The life of the great poet Pushkin stopped at the age of 37, after which his wife Natalia Pushkina was criticized.
The first beauty of the past year gradually withered, and at the age of 51, she was depressed, and perhaps the two of them were better off not meeting.
Natalia Pushkina
It's better not to meet in the first place
In 1828, at the age of 16, Natalia had just entered social circles. The beautiful girl who was strictly under the strict control of her mother, as soon as she entered the ball, it was as if a drop of water fell into the boiling oil, which caused the crowd to be restless.
That day, Natalia was wearing a white dress, but her skin was whiter and more delicate than the dress. There is a healthy flush on the cheeks, bright teeth and bright eyes, and eyebrows like distant mountains. When she got out of the carriage and walked lightly into the ball, it touched the hearts of all the men present.
Natalia Pushkina
Almost immediately, everyone turned their heads and ears, whose family did this beautiful girl belong to, and how could she have never seen it before? Pushkin, who was already famous all over the country, had to be reassured again and again to calm a restless heart. Although he was loved by people and had seen countless famous and noble women, no one could touch his heart like this.
Alexander Sergeyevich Pushkin
Natalia Nikolaivna Goncharova was the daughter of the Moscow nobleman Goncharov. Her mother was very strict in her children's education, and as long as she did anything out of the ordinary, her mother would not hesitate to reprimand her loudly. Tutors teach them French, dance, and manners, and romantic books are absolutely not allowed in their homes.
Natalia and Pushkin
When Pushkin confirmed the identity of the girl, he began to pursue perseverance. He appeared at every ball where Natalia appeared, and found countless excuses to be close to the beauty. He used his flowery words and hot heart to make Natalia moved... In April 1829, Pushkin asked a friend to act as a matchmaker to propose to Natalia's parents. But unexpectedly, the famous poet was rejected by Natalia's parents on the grounds that their daughter was young, which made Pushkin fall into depression for a while.
An ominous beginning
But the poet did not give up, he still resolutely chased after Natalia, enthusiastically expressing his love. The following year, Pushkin came to the door again, and this time the attitude of the Goncharov family was much better. They warmly entertained the poet and left him at home. Pushkin plucked up the courage to propose to Natalia's parents again, and this time, he finally got his wish.
Natalia Pushkina
Pushkin and Natalia's wedding took place on February 18, 1831. A happy couple celebrates the wedding ceremony. As the two exchanged rings, the ring in Pushkin's hand slipped off accidentally, and the poet's face was a little unpleasant, and when he looked down to pick up the ring, the burning candle in his hand suddenly extinguished, and the poet touched the cross and the Bible on the prayer table in a panic.
As if he had foreseen something, Pushkin came out of the church and muttered, "This is an ominous sign."
After hugging the beauty back
Although a little depressed, it was quickly swept away by the joy of the new marriage. Pushkin rented a house on St. Petersburg's oldest Arbat Street to build a love nest with his wife.
Natalia Pushkina
Unfortunately, after the marriage transitioned from wind and snow to chai rice oil and salt, the huge difference between the two showed up. Because of family education, Natalia had no interest in literature or poetry. She was not allowed to read this kind of text since she was a child, and she could not talk to her husband about the beauty of words and the beauty of sound. When the two were together, Pushkin felt that there was nothing to say. And the gorgeous ornaments that Natalia cared about, the beautiful clothes, the burlesque cabarets, were things that Pushkin could not appreciate.
However, this is not the most acute problem of the two men's contradictions. Pushkin was a very amorous man, his love history is rich, and those popular love poems were not written only for his wife. It is said that he had a list called the "Don Juan Roster", which recorded the names of about 4 or 50 beautiful women. Of course, it's not that he has an affair with these women, but these women obviously have a past with him.
Natalia Pushkina
While writing love poems to his wife, he was also writing letters to bakunina, Voluntsova, Kern, Olenina and other women, and his emotions were so rich and sincere, but not only for his wife, but for every woman, which made Natalia feel extremely embarrassed. She was a true lady who adhered to social ethics after marriage and lived a life of housework for her husband and childbearing. Although Natalia's beauty is universally recognized, pushkin has cheated on her over time. It wasn't enough that he had an affair with Natalia's two sisters, and ended up wandering through the fireworks scene and fighting with several prostitutes.
Natalia and Pushkin
Natalia, who has been left at home, is accumulating more and more dissatisfaction, and since her husband likes to go out and find a confidant, why can't she find some fun for herself? Born into an aristocratic family, she was beautiful and beautiful, or the wife of the great poet Pushkin, and the door of the upper class was always open to her. She did not hesitate to throw herself into the lights, and beauty repeatedly made her the focus of everyone. Although Natalia has given birth to several children, it has not affected her beauty in the slightest, her waist is still thin and narrow, and there seems to be infinite affection between her eyes.
Tsar Nicholas I
Her beauty caught the attention of Tsar Nicholas I, who fell in love with this stunning beauty and pursued Natalia with great fanfare. Although Natalia came out to "distract herself", she did not want to cause trouble for herself, and she skillfully maneuvered with His Majesty the Tsar, repeatedly rejecting the Tsar's courtship. Instead, Nicholas I felt more fond of her, feeling that Natalia was both respectable and lovely. He began to care for the girl like an elder, to protect her, to talk to her. Being taken care of by a tsar made Natalia feel even more aggrieved. The kings of a country have pity for themselves, but her husband Pushkin only knows that he is wet with flowers and grass, and he is happy outside, and the heart of a beautiful person is slowly cold.
