01 Wang Shiling
Wang Shiling is a typical representative of the "rich and raised" in the second generation of stars.
Grandpa was a famous painter who could sell a painting for $1.5 million.
His father, Wang Yuelun, is a director and a calligrapher, and his family conditions are solid.
Mother Li Xiang is a well-known host of tv stations, and one of the first artists to rise live streaming with goods, and also serves as the president of many companies.
As the only daughter in the family, "Little Rich Woman" is the label on Wang Shiling's body.
Li Xiang vomited hyper-gravidarum when she was pregnant, vomiting more than twenty times a day, and even later to the point of vomiting blood.
Therefore, Li Xiang loves this daughter very much, eats and wears the best, and has lived a princess-like life since she was a child.
So how rich is Li Xiang to raise this daughter?
When she was young, she spent a lot of money to send her to an international school, and the tuition and living expenses of this kind of school are unimaginable to us ordinary people.
Li Xiang also used the resources of the entertainment industry to train his daughter, and invited Li Yundi, a famous pianist in China, to teach Wang Shiling to play the piano;
The music cells are cultivated by Liu Huan at the "godfather" level;
The film emperor Zhang Jiahui accompanied him to practice swimming, and his painting was also taught by his grandfather and famous teachers.
It can be said that Li Xiang's heart of "hoping for a woman to become a phoenix" has never stopped, and he has cultivated his daughter to be versatile.
Not to mention the material aspect, if you want to give the best, the little age light designer bags are piled up in the wardrobe.
Every piece of clothing wang Shiling wears is a luxury brand, and picking a dress from the wardrobe is a thousand yuan and ten thousand yuan.
Thousands of clothes, tens of thousands of shoes, tens of thousands of bags, hundreds of thousands of jewelry,
Dress up enough for us ordinary people to live for many years...
When Li Xiang participated in the program, he admitted that the monthly food expenses were as high as 70,000 yuan, and it was normal to eat 6,000 yuan for a breakfast.
Refrigerators are rarely used at home, because all kinds of meat, fruits, and even water are airlifted from abroad, and the food and drink must be the freshest.
Therefore, Wang Shiling was fed white and fat, and at only 11 years old, he had grown into a tall man of nearly 1.7 meters.
Any teddy bear in the family is eight or nine thousand, and Wang Shiling's extravagant life has also attracted a lot of controversy.
"The child is so young, is it necessary to wear such expensive clothes?"
"Won't this make the child develop a gold-worshiping personality?"
"Li Xiang's doing this will only make the child grow the psychology of comparison!"
Everyone said these words, but there is also a basis, Wang Shiling in the pampered environment, temper is bigger than the average child.
In 2013, Wang Yuelun took his daughter Wang Shiling with him to participate in the program "Where Did Daddy Go", the originator of the domestic parent-child reality show.
Compared with Huang Lei's daughter Huang Duoduo and Tian Liang's daughter SenDi, Wang Shiling's temper in the show is quite large.
When he was only 5 years old on the show, he had already treated his old father obediently, and if he did not feel good, he would throw his clothes on the ground.
Pampered since childhood, she has always been self-centered, and she has been drinking to other children in the show, and even once she was about to hit Kimi.
Maybe sometimes it is the nature of children to fight, but Wang Shiling is indeed a big miss temper.
After the program was broadcast, Wang Shiling became a popular child star, and many advertising endorsements came to the door, and Li Xiang did not refuse these people.
Netizens felt that Li Xiang's way of raising her daughter was inappropriate, and Li Xiang's response to this was:
"The treasure I bought with my life, why don't you give her the best?" The money is earned by ourselves, shouldn't we spend it on our daughter? Children have no concept of luxury goods, will not develop a gold-worshiping personality, but can cultivate children's fashion concepts. ”
Indeed, Li Xiang has been cultivating his daughter in the direction of celebrities, taking her to watch shows and enter and exit various high-end venues.
Fortunately, although the little princess had a big temper, it was fortunate that she did not develop the habit of arrogance.
As she grows older, everyone is no longer concerned about what brand-name bags she carries and what brand-name clothes she wears.
