No parent doesn't want their children to know how to be grateful, but what kind of family can raise a grateful child?
From birth, the child has been loved by a family, or even two generations, the parenting of parents, the love of grandparents, and it can be said that it is a new generation that thrives in the wind and rain.
In the blink of an eye, they reach adolescence, and we see problems emerging one after another. Turning a blind eye to the efforts of parents and turning a deaf ear to the teacher's teaching. Gratitude, as if it were a word on Mars, had nothing to do with them.
Parents keep their expectations to a minimum at this time, as long as they can get along. What went wrong? In the blink of an eye, our obedient and cute white rabbit milk candy has become the appearance of dancing teeth and claws.
What kind of family can raise a grateful child? Understand the hardships of parents to earn money and support their families, and understand the painstaking hearts of parents who hope that their children will become dragons and their daughters will become phoenixes.
In fact, looking back, we found that we gave too much, protected too well, did not let them experience a little bit of life's difficulties, let them think that everything they have is deserved.
First: We want to involve them in housework from an early age. When learning to cook, it may be a distraction at first, or even a little injury, but also let them continue to participate in it.
Only then will they understand that a simple three meals a day, added up day in and day out, is also a great project. Only then will they understand what food and clothing are, and only from an early age will they know gratitude.
Second, let them know from an early age that learning is their own business, the position is correct, and the learning attitude is there. Often we parents get involved too much, as if they are learning for us, so that children do not have the initiative to learn.
Third, do not be spoiled. From a young age, we must have good habits, living habits, study habits, and hygiene habits, and parents should play a supervisory role, and they do not have to do everything themselves and do it for them.
Don't be too diligent parents, let them bear it on their own, to grow, when they learn to pay in the process of growing up, learn to take responsibility, they will have a grateful heart.
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