The appearance of love enemies
Natalia has many suitors, but she has never promised anyone to pursue. But soon, a suitor from France made Pushkin feel in crisis. He was a French nobleman named Georges Charles Dentez, who had gone into exile in Russia because of the French Revolution. This Tall, good-looking, fashionable, and charming French man fell in love with countless high-society ladies as soon as he appeared.
George Charlie Dantes
Dantes is an attractive man, he not only has a beautiful face, but also a pearl of wit is his invincible weapon. When he met Natalia, he began to pursue this beauty in a frenzied pursuit. Natalia was soon charmed by the personable Dantes, but was not soft in the face of his pursuits. Her refusal again and again aroused Dantes's competitive spirit, and he decided to start with friends and boil frogs in warm water to win the hearts of the beauties. Greeted by Dantes' song, Natalia gradually became attracted to his charm. Although he did not cross the thunder pool, he began to date him privately.
Natalia Pushkina
There was only one person hidden in the woman's heart, and when Natalia began to favor Dantes, she never allowed Pushkin to enter her room again. While Pushkin was still thinking about how to ease relations with his wife, he and his friends received an anonymous letter written in French——— which read: "The Society of The Medal of Honor, the Distinguished Green Hat and the Knight's Medal Society, under the presidency of Naryshkin, the recipient of the Grand Order of S.E.D.L., were met, and the assembly unanimously agreed to appoint Alexander Pushkin as vice-president of the association and historian of merit." Pushkin could not bear such insults, and in order to defend his dignity, he proposed a duel to Dantes.
Alexander Sergeyevich Pushkin
Dantes's righteous father, the Dutch Minister, rushed out to mediate, and after some maneuvering, Dantes married Natalia's eldest sister Catherine as his wife, in order to end the emotional dispute. After the marriage, Dantes did not restrain himself, but approached Natalia as a brother-in-law. Pushkin could not bear it any longer and offered to duel the man again.
Duels and deaths
On February 8, 1837, unusually cold, in a glade in the woods on the outskirts of St. Petersburg, Pushkin's duel with Dantes went on as scheduled. After the salute, the two sides walked away, ten steps apart and threw their cloaks on the ground. The cloak is also equivalent to a sign indicating that this is a line that is not allowed to be crossed.
Pushkin's duel
Before the adjudicator could shout, Dantes opened fire, which hit Pushkin in the abdomen. Pushkin struggled in excruciating pain to shoot Dantes, and the man on the other side fell down in response. Pushkin thought Dantes had been shot and died, so he gave up a second chance to shoot. I didn't expect that Dantes was just pretending to be dead, and the shot just now hit only a metal button on Dantes' uniform. As soon as the Dutch minister declared the duel over, Dantex rose from the ground. Pushkin asked for a second shot, but the minister refused. The poet was sent home and died after 1 day and 1 night of groaning in pain at the age of 37.
Natalia and Pushkin
On his deathbed, Pushkin took Natalia's hand and said, "Don't blame yourself, you are not at fault." After I die, you take your children to live in the countryside. If you serve me for two years, you will marry someone, and you must marry a decent person. "Pushkin died, and the murderer, Dantes, was simply demoted to a private and expelled from the country. This unjust verdict has left many people wondering if the duel was a conspiracy. And Pushkin, who was not well treated after being shot, threw him back to his residence and left the great poet to groan in pain to death...
Natalia Pushkina
After Pushkin's death, Natalia was devastated. Although she and her husband have some estrangement, she remembers that her husband once cared for and loved her. Not to mention that she is only 24 years old and has 4 young children to raise. After the death of her husband, the family's economy was in a state of distress, and to make matters worse, there was a flood of accusations. Almost everyone pointed the finger at poor Natalia, saying that it was because of the scourge she had provoked outside that had killed her husband. What's more, some say that the great Pushkin's greatest mistake in life was to marry Natalia.
Old Natalia
Natalia packed up her things and moved to the countryside with her children until 7 years after Pushkin's death, when she met a decent soldier, Ransko, who fell in love with Natalia and was willing to raise Pushkin's children. She married him, and finally someone held up a piece of the sky for her, giving her and her children a place to shelter herself from the wind and rain. But a long period of depression devastated Natalia's body, and she only lived to the age of 51 before passing away.
Too many people have thrown dirty water on Natalia, and people say:
"Pushkin's union with Natalia was doomed to be unfortunate. She did not give him pleasure and happiness, and brought with her depression and tragic ending. ...... Pushkin is the loser and the loser when it comes to love. ”
"Natalia, in addition to giving birth to Pushkin, turned a blind eye to Pushkin's mental anguish and was completely indifferent."
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People say she is a frivolous, shallow, watery woman who has nothing in common with the poet in spirit. It is even said that marrying her is the source of disaster. I felt it was unfair to blame a weak woman for the great historical tragedy of Pushkin's death. If Pushkin's death was a conspiracy, then his closeness with the Decembrists may have been the main cause of the tragedy.
Natalia Pushkina
Soon after his marriage, Pushkin continued to cheat, and as his children were born one after another, he fought with his former lover. These women devoted a lot of passion to Pushkin's literary creation, but this period of glamorous history made Natalia cry helplessly for many days and nights.
Alexander Sergeyevich Pushkin
If you have to say whose fault it is, it is better to say that the marriage between the two is the fault. Pushkin's natural flow, his constant pursuit of freshness and passion is not suitable for starting a family at all. He can be a good public lover, but he can't be a good husband and a good father. Natalia's education allowed her to live easily after marrying into an equally aristocratic family, but it may be too difficult for her to face her self-congratulatory husband. In particular, Natalia raised her 4 children after Pushkin's death with the blame of being red-faced, which made me feel even more that she was a very strong and tenacious mother.