing plunge into it, there was hatred from her husband's betrayal, but more than that, regret. Another woman is about to jump into the pit of fire.
In fact, in the entertainment industry, like Wang Jing, she is pursued by many husbands with wives, such as Ye Qianwen. But Ye Qianwen was much luckier than her, at least Ye Qianwen's career was not good, but she and Lin Zixiang did love each other for a lifetime.
Wang Jing saw Nie Weiping divorced and soon lived with each other.
Originally, Wang Jing's parents did not agree to the marriage between the two. Who knew that Wang Jing would do the "unmarried and pregnant" thing, forcing her family to agree to her marriage to Nie Weiping.
In 1991, Nie Weiping and Wang Jing married. After marriage, Nie Weiping exposed his "irresponsible" nature. He looked at Wang Jing, who was 7 months pregnant, and asked, "Can this child be beaten off?"
Wang Jing's mind was blank, she couldn't believe that the child she was looking forward to would be rejected by Nie Weiping.
What is even more ridiculous is that Nie Weiping does not want Wang Jing to have a child, just because after giving birth, the woman will lose her figure and will not be able to live a conjugal life for a long time.
Although Wang Jing has a docile personality, she is a mother, and no matter what Nie Weiping says, she is not willing to beat up the child. Perhaps the relationship between the two also showed signs of rupture from this time, but Wang Jing did not find it.
As always, Nie Weiping had to participate in various competitions every month.
Wang Jing had just given birth to a child, and no one had even poured it on her. Wang Jing's mother felt sorry for her and scolded Nie Weiping in her mouth, but still went to her daughter's house to take care of Wang Jing's confinement.
For the sake of her family and children, Wang Jing did not hesitate to give up her career and become a full-time wife. She is at home every day to clean up the housework and take care of her son. In particular, Nie Weiping took good care of him, and she would iron his match clothes in advance and put them in front of the bed. He would also wipe the leather shoes he was wearing clean, without any dust at all.
Wang Jing, who has been pampered by her parents since she was a child and held by her brother in the palm of her hand, has suffered from this. But Wang Jing did not complain at all, and even felt that this was a plain and happy life.
However, such a sense of happiness is only Wang Jing's self-deception.
Nie Weiping was lonely and proud, and after seeing Wang Jing give up her career, he rarely took care of her at home. Wang Jing occasionally wanted to ask him about chess skills, but was prevaricating by Nie Weiping's words: "Your talent is too low".
In the world of Go, Nie Weiping is a master, but he is far from reaching the first position.
For example, Jin Yong once played against Wu Qingyuan and Nie Weiping, and then Jin Yong only said this: "Wu Qingyuan is a person who has been difficult for anyone to surpass for hundreds of years. As for Nie Weiping, there may be someone overtaking him in the same time period. ”
Chess is like character, character is not much better, how high can chess be? It's just a matter of having a few talents and being proud of being high.
When Nie Weiping went out to play, he had a special hobby and liked to watch beautiful women. When he sees what he likes, he will leave the other party's contact information to facilitate later contact.
Wang Jing with children at home has long since returned to the ordinary. But an ordinary woman, in Nie Weiping's view, was not worthy of him. The child was not yet in elementary school, and Nie Weiping was mixed up with a little girl again.
Once When Wang Jing came home from shopping for vegetables, she just wanted to go upstairs when she heard her husband calling someone "baby". Wang Jing thought that her husband was teasing the child, but saw the nanny teasing the child in the yard.
Wang Jing felt frightened and immediately picked up the landline extension at home, she wanted to hear who her husband was talking to on the phone. As for the result, it did disappoint her. Perhaps just like Kong Xiangming said at the beginning, the road she has traveled, sooner or later, Wang Jing will also go through it.
Her husband's betrayal, like a thunderbolt on a sunny day, made Wang Jing feel pain and not want to die. She couldn't imagine that the love she was pursuing would be such a result.
Wang Jing regretted that she was not at the beginning, and she told her brother that she wanted to make a comeback to the music scene.
At that time, Wang Gang was already very prosperous, and his sister was bullied, and Wang Gang naturally would not sit idly by. In 1996, with the help of Wang Gang, Wang Jing opened a comeback concert in Beijing, and Wang Gang also personally came to the scene to cheer her up.
In the years that followed, there were more and more contradictions between Nie Weiping and Wang Jing, for example, Nie Weiping hated his son for being too stupid and taught him how to play chess.
Wang Jing, who was eager to protect his son, divorced Nie Weiping decisively in 1999. After that, Wang Jing had two short-lived loves, but in the end it was not satisfactory.
Since then, she has lived with her son and re-emerged on the stage as the radiant soprano singer.
Epilogue:
Wang Jing gave up the opportunity to struggle for career for love and became a full-time wife. But I didn't expect that love could not stand the test of life.
Many men, before marriage, will use I love you, I am willing to raise you, so that women are willing to sink.
But in the adult world, once you give up when you should work hard, then you can only see the other party keep moving forward and leaving you a few kilometers away.
When two people's economy, career, and status are unequal, their feelings are prone to crisis.
Wang Jing's story tells us two truths.
First: In love, a man's betrayal is divided into only one time and countless times. After having it once, he will have a steady stream of hunting psychology, and women who believe it will only become cannon fodder.
Second: Women cannot give up their independent lives at any time. We cannot pin our hopes for happiness on others.
Nie Weiping's powerful aura made Wang Jing lose himself for a while, and he was also hurt by it. Fortunately, she herself was able to repent in time, and she shone in her career and found herself.