Because Wang Shiling rarely appeared in front of the public, she spent more time on her studies and painting.
Wang Shiling inherited her grandfather's genes and had a high talent in painting.
Her works often win awards, and have even been able to sell for 100,000 pieces at a high price,
Her efforts and achievements have not failed li xiang's efforts.
But this little princess who grew up in a honeypot has a flaw, growing fat.
Growing up under favorable conditions, the fat face looks particularly cute,
Although she was complained that she was too fat by children on the show, her face was always full of confidence, and she was an optimistic and cheerful little girl.
But as she grew older, the cuteness disappeared, and the flesh on her face became more and more, and she was also complained by netizens that "white fat has become black fat."
Perhaps these remarks hurt her heart, Wang Shiling does not look as confident as when she was a child, and her eyes will always unconsciously dodge when interviewed.
Or maybe it's related to the environment in which you grew up.
As we all know, Li Xiang is strong, wang Yuelun has always been on the weak side, and he has been ridiculed by the outside world as "afraid of his wife".
The husband and wife have never treated their daughter materially, and they did not expect that the emotional rift that appeared deeply hurt Wang Shiling.
Parents often quarrel at home, and his father Wang Yuelun has been photographed dating strange women many times.
For a while, videos about Wang Yuelun's derailment went viral on the Internet.
Wang Shiling even praised blog posts about her father's scandal.
For a time, the news about the marriage change between the two people was overwhelming, and Wang Yuelun immediately released a divorce statement on the Internet.
Just released, Wang Yuelun deleted this blog post for the first time, but there were still sharp-eyed netizens who captured the last sentence.
"I wish Li Xiang and her crush can grow old in vain!"
Immediately after, her mother Li Xiang was also revealed to have another new love, and for a while she didn't know which party was at fault...
In short, the two years of marriage still came to an end.
The sudden changes in the family have made Wang Shiling, who is in adolescence, become particularly sensitive.
Her parents are caught in the vortex of public opinion, and even she cannot stay out of it.
Wang Shiling is no longer as simple and cute as she was in her childhood, and the confidence on her face no longer exists, but she is more restrained and helpless.
Today, Wang Shiling is only 13 years old, which is the cardamom age,
She is still growing and improving, and I hope that she will not be affected by her parents' affairs.
Li Xiang and Wang Yuelun gave Wang Shiling the best material life and improved her vision and insight.
But no matter how much money there is still to face the marriage problems of ordinary people, it is this insoluble problem that hurts the daughter's heart.
Perhaps, spiritual enrichment is what Wang Shiling needs most.
02 Huang Duoduo
A few years ago, Huang Lei's parenting philosophy was praised by many people.
Children's education has been a problem since ancient times, too tight management is afraid of counterproductive, too loose management is afraid of no majesty, so this tipping point is very important.
For parents interfering with their children's privacy, Huang Lei expressed his firm opposition, saying:
"The child's diary is on the table, I will not look at it, parents must learn to let go, why steal the secrets that belong to the child?" 」
Another headache for parents is undoubtedly early love,
Most parents are extremely opposed to early love, but Huang Lei does not think so:
"My daughter wants to be in love at the age of 15, I think it is normal, Adolescence is ignorant, the love sinus is just opening, this is the most natural thing of the person itself, I think it is beautiful." 」
Even, Huang Lei will confess to his daughter that his first love is at the age of 18, and the other party is not his wife Sun Li.
It can be said that Huang Duoduo is not only raised richly, but more is "intellectually raised".
Huang Duoduo has a high emotional intelligence since childhood, once went to his father's crew to visit the class, Duoduo deliberately took a lot of sugar,
The uncles and aunts who were specially assigned to the crew did not forget to say "Thank you for taking care of my father".
Huang Duoduo was only 3 years old when he first appeared on TV, but he was not afraid of the stage at all, and he could even talk to the host Lu Yu in English.
It can be seen that Huang Lei and Sun Li, the couple, have paid attention to their daughter's education.
Growing up in such an enlightened environment, dyeing hair and piercing your ears is very common.
However, such behavior seems to others to be a bit "deviant", which is inconsistent with Duoduo's pure appearance.
