Hello everyone, this is the salted fish turning laboratory, this article we will talk about some of the feelings about the depression.
The old rule, stated in advance, the author is not a professional, amateur is not counted, just had a period of experience.
The author's ideas only represent individuals, please be carefully identified by parents.
Let's talk about depression first.
In the author's view, patients with yu depression actually have two states.
One is that pure depression has become ill and has entered that state.
That's too abstract to say, let's get into it.
Everyone has ever felt that extreme boredom, right?
I don't want to watch TV, I don't want to play with my mobile phone, I don't want to sleep, I don't want to do anything, and I'm bored to death.
When depression occurs, it is much more serious than this extreme state of boredom.
The patient can't even feel the emotion of boredom.
He/she will not be bored by this state either.
Just to say how I feel, in this state, I don't have any emotions, I just feel completely stripped from the world, the soul and body being withdrawn.
Lying in bed, I felt that I had nothing to do with this world, and I did not really live in this world myself.
Feeling like an empty shell, without emotion, without thought, without self.
You can imagine the feeling of a faint black and white figure in a photo of bright colors and many people playing with each other.
That sense of obtrusiveness, the sense of discord that should not exist.
It's a terrible feeling, isn't it?
But when depression occurs, there is not even this feeling, it is not felt at all, there is no way to think, there is no self.
I can feel abandoned by the world and abandoned the world, but I can't react at all, and I can't think about it further.
Alas, it's still too abstract.
It can only be said that many feelings can only be known after experiencing them, and cannot be accurately described in words.
Therefore, with depression, people will become cold and cold.
Because in the state of illness, there is really no emotion at all, and I do not feel that the world is related to me.
At that time, even if someone entered the room with a knife, I would only watch him stab me to death with a knife, and there would be no reaction.
Maybe he still thinks he did a good job and sends me out of this false world.
(I see some parents who say that their children with yu depression have become very strange and will not recognize their parents.)
Do you think that when a person feels that the whole world, including himself, is false, he will feel that the people around him are real? If a person does not feel that the people around him are real, where will they recognize you? )
In this state, I have no solution, I can only take medicine.
Here I also talk to the small partner who suspects that I have yu suppression, not to do some yu suppression test questions on the Internet, you can get the conclusion that you have yu depression.
Depression is the inability to feel happy, not to be unhappy.
If you suspect that you are depressed, go to a psychologist, don't go online Baidu yourself as a doctor to diagnose.
You see yourself and can only be a quack. I suspect that I have suppressed yu for a long time, dragged on for a long time, and I have not suppressed yu and have also been cured by myself.
Let's talk about the second state.
The first state is a complete onset state, but through continuous medication and rest, after a few weeks, you can see a significant improvement.
At this point, the patient begins to gradually get rid of the first state I mentioned above.
In the second state, I have something to say and say.
Here we want to clarify a concept, that is, physiological inhibition and psychological inhibition.
Physiological depression, probably because of hormones, endocrine irregularities, or intracranial tumors, injuries and other factors caused by depression, the patient itself has no psychological problems.
This kind of depression is relatively easy to cure, basically take medicine to get rid of the depression.
But psychological yi depression is not enough, because the child itself is suffering from yi depression because of psychological problems, so taking medicine to solve depression is a symptom but not a cure, as long as the psychological problem is still there, depression will recur repeatedly.
And even if the depression of the first state does not occur, the patient will be unable to live a normal life due to his own psychological problems.
And in general, patients with this kind of psychological depression will have other diseases in addition to depression, right?
Therefore, for this kind of psychological inhibition, psychological problems must be solved.
I see that most of the parents who feel pain and distress because of their children's depression, the children have entered the second state.
It is that the depression is controlled, but there is no way to live normally, there is no way to learn.
The following words are only for the reference of parents whose children's psychological problems are similar to mine.
In the past, he was a well-behaved and obedient student who loved to study and had a good academic performance.
Now they are reluctant to go to school, they lack a sense of security (like to close their doors), they are shadowed by parental quarrels in childhood, they are plagued by nightmares, their physical conditions are bad, and they have insomnia.
As far as my idea is concerned, this kind of child has depression, so don't think about the things that let the child learn.
Can't learn.
As far as my personal feelings are concerned, even if I get rid of the first state of severe illness, I will still have a false world, a chaotic brain, irritability, nausea, headaches, suffocation, and poor concentration.
It is nothing more than using reason to suppress this sense of chaos.
This state has been with me, day and night, until I untie all the knots that caused my psychological problems, the state of improvement is getting better rapidly, and then it takes more than a year and a half to feel that I am really alive in this world, really alive.
Until now, everyone can see from looking at my micro-headlines, is my state quite good?
But in fact, four days before I posted the headlines, I still felt false chaos, others didn't seem to say anything, I didn't seem to say it myself, and even felt that my mouth was closed and closed, as if my mouth was not my own.
And once the weather is bad, or the physical condition is not good, it will return to this chaotic and false nasty feeling.
And can not be stimulated by a specific stimulus, once stimulated by a specific stimulus...
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I went from school break to get better, and now, it's been almost four years.
And my own personality, to say that it sounds good is extremely optimistic, to say vulgar, is to pull out the heart of the ass eye.
And I've been forcing myself to be upbeat and have to be high.
You can see from looking at my micro-headlines that whether I have insomnia or something happens, I am always happy and positive.
Even if it is uncomfortable to cry, you have to laugh and say, "I'm fine!" ”
In my case, I am in a very good state psychologically, physiologically I have been uncomfortable, and my body has been dragging my hind legs.
And your children's heart knots have not been unraveled, and their psychological state has not been adjusted, how can they have that spiritual head and that perseverance to learn?
If you are interested in this regard, you can go to my previous article:
Children do not want to go to school, and they feel uncomfortable when they mention school? Ta may have school phobia (on
Children do not want to go to school, and they feel uncomfortable when they mention school? Ta may suffer from school phobia (lower
The first part introduced some theoretical knowledge of school phobia, and the next part talked about my real experience, hoping to give some help to parents.
I have a lot to say about the mental state of children who are similar to me.
Between the limitations of space and the author's energy, the author will write articles about other things to say.
Again, the author's feelings only represent himself, and his experiences and perceptions can be used as references, but do not blindly believe.
If there are different opinions, you can discuss them with the author in the comments section.
If you have any questions, you can also leave a message in the comment area, and the author will try to answer as much as possible.
I hope that everyone can be well, as long as they do not give up and find the right way, suffering can eventually blossom.
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