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Gao Xiumin is another sketch in China after Zhao Lirong. Don't look at her wind and fire, in the eyes of the audience has always been a big grin, in fact, in the bones is a very delicate, virtuous woman.
On August 18, 2005, the famous comedian Gao Xiumin died of a sudden heart attack at home at the age of 46. Her departure pushed her close partner He Qingkui into the abyss of grief.
In that difficult day, He Qingkui's wife Zhang Yanru returned and soothed He Qingkui's inner sadness with love and warmth. It has been 17 years since Gao Xiumin's death, He Qingkui has also returned to the side of his wife Zhang Yanru, and the persistence of his daughter Li Xuan has made people tearful.
He Qingkui has a wife, why can he be with Gao Xiumin for so many years? What's the untold story behind this? How has He Qingkui lived all these years?
01.
Gao Xiumin, born in 1959 in Buyeo City, Jilin Province, began singing duo transfers in local folk groups at the age of 15.
Every year, when the farmers are idle, Gao Xiumin will follow the team to perform around and engage in literary and artistic performance competitions. During this period, she also met He Qingkui, Who was 12 years older than her, and the two who frequently saw each other had a good feeling for each other.
In 1977, Gao Xiumin joined the refinery publicity team and became an actor. He Qingkui returned to the edge of the Nen River to continue fishing, and from time to time he also composed songs for the drama team.
In 1978, Gao Xiumin was too thin to be admitted to a regular literary and art group, so she could only follow the propaganda team step by step, and also followed the local customs, married Li Yunqi, and gave birth to a daughter Li Xuan.
Gao Xiumin, who was unwilling to give up acting, re-entered the troupe and was finally admitted to the Buyeo Civic Art Troupe. At that time, He Qingkui was immersed in the creation of the play, because no one appreciated him, which made him very sad, but fortunately, his wife Zhang Yanru did not give up, but also encouraged and supported him, and supported the family with selling vegetables.
Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui met again, that is, in the vegetable market, he Qingkui helped his wife sell vegetables at that time, and was recognized by Gao Xiumin at a glance, and the two chatted familiarly.
It was a cold winter, looking at He Qingkui in the empty vegetable market, his hands were full of mud, perhaps out of pity, Gao Xiumin was a little unbearable, so he wanted to help He Qingkui, and said to him: Big brother, your program is so well written, just write a program for our troupe, and then we will give you the fee.
Hearing Gao Xiumin say this, He Qingkui was excited, and after returning home, He Qingkui put down his burden and buried his head in the room to create, he specially created a pull scene "Two Rings" tailor-made for Gao Xiumin.
This script was not valued in the Buyeo Art Troupe, but Gao Xiumin insisted on using it, and when it was performed, it was also very popular in the local area. It was this pulling scene that also changed the fate of Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui's lives.
After that, he wrote a series of books and became a theater writer in the comedy studio of the neighboring county.
On the eve of the Spring Festival in 1989, Jilin Television invited Gao Xiumin to record the Spring Festival Gala program, and the station gave her a book, she was not satisfied with it, so she recommended He Qingkui's "Double Gift" to the station, which was the first draft of the sketch "Bye Nian" performed by Zhao Benshan and Fan Wei at the CCTV Spring Festival Gala.
In order to be able to interpret this work well, He Qingkui also came to Changchun, and the two stayed in a guest house near the provincial television station for 3 months, during which the feelings of the two quickly warmed up.
In those years, the two frequently saw each other, and getting along day and night made He Qingkui fall in love with Gao Xiumin, fanatically pursue Gao Xiumin, and decided to create a special creation for Gao Xiumin, making it a well-known artist who was popular all over the country.
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Gao Xiumin's love affair with He Qingkui was soon strongly opposed by people around him, because both Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui had their own families, and together they were definitely going to end the existing marriage.
And this also made Gao Xiumin's relatives persuade her, and Gao Xiumin was also worried about whether her daughter could accept He Qingkui.
Gao Xiumin told He Qingkui: Divorce is not terrible for adults, and the blow to children is different, after all, the biggest harm is the child.
In 1992, just after the Spring Festival, Gao Xiumin took her daughter to the home of her teacher Guan Changrong, and she asked her teacher Guan Changrong to test her daughter whether she could accept He Qingkui.