Mr. and Mrs. Huang Lei have never criticized too many of these behaviors, and they believe that they should create a relaxed environment for their daughter.
But this does not mean that Duoduo is a rebellious child who disobeys, and Huang Lei is not only a fatherly side, but a grace and power.
When Huang Lei read Duoduo's name "Huang Yici", Duoduo knew that he had something wrong.
In the "Where Did Daddy Go" program, Huang Duoduo, who is only 8 years old, has shown maturity beyond his peers.
In the show, she is a big sister, often taking care of other younger siblings and rarely letting her father worry.
When voting to keep a dad, Dodo considers that Grace and Joe are too young,
She didn't want her sister to cry so sadly, so she voted for Cao Ge,
Who wouldn't want their dad to stay, and Toto hid in his dad's arms and wept silently.
Usually, when any younger brother or sister cries, Duoduo will try his best to make them happy.
It is precisely because of this maturity that she has made these kind moves of hers crowned by good netizens as the title of "Heart Machine Girl".
There are even many netizens who leave a message "Let Huang Duoduo get out of the show!" ”
It was only a few fathers who jointly protested that the matter was brought to an end.
As he grew older, Huang Duoduo received more and more criticism.
On the one hand, her appearance inherits the beauty mother Sun Li, the facial features are gentle and generous, it seems that there is a "sense of brokenness", and the temperament is particularly cold.
She excelled in her studies and was able to translate English novels and independently write English screenplays at a young age.
The outfits that Huang Duoduo shared on social platforms will always be imitated by everyone, and he also starred in a drama with He Jiong.
On the international stage, English pronunciation standard, fluent and clear, not only proficient in dance, piano,
At the same time, he is also a fitness master, no matter from any point of view, he is simply a representative of "other people's children".
On the other hand, Toto is too personal.
At the age of 8, he painted red lips, and at the age of 9, he had pierced his ears and dyed his hair, and his dress was slightly mature.
It can only be said that people's aesthetics are different, but these behaviors have also attracted a lot of negative news for Duoduo.
Last year, another negative news story circulated online about Toto.
Some people said that they saw Duoduo's indecent behavior in the library, and many netizens who liked Duoduo sweated for her.
Fortunately, the rumors were later debunked, and the fans were also relieved, but this also reflected the children's troubles of being overly concerned.
In the face of Huang Duoduo's malicious denigration once and for all, netizens expressed great concern, but Huang Lei appeared very calm:
"She's a thoughtful person, she has her own ideas and her life."
Yes, no matter what the result is, it is more than one's own choice.
Huang Lei is also rich to Duoduo, but this kind of wealth is more spiritual.
Of course, in terms of material life, Huang Lei and Sun Li also provided the best conditions for their daughters.
Spiritually, her parents also gave her enough love,
Huang Lei and Sun Li have never made a scandal, setting a good example for Duoduo.
The love given by parents is the child's greatest confidence, and getting enough love will naturally return love.
After the birth of his sister, Duoduo will not only care for his mother, but also bear the blame of taking care of his sister.
It is said that parents are the first enlightenment teachers of children, and Duoduo's self-confidence today is inseparable from Huang Lei's educational philosophy.
Do you support Huang Lei's philosophy?
03 Sen Disc
When Sen Di participated in "Where Daddy Goes", she was the girl who loved to cry her nose the most.
Sometimes a cry is for hours, and even his father Tian Liang is helpless.
It can only be said that at that time, Sen Di had not yet adapted, and after getting familiar with the environment, Sen Di's lively and cheerful personality began to show.
Dad Tian Liang is a diver and actor; his mother Ye Yiqian is a host and singer.
Sen Di is also a child who thrives on the love of his parents, but he is not squeamish at all.
She often ran in the field, fell down and patted her ass and stood up to continue running, and after a while she couldn't see the figure without staring.
Therefore, Sen Di is also called "a woman like the wind" by netizens.
Sen Di's growth trajectory is completely different from the above two, she did not receive endorsements as frequently as Wang Shiling, nor did she appear in the public's field of vision as often as Duoduo.
She stayed out of the spotlight and chose to return to the lives of ordinary people.
