In Gothenburg, Sweden, the fresh air, the bright sunshine, the Faces of the A-Kwan family are full of happiness, because, they have settled down, Vanya can finally go to school in Gothenburg, Mark and Vera can also go to kindergarten, A-Kwan and Lena will soon be able to attend language classes, so that they can find a job later. They were on their way to the city government to do things, and sunny and handsome Vanya excitedly shared his happiness with everyone! As a father, Ah Guang was even happier and couldn't keep his mouth shut. Although Ah Guang is a stepfather, he regards Vanya as a child, whether in Ukraine or on the road of wandering, he and Lena have always created a stable learning environment for Vanya, and Vanya has achieved excellent results in learning under the care of her parents.
Aquariana was on her way to the city hall to run errands
Vanya grew up in a special family, his father died when he was very young, he lived with his grandparents, and later, his mother took him to a new home and lived with his father Ah Guang, as well as his younger brother Mark and sister Vera. Vanya has just entered his new home, silent, although the Chinese father is very good to him, constantly buying him gifts, warming him to give him deep fatherly love, but Vanya still does not like to talk, so that the Chinese father Ah Guang does not know how to love him. On the way to escape, the rapidly growing Vanya felt the warmth of her family during a special period. Chinese father Ah Guang and the Chinese compatriots who helped their family along the way, their full of positive energy infected Vanya, so that Vanya learned to be grateful. The rush and hardships of the war did not affect Vanya's grades in the slightest, and Vanya graduated with excellent results.
Vanya graduated with excellent grades
Watching the eldest son Vanya excitedly share the good news of being able to go to school in Sweden, Ah Guang remembered his two eldest daughters who lived and studied in Germany. Ah Guang loves his two eldest daughters very much, and divorced his ex-wife that year, and the ex-wife fought for the custody of the two daughters. After the divorce, most of Ah Guang's classmates left Ukraine and returned to China, and some friends advised him to return to China together. In order to see his two daughters frequently, Ah Guang chose to stay in Ukraine. I remember Ah Guang said a sentence: My two daughters are in Ukraine, I returned to China, I rarely see them, I want to stay here, guard them, watch them grow up. Everyone can see in the video how much Ah Guang loves his two daughters and how attached the two daughters are to their fathers.
Now, Ah Guang wants his two daughters to come to Gothenburg to live and study, to live with them, or to let her daughter's mother come to Gothenburg with her and find a place close to them, just like in Ukraine before, hoping that these two girls can get their own love and care. Ah Guang's idea has aroused heated discussion among everyone. Many netizens think: Father's love is like a mountain, and everyone can understand Ah Guang's feelings about missing a pair of daughters. The daughters have grown up slowly, have their own thoughts, they want to follow their mothers, and the mother is irreplaceable in the hearts of the children, or respect their wishes. As long as they know that their parents love them, Ah Guang just needs to keep in touch with them and do the responsibilities of a father.
Vanya shared her joy at going to school
The ex-wife does not want to come to Gothenburg, her concerns are understandable, if she brings two daughters to Sweden, although single, it will be more embarrassing, after all, except for the Ah Guang family, she does not know anyone in Sweden, she can be with her mother and sister in Germany. It is more appropriate for the two eldest daughters to stay with their mothers. Coupled with the fact that the two families have been together for a long time, the relationship is a bit complicated, and there will be many contradictions, which is not good for the children's physical and mental health, and Ah Guang also has to pay too much energy to balance the relationship. Most importantly, what do you make your ex-wife's current husband think? It is still the best as it is now, their lives are relatively pure, people can't be too selfish, can't think too much for themselves, but also think for others, consider Lena's mood. Although Lena is kind and likes her two daughters very much, and lets her take her two daughters to study, Ah Guang still calmly thinks about the pros and cons before making plans.
Vanya happily hugged little Mark
Ninety percent of netizens believe that it is more appropriate for the girl to follow the mother, because the child is always the closest to the mother, especially the daughter, who has always grown up with the mother, the two daughters are the pillars of a mother's life, and Ah Guang is her ex-husband after all, and it is not good for the current wife to get too close! Ah Guang, you can't take care of everything. It is understandable to love women, but they have their lives, have time to see them, and support them financially, so that it is also a respect for the kind Lena.
There are also netizens who are distressed by Ah Guang, if the ex-wife really brings two daughters to find him, although the children do not cost money to go to school, but if they leave Germany to Sweden, will they have to bear the rent? In the future, Ah Guang will be responsible for the rent and living expenses of the two families, coupled with the help of Lena's parents, Ah Guang's life pressure will be even greater. It is better to let the two girls play with their mothers first and come to play on vacation. When everything is settled, the two have jobs and then consider a family reunion.
Hikari wants his two daughters to come to Gothenburg to study
There are also some netizens who think that they have not settled down, just rented in a temporary house, the voice is not clear, the work is not implemented, how can the two daughters come again, the girl is right to follow the mother, and there are many relatives in Germany. Germany is also very good, can not stand in the personal point of view of this matter, to stand in the perspective of children, especially girls, or better to live with the mother, not to mention that Ah Guang has remarried, the child will feel uncomfortable. The most important thing for Ah Guang now is to consider that you and Lena will learn the language as soon as possible to find a job, and it is the most important responsibility to raise the three children around you at present.
Enthusiastic netizens gave Ah Guang's advice, maybe Ah Guang will seriously consider it. In fact, when the two daughters grow up, they can go to Sweden and Germany, which are more suitable for their future development, and then make a decision. Ah Guang's love for her daughter is understandable, fortunately Lena is a kind and reasonable person, respect the children's choices! The two eldest daughters will also understand their father's mood and affection, what do you think of these suggestions?