In order to fulfill the good of the apprentice, Guan Changrong asked Li Xuan: Dan Dan, Grandma Guan asked you, you should answer seriously, do you say that your father is good, or Uncle He is good?
Dan Dan said without hesitation: Uncle He is good.
Guan Changrong asked again: Dan Dan, if you want to leave your father and go to live with Uncle He, would you be willing?
Dan Dan said happily: Yes, I am willing to be with Uncle He.
For the marriage of Gao Xiumin and Li Yunqi, Guan Changrong already knew that the couple had a bad relationship and often quarreled, but he did not expect that Dan Dan's feelings for her father were not good, and gao Xiumin and Li Yunqi's marriage may really be over.
Li Xuan's consent allowed the stone in Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui's heart to fall to the ground, and soon after, Gao Xiumin divorced Li Yunqi.
Immediately after, 35 tv stations across the country held a sketch contest in Shenzhen, and He Qingkui deliberately wrote the sketch "Baggage", which was very successful in performing and won the first prize, and it was precisely because of this sketch that Gao Xiumin's status as a national comedy star was laid.
Gao Xiumin, who constantly performs, frequently appears on major stages, which also makes her popular in the country. At the end of 1992, Gao Xiumin chose to resign and became an individual actor.
And He Qingkui, in order to be with Gao Xiumin, also filed for divorce with his wife who has been with the wind and rain for decades, in the face of He Qingkui's divorce, Zhang Yanru's heart was broken, she did not expect that the two survived the suffering, and when the days were better, they ushered in a divorce, which made it difficult for her to accept.
Zhang Yanru, who couldn't cry, said: He Qingkui, you go! I'll just be when you're a wild horse and want to come back as you please; you can be with Gao Xiumin, but I'll never agree to divorce! I'm going to guard this home, guard the children!
In the face of their mother's words, He Qingkui and Zhang Yanru's 3 children also stood up one after another and begged their father to stay and not abandon them.
It's just that He Qingkui, who wants to be with Gao Xiumin, how can he stay?
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He Qingkui's departure made Zhang Yanru's family extremely sad, even life was very difficult, the family all relied on Zhang Yanru to sell vegetables to survive, and even 3 children have dropped out of school.
The eldest son is married, the younger son follows his mother to sell vegetables in the town for a living, and the daughter has nothing to do and helps at home.
After being with He Qingkui, Gao Xiumin will never forget the scene when he accompanied He Qingkui into his house: the dilapidated house, the 44-year-old Zhang Yanru, the yellow muscles and thin, the aging appearance, and the 3 children who were full of hostility in their eyes.
At that time, Gao Xiumin's tears flowed out at once, she left all the money in her bag to them, and even more secretly swore in her heart that she would try her best to help Lao He's family, and even more to take out the heart of her mother-in-law, treat his children, and be their best harem.
In 1994, Zhang Yanru took her children to Guangzhou to join He Qingkui's younger brother, and during that time it was very difficult, life was bitter, and she also suffered rejection from the people of Guangzhou.
In the winter of 1995, watching He Qingkui step by step to the peak of her career, Zhang Yanru chose to let go, and she asked her children to call He Qingkui back and tell him the idea of divorce.
He Qingkui cried at once and said movingly: Yanru, I am sorry for you, I love Xiumin, she is full of drama, she helped me succeed, I can't do without her; but you are kind, reasonable, and have suffered so much with me, I have not been able to give you anything, I can't even take away the marriage! I will never divorce you.
This remark made Zhang Yanru feel quite pleased, and then she never took the initiative to propose the idea of divorce. In this way, the three of them coexisted peacefully, and everyone had a deep helplessness in their hearts.
Whenever there is a New Year's festival or has free time, Gao Xiumin will go to He Qingkui's hometown to bring gifts to Zhang Yanru and the children, large bags of things, and will leave a large amount of money.
In order to change the situation of Zhang Yanru's big son, Gao Xiumin took the initiative to consult with He Qingkui and helpEd He Qingkui's daughter open a northeastern-style restaurant in Shenzhen.