This is also closely related to Tian Liang's education, Tian Liang does not like her daughter to always be exposed to the spotlight,
She wants her daughter to have a happy, safe childhood.
As we all know, Tian Liang is an athlete, so he pays great attention to the cultivation of Sendi sports cells.
Tian Liang pulled the Sen Disc all day, either playing badminton or tennis,
At the age of 6, Sen Di began to practice tennis in Spanish clubs, and even in the summer when the temperature was as high as 40 years old, Sen Di continued to train from morning to afternoon.
Through his own connections, Tian Liang also invited the star Xiu Yite to guide his daughter.
Perhaps it is the credit of long-term exercise, a pair of large long legs of Sen Di is very eye-catching.
Tian Liang often posts photos of his daughter playing tennis on social platforms.
When his daughter practiced, Tian Liang picked up the ball on the side, although he was bitter and tired, he also enjoyed it.
Unlike the above two, Sen Di does not have the material life of Wang Shiling's princess, nor does he have the personality life of Huang Duoduo.
Father Tian Liang and mother Ye Yiqian have always raised her as an ordinary child.
There are no international schools with high tuition fees, no luxury gifts, and no various interest classes.
Just to encourage Sen Di to participate in sports and strengthen her body, she lived up to expectations and achieved a bronze medal in the world competition.
Tian Liang was a diving champion before retiring, and of course he also hoped that his daughter could inherit the mantle, but unfortunately, Sen Di had no interest in diving, and Tian Liang could not help it.
"Wind-like Woman" Mori Saucer also has a quiet lady side, she likes to do handicrafts.
Mother Ye Yiqian will always accompany her to record the little bit of her daughter's growth.
Many people are curious about how Tian Liang cultivated his daughter so well, and Tian Liang replied:
"I didn't deliberately cultivate, I respected the child's own choice."
It is reasonable to say that Tian Liang is a diving star, and Ye Yiqian is also a singer and host in the circle, and her income may not be worse than others.
But the husband and wife have always been in line with the concept of "thrifty family",
Fans sent them slippers, Ye Yiqian wore them for 10 years, Tian Liang wore them for 8 years,
It is enough to see the degree of frugality of the two people, and this outfit may not be able to be pretended.
Growing up in such an environment, Sen Di will naturally not be affected by a bad atmosphere, and will not develop a gold-worshiping personality.
Tian Liang and his daughter Sen Di are more like friends, they accompany their daughter, but they intervene too much, and they are not completely indulgent.
Therefore, Sen Di will have a natural trust in parents.
04 Conclusion
From the current situation of these three children, it is not difficult to see that the parents' educational philosophy has a great influence on the children.
They are all equally good and have a lot of room for development, but now the situation is very different.
Wang Shiling is the richest of the three children in material life, but she is also the most lacking in parental love.
Especially after Li Xiang and Wang Yuelun divorced, there was less spiritual love and care for their daughter.
Under the premise of good economic conditions, it is not wrong to raise children materially, but spiritual enrichment is equally important.
Huang Duoduo grew up in an environment where he could grow up freely, and he was also the most personal of the three children.
Since childhood, he has his own opinions and has a maturity beyond his peers.
Huang Lei will only give advice to his daughter, never stop, he hopes that her daughter can spend this life in the way she likes.
Huang Lei pays more attention to spiritual enrichment, which can also be called "intellectual cultivation", but it is this rare way of education that makes them receive a lot of criticism.
Tian Liang's education style seems to be very similar to Huang Lei's, but it is also different.
Tian Liang will also respect Sen Di's interests and hobbies, but will not allow her to do something that does not fit her age.
For example, entering the entertainment industry, which is fundamentally different from Huang Lei.
To sum up, Tian Liang is "respectful" SenDi, while Huang Lei is "supportive" Duoduo.
Therefore, Mori Di can grow up carefree and has not been criticized, because she is just living a simple life like an ordinary girl.
Parents are a child's first teacher of enlightenment, and the child is also a mirror for parents.
The growth of children is inseparable from the education of parents, and even affects the trajectory of children's lives.
So which of the above three kinds of education do you support more?