Hello everyone! Here's a collection of Mike's stories, and I'm Mike.
In the movie "Later Us", there is such a line:
"Then we had everything, but we didn't have us."
The helplessness of this line is very suitable for a couple of Internet celebrities on a certain sound - girls CC and boys gram oil.
You may not know them, but you must have swiped their videos on short videos.
Different from other handsome and beautiful Internet celebrity couples on the platform, CC and Keyou, an Internet celebrity couple with tens of millions of fans, present in the video the appearance of a loving little couple in life.
From school uniforms to wedding dresses, they have been together for 8 years and married for 4 years, but they are still in love.
KeYou will not only personally make food, nail art, and knit bags for CC, but also create all kinds of small surprises, and also indulge her to buy all kinds of useless things, which can be said to spoil her.
Because the two are grounded and good, they have attracted the attention and pursuit of many netizens.
But just when all the fans were lamenting "gram oil and cc let me see real love", the news of their official divorce suddenly appeared on the hot search list.
As soon as the news of the divorce of the two came out, many netizens cried: "I don't believe in love anymore."
A comment with the highest number of likes can see how heartbroken netizens are:
You can believe in love forever, but don't believe in love forever.
Once, how many people patted their chests when other Internet celebrity couples broke up promised: "You can always believe in CC and gram oil".
But the higher the expectation, the greater the disappointment.
For a time, there were many opinions about the reasons for the two people's breakup.
Some people speculate that CC does not want to have children and does not want to make plastic surgery without authorization. There is also speculation that it is because CC loves online shopping and does not clean.
Soon after, CC released a video clarifying the divorce rumors.
She sensibly told everyone:
"The video shows the best way we love, but there will also be friction between the two of us in life."
From CC's speech, it can probably be guessed where the difference between the two is: CC wants to continue the video business, but Gram Oil does not want to insist.
Giving up something that has been done for a long time, Xu is tired, Xu is trying a different life.
Each has its own choices, regardless of right or wrong.
After the two broke up, they were both protecting each other and protecting their past.
For them, even if they are not accompanied by lovers, they will guard the people buried in their hearts in another way.
I think when you love someone very much.
You will hope that the other person can pursue the life he wants, and hope that he will live well, even if the future does not have you.
Sometimes breakups are not because they don't love, but because they love too much.
Just like Li Yanan, a guest in "Spring Day Delays And Departures", which has recently become the focus of public attention.
On the last trip, the program team invited Li Yanan's ex-wife Jiang Feifei to participate in the program, completely uncovering the truth of Li Yanan's divorce and the deepest scars in his heart.
In the eleventh issue, as soon as Li Yanan and his ex-wife Jiang Feifei met, both of them were red-eyed, it was difficult to say that there was no love between the two people, and I understood why Li Yanan said that she had not yet come out of the last marriage.
However, with the understanding of Jiang Feifei and the understanding of the mode of getting along between the two people, everyone gradually understood why this marriage was broken.
It is said that the first person who falls in love with each other is destined to pay more, and Li Yanan, who was once in love with Jiang Feifei, fell in love at first sight, so he tried his best to give Jiang Feifei the best life.
Li Yanan handed over all his income to Jiang Feifei, a family of three traveling, Jiang Feifei and the baby sat in first class, and Li Yanan himself sat in economy class.
Because Li Yanan loves Jiang Feifei enough, he can endure many of her excessive demands, and he will follow Jiang Feifei to move his residence from Beijing to Shanghai, and then from Shanghai to Hangzhou, and even Jiang Feifei can only return to Beijing once a year to visit his parents.
During the time they met, Jiang Feifei tried to save Li Yanan, almost pleading.
But what is certain is that in their relationship, Li Yanan is the party who pays more and is more injured.
The ex-wife high-profile begged for a reunion, and Li Yanan was obviously still in love.
But when a relationship is not changed by both parties, even if it is restarted, it is just a repetition of the same mistakes.
A sentence in the program makes many people helpless: "Love and separation are not necessarily contradictory." ”
In fact, many feelings can only become the past tense when they end, rather than looking back all the time, it is better to go forward in a dashing manner, and perhaps the scenery ahead will be better.
Everyone hopes that people who love each other can be together, but love is only the premise, love is not the whole of life, only two people's strength to make a place, the same goal, mutual tolerance and understanding, in order to truly manage the marriage.
The marriage of CC Keryou and Li Yanan Jiang Feifei has also sounded a wake-up call for many people, marriage is not a game, rather than insisting on a sick marriage to torture each other, it is better to be different and two wide.
In a relationship, the most feared thing is that one person is very busy, one person is very idle; one person's circle is very large, and the other person is only him; one person is sensitive in mind, and the other person does not like to explain.
The relationship between them is gradually estranged, not because they do not love, but because the contradictions and misunderstandings caused by too much difference make each other tired.
Maybe it's hard to let go of a person, like getting used to smoking continuously every day, and once it's broken, it's better to live than to die.
It takes courage when love starts, and it takes courage when you leave.
It is false to say that you don't love it, and it is strong to say that you have let go.
Yes, I still like you, but I will quit you like smoking.
Some people may only be able to accompany you here in this life.
It's not wrong to like someone, there's nothing wrong with being separated, and love is sometimes irrational.
"I love you very much, so I am willing, do not tie you up, and fly to a happier place."
I still like you very much, like the wind has gone eight thousand miles, regardless of the return date.
Perhaps what we need is not a ticket that guarantees the future.
It is the courage to face everything unknown and still choose to be brave to love.
Believe that the best future is "with you."
Hopefully, after ten or twenty years, "we" are still there, and the love is still there.