Because the eldest son He Shuchun worked as a salesman in a chemical company, Gao Xiumin simply paid for him to open a chemical company; on the contrary, the younger son He Shucheng had some literary and artistic cells, and usually loved to talk about cross-talk, and Gao Xiumin encouraged him to develop into literature and art.
For the sake of He Shucheng, Gao Xiumin also sent him to the two-person transfer school established by Zhao Benshan to study, and even personally took He Shucheng to Tianjin to worship the famous cross-talk actor Shi Shengjie as a teacher.
Treating He Qingkui's 3 children, Gao Xiumin spent a lot of thought, and it is precisely because of this that the children have no hostility towards Gao Xiumin and have a family affection.
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In 2004, the TV series "Holy Water Lakeside" co-produced by Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui started on the shore of chagan Lake in his hometown, and Gao Xiumin suggested that He Shucheng be allowed to participate.
The first time he filmed, He Shucheng could not enter the scene for a long time, and he played gao Xiumin's son in the play. In the face of the stepson, Gao Xiumin put down her temperament and taught over and over again, but He Shucheng could not enter the drama no matter what.
There happened to be a scene where the son was in trouble and was known to his mother, He Shucheng did not act like it no matter how he taught, which made Gao Xiumin anxious, taking off his shoes like He Shucheng hit him the back, which really made He Shucheng cry, and also let He Shucheng suddenly find the feeling of being beaten by his mother.
Since then, He Shucheng has always treated Gao Xiumin as a mother, and also let him successfully finish filming "Holy Water Lakeside".
For Gao Xiumin's true love, let the 3 children eliminate mustard, treat her like a mother," even in the post-production of "Holy Water Lakeside", He Shuchun was afraid of exhausting Gao Xiumin, put down his business, and deliberately returned from Guangzhou to help.
When the TV series "Holy Water Lakeside" was broadcast, it was also popular with the audience, which made Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui have great confidence and said that they would continue to launch the drama.
In 2005, He Qingkui suddenly received a summons from the court, and it was a farmer in Jilin who sued him for infringement, which made He Qingkui rush back to Changchun.
He Shuchun, who learned that his father was accused, also put down his business in Guangzhou and prepared to go home to see. The night before he returned home, his friends went for him, but he drank too much and died in a serious car accident.
This accident can blind He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin. He Qingkui hurried to Guangzhou, while Gao Xiumin held on to the family.
In order to comfort He Qingkui, every hour, Gao Xiumin would talk to him on the phone, afraid that he would not be able to hold on. At the same time, Gao Xiumin is also busy non-stop, participating in various activities and performances.
At the same time, Gao Xiumin also kept thinking about her heart, she planned to take He Shuchun's two children to the northeast, by her to raise, almost to He Shuchun's wife 100,000, mother Zhang Yanru 100,000, they are He Shuchun's closest people, to give some money to ensure the future period of life.
The TV series they planned to shoot was about to start, because of this stubble incident, the film would definitely not be filmed, which made Gao Xiumin call one actor after another, apologize to them, and help the actors who did not play to contact the crew.
At the same time, I also took a play myself, and in my free time, I read the script and memorized the lines.
Late at night on August 17, Gao Xiumin returned to her residence to rest, and before going to bed, she let the nanny help her to lie down, she also read the script for a while, and did not want to, this sleep never got up again.
On August 18, the nanny and her family found that Gao Xiumin had not yet gotten up, so they went into the room to call her, but saw that when Gao Xiumin died for a long time, the pillow was full of vomit, half of her face and hands and feet were bruised, and the mobile phone cover around her was open, as if she had tried to call for help before she died.
After identification, Gao Xiumin was caused by myocardial infarction causing suffocation.
05.
On the day of Gao Xiumin's death, He Qingkui was still handling the aftermath for his son He Shuchun in Changchun, and did not know the news that Gao Xiumin had died.
Until a phone call from a friend: Big brother, we have experienced so many storms over the years, and now our ability to bear it is strong, I tell you that there is a big thing now, I hope you can also withstand it.
Hearing that his friend had been around the bend for more than half an hour and did not say anything specific, this made He Qingkui ask anxiously: What is the matter, say it quickly!
The friend finally said helplessly: Sister Gao has passed away. He died of a sudden heart attack at home, big brother, you must hold on.
