As a post-80s mother, my thoughts can still be regarded as keeping up with the pace of the new era, in the education of children is always in accordance with the people often say poor sons and rich daughters, so for the discipline of my daughter, never said anything serious, only she needs I will try to meet, until I learned about my cousin's education of her twin daughters, I found myself seems to be really wrong, in order for my daughter to have a good future, I really can't indulge my daughter in this way. Maybe it's too late to really regret it.
My cousin is a very successful career woman, working as an executive in a foreign company, and in the eyes of outsiders, she really envies an executive like her, but she is also very busy, plus she is also very competitive, after all, excellent people are really everywhere for companies like them.
After giving birth to her twin daughters, it took her only three months to return to the workplace. Then the old man came to help with the two children, and since the children were too young, my cousin separated the two sisters, one for the in-laws and one for their parents. Time is like a shuttle between the two children in the blink of an eye to the age of primary school, in order to educate the children to educate the cousin to pick up the child back to bring themselves, after all, the cousins are still very dominant in the school district housing education.
After going to school, the two sisters simply subverted my cousin's cognition, why the two children are so different, the younger daughter is very smart and obedient, the grades are also very good, always at the top of the class, and the eldest daughter really thinks that the boys have always been naughty and bad grades, either the bottom of the class or the edge of the bottom.
Cousin to see this situation really for the eldest daughter worried, cousin can not sit still, she will be very proactive to go to the school to the teacher to understand the learning status of the two children, and then found out why the child is obviously the same running line gap is so large, it turned out that in the most basic literacy here there is a gap, because the second old Chinese character foundation is very solid, really because of this teacher in class when she can quickly absorb, the super long comprehension ability in the exam will naturally be faster than other students to solve the problem, It is also easier to do homework after class, so children are more willing to learn.
On the contrary, the eldest daughter's Chinese character foundation is very poor, and the characters she knows are innumerable, so she has to work very hard in class, and she will slowly resist learning in her heart, which will lead to worse and worse grades.
And the teacher also did not hide and my cousin said that our teacher in the preparation of lessons and the development of the curriculum plan is to choose 80% of the students in the class can master to formulate, then it is equivalent to the remaining 20% of the students even if they can not keep up, can not master the teacher will not take care of, the teacher will only follow their own plan to class, then there will be a vicious circle, poor learning is getting worse and worse, more and more can not keep up, resulting in the back they do not want to learn more.
In fact, we all know that no matter when we do the problem, we must first review the question, only by understanding the problem can we understand what the problem is going to do, and we will read and understand the problem before doing the problem, so the more children can read and understand, the more they can understand the problem, and after the assistance of the teacher, they will solve the problem more easily.
In the amount of literacy of these children, the child's attention concentration is not very good, and in the primary school most of the teachers will lead students to read the questions, if the children do not pay attention to miss the teacher to read the questions, it is obvious that they do not understand what the questions mean, so that the children will also have a great dependence on the teacher, in the exam the teacher can not give them to read the questions only their own reading they can not understand, then naturally can not get a high score.
Undoubtedly, if the child always does not understand in school, and then does not get the help of the teacher, after class to do their own problems will always not, the exam is the first to last every time, it is conceivable that the child will lose the confidence and interest in learning, so it will also resist learning.
The cousin's two children, the younger daughter rarely needs someone to urge her to study, after returning home, she always takes the initiative to do the homework before playing, and the eldest daughter is saying it over and over again or not to write, the younger daughter will also take the initiative to prepare for the content of tomorrow's class, and often read extracurricular books by herself; the two sisters form a sharp contrast, the eldest daughter writes homework every day as if she wants her life, so in the face of the eldest daughter, the cousin is more and more grumpy, and the eldest daughter is angry and crazy.
After listening to my cousin talk about the writing process of their two daughters, especially after getting the truth about the teacher's arrangement of the teaching plan, I really suddenly realized that I began to realize that I also understood that if I want my daughter not to suffer such a loss in school in the future, it is very important to let the child strengthen the foundation of Chinese characters in the last semester, but we can't force them, we must advocate happy learning, but we can't think about the concept that the children are still young and let them play first, I also clearly know the truth of first bitterness and then sweetness, the cycle of cause and effect, The children in the front are happy, but there will be more painful things to come back in the later stages.
Knowing this result, why not let the stupid bird fly first? In fact, for children, as long as parents find the right way, it is not a painful thing for children to read from an early age, and it can be transformed into learning to teach children in a way that can make children happy, which can also better stimulate children's interest in learning, and can also make children grow happily.
After this incident, I decisively asked my daughter to start reading every day, when my daughter was just 4 years old, in less than a year, my daughter has now mastered nearly 3,000 basic Chinese characters as I wished, and has successfully stimulated her interest in reading, I am very pleased to feel that I can do the right thing at the right time.
What makes me so pleased, the method is very simple, that is, I bought a set of "Preschool Literacy 1600 Stereoscopic Flip Book" for my daughter, this full set of books is more convenient and intuitive to help me make my daughter literate, every day only need to spend some time with her to see, read, write, for a long time, the child will naturally know the new words.
Then some people will definitely ask, the child is still so young, she herself is not literate, is it not difficult to turn it over like this? Can it be useful?.
I can tell you with certainty that you can completely dispel this idea, this set of "preschool literacy 1600 stereoscopic flip book" is very interesting, and is based on 0 ~ 10 years old children special research out, it not only has interesting stories, this book through a variety of children like cartoon pictures to do pillars, through the bright color to attract children, so as to stimulate children's interest in learning, enhance children's brain ability at the same time can also be hands-on, in the whole process of children's learning more vivid and interesting, And the exercise of memory is even more effective with half the effort.
For example, when my daughter turned to the theme of "family", in this theme, the child not only knew various colors in it, such as red, purple, green, yellow, blue, black, etc., but also the structure of the house was also recognized, such as balconies, roof ridges, corrugated, walls, etc. This set of books are all cases of such a life, this set of books really comprehensively mobilizes the child's hands, eyes, and brains, so that the child's image memory, so that the child's vision, touch, and recognition of words are vivid and interesting.
There is also when he opens to the theme of "city streets", the child's curiosity and desire to explore immediately come up, here she knows the zoo, bus, museum, school, etc., and can learn intersections, roundabouts, streets, sidewalks and other traffic-related knowledge and so on too much, is this not the best way to stimulate children's literacy?
In short, this set of books really will not be as you say may make children learn boring and tasteless, will be bored will deprive children of the right to be happy, it will only make children develop good habits, love to learn, love to think, love to explore an excellent child. The change of my woman really surprised me, and together I knew that the daughter who played suddenly became fond of reading, and the concentration was so concentrated, mainly because her interest increased, and the child's interest was the best teacher.
Soon after, I did not forget my cousin's child, without hesitation directly sent a set to him, not long after the cousin where to send me good news, the eldest daughter through this set of books in terms of literacy really by leaps and bounds, and then the cousin asked me to go to the house to sit, but also specially thanked me for saying that thanks to the set of books you sent, I also found it in time, and now the eldest daughter's grades are slowly raised, and now I don't have to urge my sister to do homework, very conscious and positive, and I really worry less about how much heart in the child, Why didn't the child find out earlier and buy it for the child earlier?
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Finally, I really recommend this book to all parents, especially parents who have 0-10-year-old children at home, because whether it is me or my cousin, after using it is really to help themselves a lot, parents had better take the early rush to order a single set, otherwise it will be very ok to miss it, mainly because the price of this set of books is really very affordable, the point is that it is really very suitable for children, or can learn it, and parents who bought this set of books will definitely not regret it in the future. So parents don't miss it.