Hearing this news, He Qingkui thought that his friends were joking, but after several confirmations, He Qingkui was like a thunderbolt on a sunny day, hurried home, saw that there were many people gathered in the courtyard, just got off the car, his legs were soft, and it was the assistants and family around him who helped him up.
When he saw Gao Xiumin's body, He Qingkui pounced on Gao Xiumin like a madman and cried bitterly: Xiumin, I am back, you are waking up, how can you leave me and leave, we all said well, we want to live together for a lifetime.
Successive blows made He Qingkui faint on the ground at once.
Gao Xiumin's daughter Li Xuan, when she saw her mother lying there quietly, she also lost her voice and cried.
When guarding the spirit for Gao Xiumin, He Qingkui felt that his heart had already gone with her. In He Qingkui's hometown, Zhang Yanru, his wife, who has been separated for 14 years, is still immersed in the pain of losing her son, and the departure of the eldest son makes this poor woman 20 years old overnight.
And when she heard the news of Gao Xiumin's death, Zhang Yanru also fainted at once. In the past 14 years, she and Gao Xiumin have changed from love enemies to sisters in the run-in of ups and downs and enmity and resentment, for He Qingkui, Zhang Yanru has put everything down, but how did Gao Xiumin leave.
Grieving Zhang Yanru, called her youngest son He Shucheng and asked him to come back to pick her up, Zhang Yanru was going to send Gao Xiumin on her last journey.
Standing on Gao Xiumin's spiritual hall, Zhang Yanru said sadly to the statue: Xiumin, in fact, these years have passed, I have forgiven you, Ai Ben is innocent, how did you go so early! In the end, I didn't really give you Lao He, you must be very sorry!
He Qingkui sat woodenly, his face was haggard and pale except sad.
He Shucheng said to him softly: Dad, my mother is here.
He Qingkui, who was immersed in pain, seemed to have heard nothing and sat there in a daze. Seeing her sad and haggard husband, Zhang Yanru couldn't help but sob.
This made Li Xuan a little unable to see past, crying and pushing He Qingkui: Dad, my aunt Zhang is coming.
He Qingkui then looked up at Zhang Yanru, and he found that Zhang Yanru was also very haggard and pale, especially the eldest son He Shuchun was gone, which made Zhang Yanru seem to be 20 years old.
He knew very well in his heart that Zhang Yanru's inner pain was no less than his own, which made He Qingkui sad even more, and tears flowed all over his face like a fountain.
Looking at he Qingkui who was in tears, Zhang Yanru said comfortingly: Old He, you want to open up, Dan Dan and Big Mama are still counting on you, you have to cheer up.
After hearing this, He Qingkui nodded: Yanru, you go back first, after so many days, I haven't had a good rest, at this time I can't take care of you, you have to take care of yourself."
06.
After bidding farewell to Gao Xiumin, He Qingkui fell into great grief. A few days passed, he Qingkui suddenly thought of Dan Dan and Gao Xiumin's mother, which made He Qingkui wake up a lot.
Therefore, he hurried to find Li Xuan, only to find that Li Xuan was surrounded by a group of relatives, and when Li Xuan saw He Qingkui, he hurriedly pounced on He Qingkui's body, crying and saying: Dad, where have you been, I thought you didn't want me.
Looking at Li Xuan's appearance, He Qingkui couldn't help but burst into tears.
This scene happened to be seen by Zhang Yanru, who was not at ease with He Qingkui, she watched Li Xuan and He Qingkui hug and cry, and her heart was full of emotion, Zhang Yanru and Li Xuan had seen it before, and Li Xuan had always regarded Zhang Yanru as a relative.
Now, after Gao Xiumin is gone, all the grievances have also dissipated with the wind, and she feels that she has to take on the responsibility of her mother and take good care of this child for Gao Xiumin.
Zhang Yanru, who was in tears, said to Li Xuan: Dandan, are you willing to go to Songyuan's hometown with your aunt for a few days, and your aunt will take good care of you.
Li Xuan nodded, turned to He Qingkui and said: Dad, I hope you will be strong, when our father and daughter say goodbye, I hope we can smile at each other.
When Li Xuan left, Zhang Yanru found He Qingkui and said to him: Do you want to go back to your hometown with me for a while, where the air is good, and the family is worried about you.
It's just that He Qingkui refused, he hasn't really come out of his sadness now, and then, He Qingkui chose to go to Yan Xuejing's home. Seeing that her husband would rather go to someone else's house than go back to his own home, Zhang Yanru had mixed feelings in her heart.
She did not complain, and silently helped He Qingkui clean up everything, and also told Yan Xuejing some precautions, so she sent him to the car.
Not long after, Zhang Yanru took He Shuchun's son to see He Qingkui, and as soon as she saw He Qingkui, the child shouted loudly: Grandpa.
Looking at the happy grandson, He Qingkui couldn't help but think that he had just lost his father less than a month ago, his tears slid down again, and he hugged his grandson tightly.
Zhang Yanru on the side said: The child misses his grandfather, and he always argues that he wants to see you, so I will bring him here and cause you trouble.
Subsequently, He Qingkui took the child everywhere to play, the child was very happy, under the infection of the child's happiness, He Qingkui and Zhang Yanru temporarily forgot the sadness, and their faces also showed joy.
At this moment, Zhang Yanru said: Lao He, you see how happy the child is with you, follow me back to Songyuan, accompany the child more, and let him grow up healthily in a normal environment.
Hearing this, He Qingkui bowed his head and said: You take the child back first, CCTV asked me to serve as the coordinator of the Language Program of the Spring Festival Gala, and I want to go to Beijing first.
Seeing that he could not save He Qingkui's heart, Zhang Yanru shed tears. On the other hand, He Qingkui, looking at Zhang Yanru, was also very remorseful and guilty in his heart, he knew that he had not yet come out, and he was with Zhang Yanru, which was a greater harm to her.
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After that, Zhang Yanru would call He Qingkui every two or three days to ask him to take good care of himself and ask him about various matters.
In the face of Zhang Yanru's warmth and thoughtfulness, He Qingkui was very grateful, but he was also very guilty, so that he had to say fiercely: Yanru, you don't always call me, I am fine, you can take care of yourself, I am sorry for you.
In this way, Zhang Yanru did not dare to call him again, and could only let her daughter He Ping send him things, looking at those things, He Qingkui said to her daughter: What is your mother's pain.
The daughter was very angry and said to He Qingkui: Dad, have you not had any feelings for my mother for so many years? How can it be said that my mother has also raised three children for you, and over the years, her love for you has not diminished at all, even now, she is the same, do you not appreciate it at all?
He Qingkui said with tears: I am sorry for your mother, I am ashamed of it.
He Ping also couldn't help it, shed tears, took his father's hand, and said: My brother is gone, Aunt Gao is also gone, in the future you will be nicer to my mother, don't let her be sad anymore.
Listening to his daughter's words, He Qingkui nodded and begged her daughter to give him some more time to let himself be slow.
In the Spring Festival of 2006, He Qingkui chose to return to his wife Zhang Yanru's side and lived a plain and happy life.
Gao Xiumin's daughter Li Xuan, on the other hand, is very worried about her mother. Before Gao Xiumin's death, because of his busy work, he rarely had time to accompany his daughter Li Xuan, so he would frequently send text messages to his daughter, at most, there were forty or fifty times a day, which made Li Xuan feel that he was the most important person in his mother's heart at all times.
When her mother died, Li Xuan was very painful, in order to miss her mother, she planned to act on behalf of her mother, to tour around the world instead of her mother, to take the road that her mother had walked, and even sometimes, she would use her mother's mobile phone before she was born to text herself, looking at those caring text messages, Li Xuan also had a happy smile on her face.
On the stage, Li Xuan likes to sing Han Hong's "Beauty in the Wind and Rain" the most, because the lyrics of this song are exactly what she wants to say to her mother.
More than ten years have passed, Li Xuan has been missing his mother, every time his mother's death day or Qingming Festival, Li Xuan will go to visit his mother's grave regardless of wind and rain, which is really tearful.
The cloves in "Liu Laogen" on the screen are still alive in people's memories, And Gao Xiumin's short life is also as warm and unrestrained as a flower, and now that she is gone, I don't know if there are still cloves in heaven?
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